₦airaland Forum

CuntMiner:
like how do u get to deeply love ur girlfriend or wife if it was another guy dat de flowered her b4 u met her been tryna go past dat thought,just cant,so another guy don chop chop u before i come meet u,and u want me to love u sincerely and deeply like an angel,what angelic about u ....no joke pls

You must be a young dude. When the time is right, you will know.

LewsTherin:
This year will be 8 years we've been married. We started dating during our university days just about my 2nd year. We dated for 7 years before I asked her to marry me. We were engaged for exactly 1 year. 16 years all told.


And it's been great!

So for those on Nairaland who keep crying about how marriage is a terrible institution, for thise who wonder how they can stay faithful year on end, for those wondering how their spouse can be faithful year in year out, I can only say

It's very possible.

Magnify the Lord with me for 16 wonderful years with my Lady.

Thanks for sharing. I pray your marriage last forever with love and happiness!

Omojudy:
Maybe she feels you just don’t trust her? Can u try looking past the dressing as long as her privates are well covered and focus on showing her love? I wouldn’t want my man always reporting me or nagging over my dressing. The report go vex me pass.

http://astrongnigerianwoman.com/

But you are addressed the way you dress. Dressing well is not all about private part covering.

Although, I feel the op's wife has always dressed that way even while they were courting but the op probably overlooked it thinking she would change.

Omojudy:
Maybe she feels you just don’t trust her? Can u try looking past the dressing as long as her privates are well covered and focus on showing her love? I wouldn’t want my man always reporting me or nagging over my dressing. The report go vex me pass.

http://astrongnigerianwoman.com/

But you are addressed the way you dress. Dressing well doesn't mean covering your privates only.

Although, I believe like someone said earlier, she has always dressed that way while they were dating but the op formed a blind eye.

Bluehill1051:
Maybe her grand parents or maybe even their village chief! Bastard he-goat! You'll soon die miserably!

Really? So he has to die for his comment.

Seen your blog. It's nice. Went through all topics. You write well.

PrimadonnaO:
Lmfao! Literally!

Why should you miss him. Am I not enough!?

Dear OP, you're not ready for life yet, trust me... if this is how you intend to be policing your significant other about.

These things aren't always that serious. Yes, you're overreacting! I talk to my both exes.

One is always sending pictures of us from way back whenever he stumbles on it. Just two weeks ago, I found one inbetween my books... from 4 years ago and I sent it to him. We laughed over it and all.

But trust me, there's nothing there. Perhaps, if I had a boyfriend like you and he had seen our conversations, he would have been jealous or upset. But really, there's nothing between us. I blocked him on Whatsapp but when either of us calls, we can stay on the phone talking for a decent amount of time.

But then again, I don't think I've ever told either of my exes that I miss them.

Women! They always think they are in control until something nasty happens

IbrahimSkiba:
Don't say what you don't know.

Oga I'm just 24

Not too young to be married.

I have just one question for you. Why do you want to be married?

IbrahimSkiba:
Mind your business

Calm down

blackangel0403:
Hi guys, i need your sincere advice pls, my sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for, life has not been fair with her, finally God brought a cute man who is based in uk her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in dec this year, the guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once’s she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry, note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her, sincerely speaking she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him befor then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy, now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be payed but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation? Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage befor she takes in? She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.

See what you are saying 'take in and secure him' like it works black and white like that. How old are you? Are you a teenager?

Your sister wants to settle down and she is clubbing up and down expecting to get a serious man. Even with her 2 kids.

I think both you and your sis have a flawed mentality about how stuff like this work. Please, don't take it as an insult.

noble71:
they deserve the best too but unfortunately I lost mine last two years.

Sorry to hear that bro. May his soul continue to rest in peace.

noble71:
God bless you bro. I placed mine on monthly Salary. Mother's deserve the best.

What of fathers?

jarmy:
Some have advised me NOT to depend on my wife's income for anything. Well, that means she equally have not right to question how I spend my money. Is that not separation?

I think this will create gaps in our home.

The best thing is for her to tell me how much she is willing to put on the table.

We both will then discuss what we intend to do with our income for the month or year. This is very import in a home. A man should know the financial status of his wife and vice versa . Many bankers have become rich due to financial secrets in homes.

Manner of approach also matters.

Since you already know how it should be, why then are you asking us? Seems like you are not actually seeking answers to your question but to tell us to demand the salaries of our wives.

jarmy:
I taught marriage should be about trust.

Trust is earned. Look inward brother; your attitude, words, actions, etc.

Blackivy27:
Wish i could give you a kiss.

suh true. 100%. All those, "my daddy in the lord" women.

Someone said you are 16 years but now I am doubting it. You seem way mature than that with some of your comments.

Fountainofyouth:
I wanted to comment on the thread, but the back and forth insults is really interesting, ride on.

You just commented

Blackivy27:
Same here to. Confusing topic.

Don't blame the topic, blame English language. It is confusing at times.

Toks2008:
Can you even have an herection for a lady you are not sexually attracted to?

Konji never hold you.

If this is actually true, then the Nigerian government needs to take action. Things are getting out of hands.



Ps: Where is that Xnostra babe or what's her name again? Please talk to your people o

This guy shouldn't have left.

Man Utd are just doing sky diving

Kvngyemi0407:
Did you take a good look at the pictures,¿¿

I did bro. Didn't see anyone that died as a result and neither did the write up say so. You might want to check the meaning of 'fatal'.

Sammy555:
yes bro

No wonder she fantasizes a lot about sex.

Blackivy27:
Why?

'cos I know you like sex. You fantasize a lot about it.

PrimadonnaO:
The point is, just ask so I'll know you're healthy and that you find me attractive.

Women. You'll just love attention. I guess that's how you are wired. It's all good though.

D1zion:
haba how can you say its not a fatal accident. Just look at the car how divided it it is & you're saying is this.just say God was with him that was why.he should go & do Thanksgiving & thank God for given him another chance to live again.

It was ghastly not fatal. An accident that is fatal involves death.

PrimadonnaO:
Get h*rny, beg, keep asking so I'll keep declining.

But to never ask? Hmmm. I'm not sure I'll marry o.

'...I'll keep declining'. Easier said than done .

Sammy555:
funny thing, she's just 16.....Well at that age, girls fantasize a lot about sex but don't have the courage to do it yet, they still believe they are keeping their V till marriage LMAO.... I give her 3 years at most sha

Really? She's 16? Hmmm.

Blackivy27:
Yes.
but finding a guy like that is like passing a camel through the eye of a needle. Impossible.

I know I will find you here.

Then it wasn't a fatal accident. Thank God.