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galadima77:
That's the spirit...i'm sorry about the name calling

U have to be aware that not all men can be firm that doesn't make them weak. What Ubanja perpetrates is not being strong but being inhuman.

tricksters:
So Igbo people respect zoning btw themselves but hate it when it btw the North n the South. The Igbo tribe is the most hypocritical I will ever live to encounter in my life.

Your entire tribe should cover your face in shame for the comment you just made.

To condemn an entire tribe borders of pure outrage. U should be flogged

galadima77:
buhahahaha

That's why she left you because you channel your energy in the wrong direction.

Go and face her with same energy

No on the contrary, I left her. I allowed her those liberties cos I needed a live in person to take care of the house, only selfish reasons on my part. At that time I was hoping a girlfriend one could upgrade in the future would be the best line of action. Anyways when she showed her streaks I let her have her liberties till it was time to replace her. I just packed her stuffs and sent it to her workplace via a friend's taxi service with a note never to comeback to that house. Knowing she would, I changed the locks and keys and instructed the other tenants not to let her in.

LegendHero:
[s]Stop writing rubbish online and go and drink your feeder. If we start retaliating now you will start crying that we are dealing with you too much and trying to regulate how we react.

Did APC win Bayelsa or not?
Did you guys not call APC terrorist party?
Did you guys not hate everyone coz APC defeated Jonathan?
Did Jonathan not support APC (Lyon)
Is Jonathan not a godfather one way or the other?

Is it even a must for you guys to bring the mighty Yorubas to your discussion?[/s]

I believe he made a point but u just talked off point. When they call u Yoruba demon now u talk offense. Learn to tolerate others opinions first so that urs could be tolerated, that is lesson 101 of human socialism.

BabaO2:
Nothing like SE-SS, learn to be satisfied with what belong to you without begging or stylishly claiming what doesn't naturally belong to you. Same reason you were beaten white and black in South Africa.

Now that's uncalled for. There were also SW and Northerners in SA who had to run cos of xenophobia so WTF are u talking about?

galadima77:
Weak man.

Ubunja won't like this

U are pathetic and have no sense of strength in the right sense of it. U are quick to insult and it shows ur weakness. Also I pity u if ur reference is that sad charlatan Ubunja who streaks of pure bitterness.

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from.

She never loved you and she will never love you till death do you apart.

The only time women understand or have an idea of what true love is - it is after childbirth birth and nurturing.

Before that you are just a provisional tool for them. They will use you for their problems. ( Emotional, financial, mental, physically and psychological).

Now that you are both in the same house you will fully understand the full meaning of hypergamy and female nature. She will show you are true colour now. So observe and learn. You will need it to know how to handle future ladies.

Consider yourself lucky, trust me most men die without having the opportunity. They just slave away their life for a being that can never be satisfied. She is not even self content and satisfied. But we men now take it as our duty. It is abject and pure madness on how part has man.

Accept the pain to evolve yourself. You will need it. Safe

Jesus, that is a hard lesson nobody needs to learn. Believe me, I was there,.. a long time ago. She even had the nerve to start calling me assistant boyfriend. When I was housing her and feeding her just cause I needed someone to stay in the house and keep the house cos I was always away, women can be the very devil.
No vex but he doesn't need that at all. Best thing is he moves out ASAP.

Itooweak4una:
Good evening nairalander, my gf broke up with me and used that line on me. I have been confused since then. I asked her what she meant by that she said she sees me as a friend and nothing more. We dated for three years. To make matters worse we are staying together and i love her sincerely. For now we don't have any options than to stay together until i (she) can be able to afford another apartment. I don't want to beg her back. I just want to know how i can survive staying with her and healing from the heartbreak. Thanks

Staying with her will only heighten Ur pain and further alienate her. Move out immediately. If u have to squart with ur best buddies do that and take their insults, sleep on the floor if u have to but get out of her hair. That way u keep ur sanity and always remember who was the cause of ur pain. Love is everything but not worth dying or going mad for. Be wise.

Sirjamo:
Dr Clueless is technically an APC member, I am too old to believe that "Father to all" crap!!!

As well as a PDP member. So far no one of them has been able to cross carpet without staying alof or letting bias step in. Even OBJ could not do that but it seems GEJ has been able to accomplish that feat.
I could be wrong but this could make Bayelsa his playground if he doesn't misstep and let bias step in, he could hold Bayelsa longer than Tinubu is holding Lagos.

Born2Breed:
That proverb get k-leg. So because my husband marry me well him go come marry another wife.

We die here be that

The proverb goes both ways madam, if u marry husband wella u get to get another hubby �

But how did such a bill even pass first reading?

I Don bleep up brothers, how do I handle this situation I'm loosing weight very fast, this idiot I call a friend yesterday told me he wants to come to my place, we were very close in place of business but I don't know much about him aside business so I allowed him to visit, he was there in my house and told me he was going to sleep over I told him its OK.

As I was going out that evening, he later called me that a girl was coming to see him, I was stunned but didn't say a word. I just felt he should enjoy himself and that would be the last, to my surprise when I came back yesterday I saw two big plastic bags containing clothes from dry cleaner in my bedroom after, he wasn't around at that moment.

As I was still trying to understand the motive, the guy pressed the door bell, I opened and he went to lay on my bed, i slept on the living room last night, this morning he left before I woke up with the clothes still in my bed room. I told myself I will talk to him this evening but I was still looking for the polite way to talk to him, then my phone rang again this evening that he is coming, I said OK that's fine hoping to talk to him no matter how hard it is (I am a very quiet type) then he did come till few minutes ago.

He was banging on the gate and that is a big taboo in our compound because the key to the pedestrians gate was given to everyone in my compound so you can always lock the gate after you leave but this fool was banging at the gate like its a ghetto area. Everyone at the compound was already peeping at their window to know what's happening when I went to the gate to open it for him, to my greatest shock there was this razz tattooed lady with him, obviously a prostitute coming inside the compound with him. I was dumbfounded as I noticed people looking from their corridors.

I felt the ground should open and swallow me because it was unbearable, I was just recovering from the shock, this idiot got to my door instead of removing his shoes on the corridor he walked into my living room with his shoes on (Jesus) I couldn't bear that I told him remove his shoes because we joked a lot he retorted that I shouldn't talk to my boss in that manner again (thinking I was in for his jokes)

As I am typing this now, I'm laying on the living room and he is inside my bedroom on my bed with a prostitute. (I have only entertained a female visitor once in my house and I have never had sex with anyone on my bed) now this is what I get.

I am just a good guy to a fault (that's what I think) otherwise I couldn't let this guy inside my house, also he has a business that he said he wants to sell because he plans relocating to asaba to his family and I want to buy the business, I don't want him to feel I'm chasing him though that's what he deserves but I need smart ways to bid him farewell..

Towards the end of this I could hear a lady moaning meaning they are having sex and Im about to she'd tears why this guy wanna desecrate my home. Sorry for the long story but please advice my based on the delicate matter because I just battled depression and I will be depressed if this continues tomorrow. Thanks

What nollywood movie is that?

OladimejiRufai:
sorry if what I said hurt anyone's feelings or painted someone black.

But I made it clear that the woman may not be the prosmicuous just because I don't know her like you said.

or what exactly are you pointing at?

Nope, just wanted to point out that fact. Cheers

1stbest:
hello , Bros , am about attend driving school ( I will be 28 this year , no job ) , what is possibility of getting driving job out there , pls

Thanx for Ur question. I can't help u with an answer cos I don't know. Anyone that can help this youngman with an answer should pls reply him. Thanx

OladimejiRufai:
She lied to you before and she did it again despite that you asked her to come out clean.

Now this is what I observe.

Your fiancee may not be a bad girl or a "liar" in total sense. The fact that she even told you before marriage somehow proves that because she could have kept it from you forever.

But she is the type that will LIE to cover up mistakes from you or anyone and save herself from shame. This is the kind of person she is perceived to be.

So the question is are you ready to live with such a person?

It could happen that one of your uncles or brothers will visit your home, temptations will set in and they will have sex, she's the type that will hide it from you.

As she goes about her daily activities, she might meet a guy and have a fling with her, get pregnant and even give birth and present it as your own to save herself from shame.

It could happen that she hooks up with her ex especially after there's an unsettled misunderstanding with you, something plays after another and they have sex and may even be continually doing that but hide it from you.

I only gave those as examples based on possibility. Your fiancee might not be the prosmicuous type. But it still cannot be ruled out totally.

So you are the one who should ask yourself if you want to live with such a person as couples.

Good luck

What u did was uncalled for. What u did was to hit the last nail in the coffin, sad thing there is that u don't even know the lady in question.
Any person coming to Nairaland for advice on his/her relationship should expect to have such advices from people that don't bare them good fortune.

SalamRushdie:
First and foremost the NJC must remember that this meeting is not about whether Onnoghen is corrupt or not but to find out where Buhari got his imaginary powers from to claim to suspend the Head of the Judiciary and where he got another imaginary power from to dare to replace him without any input from the NJC and the National assembly as enshrined in our constitution.

The out come of this meeting must be to uphold the constitutional status quo and to fix another date to hear the trumped up corruption charges against Justice Onnoghen and to decide the punitive measure for the unbecoming behaviour of Justice Tanko.

Simple!! All other people talking rubbish here should just keep silent

So one man went on family parade and everyone is cool with it

justwise:
The same reason those Chinese and Koreans are not staying in their individual countries to make it but decided to move to Nigeria.

Did you ask them why they are not making it in their own country? Is China not far better than Nigeria?

That phrase "make it", "making it" is our main problem as Nigerians. It makes the idea of cutting corners enticing.
Many Asians that do business in Nigeria have assess to big loans which Nigerians don't get to have. The other Asians who don't get loans come in for illegal runz.
It's a mentality problem.

sunnyt1:
That lady, regardless of her age or for how long she has been married, has shown the world, in a click, that she lacks the mental maturity and emotional inteligence required for a marriage.

she has insulted the husband, her marriage and upbring.

Yep, this is a perfect example why u should post everything in social media

Anduku:
You people should allow them enjoy their marriage in peace, monitoring spirits everywhere

Next time the madam with be very careful and not make compromising statements that could be perceived as it has been. It's her fault and she has no one to blame but herself.

dre11:
Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/12/nobody-can-kill-me-because-im-already-dead-adeboye/

Make person tell am say make in no vex. That thing way dey kill person for gun dem never remove am

GlorifiedTunde:
We operate totally different cultures. The western ways are different from the African.

To me, it's not bad. One spouse brings the bacon home and the other helps make the home.

If only they can avoid the social media, they'll be a fine team.

Childish statement.
Nothing wrong with it as long as it works for the couple.
I know a couple who both do runs in different fields.
The man is into machine parts, cars e.t.c and the wife is into flowers, leather and decorations. Both are into big time business and divide their time between their 3 kids.
When madam is home oga is away but as soon as oga returns madam is off.
Or when oga travels he does his runz and madam own pit together and when he travels she does both hers and his. Ofcos any one that stays home minds the kids. Nothing wrong with that.

Hilarious, the guy na kingkong

Nobodys:
..lol.. you got it all wrong...that's not a person's moniker..

when you deactivate your account, your name becomes nobody...so the nobody that you've been seeing are deactivated accounts...

Ahso! Now that clearer. Thank a lot for the clarification.

Nobodys:
Thanks...and ermm I'm a girl... wonder why you guys call me bro..lol..

Gudnyt dear...

then u must be his alter ego cos d Nobody I know has no 'S' to his moniker

Liliyann:
Its quite unfortunate that most guys have abuse the word "date"!!
Stop taking girls on a date if you don't have the financial capabilities!!!
I see broke men everyday inviting ladies on a date just to impress them and when they order things,you see them coming to cry online!!
You can't invite me on a date and expect me to drink water and meat pie!!
Date is all about having fun!!!
Spending money and lavishing it on a girl!!
Men should stop being cheap!!
No lady was born to suffer!!

Modified: To all the lazy, poor and frustrated souls that are quoting me,my advice to you all is to go and make money and know what it feels like to love and spend on a girl!!

Hilarious from someone like u. Really a joke coming from u.
I just forgot to laugh.
So cos he invites her out to get to know her, he must kill and elephant?
If that's what I meant then continue with the mentality.
Let people who comment after me correct u

Bullshit! His opinion and a false one at that.
Marriage is not by force or for everyone.
A woman must not wait on a man to complete her life.
This life is too short for all that shit.
This Nigerian mentality is why Nigerians never progress forward

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
Spare the rod and spoil the child.

Proverbs 23:13-14. It says: “Withhold not correction from the child : for if thou beatest him with the rod , he shall not die.

Be very careful what you quote. The child is just 2 years. No how she won't poo on herself.

socialmediaman:
A Buharideen said that it showed Buhari was not corrupt but he would also blame GEJ for the problems in Otueke when GEJ was president. Hypocrisy is on the next level among Nigerian young people.

Lol, the funny thing Sowore didn't do was to go to the president home, road leading to his house. My broda, what he would have seen there would have been wonders.
Who is deceiving who?
This Sowore's trip was a waste if he didn't go there

What movie is this

Nobodys:
Standards?. what standards, babe.....

You've lost hold of reality and dignity and you're talking about standards?...

I see how you go around nairaland, preaching some lame ideology of yours, polluting the mind of young vulnerable girls.... I just hope you practice what you preach, and if you do, then you shouldn't be talking about standards, babe....cause when someone mentions sex and the next thing that pops into the brain of a lady is ' MONEY' then she ain't no woman of standards...

Instead of encouraging girls to get enough money from men before spreading legs, you should encourage girls to struggle and make money for themselves....... SEX and MONEY are two different things for a woman of standards....

** no offense**.

@ Nobody, wise words bro. Didn't know u had such maturity. Will start to take U seriously as from now.
Weldone.