midnighter:


Okay.

Yeah. And if such persons are trying to argue and insist that they are of the opposite sex, I upgrade them to scammers.

midnighter:


Lol what of those ones using pink (f) and going about spewing trash

I see them as being childish and unserious.

midnighter:


what joke...

Changing your gender.

Omojudy:

My bluntness Dey make me enemies fast. I am learning to move on from enemies rather than forcing friendships!

Of course it would. I don't think many people will like such openness especially in this part of the world. I like it though. And the one you did with a video (can't recollect the title) just shows how true you are to yourself and ways. It's quite refreshing to see.

midnighter:


Lol

Stop the joke.

Omojudy:

Pay the initial poster royalties
Nonetheless it’s just a phase, it will pass. I left my school ex and married someone, while in that marriage I wished I had been with the guy I left. Anyway that marriage died due to infertility as hubby then absconded. I got remarried now and I am sort of close to that first ex family, his wife actually, strange I know but it happens. So I see that ex once in a while he even does scanty biz with my hubby. Point is no physical attraction no more no now. His laugh sometimes Dey vex me. He is a cool guy though.
It will pass if one doesn’t try to pursue it.

I like how blunt you are sometimes. I guess that's why I was able to go through your blog. Enjoyed your write up. Wish you well.

midnighter:


Lol before

Iffa hear.

dapsoneh:
Kresty Fc
If this man is truly a rapist, he has girls too and he reads his bible
The sins of the fathers shall be visited on the children
God knows hidden things

Remember Prophet Ezekiel? He is the Prophet of 'Individual Responsibility'. You might want to read his book in the same bible.

midnighter:


Lol ive seen it oh. He shouldnt have let her film it

Are you now a male?

Made4naijaceo:
Daddy Freeze has reacted to the alleged sex tape of Pastor David Wilson of BibleWay Ministries & World Outreach Inc. located at Texarkana, Texas that's gone viral on social media.

The Pastor was spotted in the viral video performing a sex act on a lady that appears not to be his wife. At some point, he took a brief look up to the camera which meant he knew he was being recorded.

In his reaction, controversial Nigerian OAP Daddy Freeze said, 'Pastor Wilson’s case can never be “he manipulated me”, after that video, female church members would be more than willing'.



Source
https://www.made4naija.com/this-pastor-wilson-guy-is-mad-daddy-freeze-reacts-to-pastor-wilsons-sex-tape/

midnighter come and see.

The other day it was Tboss' brother. Today it is Linda's brother. Please who are the people creating these useless topics?! And who are the mods shoving them in our eyes in front page!

Now I am beginning to understand the twitter user that said he left Nairaland to go there.

Fountainofyouth:



Jeez relax and have fun, don't be rigid dude.

But still post the pic

Cherrybae:
Very ugly broke bitch. Husband snatched. Smelling pussy and illiterate.
I hate this fucking bitch of a girl.
Not my class hence no need commenting.
Nonsense

You just commented so she is your class.

I think my respect for this Yomi guy just dropped a lil bit. Such unnecessary reply.

I don't think Mike intended for anyone to take his statement so literally. For crying out loud, this guy just went for BBN without his wife!

In fact, when I saw shade, I thought Yomi's comment would have sexual connotation in a joking manner because Mike's post seemed like he was saying, if his wife doesn't 'cum' he wasn't stopping.

midnighter:


Yes, i mean ive answered them already and youve not replied

Really? Will check.

Femsyn:
He has been like this even before his friend came living with you, so, it wasn't triggered only by the presence of his friend. He only does this whenever theres a third party around.

I also had this tendency, cos somehow i think it comes naturally in some men ( I, inclusive). However, as soon as my wife pointed out her displeasure with it, I consciously stopped immediately. Why?

I didn't stop because it was convenient for me. I stopped, to make my wife happy and I felt it was the right thing to do at the time. Now, it's part of me.

Your husband needs to understand, his actions doesn't prove anything, especially towards someone he claims to love. Until this is done, I see no changes.

Ridiculing one's wife is ridiculing ones family, cos smart individuals know how well to interpret the awkward scenarios.

I dont know who needs to see this, but i know this behaviour isn't peculiar to your husband alone. And those in this same shoes need to change.

You are very correct. I like your comment.

franchasng:
Yes oh, as you celebrate with me, your time is sooner than you expected


My continuous advice to all young men out there:
pls and pls, don't let anybody deceive you, financial success is good, especially in a legal way. Don't rely on your academic degree....the world has changed, wealth is now everywhere, with internet technology, you can be working in US, Germany, UK, Switzerland while you are in your small bedroom in Oshogbo ....make good use of internet, internet is not just for finding babes and for playing around, as u play, make sure u are making money oh.......a friend of mine who was fired in a job he gave his all out of frustration decided he won't look for another job, so he started life on his own and with our encouragement, today this guy is executing projects worth millions to everybody's amazement....he can now change car twice in a year....now an employer and no longer an employee, I wished I could say all..but I repeat, if you are a graduate or no graduate and you cannot find a job or a good paying job, don't give up, believe in yourself....make the right friends with similar vision as you....remove pride and shame, believe me, its just a matter of years and you will be smiling.

And once you succeed financially, and with the right attitude, you will definitely start meeting super classy ladies you maybe thinking its a dream, I stop here for now

True.

osagieomoruyi:
Hello house please I need your good advice on this. Which viable business will I start with #50,000 to #100,000.

You can do mini importation. Just know the right product to import.

franchasng:
My brother, if I narrate things eh, Nigerian internet will catch fire


Despite her cla , I bless God for giving me such a person, now I can close my eyes in peace, no more worries.....mhen, time settles every issue in life, all you need to do is focus....keep working hard and be prayerful no matter your sins.....money is good, I pray every hard working, focused and ambitious young man doing legal things to succeed finds favor and makes it in life, it makes life easy

You are very right bro. Happy for you.

midnighter:


Oh you meant a general pm? I replied and you didn't say anything

If by this you mean the initial permission request, then yes.

Fountainofyouth:



Pls go and sleep, don't smile at me.

Funny lady.

Fountainofyouth:



Oh so now I'm the bad person? Is this physical or a faceless forum? Which one is silence again? You chose to attack a female over a male becos my response struck a nerve? Y'all are shameless here, women hating shameless boys.

So you see that as an attack? Well didn't mean to. Simply stating a point. Reaction is powerful!

franchasng:
I am also one of those lucky men, my would be is already making my small brain go world wide web, nothing beats a humble and peaceful woman, it can provoke you to worship her in return

Sincerely.

midnighter:


Oh you meant a general pm? I replied and you didn't say anything

No, a personal dm. Just sent another though.

Fountainofyouth:



So what, I should have let the rubbish he typed slide abi? Are we practicing marriage here

We are not practising marriage but we are discussing a marriage related topic.

And yes, you could have let it slide or reacted in a much better way. Remember what they say about 'silence'. Anyways, it's past now.

midnighter:


The fact that you focused on her reaction rather than what actually caused her to say all that is the genesis of all the problems we are discussing

I bet if she had insulted him first you would have ignored the so-called "reaction" and told her to bridle her tongue

I didn't receive anything, maybe you'll send it again

Midnighter and 'conclusive statements'.

Anyways, there's a great power in reaction, and that's my focus/point. If she had insulted first, I possibly wouldn't have replied her comment.

OK. I will send again.

midnighter:


But did you caution him for saying that rubbish in the first place? Because that's actually the real problem we are having in many marriages today...people are being pushed to the wall

I am not excusing his comment. It was very nasty but reaction matters a lot. It can better or worsen an already bad situation. That was my focus.


Btw, sent you a dm based on our discussion on that 'priest/catholicism thread' but didn't get your response.

LilMissFavvy:
I am jelous

Just shoot your shot dear, it's allowed!

LilMissFavvy:
Hmm ... Your kind of men are rare. Your woman will love and respect you if she is wise. Only foolish women take real men for granted.

All these eulogy just for a comment? Remember talk is cheap o.

LilMissFavvy:
Ignore the basstarrrddd .........

Relax.

Fountainofyouth:



Everyman is not worth it, an irresponsible, diick hopping, stingy, uncaring mistake of a man is not worth the prestige of being called a father talk more of a husband.


Most boys on nairaland are nothing but efulefu and only good in getting drunk in bars and patronising prostitutes, not a family man.

You see the way you replied to that poster, it is the problem we are having in many marriages today. Fire for fire, in equal measures.

Aldebarann:
Well, I hope he equally respects & adores her. Every good woman deserves a man who cares, loves & makes her happy. May God give me a good & supportive wife & make me a good & loving husband. Amen

Your opening sentence was addressed in the last two lines of the op's post.