₦airaland Forum

CheapHomes1:
Marriage isn't loosing it's relevance. Its people that are loosing their values. If you want to go by your last sentence, feel free. When you 60years old, come and back and tell us your testimony

Alright, everyone to his own belief and opinion. Yes, it's true that people are loosing their values and unfortunately it will only continue to get worse with time.

I have eaten many weird combinations before.
1. Rice with everything you can think of (including fruits, vegetables, bread, raw eggs, etc)

2. Bread with anything you can think of (pap, vegetables, garri, etc

I have observed that Nigerians like to talk too much about politics whereas action is less. The talk doesn't change anything one thing. I hope Nigerians will be wise in the 2023 elections and vote for the right candidate.

Unfortunately the sad reality is that even if Peter Obi enters, he wouldn't be able to do much. Nigeria system is so damaged that it will take years to correct the damage not to talk of moving the country forward. Anyways, I hope Nogeria will be better

advanceDNA:
We make laws that make women richer when they divorce and we expect mareiage to last forever....the gender that does nothing without money

You're right Sir.
For you personally, are you going to Marry?

So sad, Marriage is fast loosing it's relevance this present day. The social media has made it worse. Very soon, marriage will be obliterated and a new system will be created. Man was never created to be bounded to one woman for Life same with the woman.

Amala skye and Amala village na correct Amala joint for Ibadan. Damn too sweet!

If you want to borrow anyone money, borrow what you can afford to loose so even if they don't pay back, you wouldn't be affected one bit.

I once made a mistake of borrowing from one loan to give my gf to pay her school fees (my Mumu too much) and she said she will pay back. Up till now, she never paid back but am not pained or angry because the money she has spent on me is more than what I borrowed her. If a lady cannot spend on you, don't give them money (you're valueless in their eyes). Many ladies ask me for 1k or 2k or even 5k every day because they know I have it but I wouldn't give them, I would rather use it to buy rice and chicken even if I don't feel like eating it than giving it out!

Unfortunately many more people will still fall in this trap. Almost everyone is a cheat (both males and females). It will shock you to know that your wife was or is planning to cheat on you without you being aware one bit. Don't cheat, but if you can't help it, make sure not to get caught but the chances are there that you'll be caught so don't do it in the first place.

For Op, I really don't know the nature of your wife but I have handled situations like this before. If your wife truly loves you, apologize to her, compliment her, appeal to her love language. The reason why she is angry with you Is because she thinks she is not adequate enough hence your looking outside (and most woman don't like that one bit). If she is too stubborn or irrational (as most women are) go ghost mode, employ the silent treatment, be happy always, dance around the house and enjoy your Life, if you're valuable in her eyes she will wonder what's is wrong and question herself about her inadequacies and will find subtle ways to bring you back. The worse is that she may decide to leave you but at least you enjoyed yourself and made yourself happy. She may consider the kids and stay as some women will. The variables are endless and it depends on the situations and make up of your woman. Some are forgiving some are not too forgiving. Watch out!

I am 100% introverted.
Yes, I can do without communicating with anyone both online and offline for a month plus. I prefer to stay alone in my house than attend any social function. I spend days without recieving or giving out calls. I hardly trust anybody not even myself so people can't hurt me.

I am also 100% extroverted.
I have numerous girlfriends that I am not even aware of their numbers. I can choose to hang out with my guys and I am a great conversationalist.

In summary, I am fluid like mercury and I can take any form I so desire.

I no get ideal partner for now.
Am fluid like water. Having a picture of an ideal partner when you're not ready for marriage will only cause you headache and heartbreaks. Unfortunately, many people think they know what they want but they can't recognize it when it comes to them so they loose it

Yes, you're a liar.
Aren't you a liar? Abi you never lie before?

Hunger is good jare.
The only bad side to it is if you're not using it to improve yourself

Hunger is also very bad, I have experienced it in crazy level like not eating for three days stretch. Taking only garri for a week plus and many other things. Yes, I have been hungry to the point where I almost wanted to take my life because I was tired of it all. And despite my hungry and broke state, friends will still say I look fresh and cute (lol). Well that was in the past, not anymore.

In summary: hungry doesn't kill you but makes you stronger.

You Nairaland people no dey try at all.
Too many toxic people with negative comments everyday.

The guy no force you na. If you're interested, message him, if you're not, ignore him. Life is not hard jare.

But Op, you sef no try na. Why you dey behave like kid? Abi you dey look for babe wey you go chop clean mouth? No lie ooo.

Islandlady:
I think Handsome and cute now have a new meaning

Op you not handsome pls! Stop decieving yourself. . . With that your flat nose like frying pan!

Make una rest Abeg!

Kai, madam you get sharp mouth.

So, which way Leeds 2 Chelsea

I no dey wonder.
Am almost always online 24/7.

SisterAnn:
But I just told you I avoided him completely the last time we saw. I had outgrown him.

That makes you a cool lady, clap for yourself.

SisterAnn:
The last time I saw the guy that took my virginity, I gave him a wide berth.

If you guys are put together in the same room for a night, there's a 70% chance of you guys having sex. True or true?

Well, there is no rule that says if men cheat on their wives, women shouldn't cheat on their husbands. And it's happening whether the people involved are aware or not.

If you tell your husband, he may forgive you but will never trust you again. He will start behaving strange towards you especially if he is not cheating on you.

But I still think it's better to keep silent than to destroy your marriage or family with your hands. Telling your husband may do more harm than good to you. Just my humble opinion.

All these things no dey UITH jare.
Infact for weeks now, no light in theater. No water. It's so sad and pathetic.

I actually don't know but I'll estimate to be around 30+ online. Offline, I am alone for now.

Lol... Ashi for Ashawo.

Learn to face your front and enjoy your life alone, so when they leave you it doesn't pain you much

This is not big na.
This is Okay at least it isn't gynecomastia.

Anyways, try to avoid herbs or ointments on your breasts so that it wouldn't predispose you to breast cancer.

If you want to reduce your breast size, there are surgical and medical methods. The best of medical methods will be hormonal therapy but it comes with its side effects but if you can bear with it, go ahead.