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Genea:
wen u r done, use d exit pick an icecream on your way to calm ur nerve, u hear

No, u for come talk. see ur mouth like "I can't hawk"......mtcheeeeeeew.

U think it's by ur hard work or smart work that u are were u are today??......U don't know there are factors that combine to make it happen. U see some one doing some demeaning jobs...U think they are happy doing it.

U come here and be scoffing at a young lady helping her self with ur yeye superiority attitude ( look u well now, nothing gum ur yansh)......

just keep praying that u dont drop from status quo else u'll learn to see life from a broader perspective the hard way.

have a nice day.

Genea:
I'm sorry but I can't hawk and God won't make me do so ijn

and u think she is hawking because she it's her hobby? ?.......people be opening their mouths to talk rubbish

GbovoLee:
who be actor

we go find out as the movie unfolds. ......just sit tight, make we dey watch dey go.

GbovoLee:
ghen ghen

war start. .....lolss.

that number 4 no correct. which landlord want increase house rent next year for this economy when many people still they owe their rents.

for me I see a reduction as a matter of fact because most people don dey relocate go village go do farming so there will be houses and shops for rent every where.

so the landlord wey want increase rent na better hungry go beat am.

SerRento:
Well, you know what to do. Game her mercilessly. Her greed is her weakness. She senses some financial worth in you, and that should be the leash you use in controlling her. Give her the impression that she's financially safe with you. She should see you spend money but never be a beneficiary to that money. Always string her along. Her greed will lead her to your lair where she will surrender herself willingly, expecting financial rewards. At this point, indulge her very sparingly so she doesn't think she's wasting her time with you. When you're tired of her withdraw any financial benefits abruptly without warning.

If her destiny is to be an olosho, the relationship will end then; otherwise she will try her best to influence you(by presenting sex) to be more generous. At this point, you're firmly in control.

chai........diaris God oo

baum1:
I'm with the camp that opines that if a lady's body is nothing to her, then cooking should not be a big deal

then I think u will soon miss road, cos this ur motor na directionless .....lolss

Sharafawizkidayo:
She get money now! if to say nobi too much money were she get, y she no go do that kind thing, anyhow sha, it is good to show love to animals, they are humans like us. bt nt by doing birthday 4 dem ooo

they are humans like u indeed...........

baum1:
Very hypocritical, I cannot believe some people are arguing it...Are they saying cooking is worth more than sharing their most private being with someone who is not their husband? Wow, so this's how sex before marriage has been trivialized

bros on which side of the divide are u please?

baum1:
Culinary skills do not work for all serious-minded guys. Except what you mean cooking great for visitors whenever they come around.

well in that case there is actually no reason to cook, she can order the food from Kilimanjaro for ur visitors....

and when she visits mum, she should go there with the cook or still order food from Kilimanjaro.

on a second thought are you even married?

Izen:
We can have sex because we both enjoy it. As for the cooking, only one person enjoys it. Get it?

no....I don't.

so she won't eat from it?

Stupedinluv:
So you cook for a guy that you are not married to.

Good girl. Onye oma

NL guys are coming to dish out likes for you.

and u sleep with guys that u are not married to? he gives u stuffs and money, u don't remind him that u both are not married ....smh.

tufiakwa...running away from Pharisees.

Masonic:
The OP was asking if it is right to cook for a bf on the regular. Like you're his mommy or something

and I'm asking u is it right for a guy to spend on a gf on the regular. like he's her dad or something?

Maxi112:
once in a while is cool, you as a man won't get tired of her meal, things like cooking,washing of cloths should be minimised in a relationship. do, but don't over do it?



before we tag you busy body or attention seeker

lolss....that's correct.

Hadez:
Sex is a mutual understanding not a duty.

neither is cooking for ur guy a duty, borrowing ur words '- it a thing of mutual understanding. no body is imposing that on the lady, it's her either to cook or not to cook.

but truth is there is no serious minded guy who intends taking a lady to the isle and would not check her culinary skills even if its for once.

Maxi112:
its not advisable to always Cook for your boyfriend every time you visit him. its advisable to cook good food for him once in a while

you are right, once in a while not under compulsion though.

Hadez:
So sex is the gateway to do anything for a man? Is that suppose to be the key to a lady's heart? Talk about standards

if u can let him have sex with u, what's difficult in cooking for him?

Mimzyy:
Except you guys are in a 'no sex' relationship then this is hypocrisy. I mean he bleeps you whenever you guys want but you Wana ration the number of times you cook for him just 'cos he hasn't paid your bride price? Talk about double standards. Pfttttt

I just tire. ..

Stupedinluv:
Is this even a question? Who doesnt know only desperate girls do that.

next pls

so every time u visit him, he buys u food from chain restaurants? ??

just curious.

Bujumbura:
Dfinex i don't lije what this boy is saying. Ayam afraid

no doubt he's correct. so get ur acts ready.......don't come and fall my hands. .hahaha

tosyne2much:
Thank you jawe..

glad I could be of help.....lolss....in another news that stuff no let.
sleep well.

IVORY2009:
Everything stated in the write-up is nothing but the truth nature of wat is happening around markets around the country, using some as a case study, the question is when last did you pay a visit to the market?

I dey tey u......I went to the market the other day, prices of commodities have tripled. ........yeeeeee, that's when it dawned on me that this recession is real mehn.

tosyne2much:
It has been a boring day jawe

eyaa....sorry about that. ....thank God it's evening already, so u can chillax, do some fun stuff and add some sparks to the remaining part of day. with that u will be pretty cool before u retire for the night.

tosyne2much:
Hehehe.. Hope you're good sha?

yea bro, work don close? hope ur day was great?

tosyne2much:
You can also help me find sha

lolss. ....uncle tosin, carry ur wahala and be going please.

tosyne2much:
Need a woman that will perform her role as a mother and also satisfy in the other room

is that all? ??......

I don't believe u.

in fact I refuse to believe u, haba bros how can u say u are yet to meet a lady that meets just those two criteria? ?? abi the criteria get belle?

I hope ur case is not "the beautiful ones are not yet born"......lolss

Anyway u will find ur spec, just know what u want, prepare for it and don't fail to recognize it when u see it.

cheers...

bettercreature:
Na the only solution be that
You can't make man propose,he knows if he is going to marry or use you from the very first day he met you

kindly elaborate.

tosyne2much:
God knows I will be on this thread... Well, na wife material I find come this thread

which one u want, hullandis, daviva, George, high target, paper lace, brocade, handkerchief, etc. ....how many yards??

give us ur specification and we'll be right at ur service. excellence is our watchword. ...lolsss

MackBrooklyn:
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Oh Lord, please let me locate my own pastor daughter girlfriend too [/size]

Amen

PaperLace:
Just pray never to meet them.
I have been in such situation, that's how the guy kept pestering me too. I got to the bank before meeting him up.
He was even with his friend and they were already eating and drinking.

Time to pay, he said he wasn't with cash. What was he thinking when they were drinking and eating meat?
My dear, shun talk_ different guys dey.

lolsss.

christhavemercy:
yea i agree with you. all the girls forming independent on nairaland if u meet them in real life they have nothing. i recommend the book "why men love bitches" for all the male-approval seeking girls out there. A true independent lady knows her worth and will only tolerate guys who know their worth.
i will never pay for a first date with a guy i'm just getting to know. But trust me, when u get to know me.. i can give u my last penny, whether u r a guy or girl.

I like this.