Celebrities › Re: Mike And His Wife, Perri Shakes-Drayton Party Together At The Club In Lagos by djoe21(m): 11:48am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Lamanii22: Man like mike... You can post him a 100 times I wouldn't mind... He is my favvy... Safe to say you got a crush on him then  |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 7:47am On Oct 12, 2019 |
uunwanaobong3: Does it also make sense that liverpool that has never won EPL title has produce 3 EPL best player in the last 10 years? Yes it does. |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 7:40am On Oct 12, 2019 |
uunwanaobong3: My question is - is it right that a team that won 4 EPL title has never produce best player of the year? This is not about morality bro. If you ask...is it possible? I will say yes. Very much so. PFA award is based on outstanding individual performance in a season. Do you know that as good as Drogba was in Chelsea, he never won the award? I don't think any Man City player has contributed more to his club and EPL than Drogba did for Chelsea. |
Celebrities › Re: MI Unfollowing Fans Who Praise Vector's Diss Song "Judas The Rat" by djoe21(m): 7:21am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Tessie01: Mi is so petty, so someone cannot play with him? OK he should go and unfollow me on ig,im waiting Does he know you? |
Celebrities › Re: MI Unfollowing Fans Who Praise Vector's Diss Song "Judas The Rat" by djoe21(m): 7:20am On Oct 12, 2019 |
BrutalJab: For MI dumb fans, the lyrics is here for y'all to understand since you guys IQ is too low
Vector_ Judas The Rat (M.I diss)
See I don't know about you But I'm the only number 1 from the 234 Alaye joor joor joor I'm Seun Kuti when I'm smoking rappers Whether white or brown, I really do spit raw Alaye joor joor joor See I don't know about you But I'm the only number 1 from the 234 Alaye joor joor joor I'm Seun Kuti when I'm smoking rappers Whether white or brown, I really do spit raw Alaye joor joor joor
[Verse: Vector] Jesse Jagz you're my buddy, I couldn't do this in a hurry But the truth about your brother's been blurry So sometime in this sermon I'll say some uncomfortable facts To show his fans, their GOAT is really a Rat Let's start the lecture with embrace yourself I know if you encountered you, you'll hate yourself Who are the rappers that I put on? Many more plus two our of your three And I didn't sign anything, I did it all for free Since you were scratching on the surface like you're DJ Lambo How bout the guns we brought to help one become Rambo The next one I did a feature with, trended years ago Still mentioned it in a tweet, and it trended on the go So what am I supposed to do? sign a man I wouldn't sign? I don't do politics music, leaving people suffering behind The yoruba people have a saying "Eni Dale Lo Bale Lo" M.bode is living with vision scape, o ye ko bale lo You call yourself a teacher but your students failed in real life Your brother was such a gift you wrapped away from the light I mean you claim helping people who are struggling to make it
Hmm, well Jesse is struggling to make it You dey Lagos, you dey floss, Chairman sir, you na boss But your brother went from Lagos to Ondo then to Jos Choc City went down from all that fuckboy antics The last I checked, Jesse was in a Choc Boy mansion But since your Big Brother evicting him is part of the game You didn't care about your father, the one you both share his name And now you tryna be my father, LOL that's what he said [Laughs] I'm sure everybody knows my father is dead I mean, your father raised you in the name of the Lord But we never see you acting in the name of the Lord Is it the Lord's way to only act when you make gain How many rappers have you supported without making any gain? Who spends money on rap events, I dare you to name a name If it's not Hennessy, I dare you to name a name I've given more rappers shine, than you ever will try You had Hennessy before me, but you never could try And I don't think that you're the government but your people love you They fight my superior rap self just for being above you The least you could have done was leading lending a voice
But you dey lagos campaigning shining teeth for any invoice I've stopped judging success by the kind of money I make Or the house that I build, or the rents that I pay I think a successful man, is one who knows himself That thinking is far from you because it's top of the shelf I know the day will come everyone you lifted will speak People will know you lifted them to step on them to your peak And how are you the only one surviving as an artiste? You signed a rapper for so long, I guess he's nothing but your artist How you not confused? the whole story is wack Think about it, the only light in the story is Blaq You advertised your ass a lot, went to Abuja a lot And came back with more money let that story be that And what's my success in life? the answer is life I look in the eyes of my daughter, and I'm thankful for life And now I'm a single father making mistakes learning of life I had a fight with YSG, that shht is normal in life Your girl broke with you? we thought she your wife You were the bitch in the relationship, the stories are right You claim I treated YSG in a way that was false I was the one who lost everything in my life but my pulse Let's talk about CC, not your BB girls Let's talk a little bit about your CC mess You did your Emperor crazy, one of CC's best The Brymo's exit ushered in the CC stress I mean Dice could really rap, he had your CC crest And many artists don fall sha, off your CC
*** Copied from RapGenius Thanks for sharing. |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 7:06am On Oct 12, 2019 |
uunwanaobong3: EPL BEST AND YEAR: 2011 - Man utd won ( Rooney best play). 2012 - Mancity won ( Van persie best player - aguero is neglected). 2013 - Man utd won ( Van persie best). 2014 - Man city won (Suarez best player - yaya toure was overlook). 2015 - chelsea won ( Hazard best). 2016 -Leistercity won ( Even mehrez was the best). 2017 - chelsea won (Kante best). 2018 - Mancity won ( Salah won best player - debrune overløok). 2019 - Mancity won ( van dirk won best player - bernado silva overlook).
Have we now observed that of all the teams who won EPL, The best player is usually from that team (even liecester) EXCEPT MANCITY, mancity have won the league 4 times and have not yet produce best player..... Why? The answer is hatred Bro the EPL did not start in 2011. What happened to 2010-2011 season that Bale won it? You conveniently left that out right? Kontinew, we are here  |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 6:59am On Oct 12, 2019 |
uunwanaobong3: WHEN GUARDIOLAR WAS SETTING RECORD OF 18 CONSECUTIVE WINNING, DID HE WIN THE AWARD BACK TO BACK? abumeyang won the best player award for last month and my question is WAS HE BETTER THAN KELVIN DEBRUNE? There is a strong conspiracy theory that FA, UEFA, MEDIA ETC, are working to bring city down by distabilizing city players mental psychology- making the play feel that they are being hunted and their effort at city wil never be recognised by others, judging from ballon dor etc, not a single city player despite 3 trophies. Even a harmless joke between two childhood friends has been interpreted to a racist slur by FA, thereby slandering bernados name and that has affected bernado mentality and his performance to the benefit of liverpool, what a dirty game.
Because of hatred for city, the best player ever to grace EPL (david silva) wil retire without ever being recognised for his effort, not even EPL best player of the year but van dirk and salah have all been recognise despite one seasön wonder with one trophy Nigerians and conspiracy theory. Anyways, we have heard you. David Silva is the best to ever grace the EPL. Well done! |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 6:45am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Sonnobax15:
Wayo!....lampard was robbed,knowing fully well that we are still getting the points with average players (like tammy abraham) regardless of our inability to sign players. Robbed kor, kidnapped ni. October is still there, he can try again.  |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 6:43am On Oct 12, 2019 |
JubrinElSudan: see the one I talked about. Not PFA OK. Except that, cos I know Matip won the real one!  |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 6:41am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Angelfrost: I pray they don't... Can't have that club of mercenaries winning it again. Klopp has earned it. You be correct guy. |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 6:40am On Oct 12, 2019 |
mcjohny: Kudos to him, something in me tells me Liverpool will win the premiership this season Tell that thing that it's saying the truth  |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 6:38am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Tajbol4splend: Liverpool that will win nothing at the end of the day, all this is just initial gragra I hope you realise you are talking about the current European Champions.  |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 6:37am On Oct 12, 2019 |
JubrinElSudan: Congratulations to Aubameyang for wining the player of the month for September Matip won it not Aubumayang |
Sports › Re: Klopp Beats Lampard To Win Back-to-back EPL Manager Of The Month For Sep by djoe21(m): 6:36am On Oct 12, 2019 |
lloyds: He was lucky to beat Chelsea. . If not for VAR. Lampard would have gotten it. Story |
Romance › Re: I Wish I Fvcked Her When I Had The Chance by djoe21(m): 12:09pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
khallebb: Life is not always about money... love is important too. At the end of the day, men hustle because of women. And you think sleeping with her will guarantee her love for you? Please stop with the infatuation and see if you can still make a first class. |
Romance › Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 11:27am On Oct 10, 2019 |
pocohantas: That is the same thing she would do. People take strategic decisions because they don't wanna leave things to "chance". You are not an exception. "What ifs" only come up in threads like this or situations one party wants to emotionally blackmail or guilt-trip the other into seeing things their way. Okay. |
Romance › Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 10:36am On Oct 10, 2019 |
Amarabae: what do you mean by how old am I? Be polite pls Is that an insult? Can't someone ask your age in peace?  |
Romance › Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 10:34am On Oct 10, 2019 |
lloyds: Nop, my cousin in Lagos got married in Lagos when he was earning 3Ok, and his wife earned nothing until after 3 months she got a nursing job.
I stayed in that house without a job, and got a banking job from there.
Understanding matters and love. The willingness to commit to the sacrifice required.
No one wants poverty, but life issues are wide and complex. A woman at 35 and man at 40 cannot be saying what she is saying. . May more sense fall on you. |
Romance › Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 10:32am On Oct 10, 2019 |
macklef: She is being realistic, as a guy, is ur goal to get married under a 50k salary? Not the point. |
Romance › Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 10:31am On Oct 10, 2019 |
macklef: How old are u, a total income of 500k may not still make u a middle class in the nigeria of today. Depends majorly on the location they end up settling That is why he used CAN not WILL. |
Romance › Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 9:28am On Oct 10, 2019 |
pocohantas: Same way yours is not the case. Men also want financially stable ladies- WHAT IF she loses her job?
Quit the "What Ifs" already. Every time a woman has a choice, men will come out with all sorts of blackmails, threats and what-ifs. You guys have your own too, no one is asking you "what if?"
Yea right- I believe in unicorns. 'What ifs' will always be used because life isn't a static-straightlined-path. Changes are bound to occur. If she loses her job, we will continue living as husband and wife; still cutting our coats according to our fabrics, while working towards a better CHANGE. |
Romance › Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 8:47am On Oct 10, 2019 |
pocohantas: All these "What ifs" always get very boring and stale.
What if you marry your wife and she loses her womb or legs? Would you divorce her? Would that make you marry a menopausal woman or cripple (apologies)?
The only problem I see here is her making her opinion seem like a standard. I will personally not go about saying such- but water must find its level... I hope you realise a man can also lose his legs or manhood so to say. Would she divorce? So this your analogy is not really the case here. But if it were the case, I wouldn't. They are a lot of kids to be adopted. |
Romance › Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 8:33am On Oct 10, 2019 |
solmusdesigns:

i beg to differ, humans have different income level through out thier life time especially in an economy like nigeria and a country without job seciurity
You may have a booming business or Job with huge turn over/salary before marriage, and few years into the marriage Buhari introduces policies that affects your sector directly, like no forex for importers, Single Treasury Account, border closure or ban on your products... then things turn slightly difficult and this kind of lady is out with another man
A reasonable man should always marry poor, or strugling or even pretend to be poor so as to weed out women with this kind of money mentality, because even if you are rich and things turn around for you this entitled ingrates would either leave or make your life miserable
But facing real facts someone marrying with 50k must be ready to marry a lady with a source of income, and also be ready to start the marriage by renting a single room and parlour selfcontain in a middle class enviroment, he must be ready to use pratical low dataphones like itel and tecno, he must be willing to use public transport, and he must be very willing to eat a soup for atleast 3 days to five days before making new ones, or they can eat out sometimes at local restuarants... If he , must drink alchohol, then he cant drink at a lounge and he cant buy premium brands like hennesy and heineken.. he most strictly drink low cost drinks like hero, goldberg , 33 , trophy or spirits and his entertainment option should be limited to Startimes a, gotv or buying pirated dvds..
In fairness.. strugling couples who are positive minded tend to enjoy thier marriage, building wealth together and sharing life experience together, doing house chores together, playing together when bored, gisting and sharing goofy jokes to spice up the atmosphere (not to forget the spontenous unplannedd sex, and the random quickie )
For such marriage to work emphasis must be placed on THE WORD "TOGETHER"
and to clear anybodies doubt
Estimated budget of a Glutton who earns 50k and his wife earns 30k, in any state in Nigeria except Lagos, FCT Abuja, Portharcourt
BUDGET Estimate.....
*Accomodation...... (N7000) a room self contain(80k a year)
*Feeding for 2 (N40,000 ) Soup per week 3750, per month 15k Main Meal(rice 3 cups breakfast, eba/amala/tuwo/fufu, 3 cups or equivalent for lunch, noddles and egg for supper) 25k per month
*Utility Bill (N11,000) Gas 1500 per month GoTv, Startimes 3000 per month Internet for 2 2000 per month Electricity and Comiunity Development and Seciurity 3000
*Miscelleneous ..(10,000) *Mutual Fund Investment, Cryptocurrency and Stocks and Shares Purchase (N10,000) *Savings (N5000)
TOTAL 80,000
estimate is based on if you and your wife are extreme gluttons that live to eat
Bottomline, Never Let others project thier fears on you.. If money alone was the fuel of a Succesful Marriage then Dangote and Adelek wouldnt be Divorcees
.. Guy your post is the most sensible I have seen and heard. Yes heard because this same topic was on the radio (Cool FM) last night. I was baffled by the opinions of the female presenters and the few females that phoned in. Although, one of the presenters had a more realistic opinion but the others, SMH. I wonder if these people don't realise that the level of income isn't static throughout marriage just as you pointed out. What happens when a lady marry someone earning say N200k and something happens shortly after the wedding and he is no longer earning as much but significantly lower, she would divorce him? Or what if he has bad spending habits and at the end of the day, the net disposable income for the family is nothing to write home about. Like a lady said on a similar thread, there's always something for different levels. And that is just what you have highlighted. My advice for any man thinking such is to just cut his coat according to his fabric and endeavour to marry a supportive lady who earns too no matter how little. |
Celebrities › Re: Bbnaija 2019: Will You Dump Ike Now That You Won? - Mercy Responds by djoe21(m): 9:47am On Oct 09, 2019 |
They shouldn't put unnecessary pressure on them. What will be, will be. |
Celebrities › Re: Meet Seyi Awolowo's Girlfriend, Adeshola (Photos) by djoe21(m): 8:11am On Oct 09, 2019 |
Young03: Truth be told
The girl is not that beautiful
I rate her 45% That's a very pretty girl I see. Maybe you value a lot of make up. |
Romance › Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 7:45pm On Oct 08, 2019*. Modified: 10:32pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
goldman777: I said in very rare cases and most Don't last not all if you really look behind the scenes this guy's have mistresses behind the scenes but their museum wives usually look away to avoid media attention.even macron divorced his old wife she only came back while he was contesting for president here are a few Ashton kusher.tom cruise.nick cannon.and even Janet Jackson's ex husband an Arabian billionaire knew you can't teach tame an old wild horse to live a conservative Muslim lifestyle Forget rare cases, it is happening a lot now. People are beginning to go for what they desire damning the stereotype of the society. By the way, you think the ones with younger wives don't have mistresses?  There's even a study that shows that the closer couples are in age, the longer their marriages tend to last. I don't want to get started with showing images of crashed marriages where the man is older. But you can take a good look at many Nigerian celebrity marriages and see for yourself. |
Romance › Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 12:07pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
goldman777: An older man always has the advantages no younger man who is financially stable will like to marry an older woman except very rare exceptions go and ask wiz kid and tiwa Savage.They are only friends with benefits  But this isn't exactly what my comment meant. But even at that, what about the French President, Denzel Washington, Akeredolu the governor of Ondo state. There are many examples.
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Romance › Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 10:40pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter: hahaha do you know i kept thinking about that comment, but every time i go back to look for it I get distracted
Dont mind me, I will explain that you convinced me to give the premier league another try! And you will not regret it.  |
Romance › Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 10:27pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter: Lol, you are completely and utterly unserious. You didnt ask me for a study, did you? https://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=175876 https://www.mic.com/articles/111226/science-explains-why-women-are-faster-to-mature-than-men https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/12/131219131153.htm
You mentioned sociology and psychology, thats why i talked about those
I dont know if youre being deliberately obtuse or what... of course its a generalisation..! Theyre traipsing all over the thread suggesting that all 30+ women who give birth look like grandmas, i dont see you castigating any of them for making generalisations. A generalisation is not necessarily false, depending on how you apply it
If i am making a short comment to answer the rubbish thats happening on the thread, of course i will imply things, it doesnt mean you should apply it to every single 23 year old man on the planet
You are just being purposely glib, for no real reason other than simple biology seeming to irk you I am done going through the thread, I am only replying your mentions. And it was just a comment you made in the first page of the thread that caught my interest. Anyways, it's good that you have clarified that some of the things you typed were implied because from the way your sentences were structured in that comment, it didn't seem so. About those that say such stuff about 30+ ladies, I hardly take them serious, so no point replying them. About being irked, not at all. Why should I be angry with someone I am trying to convince to love club football on behalf of her boyfriend?  |
Romance › Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 10:18pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter: Lol, you are completely and utterly unserious. You didnt ask me for a study, did you? https://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=175876 https://www.mic.com/articles/111226/science-explains-why-women-are-faster-to-mature-than-men https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/12/131219131153.htm
You mentioned sociology and psychology, thats why i talked about those
I dont know if youre being deliberately obtuse or what... of course its a generalisation..! Theyre traipsing all over the thread suggesting that all 30+ women who give birth look like grandmas, i dont see you castigating any of them for making generalisations. A generalisation is not necessarily false, depending on how you apply it
If i am making a short comment to answer the rubbish thats happening on the thread, of course i will imply things, it doesnt mean you should apply it to every single 23 year old man on the planet
You are just being purposely glib, for no real reason other than simple biology seeming to irk you I am done going through the thread, I am only replying your mentions. About those that say such about 30+ ladies, I hardly take them serious. Good that you agreed to implying things. |
Romance › Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 9:56pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter: Just because you dont like it, doesnt make it a fallacy. you havent checked it, so you dont know if its false
Women stop being able to give birth after around age 50, its a very sad fact but its true. Does that make it a fallacy?
Psychology is a branch of biology that arises from both biological and social effects
In terms of sociology, female children are conditioned to be more mature than their male counterparts. You can observe it when girls are told to stay with their moms in the kitchen, have to be more particular about neatness and scolded for rowdy or even licentious behaviour "because you are a girl"..while boys are allowed to get away with a lot more
It creates a hyper-responsibility in girls that still affects them into adulthood Madam, there's nothing you can explain or quote. It is fallacy to state categorically like you did that women mature faster than men. You have no study to prove that. In fact, I have seen a study that proves that men age faster and yet it wasn't as conclusive as your statements. You even said a 23year old female and male are not same wrt maturity; implying that the female is always more mature. Firstly, what is your understanding of maturity? I can now see you are clearly limiting the meaning the word. Secondly, you have not seen all male and female 23year-olds to draw such a conclusion. Like I said earlier, you cannot categorically state your position. That is an unfounded generalisation. |
Romance › Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 9:40pm On Oct 07, 2019*. Modified: 12:11pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
goldman777: That man is sick it is foolish for a man to marry his age mate most times the marriage will crash faster than it started women like to look up to an older man once you are mates no respect she can't be tamed  An older man that barely meets his responsibilities as a husband/father and a younger man of her age that meets his adequately, who do you think she would gladly look up to? Biko, I think I have typed too much tonight already. |