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Politics › Re: Akpabio Inspects New NDDC Headquarters Complex by Dshocker(m): 10:01am On Sep 29, 2020
In a sane country,Akpabio would have been ousted
Celebrities › Re: Ololade Abuta Buys Range Rover For Iyabo Ojo (Photos, video) by Dshocker(m): 7:20am On Sep 29, 2020
This na one of the girls she push go Dubai go hustle
Travel › Re: Luxembourg Makes Public Transportation Free, Becomes First Country (Pics) by Dshocker(m): 2:15pm On Sep 27, 2020
Nigeria will get there later,but everyone reading this right now must have died before we would have achieved it....
Celebrities › Re: BBNaija: Nengi Breaks Down In Tears As Ozo Ignores Her during the party by Dshocker(m): 6:43am On Sep 27, 2020
Ozo just woke up from his slumber
Sports › Re: Isreal Adesanya Beats Paulo Costa To Retain UFC Middleweight Championship by Dshocker(m): 6:30am On Sep 27, 2020
Congratulations to him and Nigeria at large
Politics › Re: Sadiya Farouq Marries Sadique Abubakar In Private Ceremony - Sahara Reporters by Dshocker(m): 6:32am On Sep 25, 2020
Kestolove:
E beta say she no go dey fvck around like dat senator call oduah wey be igbo
My dear,you are sick
Crime › Re: Pablo Escobar's Nephew Finds £14million Cash In A Wall In One Of His Houses by Dshocker(m): 4:32am On Sep 25, 2020
Iceyjayz:
Pablo had alot of money that will never make his lineages suffer, he was the real money bag, to him 5 million dollars is nothing, someone that burnt $2 million to save his daughter, damn!
Guy calm down,all those money was seized by the government
TV/Movies › Re: Erica's Interview With Dele Momodu: "I Can Take A Bullet For Kiddwaya'' (Photos) by Dshocker(m): 9:18am On Sep 21, 2020
All this because of money,why can't she take a bullet for Laycon
TV/Movies › Re: Nengi Dodges Ozo's Kiss After Eviction, Vee watches and goofs by Dshocker(m): 8:48am On Sep 21, 2020
That guy is a mumu man
Romance › Re: Help!...Can I Survive This? by Dshocker(m): 7:47pm On Sep 20, 2020
Bryce123:
I really don't know how to start with this write up as I'm completely confused about life and may drift into depression( i pray it never to get to this stage). Pls ignore all the errors in this piece as i ain't typing with the right frame of mind.

To start with, i lost my parents when i was 8. So i grew up partly with my grandmum and my brothers. We were just 3 boys and I'm the last born in the family. Well, life wasn't that cool as at then but atleast i have my eldest brother as my benefactor. However, shortly after my high school in 2010, i lost my two older brothers and my grandmum within a space of 3 months. At this point, i was devastated and worried. I just didn't know who to trust cus what was happening seems weird to me. Consequently , i decided to leave the south to the north just to continue my university education and cut off from any family link, be it uncle or aunty.

Life wasn't easy though, but i have always trusted in God. I got admission into one of the schools in north central and shortly after, i got a scholarship with shell. I must say with all amount of humility that i'm academically bright. Coupled with the fact that I'm equally very good looking, i was able to make cool friends especially the female ones who stood by me.
One scenario that still give me goosebumps till date is how i manage to stay in my off-campus apartment during holiday periods especially when all my coursemates and friends travel home for holiday. It was usually crazy as I'd be left all alone in the compound. This is the period i miss my family the most.

To cut the long story short, i graduated early 2019 and i just rounded up with national service like two months ago.The unexpected in my life happened shortly after this.. Reason why i have to put up this write up cus i need all the advices and inspirations i can get at this stage.

Firstly, after my nysc, my landlady who has been so nice all these whiles threatened to give me Quit notice in the midst of the lockdown. Although my rent was due and i was owing her some balances from previous rent. I actually understand her anger but doing that in the midst of the pandemic was surprising. I mean the world was in chaos.Also, while i was doing my nysc, i took time out to learn forex trading. I knew job might not come immediately considering the situation of things in the country. And there is this friend of mine based in Norway who was ready to lend me money to fund my forex account as soon as I'm done with national service. Because of this landlady issue, i had to message him to remind him about the money.Mind u, this is one person who is always checking up on me and was even begging me to take the forex business seriously cus he was ready to invest any amount just so i can stand on my own cus jobs might be hard to come by now. Surprisingly, he wasn't responding to my calls or messages. I got worried at this point. Finally, i didn't know the third and the biggest one was coming. My girlfriend of almost 3 years who have been there for me all these years dropped a bombshell, after we had one of those couples quarells, that she wasn't interested in the relationship again. I mean this is someone who cares so much abt me and is always crying and begging me to come marry her. Cus of her, had to do away with other girls while in school just to focus on her cus my good looks was making her insecure in some ways. Although as a playboy then, i have hurt her in some ways. But i was surprised she kept bringing issues that happened during the first one-half years of our relationship as excuse why she wanna back out. When i noticed shit was getting to me, i had to begged her and even when she try to forgive and continue, another issue will pop up again. There and then, i knew this was a lost course. I mean i have lived and stayed strong all these years without my parents and brothers, why was all these happening to me within a space of one month( august to be precised) when i thought i have conquered and was ready for a better phase in my life.

For the first time in my life, i understand why some persons commit suicide and i know how dangerous depression is as i was gradually drifting into one. At night, i will wish i had a family that i can run to just to cool off my brain. I missed my family so much right now. I'm just confused about life right now. I don't even know how to start or if i should continue pushing cus nothing make sense to me again. Coupled with fact that i ain't working, at times i could go a day without eating. And this my girl was my backbone before now. She is everything a man will look for in a woman, in my own case, she was the sister i never had, the mum and the family i have lost. Even with my bad attitude, she was always there. But now, i don't understand what is going on. I'm writing this because i need all the encouragement and inspiration i can get right now. Staying all alone in my room, not knowing when I'm gonna get kicked out of this house cus of rent and then i keep thinking if it happens, where and who do i run to?. Please, i need your advices. I can't go back to the south as the trauma of loosing my family there wouldn't help. I'm just confused! Totally confused about life at this stage. I pray i don't drift into depression.
My guy,it is not normal for a family to be wiped out just like that,something like a force is behind it and you being the last survival of your father,that spirit will never see you achieve or procreate another lineage.


Something similar happened to a family in my village,one of the family member destroyed their deity without due process,it was when it has frustrated and kill more than 7 family member,that was when they went to ask the reason behind it through a native doctor,but they succeeded in waging and appeasing the deity with some sacrifice..
Sports › Re: The New Super Eagles And Super Falcons Jerseys by Dshocker(m): 3:39pm On Sep 20, 2020
No be to get new jersey design,na to dey use am win
Politics › Re: Ize-Iyamu Loses LGA In Edo Governorship Poll, Okunbo Hosa Beaten In Unit LGA by Dshocker(m): 10:09am On Sep 20, 2020
They should just hand over to Obaseki
Politics › Re: I’m Sure Of Victory, Says Ize-iyamu by Dshocker(m): 10:05am On Sep 20, 2020
ok
Politics › Re: Osinbajo: FG Collaborating With Investors To Improve Nigeria’s Digital Sector by Dshocker(m): 7:26am On Sep 20, 2020
Please if you are the investor,or knows the investor,kindly tell them to stay away from Nigeria government,or desist doing business with with them.Because since i was born i have never ever benefited anything from my government.


If i were world bank,America or China,i will never borrow money to countries that are rich in mineral resources e.g Nigeria,the worst part is that we are the richest in resources,but greed has left us 1 million years behind cry
Family › Re: Ladies What Will You Do In This Situation? by Dshocker(m): 7:24am On Sep 20, 2020
Missis:
Assuming you are married to a man who works as self employed selling some wholesale items that fetch him 70k every month and you have three kids with him.

Meanwhile you the wife work in a private institution earning 60k as well as selling things online that fetch very little like 10k to 15k everymonth.

So you have adviced him to get something else doing to augment your joint income because the money both of you make is barely enough for both of you and three children. You suggest you both need to add more sources of income to your present jobs to move ahead in life and advance, send your children to better schools, maybe build a house, to just upgrade yourselves generally.

So after suggesting different jobs for him he refused to do anything else except his wholesale business because he believes one day he will suddenly make it big from selling his market.

You give up and start your own third business which is part time catering and start making some considerable amount of money from it so you buy new clothes, shoes, nice snacks for your kids from time to time.

Your husband sees all this and tells you to also buy gifts for him from your 'plenty' money. Tells you to not buy new things for only your kids but you should buy also add his own.

How will you react please?

This isn't a made up story please. It's very true, I just want to know if the way I responded was reasonable or if I was wrong.
Yes,buying for him is necessary and after buying,remind him of the plan again and make him see reasons why he has to expand
Politics › Re: Edo 2020: Atiku Knocks Buhari Over Police Siege On Wike by Dshocker(m): 6:37am On Sep 19, 2020
If truly Wike was besieged with 300 police men,then i must say that APC has won the election by crook
Crime › Re: Man Killed By Armed Robbers On Okene-Lokoja Highway by Dshocker(m): 11:41am On Sep 17, 2020
The head line is misleading
Business › Re: “I Discovered Banana Island” Terry Waya Claims by Dshocker(m): 10:30am On Sep 17, 2020
joviegghead:
Hmm

He actually used the word 'discovered'? Even after seeing the sign post written clearly.


Somebody please help educate this man

Na Davido grandfather, Adebayo Adeleke na him I know say develop banana Island o. He was the father to the area. This terry waya is just looking for fame.
Which Davido's father discovered what?.....
Romance › Re: Teacher Impregnates Busty SS 3 Girl During WAEC Exam In Edo by Dshocker(m): 10:26am On Sep 15, 2020
ScamAdvise:
A Maths teacher (names witheld) in an unnamed school in benin city, has impregnated a busty student (nameswitheld). She was raped & impregnated by him few months before their WAEC exam commenced in August. The signs of the pregnancy became obvious to school authorities when she came to school on the very first day of WAEC exam on August 17 (which was coincidentally the day of Maths exam). She was asked by the school authorities who was responsible for the pregnancy, before admitting that her Maths teacher had raped her, a few months before WAEC

UPDATED: This is not a picture of the girl that got impregnated; this is a random picture of two students in Ghana that I downloaded from the internet
No parent will allow their child keep a pregnancy at a tender age in this modern day and age...Bro you lying.
Culture › Re: Mai Umar Mustapha Aliyu Is Dead! Emir Of Biu Dies by Dshocker(m): 9:36am On Sep 15, 2020
May his soul rest in peace
Romance › Re: 10 Different Reasons People Are Single by Dshocker(m): 9:31am On Sep 15, 2020
Op i believe you are also single because you lack the courage to approach a damsel you desire to aquire.
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests Two Lecturers, 28 Others For Internet Fraud In Kwara (Pix) by Dshocker(m): 8:37pm On Sep 14, 2020
Lecturer kwa...Omo forget,Nigeria don cast troway
Nairaland General › Re: Thunderstorm Kills 3 Kinsmen In Katsina by Dshocker(m): 7:24pm On Sep 13, 2020
News without pictures or video is fake news
Crime › Re: Pastor Ofori: If I Don’t Kill Your Sister, Know That I Am Fake (video) by Dshocker(m): 3:27pm On Sep 13, 2020
Not only in Nigeria do we have fake pastors here and there,that are after tithes and offering money,especially those against freeze....We also have them abroad


The truth is bitter
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Does God Use Adversity To Lift People Up? by Dshocker(m): 11:03am On Sep 13, 2020
In Nigeria,if Adversity hold you my brother,e don hold you be that,even baba God don tire for our matter. ..Nothing ever goes up in Nigeria and ever comes down.
Politics › Re: WTO: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Campaigns In Geneva by Dshocker(m): 8:19am On Sep 13, 2020
Good for her and also good for the reputation of Nigeria
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija Vs Gulder Ultimate Search: Which Do Nigerians Prefer? by Dshocker(m): 7:35pm On Sep 12, 2020
Ultimate search
Crime › Re: Honest Digbara: Bobisky Dies Hours After Arrest In Rivers State by Dshocker(m): 7:07pm On Sep 12, 2020
They have wasted him,without a trial in the court room.... This country keeps going backwards
Nairaland General › Re: Man Dies In Car Accident In Asaba, Three Days After His Wedding (Photos) by Dshocker(m): 5:33pm On Sep 12, 2020
They were four in number and he was seated next to the driver,but he was the only one that died


Nigerians are the worst ignorant people i have seen,so because he is rich at young age makes him a ritualist or fraudster?
Crime › Re: Kidnapper Honest Digbara ‘Bobosky’ Arrested In Rivers State by Dshocker(m): 12:35pm On Sep 12, 2020
I thought i saw Bobrisky on the head line!
Family › Re: Uncle Set To Divorce Wife After Plumber Removed 23 Condoms Blocking Our Toilet.. by Dshocker(m): 5:56am On Sep 10, 2020
NCAN911:
Hello house don't mind my grammar pls!

There's problem in the house! We have been having problem with our toilet for a while now but we received a shock after find out what the problem is....

My uncle is 44 and his wife is 34 with 1 kid (girl) they just celebrated 2 years anniversary. My uncle spend most of the time at the shop. He sells spare parts and automobile, he never knew and will never believe that his wife brings another man home (who she has once introduced to me as his cousin) ... FastFWD

Two weeks now we have been finding it hard to flush toilet because the water is moving .... My uncle called a plumber yesterday, the plumber had to call my uncle to show him what the problem is.. To our surprise its A condom and one of them is still fresh with some sperm inside...

My uncle was surprised because he said he never used it on her since they got married ... He just built the house which is not even up to 1year... Now their marriage is on the line of collapsing, I like the wife very well because she is kind and generous she buys me latest things like phones shoes shirts... I don't know how to contribute to the issues because I am just a boy boy.
But from your own observation,do you think that she is guilty?

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