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I don't have any woman in my life and I don't intend to have any woman in my life soon. I am not a redpiller nor a hard guy, I just don't enjoy relationship and the drama. Even this night, my mom and my friend were advising me to get a girlfriend but I think those talks don't even get to my ears. All I want to do is listen to music, chat with friends, visit friends, watch football, watch movie, enjoy my private moment and drink good wine.

King's college boys I hail o, all that is left are memories.

How time flies.

Badfinga:
When you are truly in love, you will lose guard without knowing. Then the unthinkable will happen.

You are very correct,love makes one vulnerable.

Honestfrend:
Egunjeh... That's d spirit.. If he wants someone 2 keep his secret the person must not do it on empty stomach..

Hahaha, you are obviously a good businessman.

Vinnie2000:
Which year is this?
1998 or 2005??
Hope it's NOT those Primary sch classmates love u re referring to

Hahahaha, you won't kill me with laugh. It was my University days.

Silentgroper:
This isnt d case.. We(Africans or probably nigerianp) are usually timid about our sexual fantasies while d whites freely express theirs.. Its got nothing to do with colonizing us..

I don't think this is the case of Africans being timid in expressing sexual kinkies or fantasies. I believe it is a matter of wanting to fit into the artificially modern civilize world. It is such kinky as video yourself while having sex is what brought about sextape. Africans are rooted in the morality of the society, it doesn't stop anyone from expressing him or herself during sex, but coming out publicly to express these kinkies is not African, the public is not your partner.

SRichard1:
Well more like what I am afraid of, someone loving me more than myself.

Thanks for letting me know

Yes, you are right, true love is scary especially now that we don't see it often.
In school, I met Felicia whom I meant everything to, but guess what? I messed everything up. Most people can't manage true love.

Ethanuella:
Wait. Your little cousin sister is a guy?

Hahaha, typo error bro, I meant to say girl.

The English people have done more harm than good.

The European have colonize African:

Politically

Economically

Religiously

Culturally

Educationally

And now

They have succeeded in colonizing us:

SEXUALLY.

Unrequited love is the most painful thing to heart after death of family. It shatters your ego, humbled your self esteem, disorganized your emotional stability.

You can't immediately unloved what you have been loving for sometime.

But nevertheless, don't allow people love you out of pity.

Marriage is beyond profession or career choice, even soldiers are not save in Nigeria and you think a female soldier can protect you?

True love exist, I know because I have felt it before. When you fall into that madness, she or he means everything to you, you are always imagining future with him or her, you just want to impress him or her, spend time with him or her, overlook his or her imperfections. You will think people want to steal him or her away from you.

Their happiness is your priority, you are ready to make sacrifices, to change and improve yourself. You pray for them, you misses them.

True love really exist but is rare and most times, taken for granted and unrequited.

Cynthia and Kadija come to my mind.

Just have money and people serious girlfriends will come to your house for hook up.

Your brother is really a snitch. Even my little cousin sister that's a guy keeps all the secrets I shared with her. Whenever I run into problem I will confide in her, she will be the one to remind her mother to send me pocket money. I am older than her very well and then she is a girl and we still bond very well.

I have an elder brother that is older than me by far, we talk on phone every Sunday, he doesn't hide things away from me. I am the only one in the family that know him and his secrets. Even though I want to snitch on him and I remember all the benefits attached to this friendship, my mouth will shut.

I believe I am a strong man and breakfast can't penetrate my heart. Right from secondary School if girls break up with me, they will start accusing me of not loving them enough because I won't show any sign of heartbreak.

But as I grew up a little, between Cynthia and Kadija, I don't know which one of them really terrorize my heart because while Cynthia was a bandit, Kadija was unknown gunmen. But it's all in the past now.