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You will see that same guy who dated his EX for 6yrs, get married to another lady in 3months.
![/quote]True talk

adewumiopeyemi:
Just look at me begging a girl of 30years to date me and she is doing yanga imagine ��

Because she is 30 she will accept anyone? I like her already because she knows her wot

I started hustling during my nysc. I learnt how to make beads and wire works which was bringing small money then. After my service year few months I got marketing job with one insurance company, I couldn't cope I went back to my initial hustling.

Later I went and learn how to to make footwears like pan slippers and sandals both male and female, I started my own but it was not easy.

I went back to school for my master program. After that I got marketing job again with another company then save money and also borrow from my sister and open my own shop where I do my shoe business both amending and new one
O boy come see female shoe marker l no send ooo but there's still good people in this world specially men they really patronized and encouraged me. Everything was going we'll .

After about two months or so God blessed me with a wonderful job I relocate to the east then when I settled down and I was planning to go back to Abuja to carry my business down to East boom lockdown.

Once this lockdown is over i will bring my business down here by grace of God because with my job I can still do other businesses. This my story.
Keep on fighting don't give up God will bless your hand work one day.
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Please start small. Don't be ashamed of whatever you're doing.

LadyHeaven:
Sorry to burst your bubble OP but the man isn't feeling you, wanna bet? He would eventually find someone that ticks ALL his boxes and dump you like hot coal, his excuse is a polite way of telling you he doesn't want you. Be smart

Exactly what is in my mind

alramon:
anything called itel that red colored logo..
I don't want to know the model..

itel is crap

Itel is a good one. The one I bought is a year plus now and is still cool

My own give away: exercise little power on her by letting her go for one week. After that one week tell her that if she wants to continue with the relationship she should come back and go apologize to your mom. Then if she doesn't want to do that, she should not bother to come back to your house. Let see how it goes.

God thank you

Hmmmm wonderful thread

Whether private or public as far is outside the country precisely in one of the finest hotel in Dubai will be cool for me :

Sunnyvision:
True Story: How God Saved Me From The Addiction Of Masturbation And Pornography

Masturbation is an immoral, unclean and a sinful act before God, I was in the bondage of mastrubation for over 10 years without overcoming the sin. Genesis 38:8 And Judah said unto Onan, Go in unto thy brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy brother. 38:9 And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. 38:10 And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also. It was a secret sin & my friends and family never knew that I was practicing the immoral act, during the period I tried engaging myself into activities that will make me forget or lose desire to it but none worked out, it came a time I determine to stop the immoral act but what happened was it only reduce for a while and I went back to the act fully.

Matthew 12:43 When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through dry places, seeking rest, and findeth none. 12:44 Then he saith, I will return into my house from whence I came out; and when he is come, he findeth it empty, swept, and garnished. 12:45 Then goeth he, and taketh with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there: and the last state of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation. I mastrubated for two, three or four times a day, sometimes I go rounds on mastrubation; pornography videos was my right-hand man because it aid the addiction.

I had always wanted to overcome the act of mastrubation because I knew it was killing me slowly, excess mastrubation causes joint pain, sex-organ pain and infection. At that time I always pray a short pray to God to deliver me from the power of mastrubation, sometimes I use to give up and say... (mehn you no fit overcome this thing, don't bother looking for solution).

One faithful day on early January 2020 I just made up my mind to give God a try... At that point I gave my life to Christ Jesus with a sincere heart and prayed long.. After the prayer I felt a vibration on my body, at that time the spirit of God ministered to me to avoid worldliness or any thing that will bring immorality in my heart. From then on I started reading the Bible and praying more. Since over a month I haven't gone into mastrubation & pornography videos.(Roman 12:1-3 )

The act of mastrubation is a sinful boundage, even if you use any tragedy to battle it you will end up going back either days or weeks later. If God can show me love & mercy he his always ready...

If you are in any boundage of sin Jesus Christ is always ready to save...

Submit yourself to Jesus with all sincerity (not half hearted) and he will break those boundage in your life.

. Congratulations

Anthony4God:
Wish my mom can send it but she is not well

the healing of God is upon her. It is well with her in Jesus name Amen

Nairalanders with attitude of dump her, dump her bla bla in any slightest suspicious between couples. If you keep on going this way you will end up dumping all women in world because no one is perfect. I'm not supporting cheating but sit her down and have a deep discussion with her from that you will know the way forward whether to continue or discontinue

Skmoda360:
Google is your friend use it.......Okafor's Law states that once a man has had a woman, he can have her again at any time.....

I can see. Like she will always come back for more. Well done

Skmoda360:
I don't know what to say lemme leave it to the elders in the house but bros you Bleep up ooo why will you go back to your ex if not for one thing "sex, sex, sex upon it.....Okafor's law

what is okafor's law

magicminister:

Fuckkkk that bro, find a girl and build with.
I used to think like you that was the mentality that cost me my first love. Now I make steady millions every month but the problem is now to find a lady on my level. Most girls will automatically say yes to me. If I can do it again, I’ll find a girl that would build and grow with me. I have money but I’m lonely. I go to bed with different girls every night but still lonely!! Man!! That’s a bad advise!!

that's true talking from experience

cococandy:
I’m sorry I don’t know what to tell you. I’m trying to be sympathetic because you must be troubled to have brought it here.

The question is: Can he not eat when he’s hungry? Does he have to ask you first? If finance is the problem, Maybe ask your husband to discuss with him on how he can contribute. If he’s not in a financial position to contribute then that means you and your husband must provide for him while he’s there. In which case, only have guests that you can afford to care for.

I don’t think it’s nice to expect him to ask permission every time he’s hungry. Unless he’s a minor. And even then I wouldn’t do that. But it would be a bit more understandable since a minor might not be very hygienic in the kitchen and stuff like that.

Food is such an important aspect of life that I’d hate to restrict anyone’s access to it. I think he’d be more comfortable and at home if he can eat whenever he’s hungry without asking permission

thank you for this

Iwantpeace:
no pls it's not all about that! do u know when I am not around this guy does whatever he likes at home.finish everything he sees. I just came back from the market now to look for what to cook later in the afternoon. I perceived smoke in the whole house, this guy has fried yam n ate all of it, washed the plate and left the others the way I saw it. as in from 8am -12pm he has eaten 2times not even minding if I have eaten once or not. haba!!

ma to be honest with you this is not an issue just start to be minding my own business you will stop seeing all these things

Foodqueen:
What this
U tolerated it during courtship and it becomes a norm when u married his brother.

U are one of those people that don't like husband relative. Madam, be more tolerance. At one time or the other I av my bro and sister in-law live with me though separate times.
I respect them alot and at the same time send them errand I will send my younger ones... All u have to do is just apply wisdom. They are no longer with me but the respect we av for each other is topnotch.

He won't be with you forever. So chillax.

nice one. I don't see any issues here

kunleweb:
My dear. You don't want peace abi. You better support her fast and run and get her the car so she'll praise you more. She needs that car abeg

don't mind him

Because over there they are truthful to their partners from day one but here some will hide their medical condition from you.

YorubaNinja:
Awon adviser.. Africans and their foolish mentality!

Na ONLY Africans dey do medical test as a condition for marriage which makes it conditional love. 'True love' loves unconditionally. I'm even surprised 9ja churches dey encourage all this medical test prior to marriage. Should I be surprised? 98% of them are fake churches anyway. That shows their level of faith. God is love and love above everything else.... Not in a place like 9ja where poverty and wealth determines everything.

In developed worlds, they love unconditionally regardless of the their partner's medical condition. Some even go ahead to marry their partners on their death beds.

It works. Thank you @op

God my father in heaven favored me most this year. The Life, the good health, the Job you defiled all protocol to favore me, I'm really really grateful my father. 2019 is a great year thank you Jesus Christ

Are you seriously serious

Is well with you

They are cute

I hope so

Okay let the drama begin

nuelsam:
no one is fuggly........ It depends on how you take good care of ur body........ Btw intelligent girls have a proper body hygiene....... Unlike some dirty farm tools that only knows how to paint(confuse) their face but leave their womanliness stinking like a rotten fish.

Please calm down..... Your blood dey hot

Timmypromise:
As long I won't jam Buhari in the future
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So it is cool

Laughing out loud � waiting buhari do you

I praise your Holy Name LORD JESUS CHRIST
Thank you for your grace upon me and my family

I discovered it through my Ex that was 2017