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PointZerom:Don't mind them, them no dey hear word. They just want to pave way for Giwa to head NFF. If not, why not petition FIFA first before arriving at whatever conclusion you wanna conclude? I read the whole thing sef and I no see the scam whey them say Pinnick commit. They have forgetten that NFF is under FIFA's jurisdiction and has nothing to do with government. Let them touch Amaju Pinnick first, 200yrs ban from FIFA loading..... |
Ejiod:You know say church or mosquego swear for you now when you reach there so....................... |
pythonkid:More like 13yrs, because he will want to furnish the place well before he marries. On 80k per month, E go tey. Before he will now start saving for wedding, both traditional and spiritual (be it church or mosque) |
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jmaine:Courtesy APC, Nairaland Zonal headquarters....... ![]()
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Both the girlfriend, boyfriend, the relationship and the iPhone. They are all mad. ...... ![]() |
They said she is President Buhari's niece and not in-law, olodo bloggers and zombies |
They said she is buhari's niece, not Buhari's in-law, olodo bloggers and zombies |
Let me guess, this is the same person some people say makes sense. He present intelligent argument from the scriptures right? Someone who has no issues, with denying the name of the Lord is advising you not to tithe and you take such a person serious. Oya ooooh, una Sons of Daddy freeze, una Pastor with online church with Digital anointing is talking..........una hear? |
Hmmmmmm....... Joystick still get E own cancer again? Na wah for wire road oooo |
This post is proof that so many men - especially guys whey dey diss am pass - don dey reason Bob risky yansh tay tay. If not, how you take know say na padded bum E use take do packaging? I just tire for some people them...... ![]() See joblessness on social media, so for the whole world wide web, I dey find something whey I wan reason na Bobrisky yansh. Tufiakwa........ ![]()
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royalamour:Do not disturb or bother her anymore to perform any more duties as expected of a wife. I wish I could counsel you one-on-one on the best way to plan your divorce. But unfortunately, your story is filled with a lot of missing pieces. 1.Things I was expecting to see is, your family for instance, are they aware of all this and what is their take on your next move and what is their suggestions on a next move. 2. Your friends, tight buddies, what input or suggestions have they offered and what role have they played in your life so far since you got married. 3. What do you sincerely - And I mean sincerely - think you may have done or are still doing that encourages her consistent behaviour or shall we say misbehaviour. 4. Her family, what is the conclusion of her extended family concerning her behaviour. What kind of person do they now see her as now. 5. Have you ever been discovered in a misdemeanour of your own, be very brutally frank and honest with yourself; have you ever cheated on her and she found out, be 100% honest, and judge yourself as a man without sentiments. Have you acted out of line as a husband yes or no (And that "I am a man" bullshit doesnt apply here). 6. Most time during or outside an argument, what does she constantly accuse you of being or doing that she doesn't like. Typically what does she always say you do to her, as in her "you have started again", complain that you are fond of doing that she does not like. 7. Is she a house wife by chance or by choice? Because your story suggests that she is a house wife. Was it a consenual decision or did you insist that she doesn't work, because I perceive serious idleness on her part. 8. What is her level of education and where did you first meet? What did you guys used to do or go to for fun before you got married. 9. Where you guys physically intimate before you got married? Where you having sex before you got married, I ask because experience with most guys, show that their judgement in assessing girls for marriage is usually clouded by physical/sexually intimacy. She may be showing signs of misdemeanour but such things get waved off by guys who are on a natural high from good supply of "touching body". 10. How did you get married? Did you do traditional wedding in her parents place in their village or just in my father's how in town? Did you do church wedding or court wedding or both? If you did church wedding, was input has the church you wedded/attending made since you got married. If you are Muslim, what input has the alfa made since you got married. 11. When last did you pray for her or concerning what's happening! These and many other things I will need to know to give the best advice. For now; these are my do's and don'ts for you. For someone planning a divorce 1. But first, buy a spy glass that isnt so obvious and document your heart to heart conversations with her. From screen shot, to audio recordings to spy glass video recordings, give yourself 2 years, document as many anomalies that exist in your home. 2. Never, ever argue with your wife. I am a firm believer in the ability to live with your wife and never argue. It is an insult to do so, you are free to have different shades of opinion on a matter, even to disagree on a subject but an argument is nonsense. In an argument, the focus is on each other and not the issue and that's where people start to denigrate and deprecate each other. Simply call her and tell her your mind about how you feel about a thing/issue with sound reasons and leave it alone, if she agrees with it and respects you enough to comply; fine! .......if she doesn't hold your peace and ignore it. Since you are on your way to a divorce, just document it and move on. Never be vindictive in doing this at any stage. 3. Seriously consider what you want to start seeing in your home and let her know it. Do your best and continue to be the good husband that you ought to be. Ask yourself, what kind of place do you want your home to be. Take time out to call her once in a while and softly tell her some things she needs to start doing as your wife(not as a married woman, not as other women are doing it but as a woman living as your own wife); no insults, no heated debates, no arguments, no comparisons with other homes/women (See rule number one again for emphasis). 4. Maintain rule one and rule two consistently for 2 years. No matter how provoked you are by an acts she takes, simply talk to her and leave it at that. Never try to slap, insult, make comparison. Tell her gently, smile sef join, document and leave it. 5. Look for mininum of 2 people you can trust to be absolutely discreet. One ought to be family or closer/bolder than family, the other should be your attorney . You will need these 2 for sanity purpose because a man can only take so much before he loses his mind. Ensure you have a cloud storage website on the internet, e.g. 4shared.com or even your email where you preserve all the evidence acquired over 2 years. Your attorney should have that password. 6. Never confront her over anything you find abnormal for your home, if you must; document it - video or audio - and preserve it as well. Also ensure you have a member of her family that is aware of extraordinary things that should not happen - like her sleeping with someone else, or maintaining a close relationship with her ex. Take note, extraordinary things only 7. If you must report anything she does in this season, it is to be done for information purposes only. And it must be only when extremely necessary and no more. Outside your trust circle, which must include an attorney for divorce purposes, be very discreet with information on your home. N.B: a lawyer is not only necessary if you did a court wedding. If you did a proper traditional marriage, a customary court can also annul your marriage. Then after 2 years, a simple review of where you are in your life and what the evidence you have documented so far will determine how best to proceed....... I don't typically support/advice people to get a divorce, but waiting till she lace your meal with rat poison isn't a marriage either. Plus I am totally unware of her side to this story, so many fragments to this story is missing...... |
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Oya Nairaland MODS how far now... https://www.nairaland.com/4933662/us-group-makes-revelations-buhari#74336271 |
Omudia11:False!! The bible says without faith it is impossible to please God.......if you cannot find conviction in the word nor in teachings or in the Spirit within then why offer an offence before the Lord!? People feel compelled to do things, that they have no faith based anchor for and then feel cheated.... Eph 4:14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive; It is a sign of immaturity, childishness and in some cases Spiritual retardation, go back to the word of God, pray and seek God's face for clarification on such matters before you make decisions on givings that you are not sure about. First fruit exists in scriptures within the old testament and there are principles upon which it is practiced under the new convenant...... 1 peter 2:2 As newborn babes, desire the pure milk of the word, that you may grow thereby: Learn as a Christian to focus on pleasing the Lord by faith through your giving, the bible says desire the 'sincere milk' of the word of God. That alone tells you that not all give you the word of God in sincerity of heart or the word sincere as it is. Some one who has no desire for Spiritual growth, no love for the things of the Spirit, no longing for the Lord nor heaven, you donate your ears to such a person to counsel you on how to give to God? You will not go very far in your Spiritual walk with God. That one is clear. Is it not people who have a desire for God that should counsel you on their walk/work with God or their experience in relating with God. As opposed to people who see opportunities to exploit others in every young Christian at every turn, who just believe that everybody is like them. I have said my peace |
The Defence and Foreign Affairs latest report published by the International Strategic Studies Association (ISSA) based in the United States of America, has stated that the deaths of a former Chief of Air Staff, Air Chief Marshal Alex Sabundu Badeh (retd.) and a former Chief of Administration of the Nigerian Army, Major General Idris Alkali, “were not a coincidence”. ISSA is a Washington-based non-governmental organisation with a worldwide membership of professionals involved in national and international security and strategic policy. President of ISSA, Gregory Copley, told ThisDay that their analyses were not released to the public but to governments that the organisation has affiliation with. The report released over the weekend and obtained by the newspaper stated that corruption among top military chiefs appointed by President Muhammadu Buhari is the reason Nigeria is losing the war against Boko Haram terrorists. It stated that at present, the Nigerian government had completely and comprehensively lost control of the engagement with Boko Haram and could show no instance when the government presently had tactical, theatre, strategic, or information dominance of any aspect of the conflict. It reads in parts, “It is fair to say that the Nigerian intelligence community itself is no longer sure what groups even comprise ‘Boko Haram’, nor has it addressed the international logistical, ideological, and support aspects contributing to the ongoing viability of the groups. “The conflict will almost certainly prove the undoing of the present government of President Muhammadu Buhari at the February 16, 2019, presidential elections. “Despite this, the only significant engagement which the Nigerian military leadership — up to and including the National Security Adviser, Maj.-Gen. (rtd.) Mohammed Babagana Monguno – seems to prioritise is the fight to stop the leakage of information about massive corruption, running into the equivalent of several billions of dollars, in the purchase by senior military officers of major military capital goods and military consumables, including the troops’ own food. “The conduct of the war in the North is tied to the corruption in the military, and Buhari — ring-fenced by his own team — is unable to tackle the issue. “His poor health does not help, but he had always (even as a military president, taking office on December 31, 1983) been indecisive and vindictive. “This ongoing set of characteristics mean that the coming months will be dramatic, even more than the dying days of the preceding administration of President Goodluck Jonathan. “It is significant that Buhari, who received the findings of the commission as much as a year ago, has refused to allow it to be made public and he, through National Security Adviser Monguno, has attempted to have the commission disband. “However, it is believed that Monguno and Buhari are aware that copies of the report are beyond their reach and could be released unofficially if further attempts are made to assassinate commission members. “The commission, investigating defense procurement from 2007 onwards, made significant strides which were initially accepted by the Buhari government, until the scope of the inquiry went beyond the period relating to the former government of Pres. Goodluck Jonathan, and began to show corruption patterns extending into officers still serving under President Buhari.” The report stated that the death of a former Chief of Air Staff, Air Chief Marshal (retd.) Alex Sabundu Badeh (who became Chief of Defence Staff), and that of a former Chief of Administration of the Nigerian Army, Major General Idris Alkali, on September 3, 2018 were not a mere coincidence . It said, “Given the upsurge in momentum by ‘the highest levels of government’ to stop the findings becoming public from the corruption commission on defense procurement, it is plausible that the attribution of a criminal ‘kidnapping-attempt-gone-wrong’ against the Air Chief Marshal was a convenient excuse to ensure that the victim — Badeh — could not divulge in court the pattern and details of corruption which has grown even more rampant in the current generation of defense leadership. “On September 3, 2018, the retired Chief of Administration of the Nigerian Army, Maj.-Gen. Idris Alkali, was also killed, ostensibly by a gang of youthful protestors who set up a roadblock near Jos, the capital of Plateau State. His body was discovered on October 31, 2018. And his death was blamed on ‘an irate mob’, who were protesting in the Du-ra-Du community against the September 2, 2018, killing of 11 members of their own community.” The report further stated, “No significant economic or political progress can be achieved in Nigeria until the issue of the Boko Haram insurgency is resolved. Other insurgencies are also expected to emerge, or re-emerge, particularly in the Niger Delta. And while other pending internal security issues are important, it is on the BH issue that the prestige, credibility, and reliability of Nigeria is assessed by the international community. Thus, all questions of the viability of Nigeria as a candidate for inward foreign direct investment (FDI) and international cooperation are dependent on a resolution of the BH issues. “Domestically, resolution of the BH issue is a pre-requisite to enabling issues of intra-Nigerian regional equity imbalances to be addressed. Moreover, the credibility of the Federal Government as an arbiter of justice is assessed by the domestic electorate and the world community.” http://dailypost.ng/2018/12/31/us-group-makes-revelations-buhari-govt-boko-haram-deaths-badeh-alkali/amp/
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I dey beg, this pant matter. I say make I ask, na only woman pant dem dey use? ![]() Because I dey find like 2 of my boxers like that ooooh, make boys no go use me play......... ![]() Abi na to face Oba palace to report my case now now, because my case is different.... ![]() |
MARKone:Its all over Facebook |
AkpaMgbor:Wrong!! A preview of some of the men sent by the NAF, and the criteria for sending some army soldiers/officers to troubled spot, them no need tell you. Na craze men full there. All thanks to Late ACM Badeh. He was the one that stopped a very strange trend as CDS, where NDA graduates will be using levels to have DSSC graduate substitute them for combat ops in troubled spots of the country (That is aside from those who are on PD or punishment posting). In fact, within the airforce, it was he that started sending women on rifle duty even to combat zones. Before he came on board, DSSC officers will be going to strange places to do patrol like Sambisa (without any form of CT training), he fought that thing to a standstill and at a time, stopped DSSC recruitment for more than a year as a way of protecting them. Some of the attacks, from reports of folks who went and escaped, was either as a result of them being outnumbered or soldiers running out of ammunition. If na the calibre of commanders, don't go there oooh!! I can't be mentioning names upandan the place, but some of them have seen more action than is necessary for officers of their rank. What most people don't know is that, in public administration terminology; there is a difference between "appropriation" and "allocation". Most of the cash the government announces have not even reached CDS office not to talk of people like chief of army staff. As I speak to you, the conditions for service for DSSC officers have been reviewed. Rank you will attain in 14 years, you now attain in 16years. All signed by President Buhari (abi na Jubril, na only God know), but the increment in wages as recommended by the new conditions, has not been implemented up to even the office of the military chiefs and their deputies. If you check, na money whey dem release for pages of newspaper and propaganda outfits own by the ruling party, but no cash backing to effect it. So if cash/allowances meant to encourage boots on the ground is being treated with levity, is it hard to believe otherwise when the same people run back, saying they ran out of bullets in the theatre of war........? |
This was my first comment when I heard that Baga town has been seized........before Nairaland Zombies and BMC faithfuls and the Nigerian military denied Baga was ever seized......... ehissi: |
babyfaceafrica:You too must you comment!? Cant you read comments and waka pass....... ![]() |
Oluromantic:One for man and one for the woman. ..... E be like say you never marry na E make you dey talk this!! |
This guy desperately wants to belong..... ![]() Unfortunately it is not like that they used to win elections |
A lot of folks who are faraway from the conflict, from the comfort of their homes are throwing comments upandan the place, are not even afraid for our dear country. For the record, what we are calling Boko Haram, as a group behind some of these daring attacks are not just Boko Haram, but a messed-up faction of Boko Haram that has declared undying loyalty to ISIS and receives support (both in boots on the grounds, special weapons and tactics). In short, they call themselves ISWA/ISWAP, an acroynm for Islamic State in West Africa, bearing similarities with ISIS/ISIL, Islamic State in Syria and Levant. ISIL is bucks-ed up, they have cash, contact and resources all across Northern Africa and the middle east. They are not broke and are very good at raising cash. As at 2yrs ago, the wages for an ISIL commander wa a $1,500 a month and a $1,000 for a foot soldier (all US Dollars). So if ISIL is backing ISWA as is believed, we need to be worried, except you have no qualms living like a refugee in neighbouring togo or ghana or living rest of your days in an IDP camp guarded by soldiers battling with PTSD (this is not a PDP or APC something, this is a matter of life N death) What most Nigerians do not understand about the significance of the Baga attack is simply this; if Baga can just fall like a pack of cards; as in they held the territory of Baga even if na 1hr, then everybody better just get out of main maiduguri town. Because it means that Maiduguri na paw-paw. And you know, it is authority or structures that represent authority/power that they attack, like government secretariats, LGA/LCDA offices, Barracks, police station etc... so na civil servants and government workers go suffer am. That's why the military responded to the allegations/news of loss of Baga almost immediately, because E get as E be ooooo. It's like saying Rukuba main barracks in Jos was overrun by ISWA and they held sway there for 1hr. Bros if na so, then na for the whole of Jos to relocate to Abuja go chill......... There is no need again. E don cast finally be that.... |
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Gay tux, too much flowers. E no follow like that! |
Samirana360:They didn't fleeee.......them fly!!! |
Oluwasaeon:Ameeeeeeeeeen....... ![]() |
CityNGR:Don't mind that guy, all those agbado ijaiye, Jankara, Iyana Ipaja guys have a racket that post cars that beat cars45 in "crappyness"! When you see ads with words like, "prices negotiated over the phone cannot be changed", or "this is not a brand new car so stop asking me.........., or you meet someone trying to eagerly make you pay for a car based on "guarantee"; na them them. 100% of the time, you will never meet them. They are just a go-between, between you and the middle man, their own is " The car is 300k but my cut is 20k or my cut is 50k". I saw an ad, I asked questions and I made a move but what I was told on phone, was different from what I met on ground. Me thinking I was dealing with a reliable fellow because I saw a long list of ads created by the handler of the "kayharry" moniker on both Jiji, olx and Nairaland with no bad reviews/ complaints. I called him, to inform him that, "guy see wetin you talk but see wetin we meet for ground, whats up, you no try ooh. You for confirm the details/state of the ride now, you talk say every na buy and drive, but person whey we meet say car engine get small issue, you say make we hurry come say owner dey wait us with key meanwhile owner never even reach here........" Na E the guy just dey form one kind americana deportee accent, "fu*k off my phone mehn". Na that time I just know say na one chance motor I be wan enter. And for some strange reason, the Kayharry guy was never on ground and throughout, the guys we met, whether na jazz them put for mouth, were seriously trying to convince us to pay for the ride, no car key, nothing and the car was locked tight. How you go just say, see the car there oya Just pay oooh, because person whey pay first na E get the ride. I say no problem, bring key make we test am, my mechanic dey here; bring key make we test am, then we look the papers, discuss with the owner face-to-face then we go pay. Their face come change, the next thing they said owner of car dey oshodi, make we wait E dey come. Meanwhile na bike whey we fly, help us reach there early, there was heavy traffic on the road, 2hrs later no owner. Na E my mechanic just dey talk small small, say make we just waka, because E clear say car to buy no dey here. Na scammer be all this ones so. Eventually we bought a smaller cleaner ride that very day, from even my own home boy so I lost nothing but time. The particular ad that made me contact "KayHarry" that day was gotten from jiji, I researched that moniker and saw nothing fishy so I went for it. If to say na better person, then the value of his words will matter. Person gently dey let you know say, guy see wetin you talk ooo, you misinformed me, why you no do proper check before you post ad, you dey insult the person? Meanwhile E be dey halla before say E commission na 20k, before E go give me info on the ride. If person like Gazzuzz tell you as E dey go just take am, you no need to think am too much(aside from the price part, that nigger like money pass Ganduje ), because folks like that trade strictly based on their reputation.But all those "KayHarry" them and co. , well anything whey you wan do confirm very very well with a mechanic and ask detailed questions and make careful investigations before you depart with your money......Datzall |
Ohraykon:Equivalence? So when Airforce want to release a communication on the status ofRanking officers within it's hierarchy it will use equivalence? Be like say them never work on you before that's why you dey assume upandan like clown. Anyways continue, E fit be you oooh! ! |
Ohraykon:Meaning what!? He occupied the office of CDS - Chief of Defence Staff - as a 4-Star Air officer. General as a word is alien to the Ranking and Nomenclature of the Nigerian Airforce The real fool is the person who allowed you access the internet unsupervised... |
This is the problem I have with political strategists of today. Must you announce every major move on social media or TV. You are simply showing Tinubu and Co. where to place barricades to ensure the victory of their candidate. Ambode's defeat should have made this clear enough, fine Oba of Lagos endorse you, announce only within your circles of trust. 25,000 people defect, keep it on the low and use it to shock APC pundits on election day. A state like lagos is wired into APC from the ground up, so no matter the amount of supporters you have, it make no difference. Except you can spring up a strong surprise on election day, you are gonna lose. Highest they will create violence in areas where they know they don't have the numbers and divert security to areas where they have the numbers. Osun should have been a note of warning, but people caught up in the high of a moment, always throw caution to the wind. |
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