Iyaebe: Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiance accepts her like that, should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.
As a woman you shouldn't be asking this type of question
rosebase: I have seen 3 diferent scorpions in my apartment in d last 4weeks, a very tiny ones though. After blocking all d holes some days go I still saw one this night. What's d wat out pls
Jayzel: I understand ur fear of most women bro, but she's from a wealthy background and she own a ride (LEXUS IS 250) so i don't think she's after my money dude
With the way things are,finding a faithful girl for marriage is very difficult and that is what am battling.At times if you see a good and faithful girl, she might not be attracted to you
Jayzel: I've been dating my beautiful damsel for over 6 years now (2015), she has been financially supportive to me when things were so rough for me untill now things are a bit balance, since when our relationship kickoff we have never fought for once, we do argue most~times and later in the day we settle it inside our bedroom at night, she's so respectful and honest to both me and my family members.
There's a pretty damsel working in a UBA bank close to my residencial area here in Oniru Lekki, when I do return every~day from my working place I do branch at the bank to save some money in my account, the lady is my favourite cashier so I do give her the money and take my leave, so later in the day she will transfer the money into my account without no delay at all. But yesterday she called me on phone that she wanted us to hang out together (today being sunday) that all bills & expenses on her. I'm seriously confused now.
I still love my current girlfriend and i don't wanna hurt her feeling's, plz help out peers.
From what you are saying and thinking,you already fell in love with the UBA girl.....Mind you,your girl has been with you through thick and thin and you are about to make a mistake of your life because one cashier got interested in you because of your daily deposit which got to her(gold digger)
Rtk5: Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.
I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.
We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.
Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.
How do I get this guilt off me?
First,since you know the husband,kindly confess to him
pocohantas: No devil entered them. It is who they are. The signs are always there. Some people are not family oriented or accommodating.
I generally have a problem with people that do not respect my space or rules, given that I have chronic OCD. That is my problem with guests. But if you give me my way, mind your business and help in your own little way to take care of the home, we have no problem.
Truth is, Nigerians are very bad guests and they don’t know. The ones from the man’s side tend to be the worst. No disrespect intended.
Men of gods abi na men of man in Nigeria are after money and power....What the representative of the governor got was in accordance with the way we are being ruled by these politicians.
Iyaebe: Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves
So according to you,sex is what a woman holds dear?
greggng: The car is very sharp with nothing to fix. Only serious buyer should call 08062593234. Location gowon estate lagos
Wetin dey sharp for this car,it is better you remove sharp from that sentence so that intending buyers will not see you as a lier trying to hide the fault of the car
Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.
There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.
Before, I delve into the main discuss , let me quickly highlight how it all started.
Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.
He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.
So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me. That was how I got to meet bro.
Now fastforward to the main reason of this post. There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!
I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?
If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?
Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where? Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?
I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free. I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.
He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.
The big question is .. WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?
COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?
IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?
WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?
See this one,my sister life doesn't work that way..You sound selfish and not ready for marriage,wait till you find the man for you.
AnambraHeraldTV: Blessing Okoro, who made this disclosure in a video she published on social media, stated that the reason she never pursued the path of getting money through 'runs' is because of sustainability.
According to her, runs is not sustainable, and the money does not last. She went on to say that the only thing that can be sustained is value.
She did, however, state that she is not passing judgment on individuals who engage in such behaviors and recommended young females who are thinking about participating to reconsider because it is a complete waste of time.
“I’ve never slept with a man for money and the reason when I’ve never done runs in my life before is because of sustainability. Runs is not sustainable. The reason why I Okoro Blessing didn’t pick runs as a path is because it’s not sustainable. Runs is like yahoo, it’s like magic it doesn’t last. That’s why a lot women and girls who do runs when look back and cant even see what they did with their body.” she said.
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