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lawman88:
Please don't enlarge your bum bum. You are beautiful the way you are. I can never marry a lady who enlarge her bum or breasts

Not true, any health professional that sees that will know it's not from any buttoux enhancement but rather from a cancer

sweetlaw:
chill man, its not that deep

It's u that will say

sweetlaw:
lol




women still rules oooo.


like when they know you are on your way back from work

she will be like ....babe, get me roosted yam from that junction.......that black woman's own ooooo

Now that is acceptable, that one I do all often as madam wants or need it.

What I won't do is the one of cleaning her glasses when we both are chatting and nothing do her hand.
Or going to bedroom to collect her cup to fetch her water when I was in the sitting room and bring it back to her in the bedroom when nothing do her leg or she no sick. Abegi, that's excesses.

Something is wrong with you.

Na ignorance dey do am.
But me won't allow day shit.
U give Ur madam support but don't support her excesses.

SoNature:
Women always feel used and dumped whenever a relationship ends

While the reasonable ones understand that a man has an upper hand in relationships, they respect their husbands, thus they live happily ever after

But for slay queens like Tonto, they can never respect the man in their lives because they feel without them, the man can do nothing.

Now, when the man sees that his wife doesn't respect him, he will quietly seek divorce. In the end, the woman will realize she has made a terrible mistake as she has become a baby mama (fairly used).

On the other hand, the man will keep living his life like a sharp bad guy with many ladies flocking around him.

The essence of my message is, ladies, regardless of what your man does to you (as long as it's not life-threatening), divorce should never be an option.

Not a statement of fact but Ur own perception

kernniejay:
Did you say you don't have to check fluids in modern cars?? You are an accident waiting to happen.

No u don't. If u drive a modern one.
Have never had any problem so far. Not that I don't know where the stuffs are but that's due to the advice of the car companies.
Am sure if u drive a recent car u'd understand.

funmisticqueen:
yh. i would have raised the stakes tho.

There are guys that can match whatever stakes a girl lays as long as she compiles to set rules.
The guy in question could have done more if he wanted. I believe he didn't want to.

funmisticqueen:
i can take that for everything else, but not the freedom to cheat.

That's why not everyone must or can be involved in such agreements.
The clause about not cheating was to prevent just that so it's easy. If u want to cheat then u opt out from the contract.
As far as I am aware not one was forced cos both parties agreed and I was there with a lawyer for both parties concerned

funmisticqueen:
financing someone's life with 200K. Lol, he is poorer than i thought. loyalty is not that cheap.

Lol, d Lady in question isn't complaining so why should u? She smiles every month end when she gets the alert. Has been so for the past 12 months. That's so far 2.4 mil apart from a Honda SUV he gave her and his renting an apartment for her since the deal started.
Really u must be selfish if u want more from such an agreement.

funmisticqueen:
and 50:50 sex too, dont forget that. In that case 50:50 commitment and 50:50 loyalty.so she is free to get a sugar daddy or two to get the remaining 50%.

Imagine the way u are thinking. Thank God Ur thought doesn't reflect those of all women. The 50:50 means each partner brings in 50% to make a 100.

If she goes out to look for a sugar daddy in a relationship then the terms of the relationship has to be reassessed. Remember the man owes her nothing. He doesn't have to give her monetary gifts or finance her excesses. The fact he is her boyfriend doesn't make him her bank.
So if she looks for sugar daddy while in a relationship then the man is free to look for sugar mummy or if he is comfortable free to sleep around. It's that simple.

If then it's not a relationship but a partnership based on sex and materials needs then the terms of such a relationship has to be reached, a contract drawn and signed in the presence of witnesses. This particular type is actually my favourite cos it calls for no form of commitment, not Val or Christmas gifts and no relationship drama. Just plain and simple physical commitment in exchange for material gains.

I have a friend who placed his present bootycall on such a scale and they understand themselves well now. But before this they were dating, doing stupid boyfriend/girlfriend in a rocky relationship, always fighting and breaking up.

After I advised him to propose this type of understanding to her, he did and placed her on 200T monthly. They understand themselves now. Though the contract he had a lawyer draw up for them has a clause that if she cheats and if caught the contract is broken. I asked him why he wanted that clause there, he said he was financing her life and didn't want another guy enjoying his sweat. Anyways his problem not mine.

funmisticqueen:
dear ladies, this is why you must employ pay before service on every man who has expressed romantic interest. Let him prove his commitment by investing in the relationship and not with empty promises, poortential or simple errands . At least even if he is of the chop and clean mouth ministries, you wont be on the losing side.

Secondly broke men get no cookie ever. it is better he thinks you are a virgin or you are high maintenance than to fvck you for free.

But why must sex be related to financial commitment in a relationship?
If it's a sex partnership then I can understand.
But when u day relationship, sorry it must be 50:50 finance as well as 50:50 emotions. Not one person trying to steal from the other.

henritinecy:
So I started dating this girl about this time last year. Things were rosy because I just came back to the country and I was having much money with me. I tried my best to give her what she wants. As times goes on, earlier on this year, we had a little misunderstanding and I initiated a breakup. Of a truth, the issue was minor and didn’t warrant a breakup. She sent my friends to beg me. We kept on going. Along the line, things became rough for me and suddenly, her respect for me started reducing. She hardly create time for us. She is currently in school in another state while I am in Lagos. At this point, we usually breakup up and come back. They were minor things though but sometimes we don’t talk for a while. The last time it happened, she said if we ever break up again, we are never coming back together. And then, When things started going wrong with me financially, she advised to leave the country that it will better me as well as her. But I declined. Gradually , our seeing time reduced. Sometimes she will be in Lagos and we will see just once or twice and she usually tell me that she is busy that’s why it’s like this.

Fast forward to last month. Her elder sister has a wedding and we needed to travel together. So we used my car. Half way into the journey my car engine knocked. The car had to be towed to Lagos while we continued our journey. She even provided part of te money we used in towing the car back to Lagos as well as paying the rest of the fare till we got to our destination. Meanwhile, She was talking to different guys on the phone though the conversations were not related to us but I felt this jealousy in me. While on the journey I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. I asked her to give me her phone and she did without arguing and even opened it. Then I returned it back to her without going through it. Then I asked her what I can do at this point. Cuz now there is no finance from anywhere coming in. As a matter of fact, I was using that particular car for Taxify and now the engine is down. She said she had told me before but I didn’t listen and that I should leave the country and things will be better for me again. I said okay am going to do it this time. So my mind was to come back to Lagos after the wedding and I sell it off. She was even crying while telling me.

On the day of the marriage I took another car from home and helped with the things I could. Taking her and her friends to and fro with respect to the wedding. The day after the wedding, she called me to come pick her from the hotel her friends that came for the wedding were lodging. I got there and we started taking things to the car I brought from the rooms her friends lodged. On our way to the car, a man stopped her and she was having a conversation with the man. And the man was laughing with her and even exchanging contact. This is a man in the 40s. At this point I was furious but I kept quiet. When she was done she came to the car and we set off for her house. She saw in me that I was angry. She then asked me what was wrong and I told her my mood has changed. She asked me to go drop her at the hotel and that when my mood is back on, I should come pick her. I then tuned back, and she came down. Cuz of the love I have for her, I didn’t want this to degenerate to something else. I came down I told her the act was wrong. She then told me if it’s wrong for her to talk to people and meet people because she is dating me. I said it’s not wrong but me being there, it’s disrespectful and besides there are ways she can tell me to excuse her in order to show that she is concerned about me. She then replied and said am speaking English. I felt so back with that statement. I just dropped her stuffs and drove back home.

When I got home, I sent her a long message on Instagram telling her that I cannot continue in this relationship. That I need my respect back and making money is the only value that will bring my respect back. She replied with just thanks. 3 days later, I couldn’t continue a life without her. I called her in the morning. At this point , she has blocked me from communicating with her on Instagram. I asked her to forgive me for what I said and that I was just frustrated with the way things ain’t going well with me, coupled with my car and finances. She told me that she cannot date me again and has moved on. I thought it was a joke. I kept on begging but she has made up her mind.

Last week, I started talking to her with a random account on Instagram and posed like someone that is interested in her and has feelings for her. I also told her that I am not in the country at the moment and will be back next month. For 5 consecutive days we were talking. She even initiated a video call and I declined. Then I asked her about her relationship and she said it’s complicated. That she hasn’t heard from the guy in 2 weeks. And explained all that happened to him. She revealed so many things to me via that conversation. Then I now called her with my number. She then knew I was the one. I started pleading with her again , telling her that I am sorry. She said she has moved on. That the only language she understands now is money which I cannot offer her. That she is tired of this love thing. That if I beg from now till forever , she is not interested. That I should go and make money. That she needs someone that can pay her bills and that the only thing she can do for me is being friends with me. Of a truth she needs money to pay her school fees plus accommodation fee in school which is upward from N300,000 and I cannot provide that now. So she said she needs someone that can be giving her money and that she has suffered enough; But dating me, she can never do that again.

I love this girl and it’s hard to let go. Maybe with time, I will. But how do I let go of what I feel for her and how can I move ahead at this point? Yes she has motivated me to go make money and be a better person. But it hurts me so bad that after making this money, some other lady will be the one spending the rest of my life with me. Yes I bleeped up by not listening to her when she first asked me to leave the country. And I bleeped up by initiating a breakup due to my frustration. But my heart lies with her and hopefully with time, I will heal and make enough money that this experience will be a thing that will make me smile when I look back and think about it.

Please anyone that has gotten over someone you have been so much emotionally attached to, I need your help towards getting over her because right now, the whole experience is killing me.

Thank You

All this epistle, the only thing I understood is money money money. Travel out travel out.
When a relationship becomes toxic, it's best to walk out.
U missed a bullet

Holysucker:
Guy to be honest na u loose.

Talking abt sex u both enjoyed it...ur hard earned cash is gone just like dat,(even thou is noting to u like u said)..but trust me she had notin to loose..just dat women can't stand d thought of not having d last laugh..

the only tin I commend u on is ending d relafvckship like a man without compromising...I luv dat guts..

That's why I don't understand why other guys are hailing him. The lady was a cheap slut, no mistakes about it. She deserved worse then again what's done is done

seunmsg:
Propaganda or not, APC has done far more than any previous government to bring the second Niger bridge to reality. PDP ruled for 16 year and failed to build the bridge or even award the contract. Jonathan gathered all the who is who in Ibo land to the project site and commissioned the prototype without having a contract in place for the actual construction. Now that the contract for the construction is in place and serious work is ongoing, you should at least shut up if you can't compliment the government that is committed to building the bridge.

Committed is another word, not what u are looking for.
Government is a continuous process so no one government takes the credit. Pld let's leave sentiments out

WinningEleven:
hmmm...
That's true. But it doesn't work all the time

Have been in many relationship and Nr 1 always worked then.

After I got married, i never had to try Nr 2 and 3 till recently and it worked.
I mean I can't know how other ladies will react but if u have a good relationship with Ur spouse. It works everytime cos have given same advice to all my married friends and they all attest it works like magic.
I think the catch there is that u guys have to really have a thing before the quarrels for it to work.

WinningEleven:
hmmm...
That's true. But it doesn't work all the time

Have been in many relationship and Nr 1 always worked then.

After I got married, i never had to try Nr 2 and 3 till recently and it worked.
I mean I can't know how another ladies will react but if u have a good relationship with Ur spouse. It works everytime cos have given same advice to all my married friends and they all attest it works like magic.
I think the catch there is that u guys have to really have a thing before the quarrels for it to work.

WinningEleven:
If you are unmarried, store this as info to use when you do get married. For the married, please share with your spouse.



MANY sisters have boasted in my presence of how often they have had to 'lock shop' early, or how they lock shop for weeks, sometimes months, in order to teach hubby a lesson or just to spite him. These sisters are of the impression that they can do as they please, because they have the shop keys. As a result, they lock shop for every little thing, without giving consideration to the 'shopper'.



There are exceptions to every rule, and opinions will sometimes differ. However, where shop-locking is concerned, my philosophy is that shop should remain open at all times. I agree that teeth and tongue will meet, but shop-locking should never be used as a weapon or tool in conflict resolution. Couples should find suitable ways to solve problems.



It is a fact that not all 'shops' have a common closing time. As a matter of fact when one shop door closes, another is usually right around the corner with a big neon sign that blinks 'OPEN FOR BUSINESS'. Be wary of shops that are open late! The goods they stock are usually illegal, contaminated or expired. Ladies, if you or hubby should get sick or go to an early grave, let it not be due to consumption of tainted goods from another woman's shop.



Shop-locking adds fuel to fire in most cases. Women should never be fooled into believing that by putting up a 'CLOSED' sign on the shop door they are on their way to problem solving. Women, a hungry man will not allow himself to starve to death. Some will stop at nothing in their quest to satisfy their seemingly insatiable hunger. They will accept anything, whether hot and spicy or cold and icy. Some men will eat food not for taste, but for mere survival. They eat to live, to satisfy a need. That, my friends, is the nature of man.



When shop locks, who suffers more? In reality isn't it the shopkeeper more than the shopper? Sisters, please, I implore you, learn from the immigrants who come and set up shop on our soil, and keep shop open. Stop closing shop for every little thing. Open shop in shop seasons. Open shop on holidays. Open shop late at nights. Open shop during storm and hurricane. Open shop when shop should be open.



Even the well-bred man who eats out and scrupulously cleans his hands and mouth will bring home even a morsel from his street meal. Visualise what could happen when shop reopens for business as usual and some of his contaminated crumbs fall onto your plate. Imagine that you would have contributed to this scenario by locking shop. Always leave your shop open to your man. A word to the wise is sufficient!

It's all about orientation and how the lady is brought up.
Also depends on if the shopper in this case has convinced the shop owner that he can't get goods elsewhere then begins the effrontery.
That kind of effrontery can only be combated the same way it was started.

1) She locks shop, u give her bedroom Sharia.

2) She throw away the key, u give her generalized Sharia (including Sharia on Ur credit cards and bank accounts). Ofcos u continue Ur responsibilities to Ur kids if u have them.

3) She begins to hyp about it, u give her total Sharia (including malice, not eating her food among other things). U cap it up with always being around to play with Ur kids, take them out, buy Ur kids things be a wonderful dad and all.
But on her level, just give her silent treatment, zero attention.

NB: never raise Ur hands on her, never but Ur silent treatment will definitely win u the honey pot.

Na leverage games and the first person to blink looses.
Just be there to collect Ur price once she comes to apologize and don't be an asshole about it.

4) None of this works then u don't have a relationship with Ur spouse and that means no form of leverage. Means u have a lot of work to do.

sarrki:
This is craziness on the part of Nigeria journalism

It’s real shame what our media houses have turned to in the name of religion and politics

Does this Ur comment debunk the story? No.....
Pls try again

Ovamboland:
This is a perfect example of the failure of our educational system. Of all forgoing discussion you still remain stubbornly at this stage.

The answer has already been given. Don't blow a gasket cos u want to be rude. Walk away

Shybae:
Ouch! She never considered you her boyfriend.

Lol, one was calling me assistant boyfriend. Na there I Sabi say that's d end

mailtimi:
A Nigerian guy who witnessed what happened to a guy whilst in hold up in Lagos, has shared what transpired between the guy, his supposed lover and another guy.

Talking to his friend on Whatsapp, he shared the incident, which has since gone viral. He claimed that while he and some other passengers boarded a bus and were going to their destination, whilst caught up in hold up, he heard the guy next to him scream!

On hearing this, all passengers scared of course, the guy peeped outside the bus and screamed at the driver of a Benz, asking him to wind down the window of his car. Lo and behold, he saw what he never had bargained for that morning.

He saw his girlfriend romantically seating in front of the passenger’s seat of the Benz; a girl who lied to him she was in NYSC camp. A girl he had cuffed out N100k for few days earlier. Upon screaming and telling his story to everyone who had a listening ear, the driver of the Benz (the girl’s lover) felt bad and embarrassed.

Read the chat here: https://naijalog.com/guy-catches-his-gf-inside-anothr-guys-benz-after-she-lied-she-was-in-nysc-camp/

The Benz guy with just still take the babe to the nearest Chalet and finish up the needful

StOla:
Please you are educated enough to know that if you go to your old school over 50yrs later to secure a lost document that now requires a passport picture, you would supply a picture of your current self.

Same applies to the recently issued WAEC attestation with a recent picture.

Gosh! It is not rocket science.

Well said and no need for the arrogance. Anyways u could have added the date of issuance of 2015, I saw that later.

StOla:
The below documents and any certificates for the 1961 WASC exams, are all derivative from the Cambridge result master sheet already posted above.

The scores remain the same. The failures remain the same. The registration remains the same.

The results the Army secretary released as contained on Buhari's Army forms, when it claimed the certificate was nowhere to be found, tallies with the result from the Cambridge Master Sheet.

While u are at it, pls explain why the pictures are of an older version of the same person?

rusher14:
E pain IPOB.

I doubt they care

Kseafresh:
Nawa oo see Maga

Nothing wrong with being nice to someone but not when the fool starts thinking it's her right

TheShopKeeper:
Sir, it's been 22 months since Trump's presidency ordinary Obamacare, the Republicans in Congress couldn't change or amend a large portion, now you think it is feasible for the 14th amendment in the constitition to be changed within 18 months...it doesn't work like that...

Well I did say minimum and the 18 the amendment is just one of those things the repubs have wanted altered a long time.
Time will tell. What I wrote is just a sum up, it doesn't have to happen exactly that way but I bet he will have this controversy eclipse the re-election.