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Lifeislife:
The only thing laughable is you are still stuck in your hut, when you decide to relocate from your village you will discover this is the twenty-first century.



What does a woman need a man for? Are women not going to school, graduating? Earning salaries? There are Nigerian women refusing bride price because they don't want to be bought. In countries like America there is no bride price. In India its women that even pay the bride price. Please educate yourself. Are women not presidents, prime ministers? Women are paying for thier weddings, sometimes the couple split the wedding cost equally.

It's low self-esteem women that want to depend on a man ¹ , most of those girls are happy to be baby mama's ² . Most of them have been raised to feel inferior to a man ³ . They've been told they are not equal to their brothers .They have been taught to depend on a man for everything. ⁴

On 1 , low self esteem is not what makes women depend on men, it is the lack of power! There are men that are low on self esteem out there but they are not carrying this as a stamp on their foreheads and in their own way they find a way to survive in a world full of predators who really do not care if you are a man or a woman. What makes a woman depend on a man is her lackadaisical attitude towards wealth creation, poor IQ, greed and sometimes sheer stupidity and all these mean she is powerless and has little or nothing to bring to the table. A man with these traits will suffer the same fate as a woman with these traits, so i don't see how the pauperization of women is the fault of the men...

On 2 , any girl happy to be a baby mama is exactly what you just called her a 'baby' mama, I mean an overgrown baby who became a mother...no woman in her right senses will accept such a demeaning title let alone allow herself become a glorified wh.ore whose worth is defined by her gen.italia. Girls in this category are often saucy, ill-mannered, with no respect for social values and no regard for the sanctity of marriage. These girls are the champions of unbridled hedonism and are among those ladies who believe they are in no way subject to the dictates of any man...any woman with respect for the marriage institution will not see her role in marriage as subjugation and neither will any man with the same respect see marriage as a license to a tyrannical lifestyle!

On 3 our parents do their bit till their children enter into early adulthood (i.e the early 20s) where independent decision making becomes a norm among these, once upon a time, children! In the end we all are architects of our destinies and hence only a fool will, at such a defining moment in life, base his decisions entirely on the often erroneous beliefs of parents and family. That you are raised to be a failure does not mean you must accept to be failure and hence being raised to feel inferior is no justification to feel inferior for the rest of your life...so if a full grown woman feels inferior to a man after seeing the population of ladies in Universities or in top positions in the academia, politics and professional practice then it is the fault of no man...

On 4 Funny!!! Look around you and see the teeming population of ladies who want a 'ready-made' man for a husband...were they taught to do that? Did someone sit them down and give them a lecture on how to depend on a man...in social interactions, people seek out ways to maximize their gains by availing well thought out stratagems and I believe strongly that a woman who depends on a man economically, intellectually, spiritually and otherwise must be doing so because she sees it as an opportunity to reap where she has not sowed and make a living out of doing nothing...these women do not need your sympathy and will most definitely reject your pity as I am pretty sure that they will be regale you with tales of Dubai shopping, holiday frolicking and the likes all at the expense of their man's wealth!

The proverbs 31: 10-31 woman, the woman whose price is far above rubies, is not someone who sees her role as a wife as one that subjugates her to a man rather she sees it as an opportunity to gain her husband's trust, to surround her man with good tidings all the days of his life, to amass economic power and yet falter not in taking care of her household, to secure her household from uncertainty and win the admiration and praise of her children and husband!

I am not ruling out the fact that there are some stupid men out there who give women the impression that all men are brute beasts who do not care for the social, economic, psychological and spiritual well being of women thus making women look like slaves serving task masters. Nevertheless I posit that there are men out their who realize the worth of a powerful woman who can handle the reins of responsibility when they, for any reason, falter and I belong to this category (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).

Submission is not subjugation as far as a real man is concerned...because submission is the consequence of love! It is expected to be a natural tendency for anyone to submit to those who love and cater for them 1 Corinthians 16: 15-16; Hebrews 13: 17...This means that even a woman can earn the submission of a man if that woman pays the price of love and vice versa. Hence, real men do not clamor with loud speakers for their wives to be submissive...they rather purchase the submission of their wives by loving them in the same manner Christ loved the church and gave His life for it (Ephesians 5: 25).

Lifeislife:
What does a woman need a man for? Are women not earning salaries, paying thier bills.

Oh really! Well if men are not needed at all then evolution or GOD goofed terribly by creating an aberration called men...evolution or GOD also goofed seriously by ensuring that you were born by the union of a man and a woman and not the union of two women or a scientific experiment...I believe strongly you have a case against either evolution or GOD for making you bear the X chromosome from a man...you might as well seek redress at some court requesting that you be reborn as the clone of a woman or the result of intercourse between two women!

ilynem:
Spiritual dimension you say? But the spiritual controls the physical. It is as clear as day in that passage. All beings in Christ are equal. The Jews used to think they were still a special people but Paul made them realise Christ changed that and all are seen as equal in his site. Also that passage is also clearly against slavery and misogyny. Those in Christ are to see everyone as equal whether race, gender or status.
Knew you would throw 1 Corinthians 14 at my face. Again, stop trying to quote a book you don't understand. The church is Corinth was a disorganized one. Paul wanted orderliness in that church hence that passage. That verse was clearly meant for that particular church. Try reading the whole chapter sir. You will get a clearer perspective. That verse in no way suggests that women are inferior to men.

Really!!! I applaud your impeccable understanding of the bible..you might as well have written it yourself!

ilynem:
Hmmmm. I think you should stop quoting a book you don't understand. I already explained this here. Help yourself.

The equality spoken of in that verse is spiritual. That verse speaks of the new creature which is not bound by the vagaries and differences of the flesh...that is why that verse goes on to say there are no jews, or greeks, bond or free...because these are physical dimensions not reckoned with in the life of a regenerated spirit...but when we come to the natural sphere these differences abound and were recognized by Paul in 1 Corinthians 7:18.

Well, in your judgment my understanding of the bible is poor but do you understand the bible more or have access to the revelation of the word more than Paul who penned down: 1 Corinthians 14:34-35?

My conclusion is that as a woman (after the flesh) you are subject to a man; your father or your husband, but as a new creature (after the spirit) you are subject to no one but God alone!

Kestolove:
nnamdi kanu

ilynem:
I know where your confusion is. You confuse a person with a being. As persons we have different but as beings we are equal in the sense that we are all humans. Bolt is probably a bigger person than me (that is still up for debate ) but he is NOT a bigger human being than I am. God made all of us equal. You are right we all have our weaknesses and strengths and these qualities complement each other nicely. You weren't made above any woman sir. This reasoning can only be detrimental to women around you.

It is funny you mentioned GOD! You really should not involve GOD in your clamor for gender equality because clearly this same GOD never agreed or agrees to it. Genesis 3:16 literally came out of the mouth of this same GOD and it clearly says "...and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee". So if you an ally of GOD you should not bring HIM into gender equality...you should probably ally yourself with the largely atheistic stance of evolution and you might have a moral backing for your gender equality position.

Lifeislife:
Yes men and women are equal. We have equal rights.

Being better person ke, I should allow a bully to claim a spot that wasn't his. Most of you men are just the same.

Men and women are equal...that is a laughable delusion taken far enough to border on outright insanity! If a man is equal to a woman then they will have the same genitals, the same frame, the same frailties, the same strengths, the same roles, the same challenges, the same socially ascribed privileges and the same realities...Hence a woman being equal to a man should not need a man for anything! This makes GOD look foolish for making men or evolution being an accident made an even more detrimental accident by allowing men coexist with women...Men are not equal to women and vice versa, both are uniquely different and complement eachother in socially functional ways!

Perspectives:
Marriage is one of the next thing in my life right now and I don't want to get it wrong.

What are those things that can convince a person to tie a knot without regretting later in the future?

Are there signs that should be looked out for?

What are those red flags that shouldn't be ignored?

Married people, about to married, people in serious relationship, please we need your input.

GOD created two GOD-like persons, Adam and Eve, bonded them via marriage...and though they messed up, they remained together! For marriage to last, the parties involved must be GOD-like and when I say GOD-like their lives must be characterized by the FRUITS OF THE SPIRIT listed in Galatians 5:22-23 ...else, marriage could be hell itself!

PaztorAYO:
You people are ridiculous. If the word of the Lord is beyond "the fickle imaginations of an aging mortal bound by the feeble boundaries of the natural", how did you, who IS "an aging mortal with a fickle mind bound by the feeble boundaries of the natural" manage to COMPREHEND it?

That's because your most wise eminence cannot see that wisdom comes from the deepest recesses of a regenerated man where the essense of the Omniscient God resides...but a mere ageing mortal oblivious of his dark state cannot fathom what comes from a region deeper than his vague imaginations and transient elucidations...

I will send them as requested...

xnigga:
Self contain is about 100k per year in the area I lived when I was there (Sabon gari). Advantages: area is populated by non Indigenes so you would co-habit with like minded people, night clubs, beer, women. Disadvantages: place is rough, some parts looks like ghetto/slum, too much noise due to the high population. Congratulations on your new job despite the ongoing recession.

hmmm...i hope it is the high concentration that makes a self contain apartmnt as high as 100k! i wouldnt mind something cheaper! but thanks for the info!!

flexysam:
contact me through my email. I will link u to agent.

ok! my email address is: efficiencie@gmail.com i'l be expecting your mail!

honeysplash:
Good morning... Arrived Kano last nyt and currently arnd Sabo - Gari area... Please connect me with a good agent who may have good houses arnd the said hadeJia so I can check some places possibly today.
Thanks so much.

Hi, were you successful in getting an accommodation in Kano? If you were then i would need your help getting an affordable self-contain apartment. Any useful information, contacts or links will be appreciated.

After years of searching I got a job in Kano but alas I do not have an accommodation there...Please does anyone have any relevant information that can help? I just need an affordable self-contain apartment and i would like to know how much I should budget for as well as any advantages or disadvantages of the locations!

On Genesis 19:8
Nowhere in the scriptures was the idea of Lot justified even if it is save the strangers that came in to Lot and moreso the so called strangers were angels and even these angels realized how dumb such an idea was, that is the idea of Lot, and that was why they dragged the dumbo into the house before casting blindness upon the abominable men! The angels did not heed Lot’s dumb idea.
On Exodus 21:20-21
In modern times, no one frowns against keeping a staff in the office for 13 hours particularly if he will be paid for it. No one frowns against denying a house help the basic privileges of food, education and rest particularly when this house help will be fed, sheltered and paid. The verse requires elucidation. The book of Leviticus 25: 38-55 shows that there are two kinds of servants, the Israelites and the non-israelites. The former were commanded by GOD not to take each other as bondservants but as for the non-israelites, the heathen, their sinful state permitted them to be subjected to slavery but you must note that GOD made it known that the instant a stranger becomes a partaker of the covenant of the Israelites the Laws that apply to the Israelites also apply to them, though they were descendants of non-israelites (Exodus 12:48). This shows that damnation that faces all those who reject GOD as they will be made servants of the royal priesthood of Israel (Psalm 2:8 ).
On Leviticus 25; 44-45 see the above.
The bible’s admonition of Peter in 1 Peter 2:18 is very much in agreement with Hebrew 13:17 whoever is placed over you to oversee you does so to your benefit and in the event that this master is harsh submit still in the spirit of the words of Christ in Matthew 5: 38-48 and this aids towards becoming like GOD Himself who is perfect in LOVE!
On Deuteronomy 22:20-21
Ever wondered why only women have a hymen that provides a carnal proof of virginity! The GOD who created it put it there for a reason. In a world where genocides are the other of the day, manslaughter would not be punishable but before a GOD who put the hymen in its location as a proof of virginity it is HIGHLY ABOMINABLE for her to lose it and yet not be with a husband.
On Deuteronomy 23:1
The word said ‘…shall not enter the assembly of the LORD’, that you cannot enter into the assembly of the LORD does not bar the person from worshipping GOD. Balaam was an example of a prophet of GOD in a foreign land and away from the assembly of the Israelites (Numbers 22:5; 2 Peter 2:15-16). The fear of the LORD made people adhere and not disobey. There was no need for anyone to inspect the genitals of men as there was no need for anyone to ensure that the laws for offering incense were fully adhered to before incense is offered…GOD does not need to help of man to ensure that HIS laws are adhered to because HIS judgment is swift, righteous and awesome! (Leviticus 10:1-2)
On Deuteronomy 25:11-12
Why should that erring woman be spared!? If the roles are reversed such that two women are in a fight and the husband of one of these women grabs the other woman by her breasts or genitals wouldn’t the same punishment follow? Why must a woman’s hand head for another man’s genitals!?
Leviticus 21:18-19
I suggest the verse be read from verse 17, it says ‘speak unto Aaron, saying, whosoever he be of thy seed in their generations that hath any blemish, let him not approach to offer the bread of his GOD’. People with blemish are not to come near to offer the sacrifice of bread but this does not completely debar worship. Christ before the establishment of the new covenant made us know that some people made themselves EUNUCHS for the sake of the Kingdom of God (Matthew 19;12) and this shows that being a EUNUCH – and hence incomplete as a man – does not necessarily debar you from worship or entering into the Kingdom of Heaven. You are not just permitted to offer the sacrifice of bread.
Leviticus 20:9
A child that deems it fit to curse his mother and father deserves to be stoned to death because a child that curses those who stand in the stead of GOD as a lover and watchful protector is a child that is very much like Lucifer who cursed the LORD GOD by making abominable assertions in Isaiah 14:12-14. If you would like to have children that would curse you despite your love and care then wish for it…satan would be more than willing to assist you in having such children!
On Kings 2: 23-24
Prophets are so loved by the LORD GOD that HE will do nothing but HE reveals HIS secrets to HIS servants the prophets (Amos 3:7)! The LORD GOD testifies by HIS prophets and the words of the LORD GOD do not return void (2 Kings 17:13, Isaiah 55:11). Why must one mock a man of GOD or an elderly person and not expect to be punished?

Psalm 137:9
Wow, what a way to cull out a verse! The full verse as seen in Psalm 137:8-9 is a prophecy of the damnation that was to come upon Babylon at the hands of the soldiers of Medes and Persia and not the children of Israel. Even the LORD GOD who abhors murder even in battle did not permit David to build the temple simply because of the amount of bloodshed by his hand as a man that has faced many a battle (1 Chronicles 22:8 ).

The word of the LORD GOD is yond the fickle imaginations of an ageing mortal bound by the feeble boundaries of the natural!

D34lw4p:
People of Nairaland, I need help biko! my girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me after a pastor she has never seen before just came to her and told her the relationship can't work... pls this is a very serious case, what will you do if you were in her shoes or what do you advice me to do pls? the love is actually there but just yesterday everything has become sour, is it now normal to believe anything just like that? pls I need help.

Its either she is smart and the pastor is right or she is dumb and the pastor is a con man...in the case of the former you've got to fix yourself and in the case of the later you just escaped a cesspit...either way "what ever does not kill you, makes you stronger"! Man up and do the needful!

Topgainer:
And where did I talk of rewards or sanctions?

Can't you see you and your prophetic Bishop teachers are the comedian here. Are you angry that Prophet Omotosho has been nabbed ( slammed with 22 count charges including sexual assault ) by the South Africa Government who gave no recourse to your senseless standing to deem anyone right or wrong? ¹

You forgot, the likes of me are the devils in your little song above. ²

According to you this time, the Prophetic Bishop who corners a teenager for sex rendezvous, who assults a neighbours wife, who spends Church money for a nightout with international prostitutes when the widows abound in his local congregation, should never be told he is wrong because according to you he is a man of gods and others are men of the devils. [b] ³ The propagation of the fear of 'Call' is gaining grounds among Charlatans. [b] Can I know the date you got your own 'Call' and possibly why you think others don't have this immunity 'Call' like you and your ilks. ⁴

The Bible in my hands has a standing to deem anyone right or wrong, it warned of the fruits of false prophets, the beasts and their multitude of followers. ⁵ The word of God in your mouth can expose, reprove and denouce evil works of darkness anywhere it is found. The law enforcement agents have a standing to deem right or wrong as well, within the constitution of the land.

Brother, stay away from false Prophets and Bishops. Their 'call' will do you no good neither will the fear of them. I observed you abuse bible quotations a lot which is common among pretentious 'callers and callings.'
I will not oblidge you with another response. ⁶

On 1 I never alluded to or implied that any one caught breaching the laws of the land of the country he/she inhabits must not be punished according to the same laws of the land. I guess your desire to have me appear wrong permitted you to arrive at such a conclusion.
On 2 I never referred to you as a devil, after all the immature sons of thunder were pretty much your ally and Christ did not label them devils! (Luke 9:52-56 )
On 3 So the two men of GOD who happen to be the bone of contention were caught by YOU committing the heinous acts you so carefully listed above...well if of a truth they did these and the LORD exposes them their very deeds will revile them and their actions will chastise them because the light will be prove it... (John 3:19-20 )
On 4 I never spoke of having a call and neither did i assign immunity to those who claim they have a call...after all the young prophet was called by GOD to do HIS bidding but he failed and got punished by HIM who called the prophet (1Kings 13).
On 5 Oh yes, pretty much as the Law of the LORD GOD was in the hands of the pharisees who caught a lady in a punishable act and made bold to stone her to death...I think JESUS CHRIST would have received a lot of tongue lashing from your YOUR ROYAL "SCRIPTURENESS" for sparing that guilty lady! (John 8 )
On 6 Funny!!! you don't know me yet you already conclude that I patronize and fear false prophets, bishops; abuse bible quotations and pretentious...thank GOD you are not GOD! Jude saw well, when he prophesied of people who use their tongue the way you do (Jude 1:8 )!

Are you sure you don't want to oblige me with another response?

Topgainer:
And where did I say I am God? The bold represents the favourite line of the False prophets and the gods they worship, the psychology of the 'fear me game' they play on the gullibles. Like I said it has its origin in the 6/7 books of Moses, has nothing to do with Christianity or the laws of the spirit of life in Christ.
It will not sell here. Your description of God and the Spirit is warped. Stay away from false Prophets and Bishops. Chose between Christianity and Moses; stick to one. It is crystal clear you are dancing around the two.

Are you not abusing the word 'Call' like most youths under the bondage of Pentecostalist gods and lords of manor? I have a call has become an Anthem. Every Charlatan, every fraudster, every motivational speaker, every magician, every sorcerer, every occultist, every writer of short stories, every slave of False Bishops, Apostles and Prophets has an aspiration, to threaten people with 'I have a call' like their Masters so 'fear me'.

Funny!!! The likes of you would have shot Saul through with a dart of lightning through his chest and never give him the chance to be a Paul if you were in the place of GOD. The likes of you would have lent their support to the sons of thunder to call down fire on the Samaritans (Luke 9:52-59). The likes of you would have shut the door to an ignorant Pharisee (John 3)...It is because of the likes of you that the LORD GOD commanded that the tares be left to grow with the wheat, because the zeal of your narrow introspection would justify rooting out the wheat in the name of eliminating tares...in the end, when you yourself are faced with the scales of equity, the sword of Justice and a blind impartial judge you would be the first to cry for mercy and your zealotry would mock you there and then...I never alluded to or lent my support to any man of GOD and their lifestyle. I only believe that CHRIST is the ultimate judge and HE alone has the moral standing to deem anyone right or wrong and give rewards or sanctions...

Topgainer:
Miriam story again! How many have you seen today?

I have heard statements like the ones you spewed up there from Nigerian Prophets and men of gods who will not want their evil deeds questioned. It is obvious you sat for long under such men and at this point in your life you have not understood there is a difference between Christianity and the 6/7th book of Moses inspired ministration of Nigeria false prophets and bishops.

Have you thought of the origin of the popular 'enemy die by fire, fall and die, curses and threatening people, extortionist sermons and much emphasis on money?

Christians are licensed by the teachings of Christ, the letters of the Apostles and boldness from above to confront and expose the unfruitful works of darkness anywhere they may be found. The moment Bishop Oyedepo, Bishop ODM Kpokwevwe, Prophet Rev King Ezeugo etc begin to associate with unfruitful works of darkness, they will be exposed by Christians, no hiding place in the old testament or in stories like that of Miriam.


Op, as much as it is part of it, it is not sufficient to label people satanic because of the products they use. I will rather focus on their conducts mainly and preaching partly. The duo of Prophet Biodun and Apostle Johnson have no resemblance to Jesus in either sermon or conducts. They themselves know the source codes they are using to hoodwink their followers.

Brother! you are not GOD! You did not call them or certify them fit to minister! More importantly, you are not under any obligation to worship at the denominations that these men run. All i am pointing out is that GOD is a spirit, his affairs are spiritual, His evidences are based on the spiritual and His methods are spiritual and this makes GOD and His affairs usually intractable as far as scientific observation and deduction is concerned. While i am not alluding to the justification of whatever these men of GOD have done, I am only saying that if any accusation of these people is to be done and done right it must be grounded on spiritual evidence alone and if such an evidence is not available one runs the risk of stepping on GOD's toes by maligning them even if they appear wrong or are indeed wrong...

if your judgment of these men is anchored on their use of designs whose etymology is rooted in satanic origins, then I assure you that more than 80% of Christians around the world are guilty of your accusation of these two men of God and you might very well be guilty of your own accusation...nevertheless you must realize the kind of God Christians serve. This was the same GOD that created one wife for one man but didn't destroy David when he married the wives and daughters of Saul (2Samuel12:7-8; 1Samuel18;20). This was the same GOD that outlawed coming in contact with faeces yet HE told Ezekiel to cook his food with faeces as a sign (Deuteronomy 23;12-14; Ezekiel 4:12). This is the same GOD that struck Uzziah for offering incense in the Temple but was not wrath with David who ordered for the ephod though he wasn't a priest, wasn't ceremonially clean and wasn't of the priesthood tribe of Levi (2Chronicles 26;18-19; 1Samuel30;7-8 )...

Let us be wary of the LORD GOD and let your judgments be based on REVELATIONS FROM CHRIST and not carnal evidences...that you may not fall victim of the same PUNISHMENT Miriam fell into when she based her judgment on carnal evidences (Numbers 12;1-11)!!!

Goshen360:
Grace is deep and unsearchable in its whole sphere. Having been a student of the message of the Grace of God, I have come to conclusion more than Grace being unmeritted favor, that it is EVERYTHING GOD HAD DONE TO AND FOR BELIEVERS, THROUGH THE DEATH, BURIAL AND RESURRECTION OF THE LIVING CHRIST.

It's,

G-od's
R-iches
A-t
C-hrist
E-xpenses

errrrr...a note of correction is in order! Grace is the gift of GOD. Simple!! Before Noah even knew of a Christ he found grace in the sight of GOD (Genesis 6:8 ), before Moses knew the ways of GOD he found grace in the sight of GOD (Exodus 33:12-13) and before Gideon could even discern fully who an angel of the LORD was he found grace in the sight of GOD (Judges 6;17-22)...Anything flowing from GOD to any of GOD's creation is called Grace; the death, burial and resurrection of Christ is one of them and the very air you breathe is one of them!

Ezekiel... A super-spiritual, doting lover of GOD and an extremely loving intercessor! I love his spirit and crave him.

GOD keeps silent because we never asked and cared to know why HE is silent! GOD operates by the rule: "ask and it shall be given" and HE is no busybody! All hell can be let loose and all HE'll do is watch until someone invites HIM to deal with the matter...If you must MOVE GOD, you must UNDERSTAND and OPERATE the equation of FAITH...else HE'll keep watching in silence!

...a man of God APPOINTED by men will be DISAPPOINTED by men as well...but those whose calling is anchored on "THUS SAITH THE LORD" will remain UNMOVABLE by the antics of men!

True worshipers are spiritual and there is no place for such words as APPLICATION, INTERVIEW, QUERY, SACKING, etc...true worshipers are led by the words: THUS SAITH THE LORD GOD! These so called Christians have made a huge mess of what started with Christ himself!

edidiongmichael:
What Happened To Me On Sunday Service In Church


What's your candid view on this?

Recently I joined a church, I know how to play piano but not really well. The church has a standard pianist that plays literally on every church's event. When they discovered I knew how to play, they gave me the opportunity to be playing at least 2 times a month. Honestly, I didn't see myself as a church worker because I've never been to their meeting before. I only play when they tell me to otherwise I stay at the congregation. Last Sunday, I wore a shirt with a suit trouser and a sandals to church, then I wasn't expected to tuck in my shirt with a sandals. When I got to church, the pastor ordered me out of the church to tuck in before coming inside and instructed the ushers to not let me in until I tucked in my shirt. The church was still on and I got so ashamed and embarrassed. Everybody's eyes were on me during that time.

As confused as I was, I angrily left the church that moment to another nearby church.

Then I started thinking, Do we really have to tuck in our shirts to show how holy we are in church? What do you think had prompted the pastor to order me out? Do Christians have a dressing code? Will I be judged on the final day for letting loose my shirt to church? What's your view on this?

Foolishness abounds in the heart of a child and that pastor is a child as depicted by 1 Corinthians 3:1-3...What has tucking in your shirt got to do with the salvation of a soul, the unity of faith, bringing a man to the knowledge of the son of God, making a man become a perfect man and making him conform to the fullness of the image of Christ...New testament pharisees who are not going into the Kingdom of God and prevent others from coming in!

...point of correction: the scripture said: "And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment" and it never said "And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but IMMEDIATELY after this the judgment"...that verse of scripture found in Hebrews 9:27 did not specify a time frame between the event of DYING and the event of being JUDGED it only made us realize that JUDGMENT follows DEATH and this JUDGMENT is the WHITE THRONE JUDGMENT of Revelation 20:11-15 which is yet to come...

ominirajj:
Hi matured minds
I need an honest advice here. My husband has become a stumbling block for me, whenever i bring any opnion to him he sees the negative aspect only . i told him i want to learn hair dressing he goes against it, there was a time i got a job in airport hotel went against it.
Now why am so depressed and sad is that i have went to field to train because i cannot afford money to attend GYM house what he have to say is that that place is not secure becos of thugs.
This is a kind of man who doesnt contribute to my getting a befiting work, all he does condemn anything i do
Am a Gospel artist , he wont allow me go for outings especially night vigils. Am i not in trouble already or what can i do?
He is also violent and a bully

Well congratulations!!! You are now really married and the reality of marriage has trumped the fantasies of a fancy pre-wedding photo shoot and glamorous wedding...as for your challenge, you have two options; the first is to seek a divorce and join the fast growing club of divorcees or seek the one person who alone has the ability to change the hearts of mankind, GOD! If your choice is the later, then stay out of trouble, accept his opinion for now (for peace sake), pray to GOD concerning your obstinate husband asking GOD to deal with any agent or factor making your husband an obstacle to the fulfillment of your purpose on earth, develop your mental and spiritual prowess while you wait on GOD...and again I say "stay out of direct confrontation with your husband" and let GOD himself do the confronting...

sparkles007:
I just got a similar text bt mine was

You've been invited for an assessment by Tp Logistics for an opportunity to work with us 24/5/2017 by 9:00am @AQ15 Daura RD opp yabi plaza Magajin Gari KD.

So was yours real?

i never investigated this job opening as i didnt honour the invitation. i called the number that sent me that text to inquire about details of the job and the response i got from the lady who answered me was that when i come for the interview i would know the position i applied for as well as other details.

Since i could not afford to spend the scarce cash i had then on a exercise that could be in futility, i decided not to heed the invitation!

una wey dey blame the pastor una do English comprehension for secondary school at all? According to the lady “But my pastor said that three months was too long to think about it. He then gave me only two weeks to pray over it which I did; after which I told my pastor that I agreed,” she said.

The pastor only needed her to make her decision on time and not keep the man waiting...the foolish lady was not forced by the pastor she made a decision without hearing from God! Now she is blaming the pastor. if the pastor had deterred the marriage numskulls like her would have lamented that the pastor is blocking potential suitors from wooing her.

I got this invite this afternoon...is it for real?

PRIOR TO YOUR APPLICATION,TOPRENEUR LOGISTICS INVITES YOU TO AN INTERVIEW FOR AN OPPORTUNITY TO WORK WITH US BY 9AM TUE 18/4/17 AT AQ15 DAURA RD OPP YABI PLAZA MAGAJIN GARI KADUNA. TPL-FLO-245

I got this invite this afternoon...is it for real?

PRIOR TO YOUR APPLICATION,TOPRENEUR LOGISTICS INVITES YOU TO AN INTERVIEW FOR AN OPPORTUNITY TO WORK WITH US BY 9AM TUE 18/4/17 AT AQ15 DAURA RD OPP YABI PLAZA MAGAJIN GARI KADUNA. TPL-FLO-245