Crime › Re: 49 Nigerians Arrested In A House In Senegal During A Midnight Sting Operation by Dshocker(m): 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Say no to cyber crime |
Romance › Re: Man Returns Home To Meet His Friend In Boxers With Only His Girlfriend Around by Dshocker(m): 9:05am On Nov 04, 2019 |
But they didn't do anything |
Business › Re: Dangote Plans Fuel Exports To Europe, Others by Dshocker(m): 7:16am On Nov 04, 2019 |
Let him focus on African first,before going Europe |
Properties › Re: Bella Disu Completes Luxurious High Rise Complex (Pictures) by Dshocker(m): 3:28am On Nov 04, 2019 |
Came4amod: Who be this one again .. u r father owns globacom and u just built 1 5 story building which its total cost is less than 2 billion naira .. you know how much glo makes in a single quarter.. .. even if she build 3 at the same time .. she can't be standing for accolades That house you see is not less than 6billion |
Properties › Re: Bella Disu Completes Luxurious High Rise Complex (Pictures) by Dshocker(m): 3:27am On Nov 04, 2019 |
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Health › Re: Nairalanders Pls Help! This Typhoid Is Stubborn by Dshocker(m): 6:19pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
fairfora: Hello nairalanders. I have this colleague who was always sleeping in the office around july. He often complained of muscle and joint pain with dizziness and pain in his eyes and both sides of his head. Sometimes, he would be complaining of slight headache and abdominal pain.
I asked that some test be run by him, including an XYZ just to be sure. He did all that and all was negative except typhoid which was inherent in the diagnostic report with negligible malaria. He was placed on a broad spectrum ciprofloxacin. He was feeling relieved after which the symptoms came back.
He went back to the clinic and was placed on Zinax, a higher antibiotics. 2 weeks later, the symptoms came back again and this time, the dr asked him to repeat the test and still repeat the XYZ. As usual all came out negative except thyphoid. This time, he was placed on augmentine. In short, he completed the recommended dose barely 2 weeks ago and symptoms have returned as I speak . Yesterday, I asked that the test be repeated for the 3rd time same as usual. Please medics, pharms and traditional medics in the house, what drug can he use to get rid of this stubborn bacteria? My brother no two ways about this,he has staphylococcus aureus....he should run a test in a standard test lab like mecure/clinix or paramount lab |
Business › Re: Femi Otedola And Family Invited To Buckingham Palace For Dinner In UK (photos) by Dshocker(m): 1:50pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
tartar9: Why do keep leaving their son behind on such occasions  Because he suffers from autism |
Crime › Re: Gracious David West Collected N70,000 From Victim's Boyfriend by Dshocker(m): 8:44am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Kellie069: Late Kelechi was my younger bro’s lodge mate at auchi poly’ it was such an uneasy news when I heard of her brutal murder!!
But again, let’s talk to our sisters n female friends , they should be careful about who they go n meet! Anybody could be a victim If she had bent down to hustle genuinely,she might have lived more than 70yrs on earth |
Romance › Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Dshocker(m): 8:22am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Adaeze003: people now see love as sex. What a pity!!!! As if you are not part of those people |
Health › Re: My Cousin Is Growing Grey Hair At 25, Please Help by Dshocker(m): 12:30am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: Hello folks, trust you re getting on well with your weekend. I need your urgent and reliable suggestions on the kind of hair darkener or stainless hair dye to apply.
My cousin who clocked 25yrs old on sept 1st this year is feeling depressed because of the grey hair coming out on every part of his body most especially Hus head and beards. Being a very hairy young lad, the grey hairs has become a source if embarrassment to him so much that he looks older than his age.
Your candid suggestions onn the type of hair dye(stainless hair dye)to apply will be appreciated thanks. Dying it will only make it worst |
Career › Re: Her Firm Increased Her Pay To Match That Of a New Job (Please Advise) by Dshocker(m): 6:16am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Bigval5: She earns N430k; She got an offer of N850k; Her current company didn't want her to go, so they matched the figure; Now she is dazed.
Could it be a trap? Why didn't they do this before now? Is staying a good decision? Will she regret staying or leaving?
She is absolutely confused, what do you advise? Please what is the name of this company that pays this much? |
Health › Re: Could This Be STD Or Bad Immune System? by Dshocker(m): 11:13pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Those are symptoms of staphylococcus |
Celebrities › Re: Susan And Helen Apologise To Davido (Video) by Dshocker(m): 12:25am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Neiy: please do not quote me again. A girl/ lady in her right senses won't go this far for cheap clout. There are many meaningful things to do in order to gain the right publicity for the right purpose. I pass.. Carry doer |
Celebrities › Re: Susan And Helen Apologise To Davido (Video) by Dshocker(m): 1:59pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Neiy: So this is how best you can congratulate one? Some ladies and stupidity  Your fellow Nigerian girl |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Departs Russia For Abuja by Dshocker(m): 1:44pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
As if he learnt anything from the visit |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels Deletes Her Instagram Account After Her Mom's Speech At Headies by Dshocker(m): 7:44am On Oct 21, 2019 |
Thats their problem |
Family › Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Dshocker(m): 11:54pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
computergeek: So I’ve never actually brought a personal issue to this forum, but this one is beyond me and I don’t know the best course of action to take here. I believe that there are people here who may have had a similar experience or might know what best to do. This may be a bit long.
So there’s this neighbor of mine whom I have an after-school agreement with. She’s a stay-at-home mum with two kids (a nursing baby and a four-year-old) while I have one child (also four). I usually leave my office at 4:00pm, so the agreement is, after-school at 12:30pm, I’ll go pick up the kids (they go to the same school) and return to work while she watches my son for me. I get my son his lunch and snacks before he goes there, even though she’s begged me to stop doing that, but I can’t saddle her with feeding a child that’s not hers.
The issue now is, a lot of violent things have happened in that house and as of this week, my son won’t be returning there. But I fear for the woman. Our homes are separated by a wall, but we often hear the arguing and crying sometimes. I knew she was having marital issues but I didn’t know the extent.
About two weeks ago, I went to get my son from the house and I noticed he wasn’t talking as usual. My son is the very boisterous type who likes to bounce as he walks, and he’ll usually try to take the key from my hand so he’ll open the door himself. That day, he wasn’t talking as usual. He seemed scared and shaken up. I knew the woman would sometimes punish the kids by asking them to kneel down when they fought, but she wouldn’t hit them. I asked him what the issue was, if anyone at school or home had been looking for his trouble, the guy said no. He’s very close to his father (they are best friends), so when my husband came home I asked him to talk to the boy because he couldn’t choke his food down. After about a while, my son opened up. Apparently, he’d witnessed a very violent beating that he was struggling to find the right words to explain. He said that David’s father had been punching his mother in the passage with two hands at a time, and when she’d tried to run, he brought her back and beat her more. He said that he and David had to hide under the table because they were scared of getting hurt. He then said the mother raised a flower vase and hit him on his head, but the man continued beating her and shouting at her.
I didn’t know what to say. My son had witnessed a violent beating and it traumatized him. We soothed the boy and told him to forget about it. I then knew why the woman didn’t come out to hand him over as she usually did when I went to get him. He just came to me by himself. The next day, I was skeptical about taking my son back there but he said he doesn’t want to stop playing with David and Sandra (the one-year-old baby). After school, I picked the boys up and drove them home. David’s mom came to the door and her face was badly bruised. I had to ask her what was wrong, but she hurriedly said she fell down and then took the kids from me.
On Friday last week, two days ago, the worst happened. It was around 3:00 or 3:30 when the woman called me at work. I picked the phone up and it was my son. He said that David’s mummy was lying on the floor and wasn’t opening her eyes. He said she was still moving but she couldn’t open her eyes. That blood was coming out her nose and mouth and their daddy had driven away. My heart literally flew out of my chest.
I called my husband as I was driving home and told him to meet us at the hospital. Long story cut short, she was badly battered and torn apart, almost about to give up life. I took her and all the kids to the hospital. While they were cleaning her wounds and hooking her up to the IV, I sorted out the bills. My husband tried to reach out to hers but he was rejecting the calls, so he went to make a statement at the area police command. They told us to contact them once she wakes up to give her statement. The police doesn’t usually like to dabble into marital issues but the woman was disfigured beyond imagination.
Sadly, you won’t believe what she said when she came to after a few hours. She started begging us to not report to anybody and not even call her family. That she’ll refund us the hospital bills and we should just call her friend that lives in New Haven to come and look after her. She was trying to protect the beast that had beaten her and left her for dead. We tried to reason with her because the man would certainly kill her sooner or later. She said he’s her husband and the father of her kids, bla bla bla. She told us that she’d been confronting him about a girl he’d been gallivanting openly with him, and that’s been the cause of all their issues.
She told me to use my number and call her husband because he doesn’t have me as a contact. I called him and told him the wife he tried to kill was in the hospital. He told me that she had better remain there because he’ll kill her if she ever comes near his house again. He hung up on me. She’s still insisting that he doesn’t mean it and she must go back once she’s discharged.
The issue now is, should we withdraw the police report or take the case up? The woman’s life is in danger and she doesn’t seem to understand the seriousness of her situation, writing it off as momentary anger. I don’t know why women choose to remain in these violent situations even when they have children to live for. She’s not even thinking about her one-year-old who has been with me all weekend.
Mature advice is needed here. Pease push to front page. I don’t know if we’ll be overstepping our boundaries by trying to help her. Hand over the case to a human right association |
Celebrities › Re: Man Calls Yomi Casual 'Yahoo Boy' Because Of His Car, He Replies by Dshocker(m): 11:00pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Lady's Wig Falls During 'No Hand Kissing Challenge' by Dshocker(m): 10:29pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Women are synonymous to fake life #InsideLife |
Health › Re: Man Slumps And Dies In Lagos During Early Morning Jogging (Photo) by Dshocker(m): 10:25pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Nigeria is supposed to be listed as the country with the highest death rate per day |
Phones › Re: Airtel Unveils New Cheap Data Plans To Satisfy Consumers Growing Demand by Dshocker(m): 10:05pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Subscribe and get frustrated at network |
Celebrities › Re: Ini Edo Slays In New Pictures - Fans React by Dshocker(m): 10:00pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Ini edo be using push up bras to hold the walls of Jericho,and when the bra is removed,the wall came down flat |
Celebrities › Re: Alexx Ekubo And IK Ogbonna In Matching Outfit To The Headies 2019 (Pictures) by Dshocker(m): 6:43pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Casalinda: It is casalinda. Good night Is that your pet name,cos me never jam this kind of name,abi you miss road for the spelling of Cassandra? |
Fashion › Re: Ladies How Often Do You Wash Your Bra by Dshocker(m): 6:40pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Smartchoiice: Sincere question... Sincere responses needed. Of course every female will claim to be hygienic |
Celebrities › Re: Alexx Ekubo And IK Ogbonna In Matching Outfit To The Headies 2019 (Pictures) by Dshocker(m): 6:38pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Casalinda: Hehehehe it is so laughable that when you see two innocent people doing things together now makes them been tag with negativity.. you are wrong and I was not excepting this from you Come casablanca,abi na casala....Just leave me to my own thoughts. |
Celebrities › Re: Alexx Ekubo And IK Ogbonna In Matching Outfit To The Headies 2019 (Pictures) by Dshocker(m): 6:30pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Casalinda: Hehehehe we do the same thing sarz are doing yet we cry when the table is turn around. How did you know or what evident do you have to get give you the right to call them gay?? If you dress well and you got your self and iPhone 11 does that make you a 419? You see mr, this is the same mentality those sarz men got that you all keep crying about Beautiful i didn't say they were gay,i was just suspecting or wouldn't be surprised if they were,due to the fact that they are always together,doing the same thing at the same time. |
Celebrities › Re: Alexx Ekubo And IK Ogbonna In Matching Outfit To The Headies 2019 (Pictures) by Dshocker(m): 6:19pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Am suspecting this two to be gay partner |
Celebrities › Re: Headies 2019: Tacha, Mercy Or Toke Makinwa, Who Is Your Best Dressed? (Photos) by Dshocker(m): 5:31pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
uzohrome: Mercy my baby at all times. Voted her with almost 100k and thank God she won. Its a lie brother,you didn't spend up to 10k on vote |
Celebrities › Re: Headies 2019: Tacha, Mercy Or Toke Makinwa, Who Is Your Best Dressed? (Photos) by Dshocker(m): 5:30pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Fadomero: All dis trash no be my problem na how dem go take open boarder dey worry me cos naija rice go finish my teeth Then buy foreign rice  |
Nairaland General › Re: Davido Congratulates Wizkid After He Sold Out O2 Arena London Last Night by Dshocker(m): 4:30pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
WizKid has done it twice |
Politics › Re: FG Says It Is Partnering The Russian Government To Revive Ajaokuta Steel Company by Dshocker(m): 12:43pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Every project the government brings up,is another avenue for some set of miscreants to embezzle the nation's wealth |
Politics › Re: Border Closure: Smugglers Devise New Methods To Beat Customs by Dshocker(m): 12:25pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
When Nigeria has over 50 borders unchecked,how does the government think they can stop smuggling overnight...They only closed the popular border routes and by 35% |