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Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe!? Part 2 by deturla(op): 5:38pm On Jul 26, 2016
TrapQueen77:
grin



A babe tat does all tat... Is an experienced babe and it's really fun to be with grin
Hhahahahaha grin grin indeed
Romance › Re: Halfricanadian Enter Here by deturla: 5:34pm On Jul 26, 2016
simplicity5180:
I just want it to be totally off nairaland. I really don't like online shows. Well if that's being a coward I guess I'm one already.
I like you already. Just be nice to her, y'hear? grin
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe!? Part 2 by deturla(op): 5:31pm On Jul 26, 2016
Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]This thread is another blow to conventionality. . .

You met her in a club, you approached her. She wasn't rude to you. You danced with her, you asked for her number, she coolly gave it to you. You invited her to your place, she honored your invitation. You both had sex. She gave it to you, you gave it to her. She screamed "harder", you gave her "harder". You "mmmmed", she "aaahhhd". The styles you knew, she also knew them.

And now, you're asking a very stupid question? You, are you a guy?

Are you very stupid, or are you really very stupid?
[/color]
It's a pity the kind of people Nairaland allow in this forum. Some are so very uncouth, unreasonable and petty. This is a fun post!

I'm disappointed, Man
Romance › Is That One A Babe!? Part 2 by deturla(op): 4:34pm On Jul 26, 2016
...So we met at a club in VI. I was a good dancer, she wasn't bad as well.

We hit it on straight from the dance floor and quickly exchanged numbers.

The first time she came visiting, we had mind blowing sex.

From her energy to the various styles. She was a tigress.

69, xposition, David copperfield, standing wheel barrow, Swiss ball blitz. I was shocked we did not even try missionary.

While I'm unperturbed about our first time escapade.

I'm concerned about her experience and dexterity.

But chill first, a babe that knows everything and does everything.

Is that one a babe?

www.deedeesblog.com
Romance › Re: Re: Naijasinglegirls – How Do Introverts Find Love ? by deturla(op): 9:06pm On Jul 24, 2016
chrisseun:
Im so introverted i keep to myself even on social media. But Family did a great job of exposure in my life.

Introverts are sometimes mistaken to be soft and gullible.
Hmmmn..... Thank God for family!!
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 6:00pm On Jul 24, 2016
chigoizie7:
Why are u all forming posh and over posh?


#quotemeanddiethisnight
Spot on Gozie..bruh.

I don quote you oh, I no wan die!....

Wait for it! they will come soon!!...hehehe
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 5:05pm On Jul 24, 2016
Swissheart:
Happy Sunday Dear, When there is a will,there is a way nau
lol...this geh grin
Romance › Re: Re: Naijasinglegirls – How Do Introverts Find Love ? by deturla(op): 3:15pm On Jul 24, 2016
Florblu:
I don't find all this tips useful as it's disadvantages outweighs the advantages.
1)Lotta guys you meet on Internet are either fake, immature or lack respect for the opposite sex
2)Recruiting friends?Is making friends a job?Where will an introvert get the courage to talk to someone to get friend for him/her?Introverts don't talk at all,we keep to ourselves a lot
3)What if I am not interested in gymnastic activities or there is no writing or reading club around me?Remember it's common in cities like Lagos than towns like Oyo,Osun etc.
4)Introverts don't like to be taken for granted and we don't like to bother other people with our troubles reason why we can't be open
5)Admitting you are an introvert is being yourself.
#FrustratedIntrovert#
Do me a PM...Let's talk!....This one is long oh!!
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 3:13pm On Jul 24, 2016
Swissheart:
So because she claimed to have found cooking in your house stressful....she isn't a babe abi undecided ? Okay,kontunu.







My question is
Is it because she is a banker , she can't cook? Because you mentioned it twice in your post and it doesnt correlate.Anyway, if truly she can't do it then she has a problem......help her........Teach her if you can.
.....She can cook, just being lazy and unreasonable!
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 3:10pm On Jul 24, 2016
[quote author=sydneywhite post=47845484][/quote]LOL!


Oya, that makes you a Bae abi..

When you are done learning, I will promote you to babe... grin grin
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 3:00pm On Jul 24, 2016
sydneywhite:
accant cook o, u gon teach me?
Yo ain't my babe...

You gon pay me to?
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 2:03pm On Jul 24, 2016
rosieluv:
hehehehehehehehe she is bold o
How?
Romance › Re: Re: Naijasinglegirls – How Do Introverts Find Love ? by deturla(op): 1:00pm On Jul 24, 2016
tsilva:
The write up is on point. I think we can even start from here.
Thank You.....Oyaa let's start!
Romance › Re: Re: Naijasinglegirls – How Do Introverts Find Love ? by deturla(op): 12:37pm On Jul 24, 2016
Opistorincos:
Not as hard as you think, I am an introvert to the core and I can attest to what the op listed above though my gf does find it hard to understand most times btw I am in a long distance relationship
God bless you Bros!!

Tell Her........
Romance › Re: Re: Naijasinglegirls – How Do Introverts Find Love ? by deturla(op): 11:44am On Jul 24, 2016
TrapQueen77:
grin I'm soooo extrovert I guess...
grin
Romance › Re: Re: Naijasinglegirls – How Do Introverts Find Love ? by deturla(op): 11:18am On Jul 24, 2016
Kakamorufu:
wink weldone
Thank You Sir
Romance › Re: Re: Naijasinglegirls – How Do Introverts Find Love ? by deturla(op): 11:17am On Jul 24, 2016
AlienStar:
Really? You think it's that easy, huh?
It takes a step Sis!...

Do you think It's that difficult?
Romance › Re: Naijasinglegirls – How Do Introverts Find Love ? by deturla(op):
Who is an introvert infact?

I have carved out my definition for it. Introverts are quiet people with a penchant for minimally stimulating environment. They have issues with association and indeed feel recharged by themselves preferring less external stimulation.

They prefer to derive joy that is intrinsic, they hardly associate and revel in their loneliness, preferring it to association with others.

Extroverts on the other hand are the ‘ghen ghen’ type. Those who are fueled and energized by being around others. These type of guys prefer external stimulation.

In today’s world, we live in an environment that is biased towards the extroverts. people are assumed to be rewarded based on their level of sociability and ability to appear gregarious, noisy, energetic and cheerful.

One of the most difficult thing ever is finding love as an introvert. it seems like an uphill task since dating someone requires that you meet them and then start ‘catching’ feelings, shey?

You may realize that how can you meet someone when you are naturally a quiet personality and then mingling isn’t your forte. Here are some remarkable ways of finding love as an introvert.

1. Use the internet.

Introverts are great writers really, therefore, communicating on social media platforms shouldn’t be a problem.

If you have issues with relating with people vocally, then chatting makes it better. Mingle online and hope for a real date sometime.

Leverage the strength you have to connect with someone you have a liking for. I have met a lot of introverts online and they write and relate extremely well.

This is a good tool for online communication and social engagement. Be careful with your online details though, do not give too much information or offer too much personal details.

Start from online, gravitate to trying to speak on phone and hopefully, hope that you get to meet on date. By then you would have become more comfortable and then offline dating becomes easy and less daunting.

2. Recruit Friends and Family

As an introvert, the thought of approaching people at events and hot spots might make you cringe. To avoid such nightmares, recruit your closest family and friends. Inform them of your need to meet new people, maybe even to date (winks).

They sure know you better than anyone else, and as such are in the position to link you up with the kind of person that fits your personality and demeanor.

3. Try to engage in Social activities

This is another important area in finding love. There are lots of social engagement with the platform for you to meet dating prospects.

Gyms (for those who love to work out), Creative writing classes, volunteer work, sport activities are social activities that could bring you closer to your other half.

The more you meet different personality, the more open and flexible you will be with regards to speaking to them and eventually mingling.

Even going to Shoprite, or other groceries store around might not be a bad idea! You could do some window shopping, try go see a movie.

Just about anything that would make you engage in any social activity. Believe me, it works!

4. Be Open

Simply being open to men talking to you will make a huge difference. I mean, it won’t make any sense when you are introverted, on the look out for dates and then you keep the ‘Resting bitch face’. you need to let your guards down, once in a while. You are a deep thoughted and very reflective babe. So it is easy for you to realize those that don’t share same ideals as yours. You can easily separate the grain from the chaff.

Use your charm, body language is key. In social gathering and events, if there are people you want to mingle with and you are kind of shy. make them look your way, Signs and green lights albeit in a smart way can be critical to what is next. Donot turn every date down, it is only a date and it’s meant to evaluate your choices and discover your personality. Accept it!

5. Finally, be yourself

The laws of attraction states that the best way to attract someone is to be yourself. Acknowledge your introversion and be proud of who you are.

Do not go desperate, work on your confidence level. Trust me,that there is someone out there for you.

Yours in Love

Deedee






Have you read SundayVibes today? It's Deedee in Church: http://deedeesblog.com/2016/07/24/sunday-vibes-ladies-go-married-men/

Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 12:31am On Jul 24, 2016
Allsmyles:
boss, she stil b bae joh bt maybe jst for a while, dependin on u dou.
#sonchi
LOL!.....YOU!!!!!!!
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 9:54pm On Jul 22, 2016
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 5:21pm On Jul 22, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#cc00ff]It's yo house,yo food, yo kitchen,You cook!
.....You don't INVITE some1 over and MAKE them cook! undecided[/color]
Deedee I'm hungry, I want pasta!' Banker lady said

Love! There is pasta in the kitchen...10 minutes and we are fine!' Deedee replied.

She screamed ' No joor, Let's go to Barcelos, they have nice spaghetti!,

..........

The fact that I invited her over is a justification for this your statement Abi?

Girls like you are though.

#Lagos boys have suffer!!...Kikikiki
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 5:17pm On Jul 22, 2016
Jidhey1:
Work is heavy on her op
I laugh in 5D
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 4:54pm On Jul 22, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#9900ff]Is she yer cook or yer woman? undecided
...you invite her over for dinner but she Myst cook it? undecided[/color]
After eating out like 5 times. She can not make a meal for us? Even after asking romantically!!?....

Bollocks...
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 4:53pm On Jul 22, 2016
izsmike:
She is babe na.... Or Does d fact Dat she can't cook takes away her breast?
Nice shot!....

I'm not talking physically bro. I guess it's one the qualities that determine who/what a babe is?
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 4:51pm On Jul 22, 2016
sydneywhite:
trapqueen just answered, define what u mean 'a decent meal'
A decent meal is one that you will make without even stressing it.

What am I defining again!...

Can you cook?
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 4:47pm On Jul 22, 2016
Romance › Re: Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 4:32pm On Jul 22, 2016
TrapQueen77:
grin not everyone can cook a decent meal...
Sighs....Girls!!

...and you think that has provided an answer to my question?
Romance › Re: by deturla: 4:16pm On Jul 22, 2016
PRESTIGERYHME:
I did dat already buh e no fyn reach DETURLA own undecidedundecided
I remember I had the best handwriting in class back in the University before 'Mobola came to topple me off the handwriting ladder!

LOL!.....
Romance › Is That One A Babe? by deturla(op): 4:12pm On Jul 22, 2016
I'm a photoblogger, she is a banker...

I like her, the feeling is mutual.

Invited her to my apartment more than 5 times and each of the five times, we eat out. Despite having most of the stuffs we eat in my house yet we still eat out. As per say she is a banker nah!

The 6th time she came, I told her to prepare a meal for 'us'

'Hian' she retorted. Cooking is STRESSFUL. She'd rather eat out or get someone to make the meal.

A babe that can't prepare a decent meal!!!



Is that one a babe!??




www.deedeesblog.com
Romance › Re: by deturla: 9:57am On Jul 21, 2016
......in style....

Romance › Re: Still On Booty Calls & F.w.b: How Long Can You Stay In by deturla(op): 9:35am On Jul 21, 2016
davide470:
Hmmmmm.... grin
Baddo. How far nah?
Romance › Re: Letter To My Future Wife! by deturla(op): 9:30am On Jul 21, 2016
tee59:
Snce dere is availability of clay soil arnd us, u can mould ur wife as you wish. Stop living in fantasy, wake up to reality of life.
My God, I'm just seeing this.... Lmao!!!

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