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God killed him because he was sleeping with his brother's wife with the agreement to make her pregnant but doing withdrawal method and spilling the semen. He was banging her for nothing which is highly deceitful. Stop twisting the bible, are you not afraid of God?

clintz:
In the Bible book of genesis 38 God kill Onan for refusing to impregnate his late brothers wife. Nigerian Christians and hypocrisy we select only what we think is right in the Bible.

Lamentations of a coward!

TripleOh7:
And mention when you've ever shown love to others, even to yourselves with your weird Oṣù caste system et al.

For you it has always been I Before Others.

Love is reciprocal!

TripleOh7:
I know you and your folks jubilate in your living room anytime you read of such news in the newspaper.

You see how desperately wicked you are?

Same fulani herdsmen killing and falling your women in the east.

What a shame!

The reason is the lack of unity of purpose btw Igbos and Yorubas. If the Igbos or Yorubas initiates a just movement to right the wrong, the others counters it just to spite and for supremacy contest! Hausa man has no ambition before so they like it like this

You created a thread on a public forum to lament about the corruption in Bubu's govt. You know this Nigeria project has failed but out of spite for Igbos you prefer to flog a dead horse.
You will also defend Tinubu's corruption but pretending to dislike corruption! Anybody that supports the unjust sharing of Niger Delta resources like you is a fraud!
I will not reply you further

omonnakoda:
I did not invite you to speak to me

Once again
I do not associate with fools and miscreants
Inugo?

Going through your comments and you childish insults and swears, who's the kid here?

omonnakoda:
You came here accused me stupidly and when called out are here talking rubbish

You folk are children.

Very emotional and immature. You cannot govern yourselves ever if you persist with this folly.

Do not make assumptions about me because they are wrong and stupid

After Bubu, vote Gowon to bury corruption! Yeye dey smell.
Coming here to tell us about #643 million spent on computers but will be quick to defend Tinubu bullion van saga to rig 2019 elections!
Lagos-Ibadan express only see other people's corruption!

omonnakoda:
You came here accused me stupidly and when called out are here talking rubbish

You folk are children.

Very emotional and immature. You cannot govern yourselves ever if you persist with this folly.

Do not make assumptions about me because they are wrong and stupid

After Bubu, vote Gowon to bury corruption! Yeye dey smell.
Coming here to tell us about #643 million spent on computers but will be quick to defend Tinubu bullion van saga to rig 2019 elections!

omonnakoda:
So I was not the one shouting one Nigeria?
You are a dunce

Were you not the one that will be quick to bring Nzeogwu or Zik anytime the Igbos mention restructuring or Biafra? If you refused to support restructuring or Biafra by drawing fallacious hypothesis how Igbos ruined it in the first place hence should not be allowed now, are you then not overtly or covertly supporting one Nigeria?Like I said you lamentations just began...why did you form Amotekun? At the fullness of time
the westerners would beg to leave Nigeria!

omonnakoda:
I have been shouting one Nigeria. OK if you don't provide evidence for that let all the curses ever spoken by man fall on you

I know you, you have been shouting one Nigeria and hating on Igbo and Biafra but las las you'll apply what they have been preaching. Your lamentations just began, Bubu will kill corruption indeed!

omonnakoda:
I do not associate with fools and miscreants

Yet you insist Nigeria remains the same even when it is not working. Las las una go dey alright

omonnakoda:
Lai Mohamed announced plans to buy 1200 Desktop Computers for the Customs st 643 million Naira
This works out at 643 000 000 1200 = 535 833 Naira for one desktop nearly $1500

Is this realistic

One would expect if you are spending that amount tou would get a discount and this seems highly inflated

The article mentioned printers without details

https://punchng.com/breaking-fec-approves-n623m-for-customs-to-buy-computers/

The Bokoharam, herdsmen, bandits killings are retribution for the 1966 pogroms. More of them have die compared to the people they killed in the pogroms

TripleOh7:
All you hear day in, day out is, "we are marginalized", "they hate us", "woe is me", blah blah blah.

I would have told you to get over yourselves already, but I know you can't.

It is inborn.

Reminds me of the jubilation of Igbos in the North after the coup when the northern leaders were killed like chicken plus the attendant cries of "We Igbos will dominate".

What followed was a pogrom and the attendant cry, "they hate us..."

Today, no one is talking about the initial jubilation. Just the resultant massacre.


Same thing here.

Kanu has been preaching hate all over the media.

He coined names like "Fulani", "yorrober" etc to denigrate ethnicities in Nigeria.

Names that his followers happily parrot in glee.

Now, they want us to believe that the hate is unjustified.

Only people who don't know you fall for your tricks.

You assume they cannot negotiate with any of the igboid groups in South South. What makes you think any of the igboid group with access to the sea will prefer to go with Ijaws? Or you think Niger Delta is one tribe?

Gabkosh:
Leaving is not my issue here. Many countries are living without yet landlocked. All I am saying is that your brothers are just circumambulating on nothing. Accept, igboland is landlocked because no coastline in igboland. But that does not mean they have no access to sea through navigation. They must pass through another sovereign nation before they can see any sea or ocean.

Just like Mali and Niger.


Having access to sea does not mean you are not landlocked. This is simple education.

And what do you mean they won't remain the same. Everyone will for their separate ways.

Yorubas will go
Igbos will go
Niger delta will go.

But you igbos will have to pass through Niger delta before you can get to the sea.

What a f00l the Op is! Such a moronic sissy! Scolding your mum for a liability and a bitch and you had the effrontery to say it in public? Ode!

What is the disadvantage of being landlocked if you have unrestricted access to the sea? Mali and Niger you mentioned will not embark on the most expensive shipping route just to prove a point. For every decision of this nature, there is economic consideration.
Besides, you assume if Biafra leaves, the rest part of Nigeria will remain the same, do you really believe this?

Gabkosh:
All this story na wash. So far none of you can show any coast in east, I am done with you all. You can keep posting pictures and draw lines from heaven. It doesn't change the fact that your land is landlocked. All these one is just trying to show you have access to sea. No one is disputing that. Even Northern Nigeria has access to sea too via Rivers. But it does not change the fact that your land is landlocked.
Mali and Niger are both landlocked because they have no coastline. But can get to the sea through the same river Niger. That is the same thing with your region.

Igboland is landlocked, get used to that fact. Thanks

Can you see coastline below. Let see and from igboland.

Pic 1 ondo state

2 Ogun state

3 Lagos

4 Bayelsa.

River Niger passes through Onitsha. Haven't you been to Onitsha bridge and the second Niger bridge being constructed? One side is Asaba the other side is Onitsha and the middle is the River Niger.

helinues:
Passing through SS or you don't know what you are saying?

The constitution at independence has been abandoned since the 60s or 70s. Even if there was secession clause, we no longer use that independence constitution. When will you understand this rather than repeating a debasing lie? How come Azikiwe was able to oppress Awolowo, Balewa, Amadu Bello etc? Be guided!

flokii:
All you've stated could have been avoided if not for Azikiwe, Ironsi and the Easterners who fought the inclusion of a "SECESSION CLAUSE" in the constitution.

It could have been so easy. Anyone who wants to leave could leave without bloodshed but NO, Azikiwe out of greed and hope of Igbo dominace blew it all away.

So you see why we say the Igbos are the architect of this failing system we have today. The recklessness of their leaders in connivance with the North ruined everything.

Come 2023, Yorubas will take over governance in Nigeria and things will change.

Beautiful, educated, respectful!

How did you become a sisi? No offence but this is annoying. Was she that beautiful such that you considered yourself lucky to have her at the beginning?

noakchukibadan:
. Well, thanks for the advice, maybe I forgot to say that she places huge importance on birthdays, for her I must throw a party, every year for 7 years, and she can not even remember mine. Just to say happy birthday ?

What kind of life is this? The church is meant for man and not man for the church. He should divorce and and seek happiness elsewhere. No need trying to manage a stone, nobody is indispensable!

bukatyne:
You realize that the error is all yours for not choosing well.

For that, you are half way there.

You mentioned that you married in the Church: brother you know that except adultery and I will say abuse, you can't divorce your wife.

You have tried counseling, reporting her to family etc. etc. and it has not worked.

Now, I want you to try changing your reaction to her attitude. You have been married long enough to 'predict' her actions/inactions.

She forgot your birthday, fine. Celebrate yourself. Go out with the kids, go out with your friends etc.

She tries to keep malice, apologize and move on.

I know it is hard, it is abnormal even however you need to build a shield in your heart so that her attitude doesn't get to you anymore.

Don't beg or cajole her to 'change' or 'be better' or whatever: you are telling her that she has power over you.

Thank God finances are not a thing: treat your self, go on vacations, do the certifications or courses you wanted to. Channel your emotions into the things you have always wanted to do, pick up new hobbies, go to gym and workout youf frustrations etc.

And prayers work: if not for her to change, for you to be whole mentally and emotionally.

It is well.

Divorce her, simple! You can now take time to look for a decent woman. And don't give excuse with your kids why you must remain except you wanna kill yourself!

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

Remember our forefathers married multiple wives so their urge is handled by several wives.
Now christianity came with one man one wife but does that men the urge has disappeared from men with high sex drive?
You said you did not have sex before marriage,
you can now see a compatibility issue that could have been avoided. Only safe solution is either to comply or get him to take a second wife else he gonna cheat with the risk of associated diseases!

Julietsim:
I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

Most of those women are using fertility treatments that's why they usually have multiple births which is a side effect of fertility drugs. In all the miracles you know, do you have a personal experience? Nor be dem say dem say o

honeyB2018:
Science and technology is yet to find cure for HIV, Epilepsy, Cancer etc, but God through the pastors, with prayers said in Jesus name have brought about healing to these
Science and technology have not explained to us, how a woman who has gone past her age of child bearing, will still take in and bear children.
Science and technology has failed to explain to us, how a woman, without a womb will still be mother of children. These and many more has God through the pastors have done.

Those states should have been expelled for real

This obsolete plane still using world war 2 turbo propeller? Yeye dey smell

Wheat from which semolina is made from has elastic property when exposed to water in a marshed state. This woman is just mischievous!

Foolish woman. Wheat Durum wheat becomes elastic if exposed to water for some time. Semolina is made from wheat

Praying Mantis

Praying mantis

GEJ

People recover without treatment. Just like when you get apollo or chickenpox, without treatment,
you will recover. Those with weak immunity
does.

horlarlorwor:
Apology to say these.

Nigeria, are you truly treating COVID-19 or you guys are Malaria?

News from affected countries have not treated any of their patient successfully. Is either they died or under critical condition.
Most affected countries still claims of NO VACCINE. How come Nigeria covid 19 patients who were positive were negative again under 7 days. Its seems something is not right.
Or will I say patient are diagnosed with 'positive' Malaria.

The likes of Abba Kyari, the real Carrier of the virus is yet to recover from it. Let these doctors treat Kyari same way other patient that tested negative after 7 days.

Please don't quote me wrong. I am not saying the virus is not in Nigeria but I think something is wrong somewhere.
If I may ask;
1) what VACCINE did our doctors use to treat the patient.
2) Let the government assist other affected countries with our doctors to show them the way out. Either by sending the doctors to their country or the drug they used to cure the virus.
3) Let the affected countries send in their doctors with 5 each patient to our country for treatment.

This will ascertain our doubting Thomas that the corona virus in Nigeria is truly defeated.

People doubting China recovery numbers, what about Japan, South Korea, Singapore, Taiwan etc?
You wanna compare the West who worship freedom and human rights even in emergency with the Asians who worship discipline?

Apart from these, the Asians have experience and as such built their system to respond to epidemics!