FreeStuffsNG:
Hmmm.
Know that Cryptocurrency itself is a fraud, worse than a Ponzi https://www.ft.com/content/83a14261-598d-4601-87fc-5dde528b33d0 and financial mania
and know peace

Don't waste your hard earned cash on the fraud called cryptocurrency , you will lose las las in this monkey business. cool

There is no stable coin, it's all a fraud!
https://www.theverge.com/2021/10/15/22728253/tether-41-million-misleading-statements-fiat-currency-bitfinex-cftc

If you have never put your money in the cryptocurrency fraud, you have not lost anything! In fact, you are the clever and financially smart one for not falling for the monkey business.

Ignorance

Hmmm.
As much as I love your write up, I truly don't think you are getting it completely right.

Comedians makes skits out of reality of present happenings. As much as we hate it You and I know that seeing a military man being arrested by a military police in broad day light is an almost impossible happening in Nigeria. Or where have u seen one happening?
So how do u expect them to depict what isn't happening in their skits?

In addition to this, comedies are for lightening up moods, to make viewers laugh. Burdening it with that much responsibility of correcting an already accepted norm is an heliceun task thàt I don't see sitting well. Why not start with the movies first.

Lastly, I truly don't think any comedian wants to lead this "battle". Am sure you know it is going to be one. The battle for human rights against the Nigeria police in the name of SARS was brutely estinguished despite the large protest and uproar. Who then will face the Nigerian Military?
I don't need to say more.

blackaxe78:
What a whole Trump and Republicans could not do in America, His Excellence, President Mohammadu Buhari (GCFR) achieved it without blinking!

A dogged leader!

You mean a dogged dictator!
Keep decieving yourself.

Nice.
The babe is love drunk. Wish she could keep it on a low and out of social media. That would have just been the best.

Well,what do I know?

ibechris:
Both of are u wrong and you messed up the whole situation but in fact,u didn't marry a good wife but a pretender if I may say.

Submissiveness is the hall mark of a descent woman.

There is simply no submissiveness in that woman. How do u justify her hoarding sex in marriage, in a weddedhome?. Her action could have made u to commit adultery which is still possible if the situation doesn't change.

Both of you need to talk extensively and if it worths involving her family,u had better do it fast before it goes out of hand.

Wishing u the best as u put situation under control.

Don't be quick to conclude he didn't marry a good woman, or that he married a pretender. A whole lot happens in marriage you won't easily understand.
For many women, libido drops as soon as childbearing and child rearing sets in(Coupled with work stress)
Hormones start doing "shegeshege" (up and down).

For some of them it is a bit of laziness though, plus the lack of realization of the fact that sex is a duty they have to ensure they try to perform, just as they tend to the kids in the home.
The man on the other hand is never on break. He wants what he wants. He might
be understanding and patient, but his body will still demand release from him. All these coupled with the fact that this generation abhores polygamy, the game is bound to be a messy one filled with these kinds of troubles.

To be Candid and factual, 8 out of every 10 marriages out there are having sex related issues of varying types. Summary is there is zero to low action in the other room.

I am 8years in marriage now . I went through this same trouble. Without exaggerating, I Believe mine was much worse than OP's. Since I can vividly recollect the sex that led to my kids. As in I know the day, the spot we had it, the time we had it etc (it was that infrequent.)
It was once in 5-6 months on the average. And my wife is drop dead beautiful. (Believe me)

Things only got better recently after I almost made real my plan to marry another woman. Since I am totally against jumping from woman to woman. And whoever would be my sex mate must be my wife.
Only then was when the brain reset happened. And she miraculously changed.

Well, kudos to the monogamy advocates. Embrace all the divorce and troubles that comes with it.

BigYash:
You're not wise at all. Judging by this your damn comment...
Virginia people and confusion=5$6

Brocode1:

If you don't have self control as a Man please avoid Lecturer job. It's not as if the money is encouraging anyway. Sometimes it is the ladies who approach these men, just never consent. If you don't give face they will call you names. Shame you, but never let your few minutes pleasure cost you a lifetime legacy! Your reputation should be your priority

You have said it just as it is.
Avoid lecturing avoid pastoring etc

I still don't know the one which is worse. Though I still think it is lecturing. Cus at least faith/ religiousity won't disturb you. And the babes never stop coming. New sets every year.

kurlz:



The fact still remains they are not telling the story. So they can't be termed liar. Besides its as if you know their entire story and absolutely sure they did ivf.
So are you telling me there can never be babies for this kind without ivf?

Ofcourse they are telling the story. Of they weren't we would have known she was barren for 13 years

They should have kept that one silent too. Sebi they are not telling the story.

kurlz:


Where did they lie?
They only celebrated the children, never told the story. Had it been they told the story and journey of their barrenness and omitted if it was ivf which we are not even 100% sure of, then they can be termed liars.
Everyone have a story before the glory, but most rimes only choose to talk about the glory. Its their choice.

Smiles. There is no need for argument. A lie is simply "not saying the truth."

The story is "Barren for 13years"
Then u ended it with "God did it"
Half truth= LIE

Simple as ABC

God's glory does not reduce a bit if they say the whole truth,but trust Nigerians. Always wanting a perfect supernatural story.

Religiosity!

salesman82:

Let's paraphrase the events that happened in this couples life. Without medical intervention via IVF or fertility drugs, they would have no miracle whatsoever. A clear miracle is one in which medical science has given up all hope on them and then you have the child, triplets or whatever. Let's be honest with our souls. Most Nigerians will never have access to have a convo with someone who has had IVF, so the only they will get is of someone claiming stuff that didn't happen exactly how it was told. If they told people how, you won't have folks sitting for twenty years waiting for what they ended up doing.

God bless you

kurlz:


I've made my point. No one is asking you for the how. It is the outcome or result that people celebrate not the process. Take it or not the testimony / result is what they are celebrating. And all good things comes from God. So they are thanking God that gives all good this.
People celebrate result not process.

When u say no one is asking you for the how, I hope u will agree that the testimony is incomplete and a lie.

God's shine does not reduce even if you admit the entire truth. It is like saying you got healed of a heart disease without adding you actually went for a heart transplant.

Why must we lie?

Nigerians!

BeeBeeOoh:
I tap into their blessings on behalf of my auntie, Adaobi, she has been looking for fruit of the womb for nearly a decade now.

God please, bless her with the fruit of the womb so that She'll smile like the couple above..Amen and AMEN!

God answers prayers but you better advice them to go and do IVF. That is what this couple did.

Ok let me share this.
Never had an accident in my life until the year I decided to sell my car.

Naso I started hiking bike every blessed day to work. To cut the long story short. Hiked a bike one faithful day and the next thing I remember was waking up on an hospital bed. Been in coma for a whole day.

I can't even recollect how the accident happened. Remember nothing of it till date. Was told a Maruwa/ tricycle just left it's lane and faced us head on resulting in a colition.

Now analyse it. How on Earth will that have happened if I was in my car?
Why do u think Lagos banned okada?

Certain things will expose u to death faster than natural, and being in the Army or police force are part of them

Sunday2021:
there are others that are there for More than 15 years and never recorded an injury. What do you have to say about that?

Ofcourse some people by element of luck might escape injury or death, it doesn't however erase the fact that many have died unnesessarily and before their time

Sunday2021:
then you need to bow to the people that that decided to join the military. In the military only patriotic Nigerians are capable of joining.
You will advice your children not to be in the military but you will cowardly sit behind your computer to insult those that made the sacrifice to defend this country against all odds. Mr Man, military Job is not for Lilly livers.
You have to sacrifice your peace, happiness, freedom, life and all goodies in order to protect civilians and the territory of your country.
God bless the Nigerian military
God bless buhari
God bless Nigeria.

Smiles.
Joining the military of any country should be a step everyone should be proud of. Unfortunately same cannot be said of the Nigerian military. Why?
Cus you can be likened to a man told to head to a 10,000 hactares farm with a Cutlass and a hoe.

You are facing an impossible task.
Suicide is a better word.

minks:
Doesn't matter what you do, when your times's up, you'll wound up dead anyway.
Death is a natural order that comes to everyone. The only thing you should teach your children is how to be ready when death comes knocking.

As true as your first statement is, it is partly untrue.
Fact remains that one is more likely to die earlier than his time if u expose yourself to unnesessary hazards. I have a friend who joined the Nigerian army and is dead now. Of all about 8 friends he died first. Was not sick just died in action. Lobatan.

Travel long distance/interstate everyday on Nigerian bad roads and u are just writing letter to your early grave.

comedy

Maobichek:



And if you must know, those with lesser power end up paying way more that the ones with better supply.

This part i copied got me laughing, we pay heavily here, some people now device a mean of switching over to solar even when there is light just to save cost.

On the issue of some areas having better power supply, bear in mind that Abj is the seat of power and CBD is planned already. It's not that we have light 24/7 but if the whole of Nigeria will have light 20hours and above in a day, no one will complain okay.

Exactly!

Even 10hrs a day will be a miracle in many areas of the country.
I don't remember a single day of having even 6hrs uninterrupted power a day. Whereas we go days without power.

Do u know the most ridiculous thing. It is the estimated billing. This country is a serious scam. How will u just be billing people for darkness?
How on Earth do u keep sending someone bills for power which has been disconnected over 5years ago?

They should keep decieving themselves
The system is way to corrupt.

Hmm

Maobichek:


Not as easy as you think, do you know the cost of having a solar in your house. I bought 2 batteries, 120k per one and over 400k was involved in the whole thing. Not everyone can afford that. Power supply is relatively good in most parts of CBD Abj, if what we have here is the same with all parts of Nigeria, no one will complain okay.

That is one big issue. Why will power supply be extremely good in certain states and areas and extremely bad in certain states. I hear of power being uninterrupted for days in certain states
This has never happened in Lagos (not that I know of)
And if you must know, those with lesser power end up paying way more that the ones with better supply.

donbachi:
e no go reach my hand,e spoil.who say i no go live.must die.

I clearly understand you sir. That is the reason why this thread was created. So that you can know it as a fact that you are not christlike in your ways, so definately not a Christian.

For to be a Christian is not to just bear the names: Jude, Andrew or John. But to be christlike

Cc Lalasticlala, mynd44

Please help push this to front page, it is important we learn and change certain things as Christians

donbachi:
GOD for no kill pharaoh na.

John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him shall not perish but have everlasting life."

Yes, God chose to kill whosoever he wishes (especially those who go against his law), a number of this can be seen in the old testament. The destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah and the destruction of human race with flood in the time of Noah, being very good examples.

Yet, all these changed when God gave us his son to die for our sins.

The coming of Christ, his life and death, plus the birth of Christianity by the first apostles urshered in a new dispensation.

God does not wish that sinners should die, but that they should be saved.

donbachi:
If he's hungry give him food.then,when him die.dem go sey na me poison am.

I no dey give am any food.make hungry kill am dia.

The word of God is truth and it gives life.

If we want to live by our own understanding it is our choice. But let us not decieve ourselves that we are christians while we do not follow Christ but flesh.

For you are not a Christian by going to church but by being christlike.

Baawaa:
Nobody is praying someone should die,they prays against powers behind them.Read your Bible very well"we are not wrestles against flesh but against powers and principalities ".If I pray that powers that does not want to see me progress should die,did I mentioned anybody name.

Very good sir. You have quoted a Bible verse to support your prayer points. "We wrestle not against flesh but against powers and principalities"
That is Eph 6:12

Now let me endevour to quote the entire surrounding verses so that we understand what that statement made by Paul was about.

EPH 6
Verse 11.
"Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.

12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.

14 Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;

15 And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;

16 Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.

17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:

18 Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints;



That is the entire surrounding verses. I hope you can see clearly what Paul was trying to say. He didn't imply you prayed for death of any power. He didn't pray such prayers. And No where in the bible was such prayers recorded.
Stop picking single bible verses and giving them your own man made interpretations to suit your flesh.
Powers do not die. Spirits do not die. Stop being decieved.

Take up the whole armor of God, that ye may be stand the Wiles of the devil.
Let your feet be shod with the preparation of the Gospel of peace.

Dear brethren, I find it quite amusing that what majority practice as Christianity today is an abberation from what Christ intended.

Christ laid the foundation of Christianity through his way of life. His disciples were first called Christians in Antioch as the people saw that they behaved like Christ.

Now what were the ways of Christ?

The most significant of the ways of Christ was LOVE.

Christ was an embodiment of love. His message to us as Christians was to live a life of Love irrespective of oppositions or transgressions against us.

In Matt 5:44, he gave the order;
"But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you."

Paul in his message to the Romans wrote
In Romans 12:14;
"Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse."

Prov 25: 21 and 22;
"If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat;
And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink;
For you will heap burning coals on his head,
And the Lord will reward you."

In John 13: 33-35 Christ said;
"Little children, I am with you a little while longer. You will seek Me; and as I said to the Jews, now I also say to you, ‘Where I am going, you cannot come.’ A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”

It is even recorded in the same bible that God does not want the death of sinners, but that they should repent. Exek18:23


Christ taught perseverance and endurance with long suffering and unconditional forgiveness.
In Matthew 18:22, Jesus says that church members should forgive each other "seventy times seven times" a number that symbolizes boundlessness.

I.e There should be no limit to when you should forgive anyone.


I must categorically state it that any christian who prays for his/her enemy to die is only allowing himself to do the devil's work. For it is the joy of the devil to see such person perish in hellfire.


Seeing Christians of today praying at the top of their voices for the death of their enemies with numerous prayer points is nothing less than commiting sin in the place of worship.

Sometimes you hear them praying for the death of demons. This is only a lie. No demon can die. They can only be casted out. This is evidenced in the bible. Christ didn't pray for any demon to die. The disciples didn't pray for any demon to die. They only casted them out of the people who were carrying them.


All these shouts of DIE! DIE! DIE! we hear in the places of worship are not Christ like. That is not Christianity. It is only paganism!


Nigerian christians should stop hiding the wickedness of their hearts under the garment of fake Christian teachings conceived by men, but should rather seek the truth from the word of God which has been given to all men freely.


Christians of today have a wrong assumption that their Lives should be hassle free. This is a very wrong assumption.
For christ (in John 16:33) told us emphatically;

"In this world you shall face many tribulations, but be of good cheer, for ye have overcome the world."

Christ himself faced many tribulations when on Earth. He never prayed that his enemies should die.
Even on the cross he still said the words: "Father forgive them...."

Why should you who claim to be his follower now pray that your enemies should die?

Christians should rather put the efforts with which they pray such hateful prayers into praying that these their "enemies" should accept Christ and become saved. As that is the will of God.


It is my prayer that Christians will seek the truth and live their lives according to the will and plan of God.

May God help us all

May God be God and man be man.
We shall see how it all ends

When we are so backward and refuse to develop this is what we will keep getting. What stops us from getting to the level when all the VIO needs to do is get the number of the truck and flag it up on the system. Such that where ever it gets to it would be arrested, even if it is days later.
Why engage in a car chase on a busy Lagos road in broad day light?

Left to me the VIO agents needs to be locked up as well

1Sharon:


A man saying this?

A man can have sex with a side chick outside and still love his wife! Sex is just sex for men with no feelings attached.

He took his wife home and married her and that shows that he desires her.

While the side chick is just a side chick hoping she will get picked one day. Most men NEVER marry the side chick.


For a man to take home a woman and marry her is completely different because he must have thought long and hard about his decision to marry and that shows he truly cares about her.

So no, sharing a man with another wife or side chick is completely different.

I have heard this analogy before and I can't help but smile. Yes you are right to an extent. I won't want to bother going into details to dispute ur claims.
Because in the end we are still saying the same thing which is "YOU STILL GET TO SHARE THE MAN" period.

WibusJaga:


May we not die the death of another.

Oya repeat after me: my fada my fada, any demon assigned to make me die another person's death, what are you waiting for? Die! Die! Die! Die! ...

Ignorance of christianity. Kindly explain how a Demon will die. And if you can I would love to see a biblical quotation of where either Jesus Christ or any of the apostles prayed that kind of paganistic prayer you just prayed.

My advice to you is this;
Stop following men who claim to know Christ but do not follow his ways or his steps.

Read the bible and follow Christ only

okonlahwon:
We should just be sincere with ourselves, You cannot be a second wife but you can date married man.
Your husband can use money to entice his female collogues, and put-on his car a/c for a little girl on campus for 7hrs in a spot.
You claim to be" Catholic priest" but you are struggling with sex abuse case in court.
Your husband develop love for a new chicks but he needs to put up trouble and file for divorce.
You see nothing wrong with "baby mama" but see plenty wrong with polygamous.
Otedola propose to your beautiful sister, your family vow to disown her if she refused to grab the offer.


Please who is fooling who!

abeg help me ask them o

1Sharon:


Nope. Regina has some advantage over her co-wives. She's the freshest and youngest.

Don't be surprised to know that Ned has forgotten his older wives.

If you want to be a co-wife, make sure you stand out, so you aren't forgotten.

Smiles. Even as an only wife if you don't stand well, you might still get forgotten.
There are a thousand and one side chicks out there.
I hope you get the point?

Well, it is understandable that women of today want equal rights in marriage.
It unfortunate fact is it cannot be so.

Either you agree your husband marries a second wife or not, you still will get to share him with other women.