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Olisa Metuh was doing his own business. Where is Orji Uzo Kalu? The irony of Metuh is that they say he collected money from Dasuki but Dasuki is walking freely.

madridguy:
Anointed my feet You mean Olisah Metu also fought him?

He fought GEJ unjustly and because GEJ is an annointed one, all those who fought him are meeting the waterloo. Sanusi, Saraki, Kwankwaso, Dino, Atiku, Oshiomole met their shame. Amaechi and Tinubu have got it coming!

madridguy:
Congratulations to the new Emir of Kano.

This life is so unpredictable. Truly friends turn enemy are greatest enemies. Imagine Gov. Ganduje doing this to the former Emir, the same man Ganduje and his former boss, Kwankwaso fought for to be install as the Emir.

When they say tomorrow is pregnant, truly tomorrow is pregnant.

What's the point of going into a baseless argument?

FrLukas:
Just when I thought you were going to educate me.

Suit yourself, bye!

FrLukas:
You dancing around my question telling me you live in Canada.

Has a referendum been conducted?

It is a simple yes or no answer bro.

No country is gonna break up without collation of votes, unless they do so violently.

Most Igbos first choice is restructuring and this is the most sensible first choice. But a good planner always have plan B. If Nigeria keep insisting on no restructuring then plan B will be activated. Nigerians agree Nigeria is not working but the courage to restructure or reform is lacking. People are so comfortable in the status quo even when it has made us the poverty capital of the world and approaching the terrorism capital as well

Guestlander:
I personally believe the agitation for Biafra is to pressure the government into restructuring the country into a better federation where everyone will have a sense of belonging. I share the same sentiment, but I don't share the methods of IPOB and ipob supporters. I aso believe the majority of ibos would rather be in Nigeria, rather than replicating a mini Nigeria in the east where they will be confronted with the same issues they are running away from in Nigeria.

Did you watch Canada presidential debate?If you do then you'll wont be arguing. fyi I reside in Canada

FrLukas:
You didn't answer my question o.

Were you the one that conducted referendum in the state of California and the Province of Quebec to know they all want secession?

You were privy to such information but because you wanted to counter a thread, you ignored common knowledge. Scotland, Northern Ireland, a lot of states/provinces wants to secede despite being rich. A country might be rich but a subgroup may not like the direction the country is going.

Guestlander:
You probably think you are the only one privy to such information. How delusional.

Why are you guys always afraid to do research? Even with internet availability?

FrLukas:
Were you the one that conducted a referendum for them that made you know they want to secede? Or maybe a small band of people gather together holding tags and protesting and you conclude everyone in that state wants to secede.

The only thing preventing these places from seceding is the lack of seccession clause. Quebec especially wants to secede.
I just told you California wants to when you ignorantly mentioned California and now you started interpreting what they meant by their own seccession as trying to assert independence.
Joker!

Guestlander:
Nonsense, don't fool yourself. Not only California, you can add Texas as well. Quebec also from Canada. The nationalist movements in these states are just asserting their independence more than a genuine push for secession.

UK just left EU and we saw how the negotiations went so there are best practices to follow.

Google is your friend, use it!

Guestlander:
Indigenous people of California?

IPOC? I don't think so.

Nigeria is like a Ferrari tied to a truck. The Ferrari losses its speed. That's what Nigeria is doing to Biafrans!

California actually want to secede.

Guestlander:
If California were a country it would be between the 5th and 7th largest economy in the world. Why then is California still part of the United states?

So he is now a convict? Cos of few pieces of meat?

Go to developed countries, governments dont bother about fuel, it's like other commodities!

Looking at comments, see how divided Nigeria is?
One Nigeria is dead and will be buried when Biafra come to pass!

We need to restructure for the country to work. Diversification will not be possible without restructuring!

One trillion from where? Where Bauchi for see 1 trillion? Audio trillion!

APC should go and die already. APC as a party has added nothing to the average Nigerian rather has made things worse!

You are still a child, you see only black and white!

betterpikinn:
Do you have functional brains at all?

You wrote a lot of nonsense and still told her to go ahead like I said. Her paranoia is unnecessary at this point. When a man has made up his mind to settle down he will forego those things!

DominusPrime:
This is how people reason that baffles me. So u mean there is no possibility in the world that that man has things to hide? You mean there's no possibility whatsoever that he's still seeing his ex? You mean there's absolutely nothing fishy that he didn't mention her to his fiance? So this is what you will tell every lady that comes with this problem? And you feel for everyone of them this advice will suffice as your head told u that all their husbands or fiances will all be faithful? Did you use one side of your brain to reason? Cos for you to just advice her to go ahead without even considering other possibiltites shows you are either foolish enough to go ahead with a relationship even when there are obvious red signs or you are just doing what most females do, support their fellow females even when they see they are wrong. You must still be a child since your reasoning is so one-sided. And to think that you feel it's wrong to go through a partners phone...it's people like you who feel wise that end up with a who.re who's obviously cheating but will still be the only one in the neighbourhood who's oblivious of that cos you refuse to go through the only evidence that presents itself.

@op I totally understand and feel the pain you are going through. And I'm glad about two things from your post. First you have not been blinded totally by love unlike that lady in a thread I just read now who is dating herself at 27 but thinks she's dating a man who's 40 and is not ready to settle down with her even with all the nonsense he's doing to her...
And 2nd you are smart enough to seek advise from people even though it's so close to your wedding.
Here's my take...from all you've said there is still no solid evidence that he's still with his ex...as also there is no evidence to clear him of Any wrong doing. But if amongst all he chose to marry you then he feels something special for you. That's still no reason to be blinded.
So i suggest you find a way to confirm if he's still doing anything with her or any other girl for that matter. You can go through his phone secretly, go to that church secretly and see if they meet or talk after service...just try any means to secretly find out...
If You find nothing then problem solved but I'll dwell more on worst case scenario.
Let's say you find out he's still cheating, my dear end it, not because the plan is to scatter your marriage to him but to see if you can get him to change, to see if you can see real repentance in him, though this is no guarantee that he won't go back to his ways(we men are something else, we can love a woman and yet sleep with another). And if he changes you could take the risk and forgive him, once again, it's no guarantee. If you can't bear it then my dear end it for good. Some women hate a cheat but can still remain. If u can't then pls walk away. Peace of mind is better than marriage to the wrong person in my opinion.
In summary, it all depends on what you find out, what you can bear if you find out unpalatable things, and how he's taking all of this...
Don't listen to the children telling you to go ahead or end it. This write-up from you is not enough to paint the whole picture. You alone still knows him more than any of us here. Advise about marriage should be given mostly on possible outcomes and not finite answers from our mostly one-sided, experience based points of view. I wish you all the best.

I desperately wanted attention? From you? Did I quote you? Run along !

justtoodark:
you desperatly wanted attention,now you are gettin it....
old Eastern region my foot....

Relax, man may behave funny until they are ready to settle down and they change. Those pictures and videos are memories he had so because you came into the picture does not mean those memories will be erased. Why were you going through his things? You only see what your eyes want to see. Better continue to plan your marriage before loosing everything on mere paranoia!

Your hatred for Igbos is fantastic. You're always on threads that talks about Igbos even if the scope is limited to old Eastern region

0m0nnakoda:
What the hell is Igboid?

Heads that are only partially flat?

Your head is either flat or it is not

So why are you focusing on only one woman?

atmstyle:
What did the over 12 dead people clearly seen in the video (RIP) do to deserve this kind of hot death?

There has to be willingness. Are we willing to better the country or we keep insisting on the status quo as usual?

vivavik:
We all can help better our nation, you know.

Fake pastor! What a moronic assertion!

Policemen that would have been useful in Southern Kaduna!

APC should go and die!

Watch your own video. You have over 12 people killed and dying, you're talking on only this woman!. Africans self!

atmstyle:
What crime did this woman there commit to deserve this? What crime did the others commit?

Saraki had it coming! He was a king in his own right in PDP but decided to fight GEJ but pushing propaganda in the petroleum sector and aligning with the enemies in 2014 but now the chicken has come home to roost. All those who fought against GEJ met their waterloo while those who stood with GEJ are in various high profile positions in the world!

Sanusi had it coming. All the betrayals of GEJ will not go unpunished!