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This one na "make e no be say we no sabi give sanction too".

But they only ended up making a mockery of themselves.

Why not resort to violence as is your custom?

I guess you only take laws into your hand in areas where you are clearly in majority.

obinna58:
Believe me it's over for Liverpool


Gerard is also an incompetent coach

Man City is better than Aston Villa by a million miles, it is even surprising they could put in 2 goals and lead by 2 goals but we know Man City will play out their hearts to equalize and win and it happened.

It is out of Liverpool's hands finally. Gerrard tried but Liverpool drawing is not a good encouragement for his sterling efforts.

Augustwife:
I had to open a new moniker so I can rant in peace. My head is full, so it's going to be a long post .

I got married to the love of my life 2017 (we started dating 2009) and we have two wonderful children.
He loves me (I know for sure), doesn't cheat too and my in-laws are the most wonderful people on earth ( my mil especially).

We have a joint business but the bad part :he is addicted to alcohol.

He wasn't like this before we got married, he used to drink occasionally so I can't really tell how we got here.

It's so bad that he can't go a day without it. Once he can't lay his hands on alcohol he will begin to shiver like a malaria patient.

This addiction has gotten us into debts that I had to pay with my savings on several occasions.

I'm talking of debts of 120k, 167k, 136k e.t.c. He's takes several loans from loan sharks , drinks like no tomorrow.

He has wrecked ourbbusiness and only with the help of God was I able to rebuild It by taking loans and paying back.

We even decided he gets a job so he can be more responsible but after working for a year he had nothing to show for it.

Twice his parents had to take him to a therapist but it was all in vain as he would go back to drinking.

My head is scattered,I can't think straight, it's making me hate him. I tried leaving a few weeks ago , I went back to my mother's house but trust my mama, she begged me to go back and my mother in-law too.

I don't even know what to do, my mental life is zero, I have withdrawn from everyone, I'm practically in poverty due to this addiction
He is a wonderful man BUT this addiction is a very big problem. We have prayed, fasted, gone to doctors but it's still there.

I don't know what to do .

Alcohol addiction is real and a very terrible, but some make light of it.

If he has been to a therapist, and I suppose a psychiatric doctor. What kind of treatment programs did he recommend? There are medications that can be used to stave the urge and need to drink, did you guys get to try that out?

Fasting and praying (interceding) for him will help both him and you will be more compassionate about his problem. But he needs Jesus. Jesus is the miraculous cure all ills therapy.

Madrid should stop crying. They wanted to sign a free agent. Nonsense.

They can come next summer and buy him.

clays:
Manchester United

Manchester United will be playing Crsytal Palace today at Selhurst Park. Manchester united needs a straight win to convincingly retain the 6th position and be eligible for the UEFA Europa league. A loss or draw to Crystal Palace and win by West Ham against Brighton will relegate Manchester united to the conference league next season, which is the lowest of the European competitions.

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Manchester City

Manchester City needs to win Aston Villa today to retain the top 1 position and win the 2021/22 premier league season. A draw or loss to Villa and a win by Liverpool in their match against Norwich will frustrate their plans of clinching their 7th league title

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Liverpool

Liverpool has been on the trail of Manchester city since the beginning of the season. As at present, they are only one point below Manchester City. They will be at their best playing against Norwich City and are hoping that for a reason Manchester City does not win City. If this happens, Anfield  fans will be having a lucky day to remember.

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West Ham

Brighton will be playing Westham at Falmer stadium today. This is a match Westham at the 7th position has to win to join the Europa competition, while they pray Manchester United either loses or draws to Crystal Palace in the final game today. West Ham is presently qualified for the UEFA conference league but a spot at the Europa competition is of a better value to the Hammers.

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Leeds

Leeds United, who recently got promoted to the Premier league are about to get relegated back to championship. They presently seat at the 18th position with 35 points same with Burnley. Winning the final day match against Brentford is a must for them as it is the only thing that assures them of hope of still competing in the Premier league. They will also be needing a double luck praying that Burnley loses or draws against Newcastle to ensure their safe spot.

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Burnley

Burnley currently seats at 1the 17th position but however are not so safe if they do not win their last match at home against Newcastle. Burnley can still be safe if Leeds loses against Brentford, but that is not a gamble to mess with as Leeds will be fighting at their best to take the 17th spot from them and escape relegation. A win, which Burnley has got only 7 at the league this season will be essential to still keep them in the PL for the 22/23 season

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https://www.flormedia.com/2022/05/22/premier-league-last-fixtures-teams-that-need-to-win-today/

Liverpool is playing Wolverhampton and Tottenham playing Norwich.

Edo doesn't have what Lagos has.

The truth is that Lagos should have developed better than this giving all it's advantages but alas it is not.

Why do we like celebrating mediocrity in this country.

A public official tars a road and installs street lights and we get carried away and become overly excited like he constructed a Space elevator or hangar.

poshestmina:
She already put up a post that the "hahaha haha" was a reply to another comment under that comment.

Y'all should allow the woman to breathe!
She isn't and won't be the first woman to get divorced.
Yes,she's very much prettier than the new wife .

Haba!!!

Beauty is subjective
Hence the proverb "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder".

Salah has not been consistent of late as he was earlier in the season else De Bruyne wouldn't have won the award.

Cry me a river La Liga/Real Madrid.

Wrong title only aimed at painting women in a bad light.

Brief Emotional/Behavioural assessment is what the fee is labelled under not Brief emotional outburst.

Abfinest007:
He's after d money psg offered not bothered by trophies

He wins trophies in PSG and will continue doing that. I guess you should have specifically mentioned UCL.

And is he really guaranteed of winning that if he moves to Real Madrid? The UCL is competitive and PSG can still win it.

Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!

Don't demand apology from someone cos it is never going to be sincere.

It's unfortunate that your wife has no atom of respect for you. It is the nightmare of every man to have a disrespectful wife.

But then respect is earned not demanded, so you need to position yourself in such a way that your wife will respect you, and I know where you can start "stop being petty, and be the bigger man" though your wife is the one who is at fault, don't keep long faces with her, talk to her.

When you love someone you are less prone to seek out their faults and failures. Show that you love her by not seeing all the things she does wrong.

I hope you'll weather through this storm and have a stronger bond with your wife.

Cheers

Basic123:
Osinbajo can never be a better president !

Who do you think is our best shot for a good president or least worst president, from the top contenders in APC?

He is actually right. Atiku, Saraki, Tambuwal and co were responsible for PDP's loss in 2015.

They should atone for that before they can contest for any position under PDP talk less of presidency.

Ekpeitit:
The total registered voters in the entire South East are not even up to 1 million.

I guess you're only joking because each of the SE states has over a million registered voters. Unless you're plainly ignorant.

If they marchers are not PDP delegates then it will do nothing to change the outcome of the primaries.

$1000 each for 1000 delegates and just like that the primaries is won.

After reading the lengthy post, I was looking to see where they will explain why this amendment was not made any sooner than now.

If the primaries are going to be determined by who has enough money to pay delegates then it will go to Tinubu and Atiku.

If it is by who has the best chance at winning for their party it should go to Osibanjo and Atiku.

If it is by who could be a better President from their party, then it should go to Osibanjo and Obi.

It is however only my opinion and you are free to have a disparate view.

Soludo shouldn't go down this excuse path, that has been commonplace throughout these years of APC government.

We suppose he would have done a proper assessment to know if he has what it takes given the present state of the State to formulate a solution for progress before contesting.

Nigeria is filled with politicians who have no idea of what the problem is nor do they have even the slightest inkling on how to proffer solutions. Soludo, I hope you're not like that.

Addiction is a terrible road to travel in life. I'm glad you fought through the urges to slide back and broke the habit.

Saraki that couldn't win his Senatorial seat back in the last elections.

The part that got me worried was where she said if she was single, she will be getting it from other guys.

That's crazy prostitute vibes she is giving there.

However, if you care for someone you should provide for their needs if you can, whether you're dating, courting, or married. And caring shouldn't be gender specific. Any gender can care.

iluvdonjazzy:
You see road at all you no happy, if he no do nah wetin you go do?

This sentiment is exactly why our elected public officials keep fuckingg up.

If after paying for goods and the seller give you your change, do you get overly excited and thank him for giving your change?

I think they are more desperate because he will be a free agent, and he is only 23.

There is no policing in Nigeria.

How is it that our police cannot infiltrate these villages that are known to harbor bandits and fish out their informants, interrogate them and get them to give up the hideouts of the bandits.

By the time 4-5 bandit groups operating in that axis are caught, tried speedily and executed. The others will know that their kidnapping business has become more riskier than the gains.

The truth is that the proliferation of banditry and kidnappings is as a result of both the economic collapse of the country and it's very porous northern borders, that is supposing the claims that these men are largely foreigners is true.

I just remembered Gumi used to negotiate on behalf of bandits. It is obvious those in power are not yet serious about curbing insecurity maybe because they are not directly involved.

Technology, literacy, security, a more stable and active justice system are the things we need to get right before we can even successfully float this e-Naira idea. Not to forget the high rate of fraud in this country, everyone is looking for a way to defraud someone else.

Nigeria always good at putting the cart before the horse.

And when you hear the billions that has been allocated to this sensitization campaign, you will get cold shivers.

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

You need Jesus. Seek Him, and you will never lay a hand on your wife ever again even if she spits in your face.

We are back to the empty and infeasible promises that APC is known for.

He is your boss, don't let your ego get in the way of your promotion.