₦airaland Forum

Jamariwolff:
nothing pains me than this statement.
you tell a fool you dumped an ex and he tells you this trash.


listen up, the reason I decided to sleep with him is bcuz I found him attractive in one way (whether face or body, character or cash).
yes, I voluntarily did it and i ENJOYED IT! so I lost nothing other than the excess stress in my hormones.

I wasn't raped, no nigga!
you gave me something and i gave you something also. anything you think after that is your own cup of tea.

unlike other ladies that feel ashamed, I don't. I carry it on my head and ain't afraid to say to any gossip that "yes, he's part of my bodycount".

its really sunny round here. OK bye.

goaldynman:
RUBBISH!

So you expect the Igbos to vote for Yoruba VP?

It's obvious you're one of those APC agents trying to deceive Atiku to choose a Yoruba VP! Without Yoruba vote Atiku and PDP will still win! It has happened during Obasanjo time, when southwest did not vote for Obasonjo!!

PenPrince07:
The Presidency on Thursday morning released 64 achievements of the President Muhammadu Buhari’s administration in the agricultural sector.

Buharis media aide, Lauretta Onochie, released the achievements in a statement on Facebook titled ‘Sixty Four Achievements of President Muhammadu Buhari in Agricultural Sector’.

List of achievements below:

“1) The anti-corruption drive of Mr. President put to a halt the exogenous leakages in the Agricultural sector to encourage, empower, and enhance the locally made farm produce thereby increasing our internally generated revenue (IGR) index and foreign exchange capacity and reserve to over $45 Billion in cash and bonds.

2) President Buhari initiated the Home Grown Feeding Programme which is designed to put an end to importation and market monopoly of farm produce that can be grown here in our country which is a pilot vehicle to sustainable economic, agricultural, academic and job creation across the length and breadth of our nation.

3) Under President Buhari, the Standing Inter-Ministerial Technical Committee on Zero-Reject of Agricultural Commodities and Produce / Non-oil Exports in Nigeria was inaugurated.

4) Under the Buhari-led administration, Nigeria has benefitted from 13.1billion Euros honeybee project.

5) The Buhari administration has commenced steps improving the standards of Nigeria’s agricultural exports to align with global standards due to the rejection of our produce at the EU Border Controls.

6) Under President Buhari, Standards and Quality Control measures have been developed in.

7) Under President Buhari administration at the end of 2016, agricultural goods as a share of total trade got N212.73bn and 4.02 percent and Agricultural goods exports were 2.7 percent higher in Q4 2016 than Q3 2016.



8.) Under the Buhari-led administration, Sesame seeds contributed N6.46billion to Agricultural product exports in the fourth quarter of 2016.

9) In the fourth quarter of 2016, Frozen shrimps and prawns chipped in N4.4billion to Agricultural product exports under PMB’s administration.

10) Under President Buhari administration in the fourth quarter of 2016, Flour and meals of soya beans contributed N2.59billion to agricultural product exports

11) Under President Buhari administration in the fourth quarter of 2016, cashew nuts in shell contributed N0.95billion to Agricultural product exports with the Buhari-led administration.

12) Crude palm kernel accounted for N0.62 billion of the total Agricultural exports under the President Buhari administration in the fourth quarter of 2016.

13) Under the President Buhari administration, the agricultural universities coordinating agency is being revitalized as stipulated in the enabling Act which will work closely with the Nigerian University Commission and development partners to re-focus the universities of agriculture in the country.



14) The Livelihood Improvement Family Enterprises (LIFE) programme was initiated by the Buhari Administration and it is aimed at bringing life back to rural communities through the empowerment of youth, women and other vulnerable groups across the country.

15) Livelihood Improvement Family Enterprises (LIFE) Programme initiated by the President Buhari administration is geared towards promoting community-based on-farm and off-farm business activities as a model for job and wealth creation amongst unemployed youth and women in rural and suburban households.

16) Livelihood Improvement Family Enterprises (LIFE) Programmes under President Buhari are expected to establish 150,000 cooperatives nationwide under commodity value chain groups.

17) Livelihood Improvement Family Enterprises (LIFE) programme under President Buhari will establish and operate up to 1,000 cottage industries in the country, and ultimately engage about 1,995,500 youth and 997,500 women for enhanced productivity.

18) Livelihood Improvement Family Enterprises (LIFE) programme under President Buhari would add about 5,965,000 metric tons of foods to the national food store.

19) Anchor Borrowers’ Programme is an intervention of the Buhari administration aimed at fast-tracking access of rural farmers to finance productivity.

20) The Anchor Borrowers Programme (ABP) of the Central Bank of Nigeria under the Buhari-led administration has made available N82billion in funding to 350,000 farmers of rice, wheat, maize, cotton, cassava, poultry, soybeans and groundnut; who have cultivated about 400,000 hectares of land.



21) The Buhari-led administration has made provision of agricultural credit for financing the production of rice, wheat, ginger, maize and soybeans in Kebbi, Niger, Kaduna, Kano, Enugu, Benue, Zamfara, Anambra and Kwara States.

22) The Anchor Borrower’s Programme (ABP) under Buhari’s administration has provided a quantum of money for dry season farming in 2015, wet season rice and wheat farming in 2016 and is currently supporting the 2016 dry season farming in many states.

23) The President Buhari administration has commenced the use of National Soil Map Data, with the promotion of the use of soil-specific fertilizer formulations and application in prescribed dosages based on soil types following the conduct of soil mapping/test to enhance agricultural production and productivity.

24) Under President Buhari administration a resurrected interest in agriculture has awakened among smallholder farmers.

25) Under the Buhari-led administration, Nigeria’s fertilizer market is growing.

26) The President Buhari administration has signed an agreement with the Government of Morocco for the supply of fertilizer raw materials on concessionary terms to boost local blending to facilitate making soil and crop-specific fertilizer blends available and accessible to smallholder Nigeria farmers.

27) The Ministry of Agriculture under President Buhari is facilitating the timely access of farmers to appropriate quality seeds.

28) The President Buhari administration has facilitated seed trading locally and internationally through the application of regionally agreed principles and rules.



29) The enabling environment for private investment in the seed industry has been created by the Buhari-led administration.

30) Under President Buhari, the National Irrigation Policy and Strategy has been developed and focuses on the need to overcome the irrigation challenges and put available irrigation facilities in the country into effective use.

31) The PMB Administration has assessed the status of infrastructure in all the 12 River Basin Development Authorities (RBDAs) hence, commenced immediate and effective use of the facilities for commercial farming.

32) Under President Buhari, the Bank of Agriculture (BOA) has been strengthened for improved delivery of services through consolidation and recapitalization in collaboration with the Bureau of Public Enterprises (BPE) to ensure loan disbursement at a single digit interest regime in the agricultural sector as obtainable in developed and emerging economies.

33) The President Buhari administration has approved the restructuring, re-capitalizing, and repositioning of the Bank of Agriculture (BOA).

34) The Buhari administration has secured the approval of a grant of $1.1 million from the African Development Bank (AfDB) for the restructuring of the Bank of Agriculture, aimed at staff training to strengthen service delivery.

35) The President Buhari administration has embarked on the re-validation of the claims of agro-dealers and input suppliers under 2014 wet and 2014/2015 dry seasons to ensure that genuine claims are paid by the government.

36) The President Buhari administration has facilitated the payment of the sum of N20 billion, as part of the debts owed agro-dealers while efforts are on to fully settle the outstanding liabilities.

37) The President Buhari administration has established a N50 billion mechanization fund to facilitate the second phase of Agricultural Equipment Hiring Enterprise (AEHE) to roll-out 6,000 tractors and 13,000 harvest and post-harvest equipment units across the country.

38) With the Buhari-led administration, Tractors and Implements were rolled out in Ilorin and Abuja on January 12, 2016, to support targeted commodity value chains.

39) The rising spate of hostilities and attendant insecurity arising from clashes between crop farmers and nomadic herdsmen has raised serious concern within the government. Accordingly, the PMB administration has commenced efforts towards the resolution of pastoralists-farmers conflicts through the provision of 55,000 hectares of land by 11 states as part of the 5,000 hectares each expected from the 19 northern states for the development of pasture/paddocks grazing reserves.

40) The Buhari administration has established 40 large-scale rice processing plants and 18 High-Quality Cassava Flour (HQCGF) plants with a stake commitment of China EXIM (85 percent) and Nigeria Bank of Industry (BoI) (15 percent) through concessional credit facilities of US$383,140,375.60 for the rice mills and US$143,722,202.40 for the HQCF Plants.

41) The President Buhari administration through the Ministry of Agriculture is embarking on a programme of distribution of rice mills, of ten tons per day capacity, 20 tons a day, 40 tons a day, 50 tons and a few 100 tons. Collectively between them, the capacity for rice milling will be close to 3,000 tons a day nationwide. That is expected to close the gap between paddy availability and mills to process it.

42) The President Buhari administration has established 10 large-scale rice processing plants and 6 High-Quality Cassava Flour plants to be owned and operated by the private sector and would be funded by the Special Rice Processing Intervention Fund and the WB Assisted Agricultural Development Policy Operation [AgDPO] Funds.

43) Through President Buhari administration, Real GDP in agriculture grew by 4.11 percent in the year 2016, and this growth rate was higher than that recorded in 2015 of 3.72 percent.

44) Under Buhari’s administration as captured by the National Bureau of Statistics (NBS), there was a continuing strong growth in Agriculture (especially Crop Production) in the Q4 of 2016.

45) Agriculture contributed 21.26 percent to nominal GDP in the Q4 of 2016 and the sector grew by 6.45 percent year-on-year under President Buhari administration.

46) In the Buhari-led administration, the contribution of Agriculture to overall GDP in real terms was 25.49 percent in the quarter under review, higher than its share of 24.18 percent in the corresponding quarter of 2015.

47) The Ministry of Agriculture under President Buhari administration also provided 2283 bags of industrial salt to hides and skin dealers in 12 targeted states.

48) The President Buhari administration placed a ban on rice importation and that has saved Nigeria an average of $5 Million daily.

49) The growing success story on agriculture in Buhari’s Administration has prompted more youths to commence full production in agriculture.

50) More than 7 million Nigerians are actively employed in agriculture under the Buhari Government’s diversification agenda and the Ministry of Agriculture is working to ensure that Agriculture will offer 20 million jobs in the nearest future.

51) Nigeria’s milled rice production has increased by about 60 percent, from 2.5 million MT in 2015, to 4 million MT in 2017 under the President Buhari administration.

52) The Buhari-led administration set up the Presidential Fertilizer Initiative (PFI) to deliver commercially significant quantities of affordable and high-quality fertilizer to the Nigerian farmer at the right time

53) The Presidential Fertilizer Initiative (PFI) under the President Buhari administration has resulted in the revitalization of 14 blending plants across the country, with a total installed capacity in excess of 2 million MT.

54) The Presidential Fertilizer Initiative (PFI) under the President Buhari administration has resulted in benefits which will include annual savings of US$200 million in foreign exchange, and N60 billion annually in budgetary provisions for Fertilizer subsidies.

55) Under President Buhari administration, the current cumulative in terms of IGR generated through Agriculture since the fall in the price of crude globally has placed agriculture as the best alternative for creating wealth and increasing our National Foreign Reserve to an all-time high.

56) Nigeria’s economy has since bounced back after the recession of 2015/2016 and has continued to grow back as the strongest stabilizing economy in Africa under Buhari-led administration.

57) Through the Buhari-led administration, agriculture is already ripe to be the next green oil and global gold the world has ever seen and the green-rush will lead all roads to Nigeria.

58) Buhari-led Administration has revived 11 moribund plants with a combined capacity of over two million metric tonnes.

59) In 2017 under the President Buhari administration, Presidential Fertilizer Initiative (PFI) delivered 10 million 50kg bags(500,000MT) of NPK 20:10:10 fertilizer at a price of N5,500 in time for the wet season which is down from the price of N9,000 per 50kg bag in 2016, a 40% reduction in price.

60) Under President Buhari administration there is a higher patronage for the country’s rail network due to movement of raw materials and finished goods.

61) Under President Buhari administration, the bag-making sector of the economy was boosted, with over 10million packaging bags produced exclusively for Presidential Fertilizer Initiative (PFI).

62) The Presidential Fertilizer Initiative (PFI) has been able to create 60,000 direct jobs and even a higher number of indirect jobs under the Buhari-led administration.

63) The Buhari-led administration has cut down on imports of agricultural products in order to enable self-sufficiency in food production and consumption.

64) Under President Buhari administration, The Green Alternative (TGA) was initiated, a major policy thrust to build an agri-business economy capable of delivering sustained prosperity by meeting domestic food security goals, generate exports, support sustainable income and job.”

MYND4, Lala,
https://www.concisenews.global/2018/10/11/presidency-release-list-buharis-achievement/

Tushkito:
You have spoken well mefor, the VP slot must be zoned the southeast, it must be done to give the region a sense of belonging. Those people pushing for southwest VP are not only myopic but also WICKED.

CilicMarin:
Exercise in futility!

If Hope Uzodinma is popular as he claims, why did he defect from the PDP to APC after Okorocha singlehandedly built APC from the scratch?


Why can't he try other parties in Imo State and ask for votes?

NaDemDayRushUs:
So a brother just got back from Wales after about 15 years upstate and it's kinda funny cause all those girls that used to never bother about me seem to be all cozy and nice now. I just don't get it, is it that Nigerian women don't like to hold a grinding nigg* down or they just so attractive to wealth ?


since I got back, na so Dem day rush me o... They keep stealing my digits from their friends phones

BrownChima212:
PMB is shy

chriskosherbal:
Same writer, same song, same singer, same podium.


God bless Nigeria.

bilms:
If i speak, Nigeria will boil says ANN Chairman, as he frowns on party hijackers and godfathers
https://mrrightsng..com/2018/10/ann-chairman-recounts-how-party-was.html

The National Chairman of Alliance for New Nigeria (ANN), Dr. Jay Osi-Samuels has narrated how the party was rescued from highjackers and godfathers, saying it was not an easy task dealing with political and so called spiritual godfathers.

" If i open my mouth and speak, Nigeria will boil'' he says.


In a speech he delivered at the party’s national convention in Abuja on Wednesday, he said the party which is ideologically different from others suddenly found itself in the hands of godfathers, some of whom had hidden under the banner of church spiritual fathers.

He further explained that forces of godfathers would have succeeded as a result of moles they planted in the party, but some genuine members within the fold stood up in defence of the party and its ideology.


“Some powerful forces were surreptitiously working to disintegrate the party, they planted moles into the party and they almost succeeded in hijacking the structure of the party.”

Dr. Osi-Samuels further said forces against the party began to malign his name when they could not succeed in disintegrating the party.

“My name has been maligned even to the highest political level in this country, but I’m not deterred,” he said.


He commended the party’s president aspirant, Gbenga Hashim-Olawepo for his contribution and for offering himself to contest the Presidential election in the party in 2019.

“There is a man that we have been talking since February and if you remove the persons, we will not have what we call Alliance for New Nigeria and that person is Olugbenga Olawepo Hashim.”

The Congress affirmed the sacking of the party’s former National Chairman, Emmanuel Daniel through a voice votes.

The affirmation was after Dr. Osi-Samuels dispelled rumours making the rounds that the ANN has been factionalized.

“I hate hearing people saying that ANN has been factionalized. There is no faction of ANN anywhere”, he insisted.

Talking about an aspirant of the party who claimed to be candidate, Dr Samuel said they can't reap,where they didn't sow.

"People who contributed nothing to the party when it needed them most cannot suddenly jump out from nowhere and claim to be candidate of the party " he said.

He commended Olawepo Hashim for his determination, as the 593 delegates endorsed him as presidential candidate of the ANN.

AutoElectNG:
What car are we talking about here so I will respond with facts and figures

Yambee:
Tinubu is a legend.

Hate him or like him. Tinubu is what every region wishes to have, and the elite fighting him are just jealous of the followership and respect this man commands.

He has said it, he is a party man and the party has spoken. When Ambode was busy offending the party people, he thought that as a Governor, he could use money to clear his way for a second term.

He got that wrong. He forgot that in Yoruba-land, respect for elders comes before money. A true son/daughter of the yoruba land, will not accept anything from you after you insult them.

The United States is not Nigeria. If Sanwo-Olu was arrested for using fake dollars, it will be in the public domain(mugshot.com) there are no big men in the US,and your crimes cannot be hidden. So Ambode goofed by telling that lie,which was far be beneath his person.

It is these antics of Ambode this last one week that has angered true Lagosians(me inclusive) that we have vowed to make him irrelevant forever.

By the end of this week,Ambode will be irrelevant in Epe,and his disloyalty might not make another Epe man be a Governor for a long time,as you just cant trust these Epe people.

gimmehear:
LAGOS GOVERNORSHIP PRIMARY ELECTION RESULTS.
Ward D2 ,Lagos Island.
Sanwoolu: 2280
Ambode: 0

Oshodi Afariogun Ward D2
Sanwo-Olu- 5,557
Ambode- 44

Paper slip holders are not allowed to vote in Ward F Ojokoro LCDA

The population of the paper slip holder is more than the plastic. What do we do about that.

Today in ward G1, Mushin Local Government, Mr Babajide Sanwo-Olu Scored 4265 votes while Mr Akinwunmi AMBODE scored 3 votes.
Election Concluded now

Ifako ijaiye Wrd B.
Sanwolu 523.

Ambode

0
http://gimmehear.com/results-for-lagos-primaries/

https://mobile.twitter.com/SaharaReporters/status/1047084870290354176

COOL10:
. Enough with the 'kid','kid','kid' statements already . If you're so OLD and MATURE and WISE,what the hell are you doing on a ground where children play? To advice us? Dude no one asked for your aged advice,kindly keep it to yourself aiit? Thank you. The mere fact that you keep reiterating the 'kid talk' shows how insecure you are. You're prolly not even as old as you portray yourself to be. Next time,learn to respect your supposed old age

LuciferKristi:
Her name is pocohantas.

Next time you sleep, keep an engagement ring at your bedside. She'll flee and never return.

Demons are exorcised using objects they can never own.

DonMekino:
My question....
1. She willingly gave a man sex and then reported to you that she was violated?? Methinks if it was consensual sex, she would have his it from u, unless u found out yourself..
Assume the worst and take ur decision, lemme say its consensual, and she tells u it was...would u leave her
If u can't trust her again better leave her and suffer the consequences now instead of tomorrow u rub it on her face...

GreenCap:
it can't stop me from going somewhere.

gonna do this winter holiday in western Europe.

there are 2 groups of commentators here:

the optimistic ones in UK

and the pessi-mis-ts.

person miss to stay
back.

2000 doctors leave Nigeria yearly

GreenCap:
Mr. Know All,

you are NOT all knowing than the 200 wise men and women who LIKE my comment.

Nigerians in Africa refer to the UK (England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland) as London.

we also refer to the US as America (two continents)

when i go to Manchester my village people can say, he traveled to London.

residents of Suleja (Niger state) or Maraba (Nasarawa) are in Abuja

while those in Ojodu Berger (Ogun) are in Lagos

and the ones living in Obigbo (closer to Aba) are in Port Harcourt.

much ado about nothing as the OP goes to Britain.

GreenCap:
80,000 Naira is not up to 200 Pounds.

what are you waiting for?

jump into British Airways ASAP

or stay back and earn less than 1 million per year.

living in London is hassle but not too hard.

Anfieldboss:
No trouble there, he should just face the reason why he is there, which is to impact knowledge to the innocent children. In our time as young male corpers, we all experienced same but we handled it maturely because they are still kids even if they think otherwise.

AllTheWayUp:

Okorocha and APC have lost Imo State come 2019

sleit:
Hi.
I am a lady of 22 years, will be 23 by January next year. I just
graduated and I've been with my guy since 200 level. We are in a
no-sex long distance relationship. In fact, we are both virgins. We
are kind of S.U.ish, if you understand the picture I'm trying to
paint.

He graduated ahead of me, and now has a job and is comfortable enough
to get married. So he's been asking for us to get married before
February next year. This guy is caring, wise, matured, faithful and
crazily in love with me (at least that is what he keeps saying).

Now, the problem?

I am not in love with him. I definitely do like and respect him, but
no matter how much I try, I can't just seem to fall in love with him.
So, you might ask why I kept the relationship for so long?
Well, I broke it off once, but he still came back and said we can put
in the effort to make it work.

He is a kind of person that doesn't condone sex out of marriage. Now,
he says the sexual pressure is quite high on him. And since he is
financially okay, he wants us to get married before he travels out for
his masters abroad.

I really have to give him an answer now as that will determine his
plans when leaving the country by February.

Would you guys advice me to accept the proposal of someone I know will
be a great husband and hope love will come along down the line later? Can a marriage start with just respect and like?
Or should I let him go and hope I will meet someone later? (I keep hearing a lot of scary stories about guys on nairaland and I'm
actually scared that if I let go, I won't get a keeper like him later.)

P.S.
I am a highly introverted person, and to make things worse, I work
remotely which means I hardly see people. I am always in my room with
my laptop.

C.C. Bukatyne, LadySarah, Shookonekilla, Ishilove, Sisisioge, Acidosis, TooNoisy, Eketem, Eyinjuege, Dominique, Eketem, KanwuliaExtra, Wilfredpat22, Tintingz, Babythug, Treasuredlove, Clarathomp, Cococandy, Nutase, Antina, Delishpot, St.surreal. (I've seen you guys give some opinion that I respect, need your say on this also. Thank you!).

delugajackson:
Hoes don't retire. We keep hammering it on these men but they chose not to listen. Now here you are, crying over an unrepentant hoe that does not even give a rat a.ss about your existence. You should be happy she filed for divorce, now she can carry-on with her whoring life peacefully and without interferance.

There is nothing more dangerous than staying in a toxic relationship/marriage, and there is nothing more deadlier than a cheating wife. For a woman that dated a married man in her past, it shows her lack of standards and level of irresponsibility, and not even marriage can change her.

Moral of the story - Never take a hoe for a wife.

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

lionness:
My projection

PDP takes Osun and those useless APC governors go back to their state ashamed with their tails between their legs and get serious and do vital projects for 2019. Everyone will pay salary and do vital projects and realize it isn't about vote buying or massive crowd or people crossing from PDP to APC. All that one na lawma and trash issues

Projection 2: APC president Buhari realizes he really needs to do more pro-masses project and fires useless cabinet members and fixes the economy and get that useless cbn dog to pump more and more money as soft loans to folks.

3: Ambode gets more balls and he crosses to adp or PDP and he brings down that useless scum called Tinubu for good. We need to stop all these godfather shytheads. The fool in ogun state Amosun will also lose and okoromumu in imo will also lose. We are tired of these type of godfather politics. It's bull shyt.

APC losing Osun will be a blessing for the commoners as it will energize the PDP and get those useless APC govs to work better. I don't care who controls the federal government, infact I pray PDP takes all the states in 2019. The Fulani herdsman in asorock can stay in power so far the opposition will reset his dead brain and get him to do what will move us out of this shythole status

Yomzzyblog:
So earlier today, the news broke that Popular Nigerian Blogger, Linda Ikeji acquired a Bentley Mulsanne worth 120 million to celebrate the birth of her son, Jayce popularly known as Baby J.

See some reactions below;

Gists via: http://www.yomzzyblog.com/2018/09/nigerians-reacts-as-linda-ikeji-acquire.html

Rooneyboy:
Were you into runs then ?
I'm just curious cos I don't see why a "decent" girl should go home with a total stranger she met in a club and expect not to be touched.

.............
Again my honest take on this your story is that you guys had a bargain before heading back to his apartment, something led to another , the guy didn't touch u althrough the night but still paid you as agreed.
That's my honest submission.
Lastly, what's the meaning of a friend "standing u up in a club"