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solasoulmusic:
Different Strokes for different spokes he initiated the date but didnt have the intention of paying he will not be the first he will not be the last.

I always have my spending money when invited anywhere or I simply dont go if I dont have.

If it was me I would think he is selfish to myself stop seeing him but I won't tell the world no one knows tomorrow

true talk. vex money sure pass before these guys fall somebody hand.

holatin:
peruse, verb. In transive. (to examine or consider with care)
.......no wonder u no sabi english

lolsss...U wey come sabi engrish. .

how come u no understand wetiń the young woman talk, abi na her language she speak for there??

holatin:
i dnt read, i peruse

I see.......no wonder the hasty conclusions.

Laveda:
What are you saying?

This guy invited her on a date, not like she forced him and you're here saying she should have paid? She even picked him.

Dafuk? stop coming here to pretend, you wouldn't pay for a date you were invited.

lolss....calm down babe......don't mind those people, they only trying to act up.

JeffreyJamez:
The guy is an ass.... Why ask a lady out when you know you ain't gonna pay... .it's not like she's the one who suggested the date.

bros u be correct guy....

all I see is a mischievous guy cos from the story the lady is not broke., neither did she over eat.

holatin:
Change the heading 2 a date between a gluttonous lady and a sharp guy.

I'm not sure u read the story very well.

UdohOby:
Only God knows what you ate that made him change his mind not to pay your bills.

I even found it so difficult to comprehend what she was writing.

As a single girl, I never ate more than what I could pay for on a date, I always went out with money on any date I had. Ladies of nowadays, I no dey too understand them sef. The kind of respect I got from the guy I was dating then and his friends was awesome. He always told his friends that I was so independent.
Maybe when young ladies stop depending on men to take care of their every need, we will start getting our respect back. The kind of insult I read from NL guys to ladies these days is really disheartening.
#bringbackourrespectladies

Modified...

For all those saying I am looking for boyfriend on NL, abeg o, I am married with 2 beautiful kids.

I am not saying the guy was right, I am only stating the obvious. No guy invites a lady on a date without the intention of paying. Most Nigerian ladies are gluttonous in nature, and would consume what they themselves can't pay for on a date.
A friend of mine was once disgraced like this. She had a date, and didn't eat at home cus of the said date. She ate food and other drinkables worth almost 7k. My guy leave am waka. I and another friend paid for the bill when she called us. This girl couldn't even spend 500 in the school canteen. So please, let's call a spade a spade.

babe, pls go and read that story again. this time objectively

coolviv:
Op here is what you ll do.
Gather your mind and decide that he ll either stop this or the marriage will end. For him to tell the househelp to disobey u openly is a signal of his growing lack of respect for you which you caused by letting him demean you in public with no consequences.

Now get ready to make him feel you hate him. When he shouts at you in public again for like maybe a minute or 2, ensure that you use the next 28 mins to tell him his life history and his grandfather's own. You can actually time yourself. ..remove your mouth from brake and let it run as if he stole your money. Even after the shout, keep throwing dirty and hateful looks at him such that he ll wonder If it's safe to sleep in d house.

Now after all these, the following might happen:

He ll ask for a divorce or drive you out of his house.. whereby u can get a good lawyer and get some financial benefits.

He ll be so shocked at your actions, he ll remember how he married you and try to make peace and win your love back.

Police will arrest you both and someone will snap d pic and post it on nairaland with the title.. ' Wife goes kolomental on mentally deranged husband (Photos) '.

Don't bother thanking me..

All the best..

lolss....some people are just comedians.

Nukualofa:
wats d meaning of that please

lolsss. ...it's actually WAF, I'm using it in it's past tense. thîs is an acronym, it means Withdrawal for Academic Failure.
Students that don't do well are asked by the school to withdraw if they still couldn't pass even after a period of probation.

However the concept of WAFFing is not restricted to academic failure alone: if a student contravenes a school law, he/she may risk getting WAFFED.

I hope this helps.

Regards.

Tolexander:
lol!

My Three main reasons then but most time the second reason below;

1. If i didn't submit the assignment or classwork on time stipulated by the teacher, so that the teacher would not detect I just submitted.

2. The classmate i copied had just submitted and I wanted to submit my book immediately after his, i would do that to let my book be far from the guy's book i copied so that the teacher would not know we copied ourselves.

3. I was not sure I answered the classwork/assignment right, my book being the first to be marked would be a disaster

GBAGAAM!!!!

decub:
Not to be the first person to be flogged in case you failed.

lolsss...ur head is there.

xynerise:
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I don't just know why we did this then. Still trying to figure out




Cc: Lalasticlala

I will give u three reasons.

1. this is normally done by those set of students/pupils who will not submit their quiz/test/assignment on time. so in order for them not to be caught they will place theirs under because they assume that the teacher must have seen and memorized the name of the person whose work is untop .

2. there are these sets of students that are cliques and they copy each other's work. so to fool the teacher (in their small mind), they always separate their individual sheets upon submission.

3. there is also another set of students who are the iti's in class as we normally call them (dull students ) after answering rubbish on the sheets they will submit and place it under. their reason being that the teacher may likely get tired after marking a couple of sheets, as such will not pay much attention to the others and will probably just allocate scores. thereby helping these set of students to pass.....

op, we did it oo. lolsssss

the crazy part of this is when u think u want to hurry up in the morning after night class to catch a nice position so that u can hear the lecturer very well and the class is already filled as early as some minutes past 6 0'clock ...
U'll begin to wonder if these people slept in the classroom.

And I begin to ask my self how come that with all these dedication some people still get WAFFED....

michael142:
JESU! Source is life? Clap for English

lolss...abeg free the guy. ......he spelled it the way he pronounced it.

tosyne2much:
You know I'm a strong man

Na so. ....

tosyne2much:
I doubt if any lady can cool me down

see them....

yelebe:
be wise I only made a statement, i did not say anything abt dragging of land.

you're right. ..u didn't expressly say u are dragging land but ur cheeky display of knowledge of the geographical area says otherwise.

my point is point out the errors and make corrections if u have to without necessarily making the other person look small .

cheers

yelebe:
it's not Wats in contention ryt now, it's abt setting record straight, madam wateva!

so who is dragging land with u? was the message not passed?

VampireeM:
The deceased was married with two wives?! And quarrelling over meagre N20000.. issorai

RIP to him

what is this one saying?

yelebe:
Ovom is d seat of government not Onopa, Ovom houses d government hus, all ministries in d state, d state secretariat, police and civil and road safety head quarters and some oda government head quarters in d state.
#get_ur_facts_right.

oga geographer is that the bone of contention. Abi we dey drag land with ovom people?

given where the government house is, is it not only natural that it will be called onopa? .....Na waoo

Izonpikin:
nope...i am saying apc will now fix judges to favor apc candidates...

bayelsans voted heavily for pdp(though an incompetent useless dickson)...any verdict that favors sylva would only go to confirm my suspicions...

oh....did Bayelsans actually vote for PDP? was it not the same Dickson that allegedly said Bayelsans didn't vote for him but his money did?

goingape2:
you are one hell of a strange woman!


i haven't see any of your type who boldly say she need to work on herself and re evaluate what went wrong during the last relationship and make it better in the future!.

i like you! your type is rare to find!

keep it up sure you will see a good man like your personality!

unlike we! we are given up base on our experience.

thanks for the compliments....something tells me that u will change ur mind sooner or later, u only need time to heal.
How ever I want to plead with u to always keep a positive outlook as this will go a long way in facilitating the healing process.

Regards.

goingape2:
you are one hell of a strange woman!


i haven't see any of your type who boldly say she need to work on herself and re evaluate what went wrong during the last relationship and make it better in the future!.

i like you! your type is rare to find!

keep it up sure you will see a good man like your personality!

unlike we! we are given up base on our experience.

thanks for the compliments. ....you know what? I believe u will change ur mind sooner or later, u just need time to heal.
I will also plead with u to have a positive outlook it will go a long way in facilitating ur healing process.

Regards.

metallisc:
i refuse... ngwanu, come let me break your break...

lolss...my own criteria pass Linda Ikeji own oo

metallisc:
chaiii... nkea wutere gi well well!

lolss...no mind that guy.

goingape2:
nope!


just curious and wanted to ya reaction base on that question!

ok..truth is I need to re-evaluate my life, my attitudes and approach towards relationships and life in general, work on my self to be a better person, know what I really want in a man. then and only then I will be sure I'm ready for a fresh start up.

goingape2:
when are you resuming from that break?

lolsss...why? are u interested ?

goingape2:
have true love find you?

lolsss. ....taking a break actually.