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Family / Re: The Black Tax: Are You Entitled To Your Sibling's Money? by elektra(f): 5:09am On Nov 27, 2019 |
Grasscutter: Wow. I read somewhere that most kidnappings are an inside job. I can’t believe your own sibling will try to orchestrate one. |
Family / Re: Is This Normal? by elektra(f): 9:37pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
I personally do not like to spend all of my recreational time with my significant other, even if he is the most interesting person in the world. Maybe the both of you should agree on a designated day of the week to do couple activities. Then any other days can be for individual activities. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Married Men, Can You Tolerate This? And Married Ladies Are You All The Same? by elektra(f): 10:17pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
LMAO You are in the house but you are calling somebody in the market to come back and give you food. Does that make sense? What happened to your hands? She is splitting bills with you, but you find it beneath you to make food for your own self? I just tire. 55 Likes 5 Shares |
Family / Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by elektra(f): 10:47pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
You see dem? Awon “watch war room and pray” crew 63 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Atheist Marriage In Nigeria by elektra(f): 9:24pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
I identify more as agnostic than Christian. I go to church once in a while to mingle and make friends. I have dated a Nigerian guy that knew that I was not much of a churchgoer. After a while, he started questioning why I don't go to church. Every Sunday, after I tell him I did not go to church, he will remind me that he wants his wife to be a prayer warrior. But this person NEVER WENT TO CHURCH EITHER. I have not even finished praying for myself. I wish him good luck wherever he is. This particular Nigerian had no interest in going to church, yet he expected the complete opposite from his spouse. 26 Likes 5 Shares |
Family / Re: He Cheated And Blames Me by elektra(f): 8:33pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior: Where is the evidence? Like I said, provide evidence of the man chasing money or SIT THE FVCK DOWN! You quoted me first with insults yet it is ME that has bad character? I will show you bad character today. Provide your evidence oga FBI or SHUT UP! Monkey banana. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: He Cheated And Blames Me by elektra(f): 8:10pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior: LMAO @ bolded, awon FBI. I will show my evidence when you present your own evidence of the man chasing money. Until then, SIT THE FVCK DOWN! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: He Cheated And Blames Me by elektra(f): 6:38pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
mysticwarrior:Shut the fvck up, you piece of sh.it! He was fetching money at the time he was chasing and sleeping with someone else abi? Foolish Goat! Time that he could have used to build his family, he used it to woo and fvck pvssy. Then this monkey above is telling me he was chasing money. Chasing money kee you there! 5 Likes |
Family / Re: He Cheated And Blames Me by elektra(f): 6:26pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
What is it with men neglecting their families then turn around and start playing the victim? Isn't it the man neglecting the family in the case? Should she ignore the triplets to appease a grown man? Doesn't it make more sense for the man, the supposed 'head of house', to join her in spending time with their kids? 8 Likes |
Family / Re: Woman Beats Her Husband Mercilessly For Hitting Her by elektra(f): 10:23pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Water don pass garri 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: Who Should Be The First SON. by elektra(f): 8:14pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
sholay2011: Woah! I had no idea. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Who Should Be The First SON. by elektra(f): 4:53pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
bukatyne: That the question even crossed the parent's minds is bad enough, they are even debating it with extended family. Unbelievable 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Who Should Be The First SON. by elektra(f): 4:15pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
The first son is the adopted kid because he was born first. TF is wrong with people? 13 Likes 5 Shares |
Family / Re: Sometimes I Regret Marrying My Wife by elektra(f): 4:07pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
You should have left her the day you found that girl in a pool of her own blood. That is a terrible environment for your kids to grow up in. Imagine what lessons your kids are learning from these violent acts. She is evil and manipulative. You should get out of there ASAP! 95 Likes 8 Shares |
Food / Re: I Made A Documentary About Agege Bread by elektra(f): 1:40am On Oct 21, 2019 |
Hold up. I see a face I recognize, Kitchenbutterfly! Very well done documentary. Great job! |
Family / Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by elektra(f): 5:10pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Withdraw you report, find a crèche for your baby and allow the woman to enjoy her MRS title. You cannot help someone that is not ready to help themselves. People like that woman will only leave when she decides to leave. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: My Baby Is A Year Old by elektra(f): 4:41pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
She’s adorable 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Happy Birthday Hungerbad by elektra(f): 4:19pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Family / Re: What Unpopular Opinion Do You Hold by elektra(f): 4:06am On Oct 16, 2019 |
emmaodet:How can you type the bolded and then follow it up with "Live and let live"? Are you Bipolar? emmaodet:That is the entire point of this thread. If everyone (especially people like you) agreed with her opinion, it wouldn't be unpopular, would it? BTW, you are a perfect example of her first point. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Most Wives Will Send Their Husbands To Hell by elektra(f): 2:11am On Oct 16, 2019 |
If they tell men to contribute to house chores and to raising their own children, they will complain: it is a woman’s job. Women is now doing said job, they are now crying. Pick a struggle. 11 Likes |
Family / Re: What Unpopular Opinion Do You Hold by elektra(f): 3:00pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
FrLukas: I’m intrigued. What fuels this belief? |
Family / Re: What Unpopular Opinion Do You Hold by elektra(f): 10:53pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
I believe that ALL pastors are liars and manipulative. The moment anyone proclaims "I am a pastor", anything they say is taken with a pinch of salt. I believe that religion has ZERO effect on people's behaviors/attitude/values, rather upbringing/societal influence are what shapes a person's values. I believe that se.x work should be legal, there I said it. It should, however, be strictly regulated by the government (of course Nigeria is not the best country to implement this since it will be abused, but in saner countries it might allow these men/women to get proper healthcare and stop hiding in the shadows) I believe CARROTS do not belong in FRIED RICE! It doesn't enhance the taste in anyway. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by elektra(f): 1:26am On Oct 13, 2019 |
123sophocles: Somebody needs to make an equivalent of War Room for men A movie that will provide solution for all their marital problems. Women cannot be enjoying magical movies alone 420 Likes 25 Shares |
Family / Re: Help With House Guest by elektra(f): 10:59pm On Oct 12, 2019 |
He continues to disrespect and yell at you because it is working. You need to train some people like dogs, with positive and negative reinforcements. This is what I’d do. Next time he shouts at you to do a particular thing, leave it undone. If he shouts at you clean the table, tell him calmly “remember what we talked about shouting at me?” Then leave the table dirty for as long as you can. If he shouts to you to bring food, leave the food in the kitchen and walk away. He will be angry, but he will learn that shouting at you will not result in anything good. When he talks to you calmly to clean the table, put on you best smiling face and clean the table. He will learn to associate respect with good results. You are going to have to train him like a puppy. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by elektra(f): 11:33pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
Your wife doesn’t understand herself? How does that relate to pregnancy and abortion? 22 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by elektra(f): 7:29pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: I agree with this assessment. If you identify as a feminist, you best be ready to pay your bills. I don't understand why a lot of Nigerian women love it when men buy them food. What is so great about that? But that is a story for another day 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Would A Married Woman Abort Her Own Child. by elektra(f): 7:45pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
chii8: "customs and traditions" are not the same thing as laws and are not enforceable in court. If you sue someone for not following "customs and traditions", you are likely just wasting your money. You can say the doctor should be sued on the grounds that abortions are not legal in Nigeria but not because the husband was not informed. I don't see anyone supporting the woman's behavior, every post has tried to answer OPs question and provided possible reasons why the abortion was performed. That doesn't mean they support her. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Hate Speech: Lai Mohammed Says Online Media Will Start Paying 5M Naira Fine by elektra(f): 4:12pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
They need to publish what constitutes as hate speech now oh, before they say any criticism of Buhari is hate speech 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Jorge Luis Escandón Hernández: Mexican Mayor Tied To Truck, Dragged by elektra(f): 9:05pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
God, I see what you are doing for others... 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by elektra(f): 9:03pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
I wonder why some people think they possess some kind of authority to tell others how to live their lives. 333 Likes 22 Shares |
Family / Re: I Need Advise On What To Do. I'm Tired!!! by elektra(f): 8:16pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
Evangkatsoulis: It is you that is the error. Monkey banana. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Hsj by elektra(f): 8:55pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Maybe it’s time to change model y’all have going. Have a joint account and personal accounts. Each person will pay a certain amount to the joint account and use joint account money to take care of joint responsibilities. The personal accounts can be used to do personal stuff. 7 Likes |
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