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"pick up a bee from kindness and learn the limitations of kindness"

The dog must have been frightened fighting for his Life, so it's reaction is normal. Even humans behave irrational during extreme emotional states not to talk of a dog battling with life and death. The young man did well but self protection comes first it will be unfortunately if the dog bit off his eye or bit him to death.

Most guys are very stupid.
They want to marry a virgin but when they come across one they're in a hurry to disvirgin and dump her. later in the future, they'll start lamenting on how it's hoes that deserves them.

It's just 30k nothing much!
I'll send her 50k and.....

JASONjnr:
Wondering if Nigeria have the capacity to experiment things that could lead to any form of discovery of this kind when back at the University, we weren't given the privilege to experiment with uranium... Heard that Africa is banned from doing so... But Russia and European countries keep experimenting and creating more nukes to their massive weapon collection....

I get uranium for my backyard.

What you're afraid of will later come back to hunt you.

It's best if you get in terms with the "ladies affected" quick. Seek apologies and redress if possible and move on and try to eliminate every incriminating evidence without hurting anyone in the process, if you can't remove the evidences, move forward. No one plans for scandals but sometimes it comes and unfortunately it has brought down great men. Just be fine and enjoy your Life, you'll be fine. Don't stress yourself too much

Na ladies dey spend on me and am proud of it.
If you can't spend on me, I don't have anything to do with you.

God1000:
Stay away from sexual immorality completely

In your entire life, have you stayed away from sexual immorality completely. Don't preach what you don't practice brother. Happy Sunday

Single mothers are top notch when it comes to showing love and attention. unfortunately, most are emotionally damaged, too dramatic and can become too toxic easily. Of course they are great pretenders and if you're not careful, you'll fall into their traps especially the desperate ones.

I thought you're already married with kids?

Interesting... More!

Hmmm... I believe your side of the story though it may not be the complete story. Sorry for all you've been through (such is life and we all have our shares of ups and downs). Unfortunately a relationship that is one sided will not last long and from what you posted, the guy is just wasting your time and using you to cure his sexual urge. You're a queen, pack yourself and move forward. Trust me, there is a guy out there who will do everything within his power to make you happy. If you want to enjoy a relationship, your partner must love you more than you love your partner if not, you'll not be happy in the relationship. Take care of yourself.

PS: You can't change a man, you've noticed the red flags already, are you bold enough to move forward?? Wishing you the best in Life

StacyAspace:
There are no physical changes.
Just internal and sometimes, I feel some form of lump but, it goes away when I massage the breasts.

Since it's painful, it's less likely to be a malignancy. It will most likely be a fibroadenosis or a fibroadenoma.

Go for a check-up you'll most likely need a surgery

Where the picture dey?

Actually, grown up adults shouldn't be eating much meat. It's children that should be eating much meat but unfortunately in Africa, the reverse is the case.

I guys most adult men like eating many meat because they were deprived of it when they were younger. Two pieces is enough!

And children need more meat because they're still growing

JOACHINpedro:
But you dey chop?

Not really.
Once or twice a day. I skip breakfast most times

Continue to run

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Nemesis no sabi run so e no go catch me

The day e go catch you, you go regret say "had I known"

Ladies are wonderful being. They have a lot of guys pursuing them almost everyday, don't be part of those guys, rather be the price or target.

Ladies are irrational beings they are more emotional than logical, appeal to their emotions but don't put yourself at a disadvantage. If you want to get married to a woman, she must love you for who you are and not only what you have unfortunately ladies are very materialistic (it's their nature)

Have a defined picture of what you want and define every of your relationships down to the details, it will save you a lot of headaches. Be wise

When it comes to choosing a life partner, shine your eyes very well, pray(if you're the religious/spiritual type) and observe well.

To engage beyond first meeting is an error, you're putting in much effort and the guarantee that it will be reciprocated isn't high. Let her be the one to engage you, it's much better that way. Truth is, not every lady is for you but as for me, have always been a lady man because of certain characteristics that I developed within myself (story for another day).

You've had your share of life, gotten involved with quite a number of ladies, so I understand why you're "bored" but if you're going down the path of a life partner, you've to think long-term. Truth is no one will fit whatever perfect description you've in mind concerning your ideal future partner 100%, you've to learn to be fluid and dynamic in nature. It's a whole series of game that words alone cannot suffice.

I started gyming and doing exercises a week ago and surprisingly people are noticing the changes in my body already but mhen my arms and legs are quite heavy and sore but am getting used to it already.

CheapHomes1:
Marriage isn't loosing it's relevance. Its people that are loosing their values. If you want to go by your last sentence, feel free. When you 60years old, come and back and tell us your testimony

Alright, everyone to his own belief and opinion. Yes, it's true that people are loosing their values and unfortunately it will only continue to get worse with time.

I have eaten many weird combinations before.
1. Rice with everything you can think of (including fruits, vegetables, bread, raw eggs, etc)

2. Bread with anything you can think of (pap, vegetables, garri, etc

I have observed that Nigerians like to talk too much about politics whereas action is less. The talk doesn't change anything one thing. I hope Nigerians will be wise in the 2023 elections and vote for the right candidate.

Unfortunately the sad reality is that even if Peter Obi enters, he wouldn't be able to do much. Nigeria system is so damaged that it will take years to correct the damage not to talk of moving the country forward. Anyways, I hope Nogeria will be better

advanceDNA:
We make laws that make women richer when they divorce and we expect mareiage to last forever....the gender that does nothing without money

You're right Sir.
For you personally, are you going to Marry?

So sad, Marriage is fast loosing it's relevance this present day. The social media has made it worse. Very soon, marriage will be obliterated and a new system will be created. Man was never created to be bounded to one woman for Life same with the woman.

Amala skye and Amala village na correct Amala joint for Ibadan. Damn too sweet!

If you want to borrow anyone money, borrow what you can afford to loose so even if they don't pay back, you wouldn't be affected one bit.

I once made a mistake of borrowing from one loan to give my gf to pay her school fees (my Mumu too much) and she said she will pay back. Up till now, she never paid back but am not pained or angry because the money she has spent on me is more than what I borrowed her. If a lady cannot spend on you, don't give them money (you're valueless in their eyes). Many ladies ask me for 1k or 2k or even 5k every day because they know I have it but I wouldn't give them, I would rather use it to buy rice and chicken even if I don't feel like eating it than giving it out!

Unfortunately many more people will still fall in this trap. Almost everyone is a cheat (both males and females). It will shock you to know that your wife was or is planning to cheat on you without you being aware one bit. Don't cheat, but if you can't help it, make sure not to get caught but the chances are there that you'll be caught so don't do it in the first place.

For Op, I really don't know the nature of your wife but I have handled situations like this before. If your wife truly loves you, apologize to her, compliment her, appeal to her love language. The reason why she is angry with you Is because she thinks she is not adequate enough hence your looking outside (and most woman don't like that one bit). If she is too stubborn or irrational (as most women are) go ghost mode, employ the silent treatment, be happy always, dance around the house and enjoy your Life, if you're valuable in her eyes she will wonder what's is wrong and question herself about her inadequacies and will find subtle ways to bring you back. The worse is that she may decide to leave you but at least you enjoyed yourself and made yourself happy. She may consider the kids and stay as some women will. The variables are endless and it depends on the situations and make up of your woman. Some are forgiving some are not too forgiving. Watch out!

I am 100% introverted.
Yes, I can do without communicating with anyone both online and offline for a month plus. I prefer to stay alone in my house than attend any social function. I spend days without recieving or giving out calls. I hardly trust anybody not even myself so people can't hurt me.

I am also 100% extroverted.
I have numerous girlfriends that I am not even aware of their numbers. I can choose to hang out with my guys and I am a great conversationalist.

In summary, I am fluid like mercury and I can take any form I so desire.

I no get ideal partner for now.
Am fluid like water. Having a picture of an ideal partner when you're not ready for marriage will only cause you headache and heartbreaks. Unfortunately, many people think they know what they want but they can't recognize it when it comes to them so they loose it