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eni4real:
Don't you think most of this new sexual expressions are motivated by X rated videos

Do you think her Wifd should be watching porns or making sexual explorations without carrying him along??

Do you think it is proper for her friend to suggest MouthAction as a kinky sexual methods for the couple??

I think the woman is deviating from the essence of marriage. She still behave like a single lady.. .

I hope the guy impregnate her fast in order to take her to another dimension of being a woman...

Oga all this your talk is not for these modern day women. They know and are exposed to too much.
And if you as a man don't up your game, they start looking somewhere else.
Look at this ops case, that woman has been exposed to something she never experienced before. That is the way women behave. That's how Eve was deceived and led Adam to sin. They are weaker and liable for there head to be turned or seduced easier.
It behoves everyman to keep watch and protect his family, to chase away trespassers and whatever it takes for a man to be watchful, he should do it.

eni4real:
If a Virgin wife (married as a virgin) cheat and therefore opt to leave the Marriage. Divorce her. No big deal...

Someone compatible with you will not resort to such infidelity..

Never go beyond your limit to please a woman...

That is why men die early...

Its not about going beyond limit to please a woman.
You dey talk divorce like you think say it is easy.
You divorce first one, come divorce the second one?

Most times many men are very selfish when it comes to making love to there wife.
They only care about themselves.
They don't care about there partner.


Majority of educated women you see today are very exposed. Even the ones that claim good clean girls. Women are very secretive, they can hide away things.

eni4real:
What kind of generation is this for God's sake?? And somebody will pay hefty amount of money as a bride price for that your ex?
May we not marry all these perverted slay queens... She is even proud of bestiality...

You never see anything.
This cuts across even the so called ones you call good girls.
Men need to wise up.
A lady her man is not handling very well dare jams a netter lover. Your own done be.

A married woman married as a virgin to an unexposed man, unfortunately and temptation by mistake jam one exposed man.
The woman had multiple mind blowing orgasm which she never had before.
The woman said so na this thing she dey miss.
She left her marriage, that she has been suffering.

Thats why any man marrying, find out what your wife wants and give it to her in abundance. Scatter her head, cheating will mostly be out of question because very many women are exposed today.

Neddstark:
Was that rape. That was consensual sex. He took advantage of her at 17. Most teenage girls have older sex partners. As you're thinking you're intelligent and all that. Ask yourself this, why did she stay in the church after that? If Fatoyinbo was successful, would she have done what she did? We all have different stigmas in our lives. So should we now hold interviews on how evil was done on us? This generation is full of misplaced weaklings i swear

Honestly I weak for this generation.
I will never ever criticize Buhati or any of our leader's again

Nigerians deserve the kind of leaders they get
Because we have a very senseless generation

MrBrownJay1:
Lol, so because I don't believe her story (that makes no sense) I must be a rapist....?! And it's with such biased state of mind that you want to judge this story?! Ok.....

Don't mind them
Very unreasonable set of people
They don't think
Little thing they start insulting people
Wonder why the Nation is messed up
There are many unreasonable people roaming around

Sergioaguero:
Even if the rumour happens to be true, when will the church stop being the only army that kills her wounded soldier in the battle field??.

I thought the bible said that if a brother be overtaken in a fault, let you that is spiritual restore such a one.? Galatians 6:1-3.. On my mind.

Why do we celebrate the failure of brethren more than we celebrate their success??. When they grow, we say they are not genuine but when they fall, we say we already said it.

This post is never in defence of anybody but why are we like this? I still remember the words of David to the Israelites when the news of Saul's death came to him.

Tell it not in gath were his words. Not even in the streets of Ashkelon. He has a reason, so that the daughters of the uncircumcised will not make jest of the lords anointed.

I see so many acclaimed Christians broadcasting and concluding on the trending matter of saints that fell.

Most Christians are not going higher because they have chosen to remain on the ground, waiting for the down fall of a life God has elevated. They remain at the back to enable them maintain their backbiting position.... Too bad.(nobody on my mind)

Never conclude yet that such can't come to you until you come to a height. The difference between what one is experiencing now and those that are not experiencing it is just time.

With time we'll still see your tomorrow. Let's be our brothers keeper and not their referee who blows the whistle to inform the world of their failures.

I stand with Christ.
I stand with the word of God.
I stand with the body of Christ.

A house divided against itself can never stand.

Let he that has no sin be the first to cast stones.

There is so much hypocrisy.
Majority of people condemning this man have done worse things.
Nigerians will leave a Nation burning and be chasing mouse while the Nation burns down
Very unresolvable set of people
Complete rubbish
I will never ever condemn that man never ever.
Arrant nonsense.

Most times I laugh at this feminists.
They claim educated, but I feel there education is a waste.
There are many uneducated, unenlightened and unexposed people but they still have good marital bliss in there union.

I see mechanics, drivers who you can say are nothing married to unexposed women but they have very peaceful homes, raising there children well, educating them well.


But most of the so called educated can never ever know what it means to have a peaceful home where love reigns. They cannot know that, all they have around them is chaos, trouble and no peace of mind.

Having a peaceful home is one of the greatest gift any human being can have. But I am sorry for them because there attitude can never allow them to taste such.

Having a peaceful home is not rocket science. If you are toxic and troublesome, how can you experience such?

Guys better watch it
Ensure you avoid anybody toxic and troublesome. Ensure that a good wife and peaceful home is attainable by you no matter what you see going on in today's world.


My little piece of advice.

Bolustical:
One thing I like northerners for is their ability to be successful without making noise.

Check the top estates in this Lagos, you will see them enjoying their lives without making noise unlike some chest beaters who won't let us rest with their drug monies.

How many times have you seen Dangote children go to their villages for the sole purpose of flaunting their cars?

And the same estate you are talking about, plenty of those chest beaters you are talking get there own properties there.

Many people will come online and be making noise. And those estate you are talking about, is strictly secured. If you are not a resident, you can't even get access to it. Noise makers everywhere

OgogoroNo2:
A prophet has no respect at home. That's the story of TB Joshua.

True I have looked into this man matter.
In his country he is ridiculed but the entire globe so much respects him.

There is no man of God in Nigeria that is revered by foreigners like this man

After all Jesus said a prophet is not honored in his own town

maybachmusic:
Ever heard of the Renaissance
Which gave birth to the industrial revolution?

Hope you know at a time the church burnt people at the stake who said the world was round

Burning peopled at stake was done when the Pope was the defacto ruler of Europe.
The Bible was not allowed to be printed for public use but was kept in the monasteries
Anybody found with a copy was burnt at stake


Which resulted in;
Martin Luther led the Reformation in Germany
The British founded Church of England
Then pilgrims migrated to the new discovered world called America which was founded on biblical Judea Christian foundation.

The industrial revolution way after the Reformation.

maybachmusic:
Well question remains unanswered

The grammar missed the answer I guess

If everyone was focusing on afterlife . we wud still be in the stone age and intellectually lazy

Like Africa is currently

That's where you got it wrong
I mentioned the Jews, biological children of Abraham
The writers of the Bible
There is no race on earth that is more successful than them
They have more Noble laureates in science, chemistry, physics than any other race in the world

US UK and many Anglo Saxon nations like Canada, Australia, new Zealand etc were founded on Christian biblical Judea Christian foundation.

Africa is still even shallow in true religion
Because a developed man can conquer his world

maybachmusic:
Ever been to the afterlife?

Man is a spirit, has a soul and lives in a body.
The spirit of man is meant to be the driving force.
When a human develops his spirit, he can have the ability to see not just this life but afterlife

Jesus defined God for us in John 4; God is a spirit. But humans also have spirit which is what we term being born again
Born of the spirit
Your spirit man has been born anew

maybachmusic:
If karma was real


People like buhari. Obj and abachas killer mustapha would have been long gone

The mistake majority of humans focus on earthly achievements and successes


Man is trans generational
People always look at the now.

God told Abraham I will bless your seeds
Thousands of years Abraham's biological seeds the Jews are still greatly successful

If you read the Bible
God will say you and your children.

This earth is like practice, recital
The afterlife is the real deal
And you prepare for the afterlife from life now


But truth is that majority of humans have no clue to this. So they only live for the now. And by the time they are close to there death it becomes too late. They go into afterlife without any result which is the currency for trade in the afterlife. They go empty handed, a very scary situation.

I believe in hard work hustles success and good life
But on the scale of weightier things
Earthly success is dust, trash, vanity worthless
It cannot guarantee you the real life which is the afterlife

AmazonTopaz:
That is why things would continue to change for a more better, just and equitable society

Sure things will continue to change, but for this continent, it is still a long way. Gay rights and acknowledgment are still frowned upon. So Africa is still long way to go.

In Nigerian politics how many women are governors, senators etc very few. So Africa is still a long way, but little by little changes

AmazonTopaz:
@djon78,
Why should women alone be the upholders of the so called morality that is double standard men should be held accountable for their irresponsibilty and not given a way pass.
Why hold and judge women alone if you fail to hold the men no need holding women. It is better that both genders are immoral than only one gender having to be the upholder of the so called morality.

No need to preach this is Africa, Africa is not the only continent with culture and besides what has the "this is Africa"phrase done for us has it helped us with good leaders, good economy, stable power supply good roads and what have you.
Stop focusing on the negative of the west alone because even your so called africa and all it's values is nothing to write home about.

See we cannot run away from practices that have dated thousands of years back. From time immemorial, through history women have been judged more on morality/societal standard more than men.

Even the West you are talking about was it not 4 to 5 decades ago women liberation etc started
They have been a very traditional society until recent, some decades ago

UjuJoan2:
People just want to put women in a box, and tell them what they can and can't do. But who is telling the men?

Why are people willing to accept that chilvary is dead, and yet don't get that women are no longer 'blushing brides'

Modernization has changed the world . . . we need to get used to it and stop trying to take us back to the stone age.

Irrespective of all the argument here.
Men and women are not judged with the same yardstick. There are things a man will do and get away with it, woman can't.
So it is not about putting women in a box.
Moreover this is Africa, where culture still reigns supreme. Example gay rights, acknowledgment, and acceptance is still shunned completely in this continent.
In addition very many Africans are still unexposed. Very few are even connected to the internet. Example during present presidential election, the main party were telling us social media don't win election, because ignorance, still abounds plenty.

It is just very few significant part of the population that has a bit of enlightenment. With all these gender movements, very many women I meet on daily basis are still submitted to our cultures and norms. Even many young women of this present generation too.

Modernisation will definitely come in little by little but it will take many generations ahead for it to be.

So the Op is right in her submission.
The truth is that men have always been wayward, but women have been the calming effect to morality in the society. But when women now champion waywardness then there is no hope for that society.
You may point Western world, but there society is declining small small. I have read a lot of research where Western societies are being warned of the dangers ahead.
And finally the best model for emulation is even Asian societies. They have never allowed western culture to override there own. They are still highly developed, advanced but still very disciplined people. That's why countries like Japan, South Korea, Singapore, Taiwan, hong kong , even Arabs like Dubai, Qatar, have outstanding quality of human life like western countries but sound cultural balance. These countries should really be the role model Africa should copy. But if Africa continue to copy the West, development, advancement will be far away from us, this continent will continue to perpetuate in misery, backwardness and poverty.

lilwetdick:
so why castigating the thread for believing differently..it either you are allign to their school of thought or you are a hypocrite.

Mr man you don't subject what you believe on someone else. What's wrong with the type of this mindset. And you call yourself educated.
Its barbaric, backward, someone really enlightened doesn't behave this way.

Even if you feel they are missing it, you shouldn't be insulting them and talking them down. You could criticise them in the right way. Not casting insults on them. Typical Nigerian mindset.
@pashingshot from his analysis was more enlightening. He never said he was part of the movement, but he was able to understand there grievances but also highlighted were they are missing it.

Feminists are doing there own. And it has crept into our society so much. How many women do you see coming to castigate them. I am sure you may even be a supporter of them.

pansophist:
Just say you can't disprove the above, not excuse. How is asking you to defend why you call the mgtows losers an incitement to argue? I doubt the average Nigerian have not heard of the word mgtow before, which ones did you know that only go for the 1/10 girls? You expect men to listen to women's problem but won't listen to men's problem, especially when the problem was predicated by feminism. Jumping on the bandwagon and demeaning their philosophy without actually listening is what people who lack empathy and reasoning does.

See you don't even need to argue with some of this people. There line of argument lacks intellectual depth.
I don't belong to any movement, but I find it very absurd for someone to open a thread castigating people for whatever they believe in, when others are doing there own.

Its there choice, why break your head over someone's matter?

The real issue is that there are many movements springing up in this modern times. Women have been championing Feminism movement. So men are now championing the redpill mgtow or whatever you call it movement.

And op for the movement you were castigating, your lamenting cannot stop anything.
I even believe Ubunja has gotten very massive following on this forum, just like feminist do there own.


So your coming online to blast them to me is more of rable rousing or just making noise.
Whatever there movement, its there right, you cannot force your own views on them


That's all I have to say here

Nna that bros dey vex seriously
Haha this type, him woman dear not mess up, he go deal with an seriously

But na wetun fits some of these girls. They even like this kind of man
Forget pretence

ubunja:
you don't have to put down people who read my work. they're not sheepish. that they agree doesn't make them dumb. that you got your wife through another approach doesn't make it the best.

as you Say it yourself you married a chief's daughter. that doesn't indicate game. she liked you. she had all these suitors and she CHOSE you. don't get it twisted. you were chosen.

and also a virgin is the best kind of woman. don't put down virginity.

Dude married politicians daughter and he is here bragging. I really laughed my head out.


Is it not people marry well brought up, smart , intelligent, well read responsible girls from classy homes.

Na politicians daughter he is bragging about.
Let any of my brothers say they are going to marry politicians daughter my Dad will disown them immediately

MariaLavina:
You have a point, but our perception of love differs. You are talking about the superficial love, I meant the natural unconditional love. And my question remain how can one suddenly start loving a person because he or she is the available one (the one that loves you). No matter how much I've read or heard about that, I can't seem to understand or even try it. The one I love is whom I love not whom I learn to love. Focusing on a person will only allow you get to know the person more but does not automatically make you love him or her.


Now , This is why I sounded a note of warning the other time. You lots make a mistake of generalizing your ideas, opinions and views. You think all women are the same and so should be handled same way. In your minds, what works for Stella will definitely work for Sandra and that's where you get it all wrong. Some women can not learn to love.

Then you focus on the ones that loves.
See I don't agree with a lot of Ubunjas articles and his views but this particular one is spot on, it is very practical experience in my life.

How can a man waste his time pursuing a woman that has no time for him? You leave precious time you should focus on business and adding value to your life, wasting it on pursuing a woman.

That is why we hear stories of men committing suicide because of woman. Total rubbish.

And the part he said about being a better you is right. Add great value to your self. Dress well. Speak well. Expand your world view and you will see you won't even have time for low lives.

Johnnyessence:
thanks for your reply, you hit the nail on the head. we are saying that the present crop of clueless leaders we have mostly in the south west are not helping this generation, some disgruntled elements of followers are brainwashed to the extent of supporting them. well they may enjoy budilion and other clueless leaders money today but their children will asked them how they go about it. that's why mc oluomo really applied wisdom in sending all his children to abroad to study cos' he has seen the future already. still karma will surely back fire.

The problem with most of our people is that they live for the now, present. They always forget about tomorrow. Whatever one does today will reflect on his tomorrow.
The world is rapidly changing at an alarming rate. Nigeria needs to have adequately positioned herself for tomorrow. But just look at what is happening within our political space.

Many of our generation don't know the kind of horrible seeds this present leaders have been planting for our generation to reap.
By the time they realize it might be very too late.

But truth be told Awolowo will be turning in his grave right now. The present South West leaders are not doing anything for there people. Only enriching themselves and there cronies.
Awolowo left a great legacy of education for the Yoruba's, what is happening today?

10 20 30 years from now, all the seeds these present leaders planted will begin to harvest. Many of them will be long gone and forgotten, but there legacies will be there for all to see.
They have forgotten that life is transient, and will be only remembered by what you have done. Posterity will be the judge.

You are still a kid
You already had your woman and was still flirting and saying she is your cousin

You got caught
And you are now crying and begging
Dude you have a lot of growing up to do

That lady may not look your side again
You had no respect for her

It may not work out BTW you guys again
Learn your lesson
Grow up
If you want to flirt keep on
But if you want something serious
Be serious minded
Mature
Use this as a learning curve
Improve on yourself to better yourself
Not just because of a woman

If you work on yourself
You may end up with someone better than her

Cheers

CanadaOrBust:
Notice I used the word “store” not transact. Besides I’ve never heard of anybody arrested for paying with dollar. Some rich openly spray it at events

I understand your question.
In finance there is what is called hedging.
Personally one can hedge some of his funds in dollar terms.
Example I remember during Jonathan's time Naira had better value. $10000 then was between 1.5 to 1.7 million sometime in 2015/2016 it was 5million then later it has dropped to around 3.6million.

Actually one can convert some of his Naira to dollars and put it in his domiciliary account in Nigerian banks. This way he can hedge himself against the volatility of the exchange rate.

Companies have ways of hedging there transactions and those that don't get burnt.
Example I believe OANDOs woes came when they bought the assets of Conoco Philips with a better Naira to dollars, but after the fall in crude oil prices and depreciation of Naira the hit was too much for them.

CanadaOrBust:
Gave it that status based on what? That’s the question.
Besides u r wrong. There is no agreement. USA withdrew from Brentwood 50 years ago.

The guy is right. After second world war, US and Europe took over the global finance, and that is how it has been till today. Read up the Marshal Plan, how US funded the reconstruction of Europe after 2nd world war and took the driving seat of global finance.
The US have exclusive right to who governs the world Bank while Europe has exclusive right to who governs IMF.

So the global finance is controlled by the Anglo Saxons. US dollar is the accepted money for business around the world while the interbank offer rate for Bank transactions around the world is Libor London interbank offer rate (if you listen to Blomberg or other business news you will see its used both in Wall Street and other global finance centres).

basty:
They left Nigeria and still monitoring our economy. Monitoring spirit. They predicted that Nigeria economy was not out of recession when it was out of recession.

Fitch rates every economy in the world.
You can't escape them.
The world is globally interconnected, after all you need foreign investors to come in with there money to help your economy.
And Fitch ratings is one of the indices they use to know whether your economy is a good investment or not.

kevin25:
@Djon u deserve hot chicken pepper soup with cold life for what u have just said now... When a woman talks silly or act silly to d husband check her family very well her mother must be doing so to dia father

You just summarized my whole post.
Whatever you are doing with a woman, do due diligence, check her background/upbringing.
Who raised her up?
Many men have been burnt because they never did such.
There are still many wonderful, lovely, good women out there. Don't let these ones deceive you. Women that are still loyal to there men. Not these toxic ones. Be careful, be warned.

I believe Igbo presidency is talk of a mediocre.
What did Objs, Gejs presidencies do for there people? Did it make them better than other Nigerians?
What has Buharis presidency done for his people?
Has it shielded them from the poverty ravaging the land?

What we want is a president that will put massive development and improve the economy for everyone irrespective of where he comes from.

Infact it is a shame Nigeria is still talking about president from this tribe in this modern era where Nations are advancing at an alarming rate.

It is this tribal President talk that has made Nigerians to be running away as 3rd class citizens to the extent thousands of Nigerians that went to US on a visiting visa absconded and America is now dealing with everyone.


The world is advancing, great things are being done by other Nations, Our educational sector is in chaos yet it doesn't bother us
Rather we are clapping to vision less politicians.

I sorry for Nigeria