₦airaland Forum

Zuriela:
I understand u.
But what I'm saying is not ALL multiple birth after long wait is IVF.
And again not everyone can afford it hence some jumping from place to place in search of miracle.

Zuriela:
To each his/her own.
Ivf is good but not all abt ivf.

Zuriela:
My Dear, Sometimes it not ivf. I know woman who gave birth after 24yrs of trying. She did ivf several times but all failed and she was even planning to adopt when she took in and she didn't even know till like she's 4months gone. She had a set of twins and took in 9months after again now set of triplets. 5children under 2yrs after 24yrs. Ivf is good but sometimes it's not abt ivf.

Otapipia:
God is able. Miracles happen.

Eketem:
Because Nigerians will always lie and hide that part hence making other women also suffer for 20 30 years before finding out it is IVF and their issue could have been easily solved with technology years ago.
Multiple births, years of infertility doesn't take a genius to know it is IVF 5 eggs are normally implanted hoping one or two will survive hence the multiple births]



[quote author=george4CHRIST post=40218654]must you mention ivf. Did you perform it on them? Leaking mouth

Dottore:
What has technology got to do with that. I didn't read anywhere in the post where technology played a role.
Congrats to her sha.

Zanga007:
I can't believe you opened this thread and then on flavour and Ini edo's thread you faulted it. Wetin concern u if she's looking fake...

Totfulguy:
Onegal you are right about my traditional views of marriage and I feel strongly about the need for unity on all fronts in the running of a home. I however detest the arrogance of men who feel it's their right to Lord over their wives income or else the marriage ends. Or who feel there is no love because a woman won't spill everything about their income. Am also against a thoughtless non-support on the part of a woman who can help. I remember that my mum used to have reserves of some change that came in handy whenever there was need to make up for what my dad gave for home keeping. My father NEVER nosed on my mums income. He knew she had some funds but that was it. He did what he had to do when he had to do it. When my dad was hit with tough times, my mum whom my dad trained through teachers training college, stood up to fill the gap for years. My dad did not ask her to disclose her income. He'd never he is a proud man. He sought other jobs and finally got one. And then he continued his role. That's what it should be. Men are not Dukes or slaves. Women are not Duchess or slaves in the home. And no am not a woman posting as a man.

Onegai:
Eketem, I think what Totfulguy is saying is "Men, you cannot eat your cake and have it". Both of you are saying the same thing actually: you are saying women should contribute financially to the marriage so they have a greater say in decision-making and he is saying men shouldn't expect women to forcefully contribute to the marriage yet expect them to stay in their traditional subjugated roles.

Basically, if you want a wife who is financially sharing the burden with you (a traditional man's role), you should share in the responsibilities of caring for the home via chores and childcaren (a traditional woman's role). If you wanna play "the Man", you shouldn't be asking your wife for her money. If you want a husband that is open about his finances, you have to be open about yours and demand a stake in the marriage (why anybody who does not have mental issues will leave his inheritance to his brothers and leave his kids in penury baffles me. I have never seen any of those "loving and loyal" brothers take care of the children).

That thread, they kept asking the OP that now his wife has opened up and they were sharing finances, he should also share house chores. and child care. I don't know if he answered that question.

Maximus85:
Dominate: to have control of or power over (someone or something)

Do you want to have control and power over your husband or husband to be?

Maximus85:
Christ didn't redeem you from nothing. All he did was give you a chance to be Redeemed. It's left to you to grab the chance. All the pronouncements of God is still intact. Women still giving birth in pains, men still sweat to eat, we still get sick, death is still there. So tell me what I don't know. Jesus is not stupid, if his death means an automatic redemption, people will still go back to sin, his death would have been a joke.

Maximus85:
My mother? Her husband is well educated, same as her and they both understand what it means to dominate and submit. Shame on you for mentioning my mother. It shows how much you respect your own mother and how people will respect you if by the grace of God you ever become a worthy mother.

Tell us, are you married? If yes! How happy is your home?

Maximus85:
I'm so moved to flush you the same way but I won't. You just need to be educated. What you said is according to these thieves calling themselves pastors. Telling you the sweet things so that you will continue giving them part of your salary every monthend.

Now, let's go back to all the curses on man in the garden of Eden and let's see the ones you said the death of Jesus has removed.

Genesis 3:16-19
To the woman he said,
“I will make your pains in childbearing very severe;
with painful labor you will give birth to children.
Your desire will be for your husband,
and he will rule over you.”
17 To Adam he said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You must not eat from it,’

“Cursed is the ground because of you;
through painful toil you will eat food from it
all the days of your life.
18 It will produce thorns and thistles for you,
and you will eat the plants of the field.
19 By the sweat of your brow
you will eat your food
until you return to the ground,
since from it you were taken;
for dust you are
and to dust you will return.”

Madam, please in the name of God, how many of these curses has ceased since the death of Christ. If you can't answer, just give your pastor a quick call.

The death of Christ has given us JUST A CHANCE AND HOPE OF SALVATION. IT IS NOT AUTHOMATIC.

I'd love to hear from you soon.



Shallom

Pidggin:
Give her if it will make her happy

2teezy:
Well thanx a lot but u shld have asked if I was after his money?no I was not!I was well to do wen I got married to him,desperate is meant for dos wo tik dey old n disturbed by peer pressure!I married him cos I loved him and he neva for once beat me while courting!!