₦airaland Forum

truthsayer009:
Lmao, realistically speaking. The best way to balance the equation is to be Jobless or take a low paying job that would give you more time to stay with your wife and kids.

You cannot be earning a high 6 or 7 figures in Naira per month and not be working your ass off.

Women want your time & money, you have to forfeit both. Then live averagely Lmao.

crackhaus:
Chief as you can see, I never disagreed with her and I'm not in disagreement with you either.

Which is why this still stands


Do you agree?

babyfaceafrica:
men also need attention from their woman..OP has been working his self out ..he is down...he needs help from his wife....marriage is supposed to be symbiotic not parasitic!!!.....they both need each other for one to survive!!..Must the man do everything?. can't the women give support!!...

crackhaus:
If women require men's attention before their brains can function properly, then it's fair to say that men are also the reason most women breath.

luvyaself95:
That is it Good Woman is sweeter than money, but it's so pity for men of nowadays that choose boobs and beauty over Virtue and well mannered lady..

safarigirl:
the bragging is about encouraging those who graduated with third class to not give up.She is telling them there is more than one road to success and a poor graduating result, does not mean they cannot better themselves and stand out in other areas

You guys never understand context, you just want to be savage. She quoted a guy who posted his Third Class result, she was encouraging him.


Why are you people so triggered when third class and 2:2 graduates share their success stories on the internet? Is it only first class and 2:1 graduates that have success stories? Is it possible that everyone will be first class and 2:1? Live and let live.

luvyaself95:
When a man has a good Wife his mouth will never stop praising God And Praising His Wife...
Happy Anniversary Saka Don Port oh..

olaBC007:
Literally, you are right but this world is unfair. Those oloshos are those who marry real men with the dough after their years of frolics, this is because of their experience at giving a man mind blowing romance, they could have any man they want. Most playboys you claim they marry olosho ends up with a deeper life lady who can even wash their hands before they 'LIKE' their husband's post on social media this is because they've sampled girls of different sizes and complexion that they aren't moved no more and end up marry a peacemaker who couldn't trouble them because they don't plan to give up their playboy lifestyles anytime soon. Most times the naive good guys marry beautiful evening newspapers, in their mind, they are the most luckiest man on earth to marry a barbie, later on, those ladies starts to give them problem that they couldn't handle due to their naivety about women and... BOOM! they open thread on nairaland

Derinhenz:
And Tonto Dike and Churchillls marriage did not even last 16months


God's ways are just inexplicable.


He breaks some marriage's while strengthening others

Sterope:
You can keep lying to yourselves. If your sisters have a choice, they will not cook. They complain and moan about cooking every fucking time. In households with househelps, the women merely adjust for salt and spices.

Also, Folunrusho is not a model because she is rich. She is rich enough to delegate and spending time cooking is her choice.

bukatyne:
Dora and Folorunsho go to the market themselves after work or on Saturdays themselves and cook?

Most successful women will tell you the invaluable assistance of domestic helps who handles everything while they oversee.

You don't get it: it is not about the resource of money, it is about the resource of time.

Reference:
It is not a law. She may get a husband who is not crazy about food or too busy for such. I eat in my house about 2 months equivalent in the year. I am always on the move. No time in life for sundries. I eat anywhere I can get food when I'm hungry.

Chinny024:
Personally,I don't fancy eating anything else prepared by anyone else no matter how expensive the thou could be....NOTHING LIKE self-cooked meal...abeg!!!!
Once/twice a week,prepare yourself and enter market..You go see sey better things dey for we naija!!!..na your money and time!!!

nextstep:
Perhaps because people spend their time being efficient (on their talents, rather than on cooking because of some traditional notions of domestication), we have much more economic activity in Western Nigeria than in the East.

I'm from Asaba BTW, so that your replies may be better informed before you flame me.

Sethzenon:
As in ehh, like marriage is an achievement. I know a friend that got married and after some months things got bad for him and he lost everything. One day I was trying to encourage and motivate him and this dude was like “well all hope is not lost, atleast I rush marry before this thing happen”.

See ehh! the thing just off me.

Bomgirl:
My first wedding gift from hubby was a gas cooker and deep freezer. I love to cook. ( I hate washing clothes and dressing bed sha )
I cook soup and stew to last at least 2 weeks and refrigerate. What remains na boil yam, pasta, rice.... I even cook a mudu of beans and freeze too. There are ways to make this life easy.

simplycarro:
This is the way God humbles arrogant people. He will ensure you can’t feed without the approval of your enemies

Eberejesus111:
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1. They aren't afraid of him, what I believe is that these people feel different and Nigeria isn't helping as a whole. It isn't that they're small or they can't defend themselve but a unified approach to handle such disturbances especially from corrupt men who know what is right but fail to do what is right. Nigeria would have to come together and show to these people that they care and we are all one. God bless Nigeria.

2: The Igbos love to travel and most of them are not tribal fanatics they believe in prosperity and were they find such factors of prosperity they tend to flock there. Gradually there is an exodus of Igbos going back to their lands, MASSOB and IPOB need not to worry. We are still one Great country, under one GOD.

SIRTee15:
There are more dollar millionaire in nigeria than America??
That's a statement borne out of ignorance bro, pls don't repeat it...
When Google is just a click away...
For your info...
If there's anything at all that has remarkably improved in the last decade in America...
It's their number of mlionaires....
America has 14 million millionaires, the largest in the world....
The next country is China with 3 million....
Nigeria is not even ranked at all.....
Don't let the media hype of dangote, otedola etc fool u...
Nigeria elites is very insignificant, we not even number 1 in Africa.....

jaxxy:
Same Akon that said Africa is better than America. Akon is on an African self esteem and feel good mission. He saying what he wants to believe. Soon he will say Naira is better than dollars.

otipoju:
You still dont get it. Its not just rappers. Its a cultural thing. Most Americans make more money than Nigerians but they have a deeply ingrained mindset of spending their entire pay cheque and live from weekly pay day to pay day.

I once asked my colleague an african american why he would go and spend all his pay cheque at the strip club throwing one dollar bills to a female shaking booty, that if i do such ill feel like a slowpoke....all he said was " you gotta feed the birds".

Most of them get paid on thursday. By monday they are broke and begging you for money to fill their tank so they can come to work.

So making money is not the problem...keeping it is it. Plus they have a system that is designed to take all you earned and leave you to the barest. My own monthly expense on bills alone is roughly $2,500 every month.

Now i used to get irritated by their bad spending habit until i looked at them from a more empathetic angle.

They are descended from ancestors who where slaves for many generations. Up until like 1865,as slaves they did not earn any money, could not plan for the future cause there was none for them. They could not buy land, own property nor leave any inheritance for their children...Do i have any justification to blame them for living a life like there is no tommorrow?


Bro these things are deeper than the surface. While they may not be in chains right now, their minds are still not accustomed to the thought patterns that a mind that was never enslaved is easily capable of.

Each time i sit with any african american...i try to tell them that in spite of the sheet going on around them, opportunities unknown and only dreamed of in many places in the world surround them and they should take advantage.

dedolampy:
this is the first time in my life have been this pained by football. d pain is too much, i couldn't sleep, I couldn't close my eyes for 30mins without waking up from seeing the defeat in my dream. God please remove my emotions from football. please!!

sharpwriter:
You are very right ....me too i am very interested in the origin of we africans ... why we are how we are is extremely mysterious and can make someone mad if yu tink too much abt it

One guy told me africans are descendants of Ham, the son of Noah, and it was Ham's son Canaan that Noah cursed to be a slave I dont tink that is traceable. Also, Egypt being a force to reckon with in ancient times couldn't be ascertained whether they were real blacks or not ... at least the modern classification classified them as part of africa.

But it is either of the two you highlighted above or BOTH ... at least, one is correct there.... it is very bizarre ... one may be tempted to say divine forces are not in our favor ... everything just dey insane