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ElliotP:
The double standard here is if a woman marries her father's age for money, it's okay by societal standards but immediately a man does the exact same thing we start criticizing him, omor make una rest.

True talk

A Nigerian man named Okechukwu Azubuike has voiced out his criticism towards his fellow compatriots who marry older Caucasian women while considering Nigerian women in their 30s as too old for marriage.

His statement has triggered a heated debate on Facebook, with different opinions from both men and women.

In his Facebook post, he highlighted the apparent double standards that exist when it comes to age preferences in relationships.

He pointed out that Nigerian men often display enthusiasm and joy when involved with older Caucasian women, even those who are of their grandmothers’ age.

However, when it comes to Nigerian women, the same men suddenly deem the age of 33 as too old for marriage.

Once it's Abroad woman, you see them smiling and shining teeth with their grandmother's age mates. But when it's a Nigerian lady that is involved, 33 years suddenly becomes too old for them.

Okey Aliyu

Shalommy:
Gaybriel spotted.

Lol it's suspicious though

Collins Enebeli Ajereh, the father of famous Nigerian record producer and music executive, Don Jazzy, has revealed that he is not pressurizing his 40-year-old son to get married.

He said Don Jazzy had been married before but he and his estranged wife decided to go their separate ways.

Speaking in a recent interview with TVC, Ajereh maintained that he would not pressurize Don Jazzy to remarry, stressing that marriage is a personal decision.

He said, “He (Don Jazzy) was married. But they (he and his ex-wife) decided to end their marriage.”

Asked if he still has hope that Don Jazzy would remarry, Ajereh said, “Well, that is his choice. The question of marriage is individual choice. Some people choose marriage and some don’t and yet have relationships that might blossom into what makes their lives complete.”

He added that he does not think Don Jazzy’s decision to stay single was because of the nature of his job.

It should be known that the popular beatmaker, Don Jazzy, revealed that he got married 18 years ago to an American model and writer, Michelle, but got divorced two years later.

The Mavin boss posted his wedding picture, which showed the couple in a warm embrace on his verified Instagram account and explained that he got divorced because he made music his priority.

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Nigerian actress, Sarah Martins has described the type of women she finds sexy while warning girls not to follow advice they get on social media.

Taking to her Instagram page, she expressed her disgust at women encouraging other women to rely exclusively on men, claiming that the only attractive woman, in her opinion, is a successful one.

She asked how a responsible man could value what a woman brought to the table when all she had to contribute was herself.

Sarah clarified that her message isn’t intended for followers or lovers of relationship guru, Blessing CEO and added that young people are consistently being misled by the internet.

Her post reads: “The only woman I consider being sexy is a productive woman! All these ass high street Olosho women encouraging younger women to depend solely on men are sick!!

“How can a responsible man ask you what you bring to the table and you open your preeq-sucking mouth to say “I am the table” Students of Blessing CEO avoid this post!”

Captioning the post, she wrote: “This internet is steadily misleading young folks! There’s dignity, honor, and respect in genuinely hustling (not with your kpekus) to make a name for yourself!!!!

Stop listening to failed women who have refused to learn from their mistakes and do better! Aspire to be more!!!”.

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Nigeria's film industry is on a roll, and Madam Koi Koi is the latest nostalgia trip they're serving up. After classics like "King of Boys,' 'Isoken,' and 'Brotherhood,' the anticipation is high. Now, buckle up for a hair-raising reimagination of the spine-chilling boarding school legend - Madam Koi Koi.

For anyone who survived boarding school in Nigeria, Madam Koi Koi was the stuff of nightmares. The tale spins around a once-beautiful but ruthless teacher who, after being defeated by her tormented students, transforms into the infamous ghost haunting the halls of boarding schools. The only warning to her victims is the eerie click of her red-as-blood-heeled shoes.

This fresh take on the urban legend promises a terrifying twist and a dive into the unknown. Directed by Jay Franklyn Jituboh, the movie is Set in 1991. We follow a young woman and her daughter, Amanda, navigating the horrors of a small town and a boarding house. As Amanda befriends her bunkmate, ominous warnings about a group of boys set the stage for a suspenseful narrative.

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But is this a failed experiment or did they breathe new life into this folklore?

In a dramatic turn of event,a man faced public disgrace after being caught shopping in a market with another man’s wife.
The incident unfolded when an unidentified individual approached the man and poured red oil on him, drawing attention from onlookers.

The video capturing the embarrassing moment quickly made rounds on social media, sparking a wave of reactions and discussions.

People were both intrigued and shocked by the audacity of the man and the public humiliation he endured.
When confronted by curious bystander, the man attempted to defend himself, claiming that he was unaware of the woman’s marital status.

According to him, she had not disclosed her marriage to him prior to their shopping excursion.
While the identities of the individuals involved remain undisclosed, the incident has sparked conversations on various social media platforms.

Video:
https://www.tiktok.com/video/7303449149012315398/

But was it really the Man's fault

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Too many families are too dependent on one person's success both the Extended and Nuclear Families

Sad but true

Lance008:
To be honest the cruise too much Na whole OBJ dem take Dey play
Omo the matter long

The things people do to trend😒

Onyiiobi7735:
Ndi tumbom tumbom have come again with their antics.The reason all these charlatans calling themselves pastors are still having members in church is that many have thrown away their brains in the name of religion.

One problem with many believers is that they blindly follow their pastor's words and the so called Fake pastors prey on their weakness or say some sweet Lies people want to hear, it's just sad😔

brawlings:
BRUTALITY!!! This reply is fiendishly awesome. one 2 by 2 cubicle you are typing this from while you wait to fall asleep so you can be fed in your dream. At least food nah food

Nigerian women are useless but your mom goes to the market to sell vegetables while on her way home she branchs a firewood farm so as to fetch sticks to cook what she got from the proceed of her day's labour to support the little your dad can afford.

Nigerian women are useless yet they occupy 70% of civil workers if not more. Have you seen the lives of Female teachers? Most roam in cooperative debts to send you lots to school and support their husbands. Some barely buy things for themselves.

Nigerian women are useless yet they lose their lives in hospital wards to produce ungrateful and half thinking breeds like you. These women cry blood to push you out, some experience complications due to lack of adequate care during pregnancy.

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Nigerian actor Sam Ajibola, better known as Spiff in ‘The Johnsons,’ has filed a lawsuit against TikToker Gossipbobo and blogger Tunde Ednut for making a derogatory post about his wife, son, and former president Olusegun Obasanjo.

Gossipbobo, whose real name is Ifeanyi Aniekwe, posted a video featuring a photo of Spiff, his wife, and son with the former president alongside a suggestive caption that seemed to question the paternity of Spiff’s son.

After sharing the post, blogger Tunde Ednut reposted it on his Instagram page, and it received a ton of derogatory comments from internet users.

This didn’t sit well with Sam and his family, and they have now initiated legal proceedings against Gossipbobo and Tunde Ednut.

Sam said he was really hurt by the narrative, as this is not the first time people are peddling defamatory allegations against his family.

He recounted how netizens claimed his wife was older than him at the time of their marriage, and accused her of being controlling and asking him to quit his role in ‘The Johnsons.’

He added that they have now found a scapegoat that would serve as a deterrent to others. He stated that a national security advisor, a Magistrate of the Supreme Court, and his wife’s legal advisor are on top of the matter.

He shared photos of the legal document where he demanded the sum of N10 million and a public apology from the TikToker.

He wrote,

“Trouble dey sleep, Yanga go wake am.

Wetin him dey find? Palava him dey find.

Cat dey sleep, rat go bite his tail.

Wetin him dey find? Na Palava him go get.. So contrary to many opinions as to why I haven’t come out to clear the air on the defamation of my wife’s character on this issue, you will all please bear with me as I needed some real good time to properly analyze all aspects of it and come up with a best solution to all of these bickering that has been happening since I announced my wife to the world. This harrassment has continued from my engagement news where they began with false allegations that my wife was older than I am and was controlling my decisions like leaving The johnsons, to blatant lies that she was called my class captain, and now for over a year these trolls have further bear false witness to the point where they question my wife’s unquestionable fidelity to me, and ultimately bullying my innocent son who they have planned to grow and meet these false allegations.

This is the very reason why a lot of famous and prestigious people crave for private lives. It is because lately, quite a number of young people on social media (as we have observed from the comments and all) are mostly dysfunctional and insensitive youths with the confidence in their false witness when they display their disrespect for others in societies where there is a huge lacuna of societal leadership.

This clearly as in this case of @gossipbobo , whom in sharing his misinformed opinion about our lives in public to the detriment of their mental health, relates to the almost impossible art of most Nigerians who can easily die from not “minding their own business”.

Honestly, I’m hurt and for the sake of being a proper boy from the streets of surulere, I know how to find justice there but for the sake of my emotional maturity, I have found more decent and honourable ways to handle this lingering issue, from the various powers I know in the Judicial/security sector. As we speak a national security advisor, a Magistrate of the supreme court and my wife’s legal advisor are on top of the matter. Thankfully, we have found a few scapegoats to use in warning others to stay away.”

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Nigerian Prophet David Uche has sparked a discourse online following his encounter with the late SuperSport United goalkeeper, George Chigova, who was recently confirmed deceased.

Chigova, the former Zimbabwe Warriors goalminder, passed away in his sleep at his Johannesburg residence on November 15, 2023.

Chigova had been sidelined from football since collapsing during a training session with SuperSport United in July.

According to reports, he woke up on Wednesday, briefly moved about his house, and returned to sleep.

When his wife attempted to wake him after an extended slumber, he remained unresponsive, and paramedics later declared him dead.

Prophet David Uche came into the spotlight due to his interaction with Chigova prior to his passing.

During a church service in Johannesburg, Uche allegedly informed Chigova that there was nothing wrong with his heart, suggesting that his diagnosis was merely an attempt to hinder his chances of securing a new football contract.

Chigova shared with Uche that his contract extension at SuperSport United was being delayed due to the discovery of a weak and irregular heart.

However, Uche dismissed the medical diagnosis, attributing it to external factors aimed at impeding Chigova’s career progression.

The encounter between the late goalkeeper and the Nigerian cleric has generated significant attention and debate, with many blaming the pastor for the Late SuperSport United goalkeeper death.

Video:

Viral Video Shows Prophet Telling Late Footballer Diagnosed With Heart Problems To Disregard Medical Advice

A prophet has captured online attention due to his interaction with the late SuperSport United goalkeeper, George Chigova, who was recently confirmed to have passed away.… pic.twitter.com/knmjKg9sCg

— Punch Newspapers (@MobilePunch) November 17, 2023

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sageb:
Really? 😂

Really oh what will people not say😒

decatalyst:
Ah! Risky to do this in Nigeria o

Make you reach 50+ make u discover say dem don scam you...i mean Eve don make you "father" another persons children. She walks away, you get totally EMPTY😫

THINK AM WELL OO

Lololol🤣

This Trending of a thing is becoming too much

Persephone1:
Una go explain explain explain una go tire No evidence.

I think both SA women and Nigerian men have something in common. They pay too much attention on something they claim to hate. They really fit themselves. Chochochocho everytime...

Nigerian women are too busy with more important things like achieving success and breaking milestones while SA women and Nigerian men discuss them.

All of you will be alright

Lol every country would want to say it they are better

Former Chelsea star, Mikel Obi, has stirred reactions online following an attack against demanding family members that act entitled.

In an interview with fellow football player Rio Ferdinand, the former captain of the Super Eagles bemoaned the fact that, in Africa, families frequently have the right to inherit an individual’s wealth.

Video:

When u make it in the game…. Beware! 🧨💰👀 pic.twitter.com/Xv04xpywsp

— Rio Ferdinand (@rioferdy5) November 16, 2023

According to him, when an African person gets money, many cousins and relatives start to make demands, and some of sisters married men who just wanted to related to him because of his status.

The football player said that he sometimes had to be tough and set aside his personal demands since these people have so many children and need him to take care of them.

Mikel Obi stated that these extended family members believe he owes them money and threaten to go to the press if he refuses. It is prevalent in Africa, according to the football player.

In his words;

“When you come from Africa, when you make money, it’s not your money. You have all these relatives, cousins, and your sisters go off and get married to some guy who just wants to get married into Mikel John Obi’s family because his life is sorted, and then you start looking after this guy, and before you know it, they keep having so many kids and you look at it like,

‘Okay, you’re having this many kids, who are going to look after them?’ It’s you! It’s the culture because, for them, you owe them that, so sometimes you have to be strong and say, ‘You know what, guys, enough is enough; I don’t care’. They give you this thing whereby ‘if you don’t do it, we’re going to go to the press’. After all, what have I done for you guys? But this happens a lot in Africa. Not everybody comes out and speaks about it.”

Is this true😂

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Photographer Bruce Thompson has taken to social media to share his recent vasectomy experience.

In a bid to shed light on a very rare topic, American Photographer Bruce Thompson has taken to social media to share his recent vasectomy experience.

The father of multiple children underwent the procedure and wasted no time in expressing his thoughts on Wednesday, Nov. 15.

He revealed that the entire procedure lasted less than 30 minutes and described it as surprisingly painless.

Encouraged by his positive experience, he now urges men who have completed their families to consider vasectomy as a means to reduce the burden of birth control for women.

Notably, the procedure is reversible, offering couples the change they desire.

Speaking on the financial aspect, Thompson emphasized the cost-effectiveness of vasectomy when compared to women’s birth control methods.

He revealed the substantial amount women spend on birth control and the potential adverse effects it can have on their well-being.

“A vasectomy is cheaper, less expensive, and healthier than birth control for women,”

He also urged men to take responsibility and offer respite to their partners.

His advocacy for vasectomy has sparked conversations about reproductive choices and the need for men to actively participate in family planning.

As his story gains traction, many are intrigued by the notion of a simple, affordable, and reversible option that can help reduce the physical and financial burden on women.

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Popular Nigerian actress, Etinosa Idemudia has condemned the management of a Nigerian rapper, Oladipupo Oladimeji, professionally known as Oladips, for staging a death stunt to promote his upcoming album.
Naija News recalls that Oladips, on Tuesday, November 14, was rushed to an unnamed hospital due to an undisclosed illness, according to the post shared on his Instagram page.

The management of the rapper, however, on Wednesday, November 14, in another post, claimed that the rapper had passed away after battling for his life.

The statement from the management reads: “We are saddened to inform the general public that Oladipupo Olabode Oladimeji aka 0ladips passed away yesterday Nov’ 14th, Tuesday evening, at exactly 10:14 pm.

“We are still in shock as we speak! For over two years, he has kept his battles within himself; his body is now with his family & funeral services will be announced as it is concluded!

“The family asked that we respect their privacy in this trying time. May God give us all the fortitude to bear this great loss. (amen).- Management.”

A close friend of Oladips, QDot, however, took to his Instagram page on Thursday night to reveal that the rapper is alive and not dead.
Hours later, Nigerians speculated that the rapper’s death was a stunt pulled to promote his upcoming album.

Reacting to the death stunt, Etinosa took to her Instagram story to drag the management of Oladips.

The actress wrote, “Doing a death stunt is not cool. Your management no get sense. Ozuor. You and everyone that planned it Ozours.

“Mschewww, very stupid. I never fell for it in the first place. Poorly written script, stupid dead actors.”

The things people do to blow🙄

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Popular South African reality star Malibongwe Gumede has stated that the majority of Nigerian women enter into relationships with men both out of love and to extract money from them.

She made this claim in a recent episode of the Frankly Speaking podcast, which is co-anchored by Nollywood actor Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, also known as Nedu Wazobia.

Video:

Why South African women love Nigerian men

- Malibongwe Gumede pic.twitter.com/dwtQ0nFQmS

— @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) October 10, 2022

She claimed that in contrast to Nigerian women, South African women approach men they like and initiate a relationship with them without taking into account the man’s financial status.

According to her, a South African woman would do whatever it takes to be with her partner, regardless of the man’s financial situation.

Malibongwe Gumede said,

“We South African women, if we like a guy, let’s say a Nigerian guy, we will not hide our feelings. You don’t even have to start spending money before I can do anything with you. If I like you, I like you. It’s genuine.

But with Nigerian girls, what I’ve noticed is that first, they need to suck everything out of you. That’s what I’ve noticed about Nigerian girls. They love money too much. You know, South African girls, we can love you even if you don’t have money, as long as you are trying. But with Nigerian girls, it’s all about the money. If you don’t have money, they won’t even speak to you. What will they be gaining from you if you don’t have the money to maintain their lifestyles?”

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Religion is supposed to be in service of God but most so called Men of God have turned it into profit making schemes

Veteran Nigerian record producer and singer, Samuel Oguachuba, popularly known as Samklef, has said he does not believe the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church, Pastor Enoch Adeboye’s claim of “suspending winter” temporarily in Colorado, United States of America.

Pastor Adeboye, while addressing his congregation in a viral video, claimed that he once “suspended” winter during his visit to Colorado because he doesn’t like cold.

Video:

OJA ti burst o! Which Colorado? Ye! Dem don catch baba adeboye red handed for This one no be only me go hear am. When u think you have heard it all. pic.twitter.com/V9CSYdG7jp

— SAMKLEF (@SAMKLEF) November 15, 2023

In the video, the cleric could be heard saying, “Years ago, I was invited to Colorado in America, in January. I don’t like cold weather at all. So, I said to my father, ‘I’m going to Colorado; while I’m there, suspend winter.’

Throughout the days I was there, people were wearing tee-shirts in January. He pushed away the winter, brought in summer. I boarded the plane at 5 p.m. to travel back to Nigeria. Two hours after I left, all the snows that have been hanging in the air began to fall.”

Sharing the viral clip via his X handle, Samklef wrote, “OJA ti burst o! Which Colorado? Ye! Dem don catch Baba Adeboye red handed for This one no be only me go hear am. When u think you have heard it all.”

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rohangold:
Sean Paul - still in love

This Seaun Paul own is a classic😄

Absuchat:

Soldiers wey Boko Haram dey flog like say they thief phone, na im Yoruba god dey fear?
Shame

Lol not for civilians oh

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Internet users have reacted hilarious to a video which was shared online, where a masquerade refused to whip a military man.

The video which is currently trend was shared on the social media platform x by a user who identified as @dammiedammie35.

Video:

The gods sabi Soldier ?😂 pic.twitter.com/XFh7sJFDuw

— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) November 14, 2023

Some masquerades are very notorious for flogging civilians with their whips they normally carry around.

However, this masquerade seems like it is a respecter of constituted authority as it vehemently refuses to touch the soldier.

In the video the military officer was seen in his uniform telling the masquerade to go ahead and whip him, but the masquerade refused to.

The masquerade claimed that he could not whip his boss, referring to the military man as his boss.

While the conversation was ongoing the masquerade was heard telling the officer that he was the one who danced for him yesterday.

The video which many found funny generated a lot of reactions from internet users, as many concluded that the military man was higher than the gods.

Below are some of the reactions,

The gods don’t want to be unfortunate

The gods don finally craze you wan challenge soldier with Gun Dey play

The gods go too chop better beaten

The gods go bleed

gods call soldier my Oga . Uniform pass uniform

gods wey don learn risk management

Egungu be careful ba barracks you dy go

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The last video made by rapper Oladipupo Oladimeji, aka Oladips, pleading to be taken to a medical facility before his untimely demise has surfaced.

In the video shared on his Instagram story Tuesday, Oladips, addressing his manager, identified as Rasheed, questioned why he was left alone in the house despite several warnings to his team not to.

“Rasheed, where you con dey since now? I don call your number now.”

Responding, Rahseed said he had gone to get the meds Oladips asked him for.

Not long after this, the Lalakukulala crooner requested to be immediately taken to a hospital.

“Come dey carry me go hospital abeg, come dey carry me go,” Oladips said.

This is days after the rapper took to his Twitter account asking fans to pray for him as he did not feel well.

He had tweeted, ” I don’t mean to scare nobody but dipsciples, please pray for me, I don’t feel good.”

Video:https://www.instagram.com/reel/Czqnh5kNTWm/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

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Brother Bilaal, a former assistant to Will Smith, disclosed in an interview on Monday that he caught the actor having anal sex with his colleague Duane Martin.

Bilaal, in an interview with UNWINEWITHTASHAK on Youtube, said he found the actors while searching for Smith to join in watching the Hollywood ‘Hurry Up and Wait’ game.

“I’m running all over the studio. He’s not in his dressing room, but I see his car there,” he said. “I’m holding Duane down too, so I had the keys to his dressing room. I opened the door, and that’s when I see (sic) Duane having anal sex with Will.”


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v34V4esV2oU?si=DFa9lYCKVq6IkkUp

Bilaal explained that Smith’s wife, Jada Pinkett, embodied the kind of woman everyone desired. He said Smith sought that validation to be worthy of such a woman.

“There’s nothing you can use to please her,” he added.

In 2021, Smith said he did not have the strength to satisfy Pinkett’s sexual desire.

In an interview with Oprah Winfrey, the renowned actor said he could “die trying” if he attempts to keep up with Pinkett’s sex drive.

He talked about how exciting their sex life used to be at the beginning of their relationship and how he was unable to keep up with the initial drive.

Speaking with Winfrey, Smith said he and Pinkett “drank every day and had sex multiple times every day, for four straight months.”

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GanagiBitrus:
Marry-A-Thon

Lol 😆 I thought the A-Thons has ended