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Love is given on a condition you can provide my mother taught me in a hard way
Love is family my father taught me that

Sheheld the break likes bbc

After giving on idiot 1500 she called me ode no worry her papa go ask for anoda one I dey here dey wait

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JOSH54:
YES I AGREE WITH UR POINT BUT WHO WAS TAKING CARE OF HER WHEN SHE WAS ALONE? D GUY SHOULD SUPPORT HER WITH 70% OF WHAT SHE NEEDED BUT ALL I KNOW RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT MONEY WILL SOON CRASH. I ALWAYS ADVICE GUYS TO BE FINANCIAL STABLE B4 THINKING OF DATING.

Two of unah high on drugs

They improve in their self

Reading briefly, skimming and scanning what you just wrote I can proudly say
Op you no get brain

Truthabulabula:
There's a big difference between wants and needs.

Wants are temporary things or issues that we need solved at that moment.

While needs are the permanent and those major things we require to live.


Let's use food here
Eating(food) is a need, because it is something continuous.


When you give your someone food,you're solving one of their needs.
When you get a lady artificial nails,you solving her wants in her own terms.




What am I typing?

Or,am I the only one who don't seem to understand op's question??

What if you assist her on her needs out of abundance and she makes it look like your a maga/mumu ,it will infuriate you not because of the money but how she views you

[quote author=habsydiamond post=99479876]Very simple... If u don't want to follow her terms cos u think follow her terms will make u look like a simp...

Yes it always makes one look like a simp, sometimes you do it out of abundance or generosity then boom all they see is a zombie walking ATM

HotPoundedYam:
the question you should ask yourself is if you are born to serve a woman

No

No one is an island we came here to learn from others views and mistake ,your advice may not be useful to me but could be to someone

chatinent:
A little assistance to her needs.


No entitlement.

Thanks bro that one point I need

chatinent:
A wife or a lady?


It's only a wife you give her needs.

A lady needs or wants
Which is better in your terms to accommodate

I want to understand or have a deeper understanding of this, how can you give a lady what she needs on your own terms and not what she wants on her own terms

Rip

habsydiamond:
Ah... Meat don lost.. Those guy that do turn themselves to lion that is looking for meat to devour don enter one chance... Meat go do post utme online. No need to come campus

Bad guy

I like
Rema
Bella shurmda
Omah lay
Tems

Coming into nairaland has it's pros and cons , I'll try my best to make this brief and please permit my use of English language which won't be balanced .
I came across thread and open discussion from well known moniker like UNBUNJA, GLYCOLYSIS, HARDDON and a few I can't spell their name well,i wasn't to impressed and interested in what they say but reading and going back to it I can match it with real life situation and happenings in the society also I can match it with my dating life and status.
I used to be a very famous guy who everyone wants to be with , got the hottest babe and breakup with a lot of girls ,I can date a girl for a day then I'm done with her the next day like no feeling or remorse I'm no alpha just a bad boy with charisma.Everthing went down one day like nothing last forever then I knew the true nature of girls ,though all my liquid cash I used it to put my parents back on their feet and had to start from the scratch.
Lessons learnt: a stranger is more likely to help in times of need than your best friend .

Cinderella or Barbie will leave you for another when you lose everything or can't meet up again

Family is all that matters at the end

You truely know your best friend in dreadful situations

Starting from the scratch meet a new girl an hour to the relationship she's asking for 500 naria like who does ,does she see me as a walking ATM just left her that instance.
Another ask me for 50 naria two weeks to the relationship she be probably 22 I told her I don't have my friend will give her .
I met a girl on Facebook , this afternoon I chatted her up she said she's not okay I ask what happened , ialready know she know she I'll demand for money so I play along she said she needs 5k I said okay I'll give her in person and double the amount if we meet in person this same girl who was not taking me serious starting chatting me seriously and directing me the way to her house like I'm her daughter .I didn't want to go at first but she was hitting me with lot of text where I'm I , since her home is a bus from my place I went to her place on bus she was calling I don't want to disappoint hopes I ought to given her 2k , meeting her in person we talked she was looking at me like a baby I took his sweet I told her I'll give her to relief her the stress even though she stressed me .I asked her if she has a boyfriend she told me yes I told her why didn't she request the money for him she said she doesn't want to disturb him ,then I said okay but I'm only with 5h will she mange it and send her account number to me I'll do the transfer at home for her.she refused but later said I should give her the 5h which I later gave her 2k instead of 5h

I buy ps1 my mama seize am
Buy ps2 my papa sell am
Losers pay I dey there
Betting I dey there

Yes cause it was at the back of a long brt bus
Me thinking say nah wrong place
I still dey regret till today why
She dey always look like I steal her womb she no wan give chance again

I'll stand giving u the ring in a cool midnight hour telling same confessing I love and want to wife you
I'll look stupid kneeling and I don't like looking stupid doing shit like I'm begging

Recently

Kukuma say EVERY GENDER USELESS BUT NAH THE GIRLS USELESS PASS

I dey come
Bikini
G string
Pants
Half pant
Gothic pant
Sexy pants
Sexy bikini

I don't know I'm not married
If she goes there suspicion
If I go she suspect
Then we both go together
Club is to find a partner,go with your partner,one night stand, fun, relax,

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Naso person dey below

She's to good to be in a boy house go tell the police

Hnmmmmm

First babe tell me say No on 2go I send am smiley gift she still say No like five times anyway nah try your luck I do cause I know say she get boyfriend .

Second babe nah for ss2 she tell me no say she wan face her studies but they she dey give m greenlight and my highest for her head nah 200
Mumu me write love letter my mummy tear am advise me I still write another one give am I just dey remember how mumu I be that time

Another nah one girl the girl say No she no fit date any guy say them be the same but I Sha know she be good kisser and one night stand we did still want a relationship with her but she replied No me move on


Another overdoes me with love , best couple blah blah but kiss I no see I ask am out she say she get boyfriend fine and good make we walk away but no we be like boyfriend and girlfriend she diceive be bahd emotionally and mentally damage me bahd bahd

Spiritual attack hold you there

Another girl out to lust