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Family / Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 7:34pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Sebastine1606: Did God exclude any specific area when he was giving men headship over the home? Did God say, "Man, you be the leader in every aspect of your marriage except faithfulness, you will be your wife's subordinate when it comes to sex and being faithful"? Did God say that? God has giving you men headship and leadership over the entire home so carry your responsibility and stop picking and choosing which one you want. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 7:24pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Bibi294:You clearly stated that "feminism is breaking homes" You need to read your own comments I also do not think she is cheating just 'because her husband cheated.' I do not think she is doing it to get back at the husband or she would be openly dating the other men. I think she is trying to revive her sexual life and move on from her husband. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 7:23pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Sebastine1606: LMAO, suddenly men are weaker and women are stronger. So God that placed men as spiritual leaders of the home doesn't know what he is doing abi? Everyday you men will be shouting "I am the head of this home!" Time to take responsibility now, the woman is suddenly a better fit for leadership. Mtchew! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 5:19pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Bibi294: Let me ask you, the home the OP has described, is it whole? Are you implying that a home can only be broken by the woman? In my opinion the OPs home is already broken and feminism had nothing to do with it. His dad is no longer in the house, and is living with a different woman! OPs dad broke his home himself and did not need feminism to do so. So why TF are you blaming feminism? You blame feminism because people like you think the actions of a man must not have an impact on his home, the home is entirely the responsibility of the woman (even though the man is the head and woman is merely a helper, oh the irony!) If the OPs mum decides to file for divorce now, you will blame the broken home on the mum even though the home was broken long time ago (by the dad). 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 8:27pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
ceeroh:LMAO, took a while but I literally laughed out loud 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 3:40pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Your mum has been through such a miserable marriage life and you have contributed to it by encouraging her to remain with your grossly irresponsible dad. I don't know how anyone can stand to watch their mother suffer so much and then encourage her to continue suffering. You want her to die without living a better, peaceful life? Please now is the perfect time for her to get out of the marriage. You kids are grown and she is getting older so she does not have the stamina to withstand your dad's shenanigans. If one of the side chicks comes to fight with your mum at fifty, do you think she will survive it? If she leaves the marriage she won't have to be sneaking around, she can openly date and participate in a new committed relationship. 51 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Can I Ever Forgive Her? Pls Advise On My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by elektra(f): 9:14pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Guy, what advice are are looking for again? You have posted about this matter 3 times! Since your sister swears she did not take the documents, you either move on or involve law enforcement. This matter was tackled extensively in your last two threads and you still haven't taken any action after how many months? Your wife lost a job because of the missing certificates, isn't it time y'all start figuring out how to get them replaced? Knowing Nigerian institutions it would take forever to get them replaced but you are busy wasting time waiting for nairalanders advice. As for your sister, forgive her and keep her at arm's length. 4 Likes |
Religion / Re: Apostle Suleman's Designer Shoes In Dubai For 'Help From Above Programme' by elektra(f): 6:28pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
Okay. So Wetin you want make we do? 1 Like |
Family / Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by elektra(f): 3:04pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
amliftedhigher: Honestly your sister's suggestion is the better one and someone like me would have been happy to found a cheaper price. I think what made her angry is that after the both of you have decided on something, you went to meet your sister and made final agreement with your sister on what to do. It is after you have made that arrangement with your sister that you informed her. You should try to keep her in the loop, she might be feeling left out. That is why I suggested you should have created more opportunities for her to interact with your family before the wedding. 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by elektra(f): 1:07pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
amliftedhigher: How does she express this hatred? Does she get visibly angry? Does she yell at you for talking to them? I want to know because one of the reasons you feel she hates your family is because she has never visited your sister. My brother's wife has never visited me without my brother but I have never felt that she does not like me, in fact we respect each other very much. Also she had not visited your family before you got married, were you fine with that? She might not know that you expect her to visit your sister since you never indicated so during courtship. You have not stated that she has disrespected them in any way she just isn't making an effort to get close to them. Is that right? In that case she might just be the type that like to mind her business in marriage. You said she met your family only once before the traditional marriage. Since you want the type of woman that is very interactive with your family, I feel you should have created more opportunities for her to spend time with your family before you got married. 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: . by elektra(f): 8:28am On Sep 09, 2017 |
All455: Lol, I know now that you are not serious at all. Na front page dey hungry you 6 Likes |
Family / Re: . by elektra(f): 8:05am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Do you really want to help your mum? Cos I can't believe you want to bring your mum over but would rather leave her homeless while you negotiate your own property with woman. Are you sure your don't have a mental disorder? How about sending your mum money to lodge in an hotel? Or you need permission from your woman to do that too? The day she threw money at you at the bus stop should have been the last day you had anything to do with that woman 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: How Can I Solve This Issue Without Causing Tension In My Family by elektra(f): 11:39pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
Frenchfriez:That is a good point |
Family / Re: How Can I Solve This Issue Without Causing Tension In My Family by elektra(f): 10:10pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
You wife is the best person to handle this situation. Siblings are able to scold each other and still be in good standing. She should have talked to her brother by now. Put pressure on her to tel him to move out. If she doesn't then you have no option but to do it yourself! Does your wife work? Is she contributing financially to your family? |
Family / Re: Why Do People Think Taking These Food Means You Are Broke Or Poor? by elektra(f): 9:17pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
I have never considered garri to be poor man food. |
Family / Re: Dear Mothers Please Dispose Properly Your Babies Used Diapers by elektra(f): 9:03pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Okay, dedicate a room in your house to hide all children's sh!t and piss. You can also hide your own join because no be only pikin sh!t dem dey carry do juju. Keep that room under lock and key and only close family members can have access. The enemy must not thwart your children's destiny via sh!t juju. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: How Do I Make My Wife Understand My Pains During My High BP Spells by elektra(f): 4:38am On Aug 17, 2017 |
Your wife is being highly insensitive (to put it lightly) She should be worried about your HBP and headache. She should care for you any way she can during the bouts of headaches. Does she show any concern at all? 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Mimi Orjiekwe Shares Pre-Baptism Picture Of Her Daughter by elektra(f): 1:04pm On Aug 16, 2017 |
You people have started again WTF is pre-baptism? 16 Likes |
Family / Re: Is It The Responsibility Of A Man To Take Care Of His Wife's Family? by elektra(f): 7:59pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Pidgin2: It doesn't matter what I like. It is not his responsibility. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Is It The Responsibility Of A Man To Take Care Of His Wife's Family? by elektra(f): 12:52pm On Aug 10, 2017 |
His wife's people are not his responsibility and your friend knows it. How long has he been married? They are probably still in the honeymoon stage and it is easy for him to be swayed by his wife. When your friend is ready for it to stop he will put an end to it. He is not yet ready that is why he is still lamenting and doing nothing about the situation 3 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Relative Abandoned His Children In My Home by elektra(f): 5:48am On Aug 06, 2017 |
ojdollars: Don't return na, how is it my concern? |
Family / Re: Help A Bitter Friend by elektra(f): 6:43pm On Aug 04, 2017 |
TF did I just read? |
Family / Re: My Divorce Journal by elektra(f): 2:44pm On Aug 04, 2017 |
Risingphoenix12: LMAO |
Family / Re: How Do I Propose To My 'wife'? by elektra(f): 7:20pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
muyinet: Bro, I no sabi your wife so I cannot tell what her preference is. You could purchase a simple relatively inexpensive ring and give her the option of getting a different one after the proposal. |
Family / Re: How Do I Propose To My 'wife'? by elektra(f): 6:05pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
You are in the best position to answer your question. What kind of person is she? Introvert? Extrovert? Does she like surprises? Is she the romantic candle lit dinner kind of person? Since you guys are technically married to outsiders I think you should make it a private affair. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Nigeria Legends,daddy Showkey And Raskimono Pictured At Linda Ikeji Music Studio by elektra(f): 5:14pm On Aug 01, 2017 |
I hope they make good music. I grew up listening the those two. If you see my mama... 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Divorce Journal by elektra(f): 4:03pm On Aug 01, 2017 |
Damn |
Family / Re: Help! He Is Blocking My Marriage And Happiness by elektra(f): 9:02pm On Jul 27, 2017 |
LMAO, I have a feeling a man is behind this moniker. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Male & Female Security Guards Urgently Needed To Work In Dubai. Not A Scam!!! by elektra(f): 6:52pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Lol, because scam artists always announce to their victims that they running a scam. |
Family / Re: My Relative Abandoned His Children In My Home by elektra(f): 8:40pm On Jul 25, 2017 |
Ah! Return them to the village or bundle them to an orphanage. It is like your village people do not want you to have peace. First your friend chase you from his house because of milk. You moved to your own place only for your neighbor's kid to start treating you anyhow, now your relative has dumped his kids on you. 320 Likes 13 Shares |
Family / Re: Did You Know That The Famous "Ayamantanga" Is Not Correct? by elektra(f): 3:59pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Makes no sense. Why would anyone be yelling "I am at anger"? Is "I am at anger" even a proper sentence? 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Hairstylist Calls Out Bobrisky For Not Paying For Her Services In US by elektra(f): 8:50pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Very disgusting read. It is not by force to be woman. Mofo thought this sh!t was easy. Ordinary hair he can't maintain. 25 Likes 1 Share |
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