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It works for some while it doesn't work for others. There are well to do women who still respect and submit to there husbands.

Shockingly its even the really affluent women that submit more. Example I ve been in a forum where Folrunso Alakija was saying that she submits to her husband, cooks for him, does pedicure and many other. That her wealth doesn't get to her head. I ve also heard Ibukun Awosika one on one of how she plays her wifely and womanly role at home.

Ngozi Okonjo Iweala with all her global connections still plays her role to her husband well.
Most times it is women that just barely escaped poverty will be running there mouth.


The problem with most men is that they don't scrutinize well before marrying a woman.
Family background matters a lot.
Young women raised by good mothers always make good wife. They play there role well even with a shining career.


Check the background of most of these ones making mouth and you will see they were not raised by good mothers.
Good Mothers have a way of driving it into there daughters nature to be a good wife to there husbands and children.


I have a cousin doing very well, married to a wonderful well behaved wife. This is a mother of 4 running her home efficiently. We were discussing one day and she said her mother trained all her and her sisters of the role of a woman in a home.


A lot have gone wrong in our society today. Families are falling apart.
So look well before you leap.
Use your head. Don't say I am in love, and overlook signs and warnings.
Do your background check very well.
Don't expose yourself and children to danger.

That's why people should use there head in marriage matters. Forget love.
You notice that most men that fall into this kind of issues always talked about love.

That's why I always question this thing called love. It makes one rid his sense of reasoning.

Men are meant to be Strong not wimps.
I believe the weakness of being in love on the men's side has led to many marriages hitting the rocks.

I don't mean being mean. But I mean setting your standard as a man, and only the woman that agrees and totally complies to your standards will you make your wife.

In addition being in a haste to get married also leads to this kind of story.
Don't be in a haste, take your time, be cool, calm and have a clear mind.

jaxxy:
I don’t roll with the African mentality. Cheap is not always cheap and I have nothing against Chinese. Microsoft built a software and it didn’t work. Huawei shud do consultations befor e jumping to prove and unnecessary point that all.

You don't roll with the African mentality?
Google business at the base of pyramid.
Let me ask you, what led to the emergence of emerging economies.
Why is Dangote the richest black man.
What is the secret of success of companies like Walmart?

See those that can afford expensive, premium things are very few in the world compared to those that can afford cheaper stuffs.
And many become billionaires by serving the poor example Tata group of India started that way but today range rover, and many other brands are under there group

jaxxy:
It’s not about creating software pls. Even Samsung have had their own os bt have rolled it out for sm reasons. Huawei is trying to bit more than thay can chew.

I appreciate their resilience and innovation bt they need to understand the art of dialogue and due process in sm issues. Samsung and iPhone have sorted most of their issues out and they are still the top seller of phones.

Note anybody can make a software it’s about the utility and robustness of the software that counts. They shud consult Microsoft and blackberry b4 they waste money. Abi will the Chinese govt force the Chinese to use it by force like they like to do?

The reason with most of you is that you guys don't know how the globe operates.
One of the things I learnt in management school is that Asian businesses run there businesses as national pride. They run there corporations to sustain national Glory.

During the 1997 Asian financial crisis that rocked the globe.

Other major global financial crisis was 1929 financial crisis which Germany survived more than other Nations which enabled Hitler to be capable of financing the second world war.

Then the 2008 financial crisis that hit the entire globe.

In the 1997 crisis Japanese companies that were spread around the globe began to repatriate huge funds home which helped to mitigate the free fall of there currency and economy. Americans and Europeans don't do such.
Asian firms are very patriotic to there Nations that's why Chinese government has taken this Huawei issue very personal

ibietela2:
I guess they have been working on this OS for a while now unlike Samsung that is unserious with tizenos

The Chinese have been deep in research and development. R&d is the bedrock of technology advancement, and for them to have advanced more than other Nations in 5G shows that there r&d is top notch and advanced.

Our world in the the next 10 to 30 years is scary because there will be serious inventions of things never known to man

martineverest:
waste of time..who will use a phone without Facebook,Google, Snapchat,Twitter, whatsapp, Instagram, YouTube,Skype etc?..the world uses huawei phones cos of Google's playstore and because it uses american software.whonwill buy a phone with Chinese os apart from china?

tizen OS(Samsung), windows phone and blackberry is were strong enough but couldn't penetrate

If they can create an OS successfully, you think they can't create alternatives to those ones.
Most of you don't understand what's going on, they have shown these guys the danger of dependence only on American technology.
Now real competition will begin, there monopoly in global technology can be broken. That's how scary it is now

Aboki11:
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I dey suspect say na android US wan finish. This is what they call blessing in disguise because this people are really ready for US

How did America think that people that are already leaders is 5G do not have the capability of developing there own operating system?
5G is much more advanced technology than operating system technology.

These dudes have already been thinking outside the box tey tey. And they have one of the most efficient R& department within the technological market globally.

Android may get a serious threat in the months to come.

Litmus:
Nigeria is Nigeria not Japan, China, India, South Africa or America. Its not logical to condemn Nigeria for not being like those places. But of course what happened was that a criteria was set by White West.

Who is talking about logical?

We are talking about development, advancement. If Nigeria is developing, will there be mad rush of her citizens to run away.

Litmus:
Ask majority of you why is Nigeria "bad'; what makes Nigeria the place you say you dislike in one form or another, chances are not one of you would be able to do so from the perspective of your Nigerian ethnic culture. Your views on Nigeria would invariably be from the perspective of White West. The way the black world entered into generational battles in order to satisfy the criteria White West claimed you did not possess and which made you physically ugly humans is the way they control your values in all aspect and make you hate yourselves in everything.

once you never hated yourselves for abandoning twins in forest, condemning certain members of society to seclusion in the name of gods and you happily scull-mind. Now you abandoned all that because the White West made you do so. They succeeded in making you do so by making you develop a hatred for your ways. They made you see the "errors of your ways". Now you see errors in all your ways and can't stop doing so. Indeed, i can tell you now, you may never be satisfied in anything unless you become White and are the West.


Nigeria is great, make her greater by being Nigerians and developing new Nigeria perspectives.

Who is talking about white and West
Is Japan, Singapore, Korea, China, Dubai, Malaysia, etc West? A trip to some of these Nations will show you how much the gap is.
Who is talking about west.

Litmus:
All nations in the world need fixing. No nation is FIXED, all are works in progress - literally. There'd be no need for the concept of heaven in dreams if a Developed Nation existed on Earth. The tragedy of Nigeria is that they have been successfully fooled into believing that there are nations out there that are "Developed" ( Perfect even) instead of what those nations are, which is different not even Developed let alone superior palaces. The tragedy is that Nigerians are being driven to self destruction. What constitute perfect human living conditions is something for philosophical debate. I've been to places in Jamaica where Rastars live off the land, have no electricity, fetch water from stream, wash clothes in stream , sleep in zinc and stick sharks and are perfectly happy and do not want to live the Western lifestyle. The African American Searching for Uhoru left a corporate America existence to come share in his dream of a different type of living in Africa. Scenery for scenery, infrastructure for infrastructure, space for space, Africa is not better than America Yet he is willing to leave all that behind in order to live in Africa. You know why? See, beyond his dream for self respect in finding a common purpose with his African kin, he understands that life could be a different thing from all that American Electricity, high rise buildings, smooth car highways and insufferable sense of superiority destroying the humanity of the whites there. He understands the meaning of Quality of Life. He understands that fulfilling life is a complex combination of things.

Upshot, stop down talking Nigeria. Nigeria is great.

Delusion grandeur

Ugosample:
don't mind them

Nigeria is in hot soup at the moment

Yet we have millions of IDIOTS who cheer this demonic gov't that got us there in the first place

now today is the national assembly elections
And we have useless youths cheering at the prospects of a suspected terrorist, spineless stooge, suspected U.S. felon and others leading the legislature

And you think Nigerians are not mad

It has not yet dawned on many people what is actually facing this Nation presently.

The world has marked and remembered Nigeria. Even the high and mighty cannot get away with it. Example US visa, maximum they give now is 3 months, even if you had 10years before, and you must que in line at the embassy.

Nigeria has been completely battered, I heard from some sources that many multinational firms are exiting Nigeria. That MTN is leaving Nigeria too.

Many people have not yet understood what is happening. Many people with good paying jobs are exiting themselves and families to especially Canada PR.

Many Nigerians don't understand yet what is happening. They are still living like ostriches, burying there head in the sand

djon78:
And how can you come to that conclusion about him?
Has he been tried and proved?
Dude is not even up to 2 weeks in office
Moreover his predecessor didn't leave him any handover note, unlike how it is done elsewhere

For him to know the condition of the state he will need to engage forensic auditors to know the true condition of things. This ain't rocket science

Stated this somedays ago and it is happening exactly as I predicted spot on.

https://punchng.com/ihedioha-to-conduct-forensic-audit-on-state-treasury/amp/

deomelo:
Unfortunately for you, your question doesn't alter the fact that the man is grossly lazy, backward, incompetent and stranded in office.

The fact that other people haven't excelled doesn't mean he shouldn't do better and surpass them so you made zero sense with the other people excuse. And even if Nigeria is light years backwad, then he is heavy and dark years backward.

The ancient and obsolete phone is just another reflection of his backwards and incompetent state of mind.

A leader with zero sense of modernity cannot modernize his society or anything sef.

And how can you come to that conclusion about him?
Has he been tried and proved?
Dude is not even up to 2 weeks in office
Moreover his predecessor didn't leave him any handover note, unlike how it is done elsewhere

For him to know the condition of the state he will need to engage forensic auditors to know the true condition of things. This ain't rocket science

deomelo:


People buy phones for so many reasons, not to show off. To some people, it's about productivity and the need to get more done in less time.

If you love old and obsolete gadgets because you are cheap and love to save money, good for you, but the downside of you being cheap is getting left behind, getting buried in the past, digital ignorance, lack of latest innovations, zero knowledge of digital productivity and trends, [b]lack of personal sophistication which means it's hard to innovate and do sophisticated things.

Not adapting and reacting to the fast-moving digital world around you means you are personally and mentally backwards and in effect doomed to fail.

Now we know why the ma is stranded like a deer caught in a headlight, he's clueless.[/b]

Abeg leave all these so called sophistication, we just love to blow big grammar.

Where has Nigeria gotten to in the modern world with all the so called sophistication.
what innovations are being implemented in this clime.
What development indices are being achieved? When there is so much backwardness
When the nation is still at the backwaters of development

You don't use those words because this Nation is still light years backward.
Those words are meant for those who truly understand and practice it truly.
Instead of those using words too big for them

deomelo:
What you call humility is total backwardness and lack of any sense of adaptation and modernity needed for maximum efficiency and productivity.

It's like having and working with a 1999 computer with a floppy hard drive and 512MB that cannot perform any serious task in 2019 while claiming humility. People need performance, progress and modernity, not humility because you are personally cheap and attached to obsolete relics.

That's not true, most times many people live fake life, living above there means just to impress.
In fact most people that show off no even get money, the real dudes that have money don't show off.
It is because of this show off we have many criminals in public sector, including Yahoo Yahoo boys.
I used to live that show off life before, but hanging around wide people taught me grate lesson. And financially I am so much better off. No stress, no worries, and growing financially at a very good rate even in this Buhari period were majority are under serious financial stress

More reason why people should be careful and not ending up with horrible humans.

Many don't have purpose for marrying

Before you marry check something's

Marry someone that both of you shares same values and ideologies. Most times people marry for the wrong reasons and get burnt.

If you don't have a tangible good enough reason to marry the person you are prospecting. Then don't marry. Or you will regret it.

Because there are so many issues with today's marriage.

Topmaike007:
a thief spotted

You dey mind him. See how he was supporting fraud. That's why I don't mercy for them when efcc deals with them.
They are complete evil

Freedem:
There's no love hate between Igbo and Yoruba. It's hate hate.

We all know some Igbos are civilised, you remember those Igbo types we grew up with, you won't even know they're not Yoruba until they tell you.

However the real indigenous Igbos are genuinely full of hate , this people will not hesitate to wipe out Yoruba people if given the chance.

Story story.
The Igbo's even have better relationships with the northerners despite the bad blood between them in the early part of commencement of this country.
Northerners have great respect for the Igbo man. I live in Abuja and they are more accommodating. They understand the values Igbo bring to them.

While in the West, its all quarrel quarrel despite the values Igbos have added there.
But most Igbo's are not hearing, where you are not valued, avoid there.

iykemyke:
You are very right. The only billionaire in america with a large family and not even him or his kids smoke or take alcohol. He is a hard worker and tries to be the best.
Check whem obama went to china and trump and even check obama visit to saudi arabia and trumps visit

Ya a great family oriented man.
Even though he had three marriages, he still built up his children and family well.

Moreover most of those countries have been hearing about Donald Trump very many years before he became president.

I really like the man, he get class and levels

Topmaike007:
I am pretty sure the bank gave out her details to be wired, because I asked her if she Did not disclose her bank details such as her Visa debit card details she told me when she is not stupid to release it and I know very well that an undergraduate studying Computer science will not be so daft to do so

See most of this fraud, the bankers give out your details to the fraudsters.
They work hand in hand with them.

Topmaike007:
The money was almost 50k, after I persuaded her that we should go to the bank and show them free madness,she said that that is the end of using access Bank that the money was also change and then I yield to her request not to go, what pained me most was that she was with me when those useless thieves wired her money away..

Your girlfriend was a stark illiterate.
See as long as the bank called to show they knew about the transaction, they were privy. You guys must have demanded a total refund.

The truth is that many Nigerians don't know there Right. And for info most of these fraudsters work with bankers, yes.

maasoap:
Easier said than done.

You can say what you want buy it is crass stupidity. Many people are illiterates when it come to there money.
How can you be buying things online with an account having 800k in it.
You are exposing yourself to huge risk.
I don't make that mistake

Guyman02:
This is why many people are going back to analogue banking, no ATM, only cheque book. ATM account is only for small amount which will not be felt even if the account is wiped out.
They simply go and queue in the banking hall to collect their money

You hit the spot.
Is it not stupidity exposing your account with huge money to online transaction. I don't make that mistake. My main money accounts no even get ATM card, I only do transfer.

Topmaike007:
my girlfriend Own was wiped out completely, that the bank have to call the following day apologizing that they Saw the illegal transaction on her account

Absolute nonsense, and she left the bank without doing anything. She should have followed it up because the bank was privy to it.
Something happened to my money in account, I went to my bank, they begin talk story, I threatened them immediately that I will pull every money I have with them, they had no option to return every of my money.

freeman67:
https://www.nairaland.com/5225440/student-loses-n800000-fraudsters-after

Nothing is impossible.. Its left for you to try and protect what you have and that of others you can protect.

OK I read this one.
The guy played into there hands.
I don't expose my main money to online transaction.
Even if I want to, it will be the card with less amount. You do online transaction with account having 800k, you are exposing yourself to fraudsters.

iykemyke:
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I watched that of obama pls. The queen has so much respect for trump.
Obama is like a boy to the queen and trump an alpha male. And regards the protest u talked about remember the press engineered it

The news even said that this was the highest honour ever given to a head of state.
Trump was more honoured.

One thing I always liked about Donald Trump, even before he became President is that he believes in being the best right from time.

There are many billionaires far richer than Trump, but they no near the guy for class.
Even the way he raised his children.

Is it really possible to Clear someone's account without the bank not being aware of it.
It still finds me hard to believe.
Someone clearing the money in account.

Americans don't even know that this might be an opportunity for a very good European OS to grab the market.

Why must it be only Android and ios

As for those saying us should ban there companies from manufacturing from China.
It is not easy, because China's competitive advantage is low cost manufacturing.
It is cheaper to produce goods in China than in any other part of the world.

China cannot be overlooked.
They have the second best economy in the world. China's middle class is almost the size of US population, over 300million, which is another goldmine, because the middle class have money to spend.
Analyst are projecting Chinese economy to surpass US in the next 10 years.

In addition they are now rapidly growing within the technological space, to the extent Huawei became global leader in 5G technology.
All these threats is why present US administration is coming hard against them. Because if they are not checkmated, nobody will see there back again.

ghuzy01:
This hamzat guy go show sanwo Olu some pepper.He is Damn too ambitious.i doubt his submission to his 'boss'. We dey watch

No I think Sanwo Olu is a very simple, down to earth kind of guy, that doesn't mind his deputy sharing the limelight with him.
And that's why they picked him as governor.
Unlike Ambode who looks like a pompous person, which made the powers that be to go against his second term.

Power always goes to humble people.