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yesloaded:
Not true

I have one gf from Swaziland back then, very hard-working & academically sound

Their women are intelligent.

Arrewa:
Those children were probably kidnapped by this Administration.

They would soon free them and claim victory.

The real Bokoharam has been defeated what we have now is government machineries playing script.

Most of you don't know the billions of dollars the government is generating in the war against insurgency.

From both international and our local fund.

Ask yourself why does Bokoharam only strike villages that's even once in 2 to 3 months.

Why is it that they no longer bomb or attack Borno cities as they used to do? What is now stopping them from taking over local governments?

Why the sudden stop of bokoharam attacks in Adamawa, yobe, bauchi and Gombe?? Why only villages in Borno?

Everything is now politics... North east is currently one of the richest region in Nigeria.

Nigerians don't investigate and are too lazy to critically think and ask questions.

Why is Borno state rapidly developing despite years of insurgency??

Go through this thread and see things for yourself.
https://www.nairaland.com/6071980/borno-after-11-years-insurgency#93130778

The Government staged kankara kidnap.

That exact script was played in dapchi.
Nigerians are just too dumb to smell lies and fallacies.

At the bolded, so you knew this much and still expended all your efforts to defend this hapless government?
Your wailing is just beginning.

fammava:
Am I the only one that missed the part the lad said, he wants to go to school to further his education. After killing Nigeria troops, he wants to go and accept the scholarship to study abroad given by the FG. Why families of slain soldiers are hungry and can't even afford public education. Makes me wonder what kinda soldiers we have that won't kill this one after he had gunned down their fellow soldiers.

You're not the only one. That's the only part I found noticeable in the entire write up.
After working with Boko Haram in producing tens of thousands of orphans and out-of-school children, he now want to continue his own education. What a twist.

This is the reason we are where we are today.
These Public Servants don't know what job they're being paid to do.
Secret Police like the DSS don't rely on the people for information, that gather intelligence on their own.
What kind of fuckery is this?

Pydroid3, Pydroid3, and Pydroid3.

Arrewa:
Let me repeat...

Out of 19 northern state.

Kaduna... Not even inside the cities but villages that is unsafe.

Zamfara and kastina villages...

Then Borno villages and forest!!

Not the whole 19 northern state that is unsafe.

Cos some brainless maggots can't stop stereotyping the whole north!

Please just focus on your Almajiri states. Leave Kwara and Kogi out of your "19 Northern States". It's only Nigerian warped geography that made us Northerners, so be properly guided.

godforus:
did you regret taking her there? Too much stories of women misbehaving when they are taken to abroad, because they feel empowered.

No regrets. No untoward behavior.

I'm inactive on Facebook. Next.

I traveled to the US for just a year, I had to take my girlfriend along.
Your Cousin is irresponsible. I'd advise the lady to dump his sorry ass first.

Zzor:
He should look for some lady around to help him do that

Recipe for disaster.

We'll hold the IG responsible for any senseless killing by the Police, henceforth.

Hushbingo:
So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

You slapped your girlfriend? For what reason exactly?
There's only one way to deal with a whoring partner, just tell her it's over.
She could make your life very hard for hands on her, if she knows her right.

aleeyus:
"Snakes are more scared of us than we are of them. They are shy creatures that spend their life away from humans. Encounters with human are just an accident. It is because we've encroached their habitats, not them. If you see a snake in your place, don't panic. Stay away from it, block all entrances to your house and back off. The snake will go away on its own without harming anyone. If you corner it and stand with sticks in hand to touch it/beat it up, the snake will inflict a bite on you trying to defend itself. Otherwise, it never will. Because venom is very precious to them for hunting. Please understand this. Live and let live.�"

They may be shy, but do you also know that these creatures see any kind of movements around them as threats to their lives, hence the need to defend themselves by striking?
Get too close to them unawares or otherwise, they won't hesitate to empty their venom into your bloodstream. These guys are born killers. Their venom is not so precious, it's readily available.
For a creature so sneaky, venomous, and most often, unnoticeable by its victims, it's got to be the most dangerous animal to me.
We are not friends.

The next two years will be very interesting in Nigeria.

To begin with, there won't be a Nigeria, talk more of APC, in 2023.

Sixfeetbelle:
Depends on how dowry works in their area though. Maybe dowry as in 'introduction' to the families. Even at that, dowry isn't marriage. It's just a scheme to tie women down to one man. Besides, engagements can still end so she has every right to sue him.

The essence of marriage is the dowry. That's all there is in marriage. Check your Bible or the Koran.
Once he parents accept the price, they've given him their daughter. That they didn't have an elaborate ceremony won't change the fact.

saaphiere:
That is why most men won't make heaven. My annoyance is always that lie they do tell.
Most men change once they get in between your legs.
A man would love you wholehearted but wants he sleeps with you, he start seeing you as a burden.

I beg to differ.

She has every time to sue him. She never sued him for not marry her but for wasting her time. Time is the only unrecoverable resource in the world.


He didn't physically tied her legs but she tied her down with words. If he had open up earlier, this girl won't be with him for this long.


She did not sue him for diick. Read very well. She sued him for time wasted. Remember women are not like men. Women time is limited. There are certain things a woman cannot achieve when she gets to a particular time in her life. So for that time wasting, he deserved to be sued.

Your mom and sisters included.

In her own words, "He has never been serious..."
Why would a rational lady stick to a man, who she knows has never been serious about their relationship, for good 8 years?

Sixfeetbelle:
Oga, he paid dowry on the girl and yet refused to marry her. How can I not blame you? That's like engaging a girl for 8 years. Is it not wickedness? Haba

If the guy paid her dowry, they're traditionally and religiously married. The rest formality.

ehinmowo:
Do you know what you saying? Do you think Nigerians have other jobs than to procreate? Between 1952 and 1960, NIgeria jumped from 30 million to 50m. And the population has being growing by an average of 3% every year ever since.

As imperfect as 2006 census was, 160m people were counted. Of which I blv the actual figure would have been around 180m then. That means by 2007, we would have been 164.8m. 2008 will be the 3% of 164.8 not the 3% of 160. By the time you do that up to 2020, you will realize that the figure will even be more than what that man gave.

The scam started since the first census in 1952 or so, so don't get carried away. We've been using the same format since then.
We are at least, 30% lesser than the officially declared figure. The facts are there staring at us in the face.

sonnie10:
Economic opportunities in those countries cannot be compared with that of Nigeria. Farming is the predominant occupation in NW Nigeria and the farmers have the market for their produce unlike those in the other countries. So, favorable economic factor is to precursor birthrate especially for uneducated farmers. Secondly, remember birthrate and mortality rate might be different because of favorable indices in Nigeria. Take polio vaccine acceptability for example and availability of primary health care. One more thing is immigration. People move from those countries to Nigeria, especially to the NW, while the opposite not true.

From my own personal experience, the population figure in the core North is a scam. A big one at that.

Odmic2839:
Na today pinkin Dey resemble person wey be say no be you be the father. Na him dey top am as dem don give am belle na. What do you expect If only we fit see women stomach. Many people go kill their wife and their mama... woman is the only thing God created that can keep a secret from birth till death..

How a child looks, is a function of genetics, not who dey "top am".
He's the father of the girl jor.

Odmic2839:
You are the one who doesn’t understand.... all he knows was the two slept with his wife... so he called them out because one of them must be the biological father of the aclaimed daughter..

The damsel looks so much like Duncan.

pansophist:
I still cannot understand why a DNA test is not automatic at birth. You can not just pin a child to any man as the father, just because the woman said so. Things like blood group and DNA test should be verified, alongside other personal information that is recorded in a birth certificate. It will also serve as a deterrent to potential cases like this, will legitimize the unity and social cohesion of the family, and won't deny innocent kids the chances of knowing their real father.

Furthermore, it would save wives from being disappointed that their husbands didn't trust them if he carries a DNA test behind her, and also gives suspicious husband/kids no reason to carry such a test in the first place. This man is not only hurt, the kid may grow up to hate the mother, and the most ferocious hate you will ever face is one that is converted from love.

In a society that operates on the flawed idea that women can never be wrong, and incapable of cruelty, well, tragedies like these will persist. The sad truth is that as we speak, there are millions of fathers right now living with kids that aren't theirs, and most will never find out. A huge problem that can only be solved with legislation changes, which is, that a DNA test should be automatic at birth.

Inside life.

In a country where many can't afford delivery fee of #5,500, your guess is as good as mine.

alabo1:
The man is a confirmed lunatic. I truly fear for his sanity. how can a human being not make a comment without linking it to religion? Madness!

If you think the person that made this comment

GOD is GREAT my Brother...
Congratulations!!
Those that Sow in Tears will Reap in Joy!
Enjoy your Bountiful Harvest!!

is going insane, then you need to have your head checked thoroughly.
You and the person you quoted are not alright.

Barka00:
How sure are you he sowed in tears

That's a metaphor. And if you think planting is an easy task, go try it.

At least, take solace in the fact that you actually did her wrong.
A lady once broke up with me without reason (at least none known to me. I called her after work that fateful day, the the first statement she made was, I'm no longer interested. I thought it was a joke.
I have many female friends, so I shifted to the next girl.

etrange:
Can you share a link?

Goddis Apartments, Ikeja.
Might not be a 7-Star Hotel, but the place is damn. I don't really know the amount per night, coz I book for several days if I want to visit, but it's slightly below 10k on the average of days. No free meals though.
Nice Facilities exist in Abuja too, if you look well.

etrange:
I doubt if there's a decent hotel room for 10k in Lagos/Abuja. So permit me to express my surprise. Thanks.

They exist.

Grandmeister:
Do you even know what literacy means? You’re part of that abysmal level of literacy we are talking about.

Check the write-up I quoted and give yourself a hard knock on the head.
Literacy rate in Nigeria is higher than 60%, yet this brain dead Mumu still thinks there are more illiterates in Nigeria. Are you alright upstairs at all?
If not for the backward peeps in the Core North, the figure should be 80%+

Grandmeister:
How? It simply means that those who are literate are less. When the literacy percentage of a country is <60% that means those who are illiterate are in the majority...when you remove 60 from 100 no be 40 remain? That’s basic percentage arithmetic.

You're dull. So if the literacy level is less than 60% but greater than 50%, illiterates are more in number? Are you sure you completed elementary school at all?

You can't subvert the truth forever

Gamesmart:
Another fooolish, moronic contribution from a half-literate.

What road project will cost such?

This is as foolish as asking "has the US ever built a car that cost as much as a plane"?

It's not too bad if the government decides to spend #1trillion on reconstructing the deathtraps you call roads in Nigeria.