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louken:
An average African man will joyfully clear the bill or run to his kinsmen to assist him clear the bill while giving glory to God for blessing his family with a bouncing baby. Still our womenfolk deride us and call us toxic and immature.
Oya naa, see an oyibo husband trying to split (or even refusing to pay) child delivery bill.
I wonder if any of our deluded feminists can accept what this woman went through.

But the man sef wicked he refused to even split the bill because she should have not taken pain relief for child birth

Bliss52:
Medicare is very expensive abroad

The day I knew how much ambulance cost in Florida I feared for Oyinbo people

Ambulance that isn't even here

You can even have a fever and just buy drugs you have to go to a hospital and see a doctor just to get drugs

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO


First pregnancy without epidural? Na she pretend say she fit play wonder woman only to find out she no get the stamina join. Na her wahala be this one. Whatever decision she makes na she go bear am.

I know right I mean who does that she really though that she was wonder woman

Okay coming here as a last resort because I genuinely think this problem could be the end of my marriage. Also throwaway bc my husband is a frequent redditor. My husband (35M) and I (32F) welcomed our first baby three months ago. We’ve been married 7 years now and decided it was time to expand our family. Everything was going well and we were in our little newborn bubble of bliss until the hospital bills came. Both my husband and I have jobs and everything financially is split 50/50, but we’ve always kept our money separate with the exception of a joint account for bills.

Throughout the duration of my pregnancy, I planned to go for an unmedicated natural birth with as little intervention as possible. That was up until I hit the 24 hour mark of labor, I caved and got the epidural (which I was open to having if needed). My husband had no problem with it, even encouraged it.

When the bill came he brought it to me to pay all $8,000+ (after insurance) from my personal savings, I asked why. He said “You’re the one that couldn’t hold out for a few more hours and jacked up the bill with all your meds and an extra nights stay and he shouldn’t have to pay for all of my extra requests. If I wanted luxury, I should expect to pay for it”. I was stunned, and flipped out, but I’ll spare you the details.

He refuses to budge, calling me a princess for expecting him to pay for all the “extra add ons” I requested in the hospital. this is by far the biggest issue in our 14 year long relationship so far and I’m so lost on where to go from here. I gave in and paid the bill, but since then we haven’t been talking much and honestly I just feel disrespected. Do I have the right to feel this way or is it just hormones? Am I The Asshole for expecting him to contribute towards the cost of my childbirth? WIBTA for considering leaving him?

What would you do in this situation?

prickahantas:
Justwise please will they grant me visa if I want to join?
Is it a good reason?

Lol maybe they will

Israel has declared war on the Palestinian militant group Hamas after it carried out an unprecedented attack by air, sea and land on Saturday, 7 October. This widespread, devastating attack has left at least 900 dead in Israel, prompting the country to retaliate by sending Israeli airstrikes on Gaza, which killed at least 687 people.

As they retreated into Gaza, the Palestinian militants claimed to have taken at least 100 Israeli hostages. They threatened to kill them if Israel continued to target Gaza with airstrikes without warning. Israel has warned that Hamas will suffer severe consequences for its actions and may now be preparing a ground invasion of Gaza.

Let's get into what is known so far about this current ongoing war.

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SCAMMER

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Chinny024:
🙄🙄🙄🙄wetin

Probably they were not ready to have that kind of committed relationship and they just jumped into it because they had invested too much time in it and they were both not getting younger, it shouldn't come as a shock to her they would have been signs that she ignored

femijamz:
yes her father is a pastor in redeem Christian they have a shop in ikorodu. Anybody that's use to ikorodu very well will know there shop at ojubode. The name of that shop is majel global, you see that girl's father he is a devil on his own, I know right from beginning God wants to use the girl to suffer Dem in there family. Her father have seized her Android phone several times, but the is a stubborn type. Everything about her is a man. She loves men like kilode.

Wow just wow

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femijamz:
yes her father is a pastor in redeem Christian they have a shop in ikorodu. Anybody that's use to ikorodu very well will know there shop at ojubode. The name of that shop is majel global, you see that girl's father he is a devil on his own, I know right from beginning God wants to use the girl to suffer Dem in there family. Her father have seized her Android phone several times, but the is a stubborn type. Everything about her is a man. She loves men like kilode

Ah😦 why is it always the pastors🙄

kkins25:
tell us more...

Indeed tell us more😎🍿🎥

finallybusy:
You sure it was a response and not a random post?

He has just been giving hints on his twitter page but has not confirmed or denied it

Chinny024:
They should have continued dating without marrying since it has tendency of working more for them...

Lol Savage😂

ExudeLoveToAll:
I no wan judge, then go ahead to judge that the husband get issues

😂

Bankowner:
My emphasis here is about who she has asked for a phone and not the intention behind it. Asking her parents is more dignifying that going to give herself to one man out there for it.

Yeah she's a smart girl she posted it online to get that attention and someone might actually buy it for her

Therock5555:
What happened to the phone she's using? If it can record and post her parents online, it shows it still works perfectly.

There's time for everything, let her face her education, afterwards she can buy 60 iphones for her self, let's stop misplacing priorities.

I agree if she is requesting for a new phone she should prove her responsibility first in her studies but I don't support the way her father spoke to her

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Sirmwill:
Instead of her to face her book

She wants to be on facebook

Lol😆

Mixed reactions have trailed the video of a young TikToker identified as ‘Pretty Yoruba Girl’ requesting an iPhone 8 as a birthday gift from her parents.
In the 3-minute video, the girl could be seen looking out of the window of a car and her father’s voice in the background scolding her for requesting an iPhone instead of focusing on her studies.

The father was heard suggesting that she may sell her body if she desired an iPhone, asserting that girls with such phones are morally corrupt.
The dad, while berating his daughter, noted he had yet to see anything that showed his future was secured with her while her mom agreed with her dad, brooding over the reason their daughter has chosen to only give them pain.

The video has since sparked reactions across different social media platforms with some criticising the girl’s action and others slamming her parents over their approach to the girl’s request.

BBNaija’s Tacha wrote, “Anybody that has something wrong with what the parents said! Something is legit wrong with you!
“For this child to record this conversation she actually knows what she’s doing.. But I know some waste men will still buy her that iPhone.”

Popular Disc Jockey, Dj Switch said, “I just watched a video of a girl that asked for an iPhone and proceeded to record her parents’ response…hmmm. I can hear her parents’ concern and pain, but her countenance and actions say it all. I heard that she’s yet to gain admission but is more interested in the iPhone. iPhone 8 for that matter. I think she should have held her parents at gunpoint and asked for an iPhone 15 Pro Max. Then I will know she’s serious.

“I have been saying this for a while now, I’m truly worried about our new generation of kids with all that we do online, all the crap we praise, and all the attention we give to BBL and the other set of ‘fakeness’ that has set the stage for this type of crap we see from our young ones. A word was enough for the wise, but the wise don scarce,” she added.

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Chinny024:
What has sustained them for the past 10yrs while courting please.. There's more to what happened within a year in marriage.

It doesn't seem hilarious to you that u dated someone for a decade and then break up just one Yr after marriage?..

I sincerely believe both parties are yet to be truthful as to what happened after marriage.

You can't tell me you dated someone for 10yrs,then decided to formalize the union, only to break up few months thereafter.

There was probably nothing there in the first place

Globally renowned Afrobeat superstar Davido has stirred emotions online amidst the viral report about him welcoming a set of twins with his wife, Chioma Adeleke. On Tuesday, October 10, 2023, netizens were held agog as the report about the DMW boss welcoming a set of twins in the United States of America on Monday night went viral.

Despite trending reports, Davido has not yet confirmed the news or debunked it.
Instead, he has left many fans on the edge with a post he recently shared on his page hours after a report of him welcoming a twin went viral

The singer shared a video of himself rocking a dashing black tuxedo in a hotel lobby. Someone could be heard hailing the singer in the background, calling him Oba Adeleke.

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— Davido (@davido) October 10, 2023

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eepeepook:
“Life is Short. Make Sure You Spend As Much Time As Possible on the Internet Arguing with Strangers.”

Lol

Jaybuoy:
It's a recurring theme.

Even Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt got a divorce within 2 years, despite dating for over 10 years and having kids.

Don't ask me the moral of the story, I don't know.

I don't know what their problem is but Celebrity marriages don't last

Kobojunkie:
Those ideas are clearly of myths. There are those one is attracted to and those who aren't attracted to ---- courtesy of the chemicals in our brain. Then we get to work picking "the one" through various processes of rationalizing ordinarily disconnected behaviors to support our choice. From there the delusion progresses until it is either shattered by reality or we continue to build even more mental prisons to keep us in it as long as we want.

2. You actually think the problem with admirers issue only began after they got married? I beg to differ. Whatever it was that reared its ugly head after they got married had most likely been stewing for a long time before.

Am telling you, these signs always shows themselves

Entprys:
That guy who killed Barrister Tunde Fadipe inside Diamond Estate in Ifako, has he been hanged according to judgement ?

Una dey joke

God will help us in this Country

TemplarLandry:

He ended 2 people's live it's sad that the case took this long

doggedfighter:
Is there even the right or wrong one for anyone ?





This is a clear case that dating one long enough to marry can fail.

Very true

Ronke Ojo, a well-known actress and entertainer, recently opened up about her marriage life and her husband in a candid interview. She shared some key insights and statements during the conversation:

1.In the short clip shared by the actress she,revealed that she dated her ex-husband for a decade,and their marriage did not last for a year.

2. Her Husband's Love for Home: Ronke described her husband as someone who deeply values having a stable and loving home. He appreciates the idea of maintaining a family.

3. Challenges in the Marriage: Ronke candidly discussed the challenges they faced in their marriage, particularly due to her husband's difficulty in handling the attention from women. She emphasized that he loves to have a home but struggled with handling admirers.

4. No Divorce Plans: Despite the ups and downs, Ronke emphasized that she had no intention of divorcing her husband. She made it clear that she would not divorce him but would sign the divorce papers when he was ready.

5. Supportive of Her Husband: Ronke made it evident that she had always supported her husband and appreciated his good qualities. She spoke of her admiration for his character and nature.

6. Prayer as a Solution: When reflecting on what she could have done differently, Ronke mentioned that she wished she had prayed more. She believed that prayer could have played a significant role in resolving their issues and alleviating stress.

7. Her Husband's Lack of Interest in Movies: Surprisingly, Ronke's husband is not a fan of movies, particularly the ones featuring his wife. He prefers reality shows and cooking programs over films.

In this interview, Ronke Ojo's openness about her marriage and her husband sheds light on the complexities and challenges faced by couples in the public eye. She also emphasizes the importance of prayer in navigating the trials of married life.


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The Lagos State High Court has sentenced Drambi Vandi, who fatally shot Bolanle Raheem, a Lagos based lawyer, to death by hanging.

The judge Ibironke Harrison on Monday found the police officer guilty of murder.

“The court found the defendant guilty on one count of murder. You will be hanged by the neck till you are dead,”

PREMIUM TIMES reported how Drambi Vandi allegedly killed Mrs Raheem, an expectant mother, on Christmas Day in 2022 at the Ajah roundabout in Lagos.

The police officer is attached to the Ajiwe police division in the Ajah area of the state. He was suspended two days after the incident.

The state government had preferred a one count of murder of the lawyer against the defendant and subsequently arraigned him.

Since the court trial started in January, the deceased’s husband, sister, police armourer, pathologist and seven others have testified against the defendant.

The prosecution tendered 27 exhibits.

Mr Vandi was the only witness who testified in his own defence.

In his testimony before the court, Mr Vandi told the judge that the bullet presented in court, which was said to have killed the deceased, did not come from the rifle he carried on the day of the incident.

He also claimed that he had never seen the bullet until it was tendered in court.

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