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Daraph:
15. You can use it to sponsor 2 students in the Federal University of Technology Akure for about 7 semesters

nonsense human being!!

YorubaDemon:
please don't MENTION my name anyhow

STFUareyouG0d:
Nice

Hmmmn.....

GODKID98:
Is this a novel??


If nt,say no more

cz
God loves more than u cn ever imagine...Plus He'll neva betray u lyk dat 'demon' did cz He z GOD!!!!!!!!!

It's non-fiction. Thanks a lot

You can’t keep going forth and back like a child who has lost his candy. The candy you were not sure you wanted in the first place. I am not a tourist centre you can just go to and leave anytime you want. This is more like getting your acts together and tell me exactly what you want.

You woke that immense feeling of love in me. I fell in love with you, maybe more than I could have imagined, but that’s okay as long as you are in love with me too, I could live with that. You planned meeting up with me, and made me fall helplessly in love with you, so helpless that it seemed you ripped my heart ripped out of my chest. Yeah, that was how it felt. That feeling.

You made me believe we were on our way to forever, soaring on love’s wings, when suddenly you let go our parachute leaving me stranded on a deserted-no-love-lost island. You went off like a cursed child looking for ‘the lost nothing’ which will never be found. You know the most hurtful part? It was the fact that I worked so hard trying to understand why you changed! I tried talking to you about it. They said communication is key but with you it seemed like just another loose end, not heading to a particular destination. I desperately wanted to know what went wrong, everyone I tried asking what could probably make my love go estranged, told me:

“Guys love to wander off sometimes, just go off at times, love to just be without all of that loving and in that moment it is best I leave him alone. He will come back” Some also said “He is not there with you yet. He is not in love with you like you are with him.”

I could understand if you needed your space, if you felt suffocated and just needed to breathe again. What I did not understand was what they meant by ‘you were never there with me yet’, that you don’t love me like I do. When I thought your love was my map to eternal fulfillment, my landmark. How come mine settled before yours? How come I could hardly find the traces you left for me to follow through?

Time went on us….I began to learn how to live without you. I got to break down the bricks I already built round you and with each day, painfully I moved on. I moved on without you, without your love guiding me through and with every passing day, my heart wished for you to come back. Come back to tell me how much you want me back, that the demon in you led you away and now you are here to stay.

Every day I pray for you to turn back and see me, see the tears of love as they cascade like the fountain down my eyes. Every single day I did this till I had pulled what was left of me together and decided to move on. Not because my love for you has changed or my feelings but because I couldn’t bear to see my pathetic self, wait for you anymore. It tore me apart and I lost focus on the dreams I once shared with you. I decided to move on and pick up the pieces I could merge together of my life, painfully so without you.

Just when I was settling in without you, when I have almost forgotten all the special moments we shared, when I could no longer see any traits of your love anymore, YOU SHOWED UP! Like a ghost who never made it to the cemetery, you went on and on about how sorry you are. That still,you want me back.

I missed you, longed for you, cried out for you. I was in despair, the effect of your love caused me amnesia. I reminisced in the happy moments, the times shared, the moments enjoyed. You were truly a Demon, Yes popular ‘Yoruba Demon’.

I’m sorry my demon, I don’t have the strength to love you anymore.


--------- www.deedeesblog.com ------

ednut1:
Op are u not also guilty. The bible,koran nd parent told u no to fornicate. But once u do any u use ur head see na ur luck. No karma here abeg . He who comes to equity must come with clean hands

Chai...This Guy!!

.

You are proud of taking advantage of several girls....

A Lady with a nice curve/figure never pass you by, once she looks beautiful you will start showering her with your fake compliments/Love, to the young lady, she thinks you are responsible and real, later she will fall for you, thinking that she has found true love......

Once you are done with the banging and you are satisfied, you will start seeing faults in her, you will start giving lame excuses/reasons why you want to quit the relationship...

Brother just dey enjoy yourself dey go....sure u gon marry someday and have kids, this thing called #Karma eehh, it doesn't even have a friend, it will surely catch up with you.....Your own daughters will experience more than what those your victims went through...

( As seen on Facebook)

Lastking147:
Dem don do me wayo
Or lemme say personal reasons sha

LOL..... I understand!

ednut1:
bros i tire o

Hmmmn.......

ednut1:
Nonsense, na those gals wey dey open gal upandan dey even see suitor pass

You know of anyone that was able to eat her cake and have it?

Here is another blog post for those that have been taking time to check our blog.

http://deedeesblog.com/2016/08/26/excitement-comes-love-gone/

Thanks for reading our articles and taking time out to check.

You are wondering why you've never seen any Suitor!!!

You are wondering why Sodiq that was showing interest later changed his mind and went for your friend Faith!!!

You are wondering why Emeka's Mum rejected you the day he took you to their family's house....!!

Let me ask you!!

The time you were opening your legs wide open like my village goalpost, do you think nobody was seeing you..?

The time your were sharing ur body with every guy that shows up with cash, for your mind God was asleep abi....?

Musa and Lawal banged you same day, same time, just because you wanted to experience what party is all about, you think they won't tell every niqqa in the neighborhood...?

You opened your useless legs for a man who's old enough to father your own father just because you were too desperate to get an iPhone....!

My Sister you are the cause of your misfortune....Fairly Used is only for smart-phones...If I tell you how I take hate Universal Charger ehhh..

Wasted Generation..

(As seen on Facebook)

Lastking147:
I love this write up
But serzly women nko?
I no fit trust one sef

Why not?

Trudiee:
marriage is a scam!

For centuries women all over the world have wondered and asked the question repeatedly, why do men cheat? Why do men cheat regardless of how much a woman tries to keep him satisfied? Why does a man cheat regardless of how much he loves his woman?

For hundreds of years many have struggled to answer these questions which is my inspiration to find answers, so I decided to create a questionnaire which was filled by various group and categories of men and this was the answers gathered from the research.

1. Sexual dissatisfaction

80% of men choose this as the reason they cheat or might cheat on their lady. If a man is not sexually satisfied either he’s not getting any, it’s not enough or good enough there’s a tendency that he might cheat.

This can also be because the man is no more attracted to the lady be it sexually or emotionally. For example, immediately some women get married they stop doing things their man find attractive and sexy probably because they’re now mothers.

Some will even start tying wrapper and looking shabby all around the house like an old woman. Overtime a man will get turned off and might find solace in the hands of other women.

2. Emotional dissatisfaction

50% of men cited emotional dissatisfaction as the reason they cheat or might cheat on their lady.

If a man is not feeling appreciated and loved he might not admit it to his woman because of ego, he will rather bottle it up and let the lady figure out how to make things right and if that doesn’t happen he might end up cheating.

3. The thrill

Just like Eve couldn’t turn down the fruit in the garden of Eden, about 65% of men can’t forget the thrill of eating the forbidden fruit.

How it feels leaning towards a lady for that first kiss hoping she won’t turn you down, the excitement of trying to take off her undies with the hope that she’s on board, the passion and desire that comes with having sex with a lady for the first time.

If a man is nostalgic about such thrills and wants to experience such once again he’s bound to cheat.

4. The nature of MAN

75% of men cheat because they can’t help it.

A man is attracted by what they see and looking around nowadays there’s plenty to attract and even seduce a man, so if a man finds himself in a situation where a lady is seducing him or giving signs that she’s ready to have sex he might go ahead to do it not cos he doesn’t love his lady but because he feels he had to. After all when blood flows from the brain down to the groin of a man it takes great restraint for him to say no to sex.

5. Peer pressure

80% of men that cheat has a friend or friends that cheat or has cheated before.

It’s a simple theory a lot of guys don’t drink but they do when amongst friends, some don’t smoke except when with friends so it only makes sense that when such a man is around friends that talk about their cheating escapades there’s a possibility he might wanna try it as well.

6. Covetousness

There’s no poll needed to show or establish that most men are covetous.

If his lady is blond he will start coveting a brunette, if his lady is slim that’s when he starts admiring the curves of a plumpy lady. If his lady is plumpy that’s when he starts noticing how athletic and sexy the slim girls are.

He’s dating a girl with a small butt but soon he can’t keep his eyes of the ones with big behinds,he’s dating a quiet girl but soon he’s longing for a wild one. There’s just nothing you can do to satisfy some men.

It doesn’t matter what you have, they will always thirst or long for something different.

7. Proximity

50% of men cheat because they’re not close to their spouse, probably because of work they have to live in different city/town/country, and it doesn’t help if such men work closely with single or married but available ladies in his office probably one that looks up to him and admire his ability.

If such closeness is maintained and opportunity present itself he might find himself cheating on his lady.

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Why do you think men cheat, What are your perspectives?. What reasons can you really give?

Just join in the conversation and share your thoughts below.

Ciao!

moski5:
Op

yu did state some truths

yes we have been lied to nonetheless yor write up makes it too much of a chore when its just a "chore"

truth be told marriage is work, harder than most easier than some

could be more fun than work depends on both parties

I've looked into the future n told myself its gonna be fun she'll be amazing I'll treat her like a queen n she me a king

Point been yor write up has truths n falsehood in it

Marriage can be a most beautiful thing if both parties make it so n folo d laid down precepts of the institution

HMMNnnn

favoured234:
Okay let me give an example.
In a relationship check list you can have:
Essential: Above 6 feet, non smoker, little or no alcohol, educated, self dependent, patient, smart guy, he should appreciate me and place me above every other person, above average financially*, above average handsome*, a Nigerian.
Preferred: is just an unending list. Good sense of humor, crazily in love with me, six packs, smooth talker ........ continues

If your relationship goal is to make a happy home/marriage. The question is, do i need all these "essential qualities" to make a happy home? You will just realize that some of those essential qualities should leave that position.

People will say "lower your standards" but its not about standards, its about knowing what you really need for fulfillment

IamLEGEND1:
Too long

Try and read, don't be lazy....

[quote author=CrazyQuinn post=48819239][/quote]You too?

lilyqueen:
Wow this is inspiring.

Thumbs up

Thanks Boo.

halfricanadian:
never liked marriage before

Jeeez!!.............Where have you been. Been looking for you everywhere!

Please reply the email I sent to you.

It's important.

It’s just insane right? That’s what I thought too but can you imagine that all over the world and everyday people actually volunteer for life imprisonment?

It sounds too far-fetched right but it’s actually true, every day and barely every minute people volunteer to relinquish their freedom to join an institution, one that has a long history.

An history that has been embellished to make it look colourful and wonderful; so wonderful that people hearing it don’t think twice before volunteering to join the prison with the hope that the stories they’ve had about it is true; this prison is code-name: Marriage.

Now before you start calling the SWAT team on me just hear me out, give me a minute or two to explain myself.

Marriage is an institution as old as time itself. It is part of human history and ever since its inception it has been celebrated and idolized in many cultures.

Those already in the institution tell tales about how awesome it is, how wonderful it is to find a life partner someone you can spend the rest of your life with.

They tell the younger ones how a man is incomplete until he joins the institution, old women program and tailor their daughters to yearn and look forward to the day they join their husband and become one.

They paint the picture so vivid and beautiful and sometimes they even make it sound like a cult like if you’re not in it you don’t “belong”.

All that sounds amazing right but what if I told you they lied, what if I told you that nothing is as it seem, that everything they said is complete fabrication, that the institution called marriage is synonymous with a locked room with four walls and no chance of escape.

You’re confused and dazed right? Well welcome to the MATRIX.

Marriage is beautiful, yes, but like a well-designed cushion in a palace that is exquisite on the outside but full of dust on the inside, so is marriage.

I am sure the elderly wives don’t tell you that part of the story they only tell you how you get to be with someone you love and raise kids together, they don’t tell you how much work it takes to keep everything from falling apart, the sacrifices you have to make to make your man happy like dropping some male friends because your husband feels threatened by their presence in your life or dressed in a way you dislike because that’s what your husbands loves.

How about the fact that you have to be able to manage to take care of your children, your job and your husband without paying more attention to one at the expense of the other.

You can’t just go out and party with friends anymore unless your husband approve, which won’t happen often.

Don’t forget that you’re going to have to please your man sexually.

That means sometimes, doing the act even when not in the mood just to satisfy your man who is in the mood.

You have to wake up early not only to get ready for work but also to prepare food for your kids and husband.

Don’t let me get me started on the rigours of pregnancy; the morning sickness, nausea, body ache, weakness and mood swing, and you go through all that only for your man to start feeling less attractive to you because the figure 8 he used to love when he married you is no longer visible.

You’re now chubby looking with protruding stomach that refuse to go down. So now you have to starve yourself and workout extremely just to lose the added weight brought on by pregnancy and get back in shape so your man doesn’t start philandering.

As a man you’ve been looking forward to this day for a while now, you’ve been told that nothing is better than having a wife and raising a family.

Those old men probably didn’t tell you how hard it is, the sacrifice it takes to handle a family, they won’t tell you how marriage takes away your freedom, how you won’t be able to go anywhere aside work on your own without wifey asking you where are you going and why are you leaving her all alone.

Immediately you say I do you, better say goodbye to all those regular Friday nights/weekend of pure fun with your boys.

All those times spent watching a movie till the break of dawn with your boys are no more. No more game nights and even if you’re gonna hang with the boys it will be an occasional occurrence.

The old men probably told you that it’s better to settle with one woman instead of sleeping around and that made you think when you get married sex with be a constant that you’re going to have as much sex as you like.

You’re so wrong my man truth is you’ll probably have less sex than when you were single.

That sounds crazy right but that’s the truth and the older a marriage gets the lesser sex you’ll have.

How about the responsibility that comes with marriage, taking care of your wife, helping her through pregnancy and standing up to the task of providing what’s necessary to take care of both mother and child when the time comes.

Making sure you balance the affection for all your kids and through it all, keep the fire burning between you and your wife.

Those old men probably didn’t even tell you how your wife will change right in front of you after a kid or two and how you are to take her as she is after all she’s like that because of you.

You were not briefed about the struggle to stay faithful.

How single ladies nowadays admire and sometimes desire a married man because they believe you understand how to take care of a lady.

All this and much more is what marriage is about, it’s more than the sex, passion or companionship, marriage is like building a company from the ground up.

It takes blood sweat and tears to make it work.

You have to be ready to work hard at it with determination and perseverance.

If you can’t bare or deal with any of those things mentioned above, please don’t do it; don’t get married.

http://deedeesblog.com/2016/08/25/dont-dont-get-married/

eddyjibs:
Mumu op. This is obviously not fiction, experiences lik dis shud never be shared in public. Pray for forgiveness

Oga Boss, this is fiction!...

Because the Op is a content creator!......

Na wa for you!...Nigerians!

Emusan:
Can please elaborate more on these two qualities?

Yes oh

diplomatvicky:
the weirdest thing that can happen to u in a relationship is loving a partner who doesn't love u back...as a girl,I wld advice u stick to d guy who loves u ooooo...biko,u can learn to love him in due tym..don't even make da mistake of forcing urself on a guy whom doesn't love u....jukwa ESE....

hmmn

vinneyville:
allow someone else to tell u dat... U can't say for sure till u hear it from several other pple

This is one of the reasons why I'm asking*