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To reiterate PART VIII:

To elucidate the previous points on sex,
Money and sex are not of equal value. Man gives woman money and woman grants access to man. Man works for money but woman does not work for sex; she could step outside and ask a random man to have sex with her and he probably wouldn't think twice.

Sex is mutually pleasurable despite women having the notion (rationalisation) that they are doing men a favor, whereas money given to woman is not pleasurable for man; she's the one spending it hence it's only pleasurable for her. If she truly thinks sex is not mutually pleasurable and still has sex (with a man she doesn't like) then she is simply a sex worker.

"What value can one give when their worth is in the cavity between their legs? All women have said cavity but the ones with true value are but few. Very few."


Below are screenshots of a female nairalander emphasising this point:

Sha..
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Intermission

Women, like children, don't have a strong sense of boundaries, or in other words, they don't truly respect the boundaries of others but want others to respect their boundaries. This is one of the main reasons why 'preselection' is a female phenomenon. This is one of the main reasons why women don't really like each other.

Images below courtesy of heartofcity12

Zuleikha (wife of Potiphar) asked Joseph to have sex with her, Joseph declined, she then proceeded to accuse Joseph of raping her and he was chased without second thought; her words were taken at face value.

2000 years later, this exact same format is still being used by women with the same results of Zuleikha's case.

For people to record woman matter for over two millennia, all this things concerning women didn't start today. We're simply seeing it now in 4K resolution thanks to social media, the Internet and such.
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PART XI:

At some point in time, man's greatest wish is to have peace of mind. Children may understand the concept of peace of mind but they don't truly know its importance.
A child is restless, often discontent and most times, antithetical to peace of mind. Whereas this 'antithesis' of child is simply due to their naivety; woman---a supposed adult---has no good reason nor excuse to prevent the peace of mind of her partners.
Many see marriage as a union between equals, but in reality, marriage---to man---is the adoption of an adult child.

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Studies has shown that if you cease giving a child attention the child will begin to lash out, perhaps if attention is continously withheld during the child's development the child will begin to adapt maladaptive/toxic behaviors.
A child will also need validation from its parents to build its confidence and self esteem.
Attention and validation is very important to a child. Just like a child needs proper attention to develop well, woman needs attention (good or bad) to optimally function and validation to feel good about herself. But unlike child, woman's insecurities are kept intact by her own antics, creating problems for her (and her future partners).

When woman's source(s) of attention is deficit, she will go to long lengths, questionable lengths, to get attention.
She might surround herself with males friends so she can be the center of attention (in a pack of female friends this is impossible as the friends are also fighting for attention), she will lead oblivious men on (for attention and often money) with no intention of dating them---"orbiters they are called. She will utilise long (and brightly coloured) hair attachments, sometimes long enough to reach her behind. She will don tight and/or revealing clothes (the amount of skin she reveals is inversely proportional to the amount of shame she has). She might even act controversial or start drama.

All this and more she will do for attention and validation. For attention is her oxygen. Validation is her lifeblood. Some men would even occasionally deprive their women of attention to keep them in check, though this depends on whether she has "reliable" sources of attention like social media or orbiters.

Cc machote heartofcity12

Tmberwolf1:
All these nonsense capping!! "it takes an extra man to love a fat woman" NO!!! IT TAKES A WOMAN WITH SELF CONTROL TO WATCH HER F*CKING WEIGHT!!! All these nonsense shaming tactics just to disparage others and not take the blame on yourself for your lack of self control and laziness is just pathetic.

It's easier to shame and blameshift than work on oneself
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Cc lecturer50 KingOfTheDamned

Children will be almost naked and they'll see nothing wrong with it..
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MNDY:
The way I handle them is that: They are wired to think like a child. Their brain does not possess the same strength as a man's own.

They will argue all they want about this but it is the natural truth. God did not create a man and a woman with the same sense-strenght.

Women behave like children: Mischievous, petty, loquacious, bitter, jealous and need to be disciplined from time to time.

You will have a very big problem if you go through life thinking women will operate like men and approach issues like men.

True. That's what I stated in my thread. The mistake most men make is thinking woman is on the same level as them.
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Nonexisting:
This is why I dissociate myself from anything involving the evil gender except sex. Even the sex sef, I always try as much as I can to make it transactional. Everybody around me knows I don't do favors to women and don't expect any from them. The moment you do favors for them, you unintentionally create room for their evil manipulations. Vaginarians in my neighborhood know better not to ask for ordinary lift from me. I don't stop to talk or discuss anything with them and hardly accept greetings from them. He who is endangered should be wise enough not to put himself in tight situations. If you had been minding your business in that your compound, the daughter of Jezebel couldn't have had the guts to say shit about you.

Bossman, what you said makes sense but please can you elaborate on the bolded.

FanOfMyself:
I will find time to narrate what transpired between me and a girl whom I saved her life and who happens to be a flatmate. I am convinced that an average girl (maybe it's only Nigerian girls) feels entitled. Everything I will write will be nothing but the truth. It's going to be a long read tho.

Boss please we're waiting o. Hopefully your post will clear the eyes of some men.

PART X:

Women consistently show favoritism for other women (this favoritism is only prevalent when they're against a man;common enemy). When there's a woman boss, she will discriminate against men. For instance Marissa Mayer the former CEO of yahoo got in trouble for just going around firing the men. And remember that show "Weakest Link"? Remember what happened when there were 2 women and 1 man left? They'd vote the man off, because they wanted to insure a woman to win even if it wasn't themselves, and sometimes they'd even admit it out loud when asked for their reasons for voting him off (children supporting children).

And unfortunately.... men tend to show favoritism for women too (parents supporting children). That's why we have that saying bros before hos. Because our natural instinct instilled in us by society is to be parents (simps) to women and we have to make conscious effort to rise above that.


Envy, though common in humans, is more prevalent in children. As a child or a parent one must have seen or experienced envy for what other kids have, be it a new playstation, toy, etc.
Envy, though common in humans, is more prevalent in women. One must have probably seen, heard or experienced the infamous "Your mates are buying cars for their wives, taking them to dubai, doing this and that for their wives..."

Women are typically victims of chronic dissatisfaction.

"There are many kinds of infector to be aware of, but one of the most insidious is the sufferer from chronic dissatisfaction.
A Virus. Unseen, it lems. Infectors can be recognized by the misfortune they draw on them-enters your pores without selves, their turbulent past, their long line of broken relationships, their un-warning, spreading silently and stable careers, and the very force of their character, which sweeps you up slowly. Before you are aware they makes you lose your reason. Be forewarned by these signs of an infector, the infection, it is deep inside you. Tor; learn to see the discontent in their eye. Most important of all, do not take pity. Do not enmesh yourself in trying to help. The infector will remain unchanged, but you will be unhinged."
- Robert Greene

Kellzzyy:
This last paragraph bothers me too. Like how do these men think?

"The male libido is like being chained to a madman." apparently.

Hmm, if she's actively seeking a man to marry her, one has to wonder what are the benefits of marriage for woman..
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PART IX:

Men and women are different. Men and women are not equals. Whatever works for man, take it reverse it and it now works for woman.

Women use complements to show their contempt. Men use insults to show their affection. Men want effeminate/submissive (obedient child); women want masculine/strong men (physically and/or mentally strong parent).

Gender equality is essentially stating that the parent (man) and child (woman) are equals. Quite the funny thought indeed.
From "Nigerian princes" to ponzi schemes, gender equality is probably the biggest scam of the 21st century.

"Women understand women, and they hate each other."

"Women don't help women because they want to see the 'new' girls fall on their face like they did."

"Behind all their personal vanity, women themselves always have an impersonal contempt for woman."
- Friedrich Nietzsche

This is one of the few ways women differ from children. Whereas a child's antics are powered by naivety a woman's antics are powered by cunning and manipulation, making them more malicious. A child may harm its parent but still feel remorse for the parent is their blood, but for a woman the man is not her blood so she has little to no reason to feel such remorse.

Women don't like women so isn't feminism fighting for equality? No. It's fighting for power. The power that man possesses. Woman; with their privileges and natural inability to be accountable...
A child having equal or more power in regard to its parent. While not impossible, only weak parents (who spoil their children) would allow that.

"Women don't help women. Why? Because if they do so, they already made available a woman who becomes noticeable by their boyfriends, fiances or husbands. And since high value men don't go round, these women must protect the ones they've got by all means. And if it involves shadowing other women, it is a welcome development.
The way a woman becomes attractive to other men when a man upgrade her works same say as when women upgrade other women. They do donate gifts like pads, books, pencils, food clothes etc. But these things aren't bringing these women to the limelight to the extent they become a challenge. Observe very well, most of these charity works takes place in rural areas where competition is very low. If the same women were to help their counterparts nearby, hell will break loose as the game becomes intense and more competitive."
- Ubunnja

As stated above, women want masculine men, their nature demands masculine men. So why the modern attack on masculinity, calling it "toxic" and whatnot?
Because, in order for feminism to succeed masculinity must fail/die. Half a century ago, would one think they'd be feminists amongst men? Male feminists?

A child may tell you "I'm this, I don't do that..." but don't take a child's word. Watch the child's actions and see how they don't even know what they are saying.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UY5YSOm8Ixk
Video, courtesy of luminouz

The above video is about a couple breaking up after the woman had made the man get a vasectomy 2 months prior (interestingly, during that period she apparently had another guy she was timing).
Throughout the video, she made fun of him, spoke over him and disrespected him. He has given child leeway and power over him and this is the outcome.

mediainc:
Stop sounding ignorant, the first civilization was from the black race, Mayans and Egyptians...a lot of black inventors and scientist. Talk sense.

Please refer to PART IV and its addendum

Na the way forward..
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Kellzzyy:
I love this.
As a pharmacist myself, this is the type of drug I'll gladly dispense.
If you don't mind I'll take it to my pharmaceutics lab and formulate it into different dosage forms. Especially as an intravenous injection and as an extended release capsule.

3600mL/day for intravenous and 0.4mL for the simping vaccine because this simping pandemic is getting out of hand.

Grom4ik:
I totally agree with you. You can't just be friends with a girl. In any case, a man is attracted to a given girl, whether it's mutual or not. And as for cheating, once a friend advised me to look for a girl on the internet fling.com, because because of my work I have no time to go to bars and get acquainted with girls. I registered quickly and easily enough and began my search. After 5 minutes of being online a girl wrote to me. When I looked at her profile, it turned out to be my friend's girlfriend. I of course showed him her profile so he would know that she was not to be trusted.

You did good looking out for your boy

In the critically acclaimed movie As Good As It Gets (1997) a woman asks the main character Melvin (played by Jack Nicholson) who's a novelist how he writes authentic female characters.

Woman: How do you write women so well?
Melvin: I think of a man... then I take away reason, and accountability.

Women...
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WOMEN HAVING MALE FRIENDS:

As stated earlier, women have certain reasons for being friends with men.

Here's a comment from someone who has experience with "he's just a friend" women:

Men who only have women friends aren't players. They're either gay or really feminine men.

Either way, women who hangout with guys more than women, definitely avoid at all costs. When I was getting out there in the dating world I was warned about this. I met a super cool girl. But she told me the majority of her friends were guys and that she can't get along with women due to the drama. I thought it made sense because women definitely bring more drama than men. And their fake compliments haha oh boy, was that a huge mistake. The girl cheated on me with multiple guys. Not only that but she was out of her mind.It slowly started coming out more and more shit the longer I got to know her. By far the most bleeped up girl I ever dated.

I didn't listen and I bleeped myself over. I even started asking a whole bunch of friends about this. A lot of them told me either them or they knew someone who shared similar experiences with girls who hangout with guys more.

The whole defensive argument that snags a lot of people is that "you're so insecure that you don't want a woman who has male friends??" never fall for this. Men and women are completely different. But they attract each other to mate, not to be friends with. If you have a gf and makes a male friend, be very cautious. Do not overlook this. I made this mistake before so has so many other guys I know.

Girls in general cheat a whole lot. I was talking to my friend about this the other day. Do you know how many girls wanted my friend and my self while they had boyfriends? Those are the only one's we knew about who flat out said something to people we knew. How many more would have dropped their pants for us that either kept it to themselves or didn't tell the same people we knew?

I'm older and a bit wiser now. Even a girl who seems the most trustworthy, can be the biggest cheater. Don't believe the stereotype that girls care more about relationships than guys and cheat way less. Because it's not true. Maybe at some point in history that was, certainly not 2018. The stereotypes I truly believe has flipped.

PART VIII:

To elucidate the previous points on sex,
Money and sex are not of equal value. Man gives woman money and woman grants access to man. Man works for money but woman does not work for sex; she could step outside and ask a random man to have sex with her and he probably wouldn't think twice.

Sex is mutually pleasurable despite women having the notion (rationalisation) that they are doing men a favor, whereas money given to woman is not pleasurable for man; she's the one spending it hence it's only pleasurable for her. If she truly thinks sex is not mutually pleasurable and still has sex (with a man she doesn't like) then she is simply a sex worker.

"What value can one give when their worth is in the cavity between their legs? All women have said cavity but the ones with true value are but few. Very few."

A boyfriend* calls his girlfriend* to come over, he pays her for her tfare/uber, they proceed with coitus, he later gives her money (if he didn't give beforehand), and then she leaves.
Swap out the words* boyfriend & girlfriend with man & woman. Now, one should ask themselves... what is the difference between "girlfriend" and a call girl/escort?


On a side note, I do find it interesting that some men believe they can discipline a woman or extinguish her bad behaviors by giving her "a good knacking/lashing" in the bedroom.
Why on earth would someone think they can use pleasure to stop bad behaviour/habits of a child, or anyone else for that matter?---bad habits that are well known to die hard.

Typing... @chatinent SmellySperm

Smh..
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PART VII:

In a relationship, women have a propensity for logic (if you can call manipulation logic) while, funnily, men have a propensity for emotions. When one looks at this pitiful cocktail they'll see that woman thinks clearly whereas man's mind is muddied by 'love'.

Women (manipulative) + Men (naive/oblivious) = a good combo for the former; a bad combo for the latter.
The mistake most men make is that they see woman as their equal---a parent seeing their little child as an equal---and just like that, most men will lose guard. The parent gives the child leeway---gives the child power---a child in its infinite immaturity and impulsivity... One can easily imagine the outcome/aftermath.

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Women have such a high sense of dependence (akin to a child) that in the absence of a man they'll herd-up and depend on one another rather than actually being independent (herd mentality).
This herd mentality is also the reason feminism is extremely prevalent amongst women. Ironically, or perhaps paradoxically, the only way to eradicate feminism is to have their fellow women stigmatise it one by one, causing a chain reaction; manifesting the herd mentality like sheeps (or kids) following one another.

Another way of observing their heightened dependence is in their everyday lives. A woman is so dependent on man that if she had her way she would make man take initiative for things she could do herself. Couple this with her indirect/manipulative nature and you get a somewhat funny sight.
For example, she's with her man in an air conditioned room and she's cold, she wouldn't ask him if he could turn off the A.C.. no no no that'd be "too direct". She'll instead say "Aren't  YOU feeling cold?" If she's hungry: "Are(n't) YOU hungry? Do YOU want to eat [insert what she wants to eat here]"

Typing... @Newboss