Career / Re: Your Advice Is Urgently Needed by djoe21(m): 9:24am On Jan 10, 2020 |
RealtorX:
Thank you, brother! The amount per facility is N2500.00.
Please why did you advise me to cancel No 2 outrightly? So if you visit a facility each working day, you will make at least N50k. I want to believe if a facility is visited today, it can be revisited tomorrow though. |
Romance / Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by djoe21(m): 9:08pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:
She is an introvert doesn't make her less fun or human.
Your true man will never stress you, let him be! If he is your he will come around but I pray you will be taken by then. If you go through this your comment carefully, you will realise your prayer for her doesn't make sense. |
Gaming / Re: PS 5 Vs Xbox Series X by djoe21(m): 1:43pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Promotions: yes they do..matter of fact I like Xbox more than the play station Enjoy. |
Career / Re: Your Advice Is Urgently Needed by djoe21(m): 1:41pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
RealtorX: Hello, nairalanders! I need your opinions on which of these jobs to choose.
1.Sample pick up from health facilities to medical labs for analysis (to be paid per number of facilities visited). This is in a location I like to reside.
2. Medical Sales Representative. The salary here is N50k/month but you have to meet the target given to you (say N2m/month). The company can post you to any state.
3. An NGO 3 month-consultancy job in my state of origin with N80k/month.
Your serious and candid opinion is needed and especially if you are experienced in medical sales rep job! Thank you. Abeg cancel that number 2. As for number 1, how much are you to be paid per facility visited? |
Gaming / Re: PS 5 Vs Xbox Series X by djoe21(m): 1:36pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
PS5. People dey play Xbox for Naija? |
Romance / Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by djoe21(m): 9:53am On Jan 09, 2020 |
geraldinai: Nairalanders, this is a long post but please read till the end.
My bf just broke up with me over what he termed incompatibility. This guy and I have been together for two years and we both loved each other. It was a long-distance relationship, he stays in Lagos while I schooled in another town in the west. I had no problem with the distance because I'm not the attention-craving type and I like my space.
He's a complete extrovert, while I'm an introvert(not to the extreme though) and this has been an issue most of the time. He complains that I'm too quiet and not on the same social level as him. I don't do social media like that while he's uploading new pictures every minute. I also didn't like the fact that he relates too well with girls; he had a lot of female friends and easily socializes with new ones. Well, I blended with that so well as I didn't see any trace of unfaithfulness in him.
Fast forward to late last year, there was a breakdown in our communication, he stopped calling and chatting as he used to, I asked him what the matter was but he said there's nothing. I was a bit scared if something went wrong with him and I asked again after some days, that was when he said he would tell me when the time comes, so I stopped asking. With all the signs he showed me, my mind was telling me he wanted a breakup but I didn't ask him further as I was preparing for my final exam and him breaking up with me that period would leave me devastated so I focused on my exam with the hope that after then, we would talk about it.
After my exam, I sent him a text apologizing and asked us to continue as we were but he didn't reply. He invited me over to his place and that was when he told me he's no longer interested in the relationship, that he has no feelings for me again. He gave one thousand and one reasons for us not to be together anymore. He said I'm less expressive, I agree with anything he says and does and that during the break in our communication, I didn't make efforts to find out why he did so and challenge him. Funnily enough, I didn't react when he told me, I just said it's all right as I envisaged it earlier. With the reasons he gave me, my heart was broken and felt there was no need to push further. He was surprised with how calm I was when he told me, personally, I don't believe in forcing someone to love me.
I moved on well but after a week when I was alone and reflecting, the feeling of guilt overwhelmed me that I probably pushed him away with my seemingly “not too caring” attitude. I see myself with him and I never thought we could separate. I showed love and care in my how way and in the best way, I know-how. I did love him wholeheartedly and he knew it but he seemed unable to cope with my private/ less emotional lifestyle. Nairalanders, did I actually push him away?
It's so unfortunate that just November last year you were giving ladies tips on how to make their men happy. Did you not follow the tips? 58 Likes 5 Shares |
Investment / Re: How Can I Get Up To 10-20% Profit On Investment? by djoe21(m): 5:55am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Arinie: Hi, please.. I'm new here. I need help on how to invest and get up to 10-20% profit. I've been reading one or two books about investment and would love to try it out... especially the ones that are safe and 100% trusted as I don't want to bear losses. Thanks. Do not be deceived, no investment is 100% trusted or safe. You must be ready to take some amount of risk especially with the kind of ROI you are looking for. If you are not ready to risk, you are not ready to gain. But be calculative and smart. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Trod, Dagrin's Brother, Begs Olamide To Pick His Call by djoe21(m): 9:40pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
post=85626097: From all of us @[/color] : RIP DAGRIN, We will always miss you.
[color=#990000]Reminiscent time......
One of our favourite.... feat Omawunmi....
Everytime i wake,i go first praise the LORD Na HIM make me rest,na HIM dey wake me LORD All the good things wey you do for me,am happy LORD Wetin I go do,Baba na to thank you LORD {THANK GOD(WE THANK GOD) X7}
Verse 1: Hey,omoba fe ki Now o ma je paki but o ti d'eyan pataki(pataki) E ri bi life mi se change Mo d'eyan to fi #1,000 ra blade ti o duro gba change E mi l'omo to ti ro pe ko le s'orire Mo woju olorun ki ni mo ri,mo r'ire E mi leni t'awon araye to ti Console E mi naa re leni,ti mo n fi owo Control
Eyin eeyan se ri pe Olorun tobi Olorun to wo shushu,olohun to se ti Mikel Obi Same Olohun yii naa lo se ti Okoya Olorun joo gb'eni wa , joo ma je k'awo faya Ti ba fe wonu yara yin tele,E ma ni pe duro na Mo n j'amala ni sin,Mo tigbe tuwo le'na Omo'lohun ni mi,mo n'trip fun Esu T'Esu ba ni package men,O ma ri'yanu JESU
Chorus.
Verse 2: Mo ti j'iya ri Yes, mo ti jale ri Die loku,eyin somori,mi ba ti pa'yan ri Igba ti mo n kiri O le hustle to mi Bere lowo moomi mi Nisin,olohun ti yo mi Mo n korin yi to let you know how am feeling Mo ti se Brickila,mo ba won ko'yepe filling n'ma n dupe l'ojo ti ba ri Garri mu Agaga ojo ti ba ri eja dindin gba mu To ba ri mi tele,wa poshe wa ni shio Mo dupe lowo Olohun,nisin level mi ti pure Eni to ba mo nkan ti mo n so to ti suffer To ba fe dupe lowo Olohun,O ma pariwo bi Woofer Everytime mo b'olohun soro,ko so nkan kan But ni heaven,mo mo pe o n plan nkan kan Mo n dupe wipe mi ti d'eni iyepe E ba mi ji Tolulope ko wa ba mi sope............
***************** ********************** ***************** Yeah. Lala. Da grin. Aint nothing change It's Certain Records baby I know you heard a lot about the bootie call But right now awon boys bring the bootie hardcore Dr Frabs insane on this one Ladies, catch me if ya'll can It's Certain Records baby
[Da grin] Omo mo like bootie yen gan men, mofe fi she office To ba ro iro meefa mo shi ma notice Shey iru wa ninu obe e ni?, to ba mo bi mo she ko e je To ba je mo ni bootie ni, mo ma sin e je Sho fi jo mummy ni abi ti mummy na …mmm They know I love the bootie, so they call me ekun I've seen a lot of bootie but ti e yato To ba dele mi, moma fi e pa tan Ko need ka jo negotiate kin to wole penetrate But iye tin ma fun e, mo mo poo ma appreciate Omo ele kinni to yi e o po, opo Shey ko le jabo, o sure poo so po, so po? O mo kan to wonder mi, ki lo shake ni be? Kini awon boys rush fun, ki lo fe take nibe? Moti sample kini yi, ko si ikan ti mo le fi we
Mi mind to ba de mu mi lo ile, as take-away!
Baby girl the thing wey I love for your body na your idi nla The way you dey fling am, omo aya min ja............
******************* ******************** ******************* Then the one with Ruggedy Baba, with the line 'Omo IGBO to so YORUBA bi nkan mi' is another fav!
RIP CEO! My guy listen to DEMOCRACY. Mehn Dagrin finish work do that song. |
Romance / Re: Finally Met NwaAmaikpe THE MOST CONTROVERSIAL NAIRALANDER OF THE DECADE!!! by djoe21(m): 9:32pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
victorian:
Lol as in ehn?
Incredible.
She couldn't hold it in anymore.. Lol
Anyways it's good, whatever rocks her boat. But she's just wasting her time. |
Romance / Re: Finally Met NwaAmaikpe THE MOST CONTROVERSIAL NAIRALANDER OF THE DECADE!!! by djoe21(m): 8:34pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
victorian:
Dude! She's already in love.
O ga o Madly. Getting to the point of obsession. |
Romance / Re: . by djoe21(m): 10:01am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Guys that rape get me pissed seriously. And what's with the issue of killing or trying to kill their victims afterwards? Like the rape is not bad enough. |
Romance / Re: . by djoe21(m): 9:51am On Jan 08, 2020 |
waleadex: Truly, it's dreadful to be neglected or not to be loved. Hope you are not in any way trying to justify what the man did. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Finally Met NwaAmaikpe THE MOST CONTROVERSIAL NAIRALANDER OF THE DECADE!!! by djoe21(m): 9:25am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Nickisindigo:
primary school teacher turned wife And you think she was not his mentor? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Finally Met NwaAmaikpe THE MOST CONTROVERSIAL NAIRALANDER OF THE DECADE!!! by djoe21(m): 8:37am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude:
Me? Fall in love with my Mentor? Think again. Happens. You can ask the French President. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Finally Met NwaAmaikpe THE MOST CONTROVERSIAL NAIRALANDER OF THE DECADE!!! by djoe21(m): 8:23am On Jan 08, 2020 |
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Sports / Re: CAF Awards 2019: Sadio Mane Is Africa’s Best Player by djoe21(m): 10:05pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Well deserved. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Policemen Help Execute A Lovely Proposal To 'The Most Loyal Nigerian Girl' by djoe21(m): 8:43pm On Jan 06, 2020 |
Michelle55:
TRUE... She looks more confused than loyal LIE...based on what you quoted 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Samuel Ajibola "SPIFF" Set To Marry , Shares Pictures by djoe21(m): 3:27pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
xcelentattitude: All these people crying and shouting that the lady is older sef
Who knows are age among you all. You are basing your assertions on pictures that where snapped from some awkward angles.
The dude naturally has baby face and that would make any lady look older than him. He could even pass for a secondary school dude sef.
And he could also be a local fowl too just like someone mentioned earlier. Short guys like that usually carry age.
Even if the lady is older than him, is it not his choice? How does it affect us? 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Samuel Ajibola "SPIFF" Set To Marry , Shares Pictures by djoe21(m): 3:25pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Ebus12: Forget that joy and peace of mind Fallacy
A man in his right senses shouldn't date a lady he isn't at least 5 years older than talk more of thinking of even taking her as a bride To think that this dude... Is now planning to marry his aunt baffles me Are there no younger ladies out there who can still give him that Joy, and peace of mind he desires
Tufiakwa... Is it your marriage? He has made his choice and has his reasons, how does it affect you? If you can't be happy for him, just scroll to the next topic |
Family / Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by djoe21(m): 7:59am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Biglittlelois: I actually know someone that use to be my friend who did the exact same thing, she is very obese, she told me she didn't think she can meet a man that will love her and her stature, I always encourage her to be patient, not until she one day told me she was pregnant, I didn't even notice cos of how big she is, she was pregnant for a married man, she prefers being a baby mama, i was really sad,
It's actually an esteem issue and has to do with the psych, your wife should be careful of her. His wife should be careful of her? She is the one encouraging her. His wife should be doing what you did. |
Family / Re: Should I Be Worried About My Wife by djoe21(m): 7:54am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Fillibuster: I had to create a new moniker to post this.
I hate posting private issues but we all need a sounding board to check our ideas to prevent us from over reacting
I am married with a son. Like all homes we do have our ups and down. This morning my wife received a call from a colleague. She (wife) works as a branch manager in a financial establishment. The call was from a subordinate. My wife was asking her if she remembered to tell her boyfriend to buy them the chicken. I got interested in the conversation and i prodded my wife for more explanation and she said the said colleague is dating a married man who happens to live in my neighborhood. I was shocked! Her excuse was that the colleague was extremely obesed and had little or no chasers. I just contained myself because i was already going out this morning to conclude a transaction. But right within me, i am already bursting at the seams.
I don't want to say what's on my mind but i am shock that her morale compass is dead. How can she subtly encourage her friend to wreak another home? All because she is fat.
I want mature ladies and married men to weigh in on this issue. No immature stuff pls. I am seated in my office trying to digest this info and my next line of action once i get home. am i over-reacting?
Pls mod dont take this to front page.
You are not over reacting. If anything, you have under reacted. See, two wrongs don't make a right. Being obese is not an excuse to share someone else's husband. If her obesity is the reason she is getting few or no chasers, then let her try to work on it. And please talk to your wife and make her see reasons why she needs to discourage such. In fact, may be you can ask her if she would feel empathetic if you cheat with someone obese. |
Politics / Re: Sadiya Farouq: FG Pays Suppliers Of Food For January School Feeding Programme by djoe21(m): 6:58am On Dec 30, 2019 |
RichBoy247: But I think this should be stopped. If so called parents cannot feed their children, why did the parents give birth to children? You can't pay school fees; ordinary PTA token fee in government school, you cannot pay; you can't pay house rent; small money to buy drugs in government hospital, you don't have; but you are giving birth to children every year like white pigs. Nonsense. Not even in developed countries do the governments think like this. |
Politics / Re: Sadiya Farouq: FG Pays Suppliers Of Food For January School Feeding Programme by djoe21(m): 6:55am On Dec 30, 2019 |
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Family / Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by djoe21(m): 6:43am On Dec 30, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: I am never happy. For every reason I have/find, I'm just always happy and content with my sadness. I always find a reason to be downcast and burdened. I'm very skeptical about everything/everyone around me. I carry scars of everything I have seen and see; pain, sadness, disaster, sickness, death etc. I wear on the gloom and doom of a hundred persons. I can't even say if I'm a sadist.
I constantly seek the meaning of life, the reason of my existence, and as soon as I can't find the meaning, I pass aggression or get mad at myself. I don't have trouble building relationships with others, but I don't strive to build them anyway. I don't like people. I have a huge difficulty fitting into the norms of the society. Could it be that I'm not in the right society for me to be appreciated?
I strive to make friends but I cut them off before they even come close. I'm a realist but people misunderstand it as pessimism.
I'm a very good, ambitious, nice, lovable, generous and approachable person, but people scare me. There's no real love in the world. I have a fairly good life to be thankful for. I have good people around me too, thankfully, but I'm still not happy.
I have a stable job. A fairly good business by the side. I have a good shelter above my head, in school and enough food to eat, in fact, I have totally everything to make the average young adult happy. On here, people might mistake me to be an outgoing and bubbly personality, but in real life, I'm not that. I only come here to have fun, and out of here, feel miserable.
I'm not even passionate about what I even do. I have a job but I don't enjoy it. I just love to be by myself and still get angry for being by myself. In turn, I'm called non-challant.
I'm very passionate about the arts, fashion, poetry, academics, but I lack the right motivation to forge with these things. I usually am very immersed in my emotions to do anything reasonable. In totality, I'm just a sad person.
Is there a help to combat recurrent melancholic symptoms? Do other people feel this way? Am I okay? Your problem is simply lack of LOVE. |
Politics / Re: The Bishop Oyedepo N650 Million Road Construction Vs Federal Government! by djoe21(m): 6:17am On Dec 30, 2019 |
tomakint: Bishop Oyedepo spent N650million for a standard and very quality road construction.... did you know that our FG, state governments, senators etc will pay over N20billion for the same road project with a substandard construction that will see the road developing potholes within four years?
Put that N20billion in the hands of Bishop Oyedepo to construct us roads just in the South West alone, he will give Nigerians 10 different high quality constructed roads in the shortest period of time.
Give Bishop Oyedepo a $1billion to build us world class international airport, I can guaranty Nigerians that he will bring us four Narita International Airport in Tokyo into Nigeria, but give that same $1billion to Tinubu, Fashola, Rotimi Ameachi, Ibori, Buhari, Ambode, Rochas, Shettima, Ganduje, the entire past and current Northern governors and 96% of Nigerian politicians in and out of both state and federal government, they will build us just one airport that will not measure up standard airport.
Only if you know the damage and underdevelopment that over-inflated contracts is causing us as a nation...
Nigeria is completely doomed until we do away with these bunch of criminal politicians.
#Copied Looks like you are campaigning for him. Does he want to run for politics? |
Family / Re: If You're In Need Of A Nanny For Your Kids I'm Available. by djoe21(m): 4:02pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
cerpvad: I am interested. Just let me know what I should budget per month for three months old baby Call this number 0814 810 0100 and discuss. |
Family / Re: If You're In Need Of A Nanny For Your Kids I'm Available. by djoe21(m): 11:45am On Dec 29, 2019 |
cerpvad: Please how much do you charge per month? I know someone that will be good. If you are interested, let me know. Thanks. |
Family / Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by djoe21(m): 11:35am On Dec 29, 2019 |
uninspired07:
Your parents’ Nigeria is different from our Nigeria. Yes, it is. |
Family / Re: How Do I Love The Child As Mine by djoe21(m): 7:24am On Dec 28, 2019 |
Massey27:
Thank you so much. I think using the word good makes him look like a saint. And I apologise for that.
I would have contracted a deadly illness. I agree and i still have an unforgiveness in my heart towards him because of that. I keep going for test every month. Knowing the kind of life the lady in question lives and I was put at risk.
I didn't stay because of the childlessness. I stayed because I found more than 80% of what I wanted in a man. And he is sorry, he has shown he is. I don't need a Prophet telling me.
You won't understand what I made him go through because of his betrayal. And he actually went through alot. And the truth is even his family and people close to us were surprised he did what he did. He is not known with that.
In as much as he betrayed me , I don't want the iniquity of the sin committed to linger. He should do right by his child. It hurts me talking about it and wanting him involved in the child's life but I no want old age wahala from any pickin that will raise up one day and start causing problems for me because he was neglected.
Thank you again for your advice.
Madam you don't need to explain anything to that commenter. Especially not a lengthy explanation like this. You are handling it well so far. May God continue to strengthen you. |
Family / Re: How Do I Love The Child As Mine by djoe21(m): 7:18am On Dec 28, 2019 |
heavenlychy: I see you really love this man and I'm not here to tell you to love him less but can you please tune it down with your constant calling him a 'Good man'. This man cheated on you for months. He had 'Unprotected sex' with a stranger and covered it all up. Pretended right down to his balls. What if he contacted Hiv or any of these deadly diseases? Mehn, if I were you, I would be very afraid of such a man. I know it is the childlessness that is making you cope with all this bullshit. I pray the Good Lord gives you your own child. As for him, he did the crime, let him do the time. Abeg calm down before you worsen the whole issue. Thank God you are not her. Op you are handling the matter well so far. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: 10 Places To Visit In Nigeria During Christmas Holidays by djoe21(m): 12:37pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
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Crime / Re: Colorado Santa Lookalike Robs Bank, Throws Money In Air Shouting Merry Christmas by djoe21(m): 12:14pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
The bank and the man, I wonder who the real thief is.
D'Economist. |