₦airaland Forum

COOL10:
. Enough with the 'kid','kid','kid' statements already . If you're so OLD and MATURE and WISE,what the hell are you doing on a ground where children play? To advice us? Dude no one asked for your aged advice,kindly keep it to yourself aiit? Thank you. The mere fact that you keep reiterating the 'kid talk' shows how insecure you are. You're prolly not even as old as you portray yourself to be. Next time,learn to respect your supposed old age

LuciferKristi:
Her name is pocohantas.

Next time you sleep, keep an engagement ring at your bedside. She'll flee and never return.

Demons are exorcised using objects they can never own.

DonMekino:
My question....
1. She willingly gave a man sex and then reported to you that she was violated?? Methinks if it was consensual sex, she would have his it from u, unless u found out yourself..
Assume the worst and take ur decision, lemme say its consensual, and she tells u it was...would u leave her
If u can't trust her again better leave her and suffer the consequences now instead of tomorrow u rub it on her face...

GreenCap:
it can't stop me from going somewhere.

gonna do this winter holiday in western Europe.

there are 2 groups of commentators here:

the optimistic ones in UK

and the pessi-mis-ts.

person miss to stay
back.

2000 doctors leave Nigeria yearly

GreenCap:
Mr. Know All,

you are NOT all knowing than the 200 wise men and women who LIKE my comment.

Nigerians in Africa refer to the UK (England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland) as London.

we also refer to the US as America (two continents)

when i go to Manchester my village people can say, he traveled to London.

residents of Suleja (Niger state) or Maraba (Nasarawa) are in Abuja

while those in Ojodu Berger (Ogun) are in Lagos

and the ones living in Obigbo (closer to Aba) are in Port Harcourt.

much ado about nothing as the OP goes to Britain.

GreenCap:
80,000 Naira is not up to 200 Pounds.

what are you waiting for?

jump into British Airways ASAP

or stay back and earn less than 1 million per year.

living in London is hassle but not too hard.

Anfieldboss:
No trouble there, he should just face the reason why he is there, which is to impact knowledge to the innocent children. In our time as young male corpers, we all experienced same but we handled it maturely because they are still kids even if they think otherwise.

AllTheWayUp:

Okorocha and APC have lost Imo State come 2019

sleit:
Hi.
I am a lady of 22 years, will be 23 by January next year. I just
graduated and I've been with my guy since 200 level. We are in a
no-sex long distance relationship. In fact, we are both virgins. We
are kind of S.U.ish, if you understand the picture I'm trying to
paint.

He graduated ahead of me, and now has a job and is comfortable enough
to get married. So he's been asking for us to get married before
February next year. This guy is caring, wise, matured, faithful and
crazily in love with me (at least that is what he keeps saying).

Now, the problem?

I am not in love with him. I definitely do like and respect him, but
no matter how much I try, I can't just seem to fall in love with him.
So, you might ask why I kept the relationship for so long?
Well, I broke it off once, but he still came back and said we can put
in the effort to make it work.

He is a kind of person that doesn't condone sex out of marriage. Now,
he says the sexual pressure is quite high on him. And since he is
financially okay, he wants us to get married before he travels out for
his masters abroad.

I really have to give him an answer now as that will determine his
plans when leaving the country by February.

Would you guys advice me to accept the proposal of someone I know will
be a great husband and hope love will come along down the line later? Can a marriage start with just respect and like?
Or should I let him go and hope I will meet someone later? (I keep hearing a lot of scary stories about guys on nairaland and I'm
actually scared that if I let go, I won't get a keeper like him later.)

P.S.
I am a highly introverted person, and to make things worse, I work
remotely which means I hardly see people. I am always in my room with
my laptop.

C.C. Bukatyne, LadySarah, Shookonekilla, Ishilove, Sisisioge, Acidosis, TooNoisy, Eketem, Eyinjuege, Dominique, Eketem, KanwuliaExtra, Wilfredpat22, Tintingz, Babythug, Treasuredlove, Clarathomp, Cococandy, Nutase, Antina, Delishpot, St.surreal. (I've seen you guys give some opinion that I respect, need your say on this also. Thank you!).

delugajackson:
Hoes don't retire. We keep hammering it on these men but they chose not to listen. Now here you are, crying over an unrepentant hoe that does not even give a rat a.ss about your existence. You should be happy she filed for divorce, now she can carry-on with her whoring life peacefully and without interferance.

There is nothing more dangerous than staying in a toxic relationship/marriage, and there is nothing more deadlier than a cheating wife. For a woman that dated a married man in her past, it shows her lack of standards and level of irresponsibility, and not even marriage can change her.

Moral of the story - Never take a hoe for a wife.

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

lionness:
My projection

PDP takes Osun and those useless APC governors go back to their state ashamed with their tails between their legs and get serious and do vital projects for 2019. Everyone will pay salary and do vital projects and realize it isn't about vote buying or massive crowd or people crossing from PDP to APC. All that one na lawma and trash issues

Projection 2: APC president Buhari realizes he really needs to do more pro-masses project and fires useless cabinet members and fixes the economy and get that useless cbn dog to pump more and more money as soft loans to folks.

3: Ambode gets more balls and he crosses to adp or PDP and he brings down that useless scum called Tinubu for good. We need to stop all these godfather shytheads. The fool in ogun state Amosun will also lose and okoromumu in imo will also lose. We are tired of these type of godfather politics. It's bull shyt.

APC losing Osun will be a blessing for the commoners as it will energize the PDP and get those useless APC govs to work better. I don't care who controls the federal government, infact I pray PDP takes all the states in 2019. The Fulani herdsman in asorock can stay in power so far the opposition will reset his dead brain and get him to do what will move us out of this shythole status

Yomzzyblog:
So earlier today, the news broke that Popular Nigerian Blogger, Linda Ikeji acquired a Bentley Mulsanne worth 120 million to celebrate the birth of her son, Jayce popularly known as Baby J.

See some reactions below;

Gists via: http://www.yomzzyblog.com/2018/09/nigerians-reacts-as-linda-ikeji-acquire.html

Rooneyboy:
Were you into runs then ?
I'm just curious cos I don't see why a "decent" girl should go home with a total stranger she met in a club and expect not to be touched.

.............
Again my honest take on this your story is that you guys had a bargain before heading back to his apartment, something led to another , the guy didn't touch u althrough the night but still paid you as agreed.
That's my honest submission.
Lastly, what's the meaning of a friend "standing u up in a club"

rumenase:
Source: http://crazyanne.com/dumped-my-boyfriend/

2buffagain:
I base my proof on the fact that an igbo woman would rather hold up a wedding when it becomes finally clear the groom isn't interested in transporting his entire kin all the way to her village (Which will cost more than that damn car) to get married and just wants all weddings done in the country where her family already is i.e yankee.

You have not seen madness.
These people don't care about marriage, they only care about showing off to their village people... at other people's expense.

2buffagain:
So naive....
You would be surprised.

correctbae:
A Nigerian guy who is about to get married is in a cross road and needs help on how to get out. He wrote to sub delivery zone on twitter seeking for help.
According to his post, he got a car ahead of his wedding, only for his Father-in-law to call him and requested for the same car to be given to him, he thought it was all joke but he keep persisting him for 3weeks. To add to the issue, his girlfriend asked him to get it for him that she knows he is capable.
Read full gist below:

https://mobile.twitter.com/5nBOI/status/1040665594306035713

https://correctbae.ng/2018/09/14/father-in-law-demands-car-from-son-in-law-ahead-of-wedding-daughter-supports-her-dads-request/

Orla234:
What a lascivious man.


Most doctors are too perverse. It's really appalling.

2mercy:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2018/09/13/buhari-emerges-unopposed-faces-apc-affirmation-primary-in-october/?amp

pocohantas:
1) Why do Naija guys think sex is a loss to the lady?

2) Why will a guy and girl have sex, then Naija guys will call only the lady olosho with borehole pùssy?

3) Why is there so much emphasis on female chastity and virginity, but none for guys?

4) Why is male infidelity more tolerated/accepted than the female one?

5) Why do Naija guys turn totometer, trying to calculate the mileage of their girlfriend's vagina?

6) Why will you give a Naija man a blòwjob and he'll be wondering which man's dick you learned it with?

7) Why would a Naija guy date a girl and when they break-up, he will be happy he at least fuckéd her. Does it take something away from her? If yes, what? Is it a gift or collateral to the guy? If yes, why?

8 ) Why are there thousands of thread on guys analysing the female vagina, its depth, width, colour... in relation to her sexual partners?

9) Why is a sexually experienced guy a stud and his female counterpart, a slut?

10) Why are Naija girls slutshamed for being sexually expressive, whereas the guys can share sexcapades on ashawo beer parlour thread?

12) "Virginity is the best gift a woman can give her husband".
Do you agree with the above statement. If yes, why?

13) "A man can love his wife and fùck around, but a woman who does same can kill her husband". Do you agree with this statement. Discuss in not more than 6 lines.

14) If sex is indeed pleasurable for both,why does the female get all the antagonism and the guy gets the accolade?

If you can correctly and sincerely answer these questions.
The answer you seek lies therein.

coleB:
drnoel , thank you for ur fatherly input.. sadly, dis forum is not for grand popsies. allow we d children to enjoy our thread. . or would u rather kip derailing us?

IamHeWrites:
A Nigerian man has exposed the plot of some educated Nigerian men to destroy the future of “beautiful”, “intelligent” and “career-oriented” women.

Darren Idongesit, a Nigerian writer, met some educated friends of his at a pub and when they started discussing, he was shocked by the words that came out of their mouths.

According to him, there are men whose aim is to “decommission” women who have huge prospects. They chase after the women, endure all insults and humiliation, act like the perfect man, all with the aim of getting the woman pregnant. When the woman is pregnant, they lead her on up until the time it is no longer safe to terminate the pregnancy, then they abandon her.

Warning women about this plot by some men, Darren wrote;


https://www.torimill.co/viral/9737/man-exposes-plot-by-some-men-to-destroy-womens-future.html

deomelo:
Oby is basically a twitter troll and just like the other trolls and anti Nigerian elements, they always come up with ignorant rubbish and misinformation to justify their trolling ways with and to satisfy her troll followers.


God Bless that young man for lecturing that twitter troll.

2dice01:
and what happen to your father's age

2dice01:
alright Mr ancestor i guess you are older than methusalah

Ahijo1990:
You people should stop giving this Drnoel guy relevance now. All this his yammering with little sense and you guys are still obliging him.

If no one replied him, he will get the message and scram with his faux knowledge.

SMH.