₦airaland Forum

Trying to get some sleep but my kids won't let me.so am going to spend this evening devising ways to get them to sleep early .

Gombs: Tis not stinginess...tis called 'common sense'

Ok, why buy a car of N50million?? While I can buy a 3m car, feed a couple of folks, help OJB dem and make seun an offer he can't turn down?

If I shd buy a car of 50mil, den it must be able to generate electricity n go for a cruise on the atlantic

Btw, are you yoruba?
Lol

am not Yoruba but I love them die

Gombs: I dnt buy designers o..except dem dash me

Now dat has nothing to do with "you don't av d money"

Dressing smart n good has nothing to do with expensiveness of ones clothes or accessories, why buy a shirt for 15k when I cud get agood one for 3k or less?

God know even if am warren buffet, na N200 sunglasses I go put for eye instead of 30k+ glasses..shey na sun all of them dey block?

D oda day I got an adidas digital watch for 1k5. Tis simple, black and light...very adorable...tells me time too...why wud I need buy a wrist watch of 40k then?...I mean, why?

Lol

i hear you.if you have money like warren lol you are even stingy to yourself,doubt if you will be able to help others.

yuzedo: sharrapp wich espereince? u dat ware raffia leaf on her nyash as payint!!!!


anyway am a lover not a figther..... so wuz yo numba?

lmao . payint seven colours

cos of quality ! if you store them well your grand children will use it.

thelonestranger: EVERY woman is a psychiatric disorder

you should know,after all a woman raised you.

the wife has mental issues,as a married woman i would say let her go.let her have the baby,do your duty as the father but let her go.she is going to kill you.

obadiah777: YOU ERR. THEY DONT WANT TO ECOLOGICALLY DESTROY THEIR OWN ENVIRONMENT LOOKING FOR OIL. THEY RATHER DESTROY THE ENVIRONMENT OF OTHERS. YES THEY NEED OUR OIL. THATS WHY AFRICOM IS IN AFRICA

they have developed a technology that will help them drill there oil without harming there environment so sorry,they don't need us anymore.

Silva79: Either them amend am o or nt d moni no go reach my area

am telling u

Lord Naya: I have noticed that any bad news from the SE makes it to the front page rapidly while the numerous evils and crimes from the South West are rapidly hidden or deleted. The mods in Nairaland are very bias. The federal government should close down this website in order to stop the continious seed of hatred sowed in this site among the youths facilitated by biad mod.

does it matter ? corruption is corruption why do you bring in tribalism ? do0 you want some cheese and crackers to go with that whine ? ogogoro man

bebe2:
BARBARIC NATION.

POINT N KILL, KILL N SHOW

my hubby said the same thing sometime ago when they showed police truck filled with thieves both dead and alive.if it was in the so called civilized country,the police will be sued for violation of human right and the thieves paid compensation. thank God for 9ja.

TCUBE: [b][/b]Akon was on screen for almost 30 sec.I dont know if what y'all saw what the international version. Remember the "white lady" sat by akons side and flirted with him.. took one of his diamond ear rings and auctioned it for more than 20,000....WHO IS OMOTOLA'S MANAGER? YOU WILL NEVER SEE ONE OF THE BIGGEST BOLLYWOOD STARS DO WAKA PASS in an america movie...kai[b][/b]

thats a fat lie.amitabh bachan am sure i ddnt get d name right sha but toofan was in a recent Hollywood fill and he role was just 2seconds.he even said in a recent interview that if you blink you might miss him

hugs and kisses !

or maybe she found out the guy is a gay,or the guy sleeps with his sisters(dont be shocked people it happens,there's a recent case i know about sef)

mediainspired: WOMEN! WOMEN! WOMEN! D most crafty, cunning &deceptive creation. Pray u're wit a real woman wit d fear of God; otherwise u're done for. Only a NATURAL women can stand a man up on his wedding day. If it were a man dat has doubts about his bride, he wuld be straitforward &part ways wit her b4 d D day. Except for my mum, my sweetness &my unborn girls, i almost hated d femalefolk (no thanks to one evil girl called Pat &her numbskull sistas).

SHE MUST HAVE A GOOD REASON,DOUBT ANY WOMAN WILL HAVE THE HEART TO DO THAT JUST FOR A GRUDGE.AND ENUF WITH YOUR HATE NWOKE M,LET GO AND LET GOD

chineke nyere anyi aka !

Mitsurugi: Would it still have been 'assault' if the accused had thrown a wad of N1000 notes @the olopa?

lmao .that would be practicing "police is your friend"

Egocent: My dear Sister,
I can tell u that ur husband is not in love with that woman. He is acting this way because he is very used to you. You have to give him small space....and pretend u are having an affair or engrossed in something that is eating up ur soul rather than him. Just make him feel l ike he is loosing u. It will enable him do a route recalculation quick quick. He won't trade u for that gal....Understanding wives sometimes need to use strategy, talking and fighting many times don't work. Let him figure it out....men are wired differently.

seriously thats another way to follow this issue ! get new hobbies,even if you are slim hit the gym ! you will meet other women like you there whom with lift up your spirit.just do something that makes you happy.be happy

this is so sad i swear,i feel so much for you.are you in Abuja ? do you have friends to talk to ? cant imagine what you are going tru.please my sister this is the time you need your family and good friends most. i cant tell you what to do cos i don't know your history but i will tell you what i might(because no one can be 100per sure of what they can do in a situation)do,it will take time but i will kill off every feeling i have for my hubby,continue with my biz,gym and other things i enjoy.we will live like brother and sister.and i will an open mind about finding love YES i will find love again .our marriage will be only in papers cos that's what he turned it into.

some-girl:
I'm amazed that many believe her doing his bidding was money motivated like they don't know that divorce is still considered taboo in Nigeria.
It's not greed, it's fear of being unmarried, fear of another woman taking over all she's worked for with him for years. Such a man will replace her as quickly as he would a tyre.
In fact, if she were only interested in money, she would never have made the accusations in the first place.
This is surely not the first time she's knelt at his bidding, before him, his parents, his uncles and aunts etc.
Even a poor man can get a woman desperate to remain married to kneel and beg the house help.



I fail to see how her action(s) was/were motivated by pride.
I am pretty sure her accusations were not unfounded.
When a woman ceases to care whether or not her husband is unfaithful, he should be very worried.

GBAM ! I keep telling these guys.if you keep late nights,travel a lot, don't care about your family with d tot that av provided shelter n food etc and you wife have never protested,nna check ur self or run for your life. No man or woman wants to share there partner only people that have detached themselves from you,don't let your lady get use to you not being there or showing love cos that's the beginning of the end.most women will stay n make you pay at your old age and some will start now.

rigormortis: the daughter could really be defaming her pops on purpose for punishing her about her relationship with another man, until the story is all clear, anything is possible

she could be saying the truth.a current senator does that with the daughter n his people keeps covering it up. I overheard it one day mistakenly n that opened my eyes y his 12 yr old daughter always dressed like a big chick.it happens everyday so ladies beware ,guard ur kids jealously .

So they should cut more trees ?

Okwa ndi awusa ? Nama brain.

~Bluetooth:
Treat your boyfriend nice else

if you treat ur partner right,she will treat u right ! It's only a fool that doesn't like good thing.

Ekans: Why are the ladies not commenting?

let me comment ! Am one of those people that see a guy going down on a woman disgusting until I let go once and it was a heaven shaking experience , now I really want to make heaven cos I truly got a glimpse of heaven that day. I ddnt have any intercourse for more than 8months after them but I never felt it.i was walking on sunshine I swear,

Some men sha ! Some women sha ! This also reminds me of a diff situation entirely that happened at Nnewi .the guy came to marry the senior sis and saw the jr sis and decided he no longer wanted the senior and d family actually agreed cos they wanted to kip the man in the family.

babyosisi: I am sure boys are on standby incase looting begins
Do they have flat screen TVs


If they are indeed involved in terrorism,their stores ought to be looted down to the fish head in their freezers

Nonsense!

in some so called civilized world , there shops would have been raided by now ! And they say we are uncivilized. The supermarket is still intact

Afam4eva: So, why does he preach at all. Shouldn't he allow people to make up their mind? This is a lame excuse for not calling out evil when he sees it. He owes that much to his congregation. I don't expect you guys to see reason anywys. Anything that concern your demi-god pastors makes you guys to reason backward. I never knew that a day will come when we'll be told that it's not advisable to speak on troubling National issues in order not to influence anyone. WTH.

it's so sad ! The church has really made many disillusioned . How can a sane man make such argument ,he should have kept his mouth shut instead of making that excuse. For the first time I will have to insult this man,shame on you,I bu Onye ori,man of God indeed

Even canned foods. Bought a carton of so called original exter corn beef Argentina for those that know it and opened the first tin,there was no oil and d beef looked like horse meat and I opened d rest to be sure and there were not like d normal corn beef I use to know so I tied my scarf around my waist and went back to meet my customer in Wuse market whom is the biggest distributor and he said others have been complaining and they have complained to the importer but they still get d same product. Please people if you buy product you are familiar with and it seems it has change and they was no advert about rebranding on it,please don't use even if the expiration date is far.all these people that go tru rubbish bins pick up containers and sell to some company that make all these fake goods

I remember one story my aunt told us about her hubby,she is also of the school of tot to dress sexy and smell like Chanel for her hubby all the time.she did this for months after her marriage ,they had there routine "sex" and there was never any wow moment . One day she went to d salon and finished late ,she got home started making bitter leaf soup in her kaftan and finished late so both her and d house was smelling of OGIRI ,for d first time,she wasn't able to take her bath and air the house before her hubby came back but she said that was the first day her hubby bleeped her like she wanted it.NOTE :she was wearing an un sexy kaftan,she was naked under her kaftan,she was smelling of Ogiri and bitter leaf n that turned d guy on so bad.the point is learn who you live with ,everyone have there own story and how they react to things . If you want to follow these rules please do but don't see it as the only way to stop fidelity. Just do your best,do unto others what you would like them to do to u and be happy !!!!! If you always find the good side of everything and smile,believe you are going to have a happy marriage.

If it was some countries d youths would have burnt down amigos and d rest.and dey say Nigerians are barbarians