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Family / Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by elektra(f): 10:01pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Jim99: Don't worry. All of my future husbands will be informed. In the event of a divorce, they will get primary custody of the kids. 25 Likes |
Family / Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by elektra(f): 7:24pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: Can you imagine? These men truly believe the woman is responsible for raising the man's offspring. If the woman is indisposed, then her own family must step up and fill in for her. As if the kids are bearing the woman's name. Meanwhile the men and their families will relax till the kids are grown before they come to claim the kids. Bunch of cowards. 78 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by elektra(f): 5:09pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
The only time cheating bothers men is when it is a woman doing it. Look at this OP, he is not even the one being cheated on, but it worries him so much he had to open a thread about it. The woman left the kids for her husband. Who should she have left them for? Are the kids not bearing the man’s name? There are many women tired from raising kids by themselves, have you ever noticed anyone of them? The moment you see one man raising his kids you come to open thread. You men should get used to raising your own bloody kids. 295 Likes 28 Shares |
Family / Re: Where Is The Ideal Place To Spend The First Night After Wedding by elektra(f): 12:19am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Which one is marital alter again? Y’all keep coming up with new sh.t everyday 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by elektra(f): 6:45pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
I’m curious. How did you find out you were sterile? Functional men don’t randomly check for sperm activity. Since you are not married, what could have prompted you to check? 166 Likes 5 Shares |
Family / Re: I Suspect My 16 Years Old Cousin Watches Porn. by elektra(f): 3:18pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
missimelda01:Porn will not ruin his life. ADDICTION to porn is what will. Addiction to ANYTHING is bad, not just porn. You are free to raise your child however you want but you have limited authority over someone else’s child. I don’t know why you are flexing your child raising muscles over this kid. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Suspect My 16 Years Old Cousin Watches Porn. by elektra(f): 2:29pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Leave him alone! He is at the age to explore these things. Why should he be slapped for something that is completely normal at his age? The way you people treat kids like they have no feelings. It needs to stop! What he needs is education about his raging hormones and encouragement to explore other outlets (playing sports, music, etc). Everyone went through this stage but instead of identifying with the boy, you are busy playing assistant Jesus. Mtchew. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by elektra(f): 9:52am On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun: I put it to you that your wife is a feminist. That is why she is inclined to buy her car with her own money. That is why she is contributing financially to the household, while also being the primary caretaker for your kid. If she wasn’t a feminist, she would have made your life a living hell until you cuffed out your money to buy both those cars. But please, don’t let me burst your bubble about what you believe feminism is. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by elektra(f): 9:11am On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun: Why can’t you people learn to say NO to your families for Christ sake? You have no problem saying NO to your wife spending HER OWN MONEY on a car, you know she really needs. Why is it then hard for you to say NO your family? Ehn? 14 Likes |
Family / Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by elektra(f): 9:07am On Feb 03, 2020 |
Mehn, some Nigerian women dey suffer for this thing called marriage. On top of her own money oh! This id.iot husband is about to keep this woman and her kid in unwarranted sufferness. And if care is not taken this hard working single mother will refuse to get herself and her baby a car because of “submission to head of house”. I hope she her eyes open to see she is married to a selfish idio.t who only thinks about his own comfort and and wellbeing. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by elektra(f): 9:02am On Feb 03, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: This! Couldn’t have said it better. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by elektra(f): 2:54am On Feb 03, 2020 |
I love to see a woman’s family stand up for her . Some idi.ot men think women drop out of thin air to come and slave for them and their family. Just look at the way this husband is throwing around insults. Calling his wife foolish,idiot. How can you treat someone’s child like this? You think her family raised her to come and be collecting insults? And the mad man went to tell everyone around town that his wife spent 400K on “feeding”. Did you send separate money for hospital bills? No. Did you think your baby’s treatment is free? Is it your father that own Garki hospital? Did you send separate money for transportation? No. Just look at the way he is complaining about money. The way these men will be talking you will think they are providing some kind big money. That is why when men are making mouth about providing money, I just laugh. Most of them are like this idi.ot husband. They will give their wives crayfish money and be expecting afang soup with assorted meat from her. 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: As A Lady, Joining Police Or Going To Catering School? by elektra(f): 7:01pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
But what does any of this have to be with being a lady? |
Family / Re: My Sister's Husband Wants To Sleep With Me by elektra(f): 12:43am On Feb 01, 2020 |
madgoat: Why wait for sister-in-law? Fvck your sister and mother first, charity begins at home. 9 Likes |
Family / Re: My Sister's Husband Wants To Sleep With Me by elektra(f): 5:14am On Jan 31, 2020 |
Call your dad and report him. Leave his house first thing in the morning but Leave HIS child with him That child, and the one in the hospital are his responsibility and he should assume it fully. Those kids are bearing his modafokin name. Him and his family should step up and take care of their goddam children. Let’s see if he’ll sleep with his modafokin sister. Ragged Dog 106 Likes 7 Shares |
Family / Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by elektra(f): 5:12am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Youngjohnosas:Loooool! |
Family / Re: Domestic Abuse Of Men By The Women. by elektra(f): 3:28am On Jan 30, 2020 |
I wish men talked about it more. Then they will get the help they need. One reason the focus is on abused women is because they speak out more. You fix it by separation. It is unfortunate but just like physical abusers, you can’t change people. The abuse will likely continue until you leave. |
Family / Re: Domestic Abuse Of Men By The Women. by elektra(f): 3:21am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Oluneutral: No. We have seen it too many times on this forum and in real life. If it was the other way around, you and others will ask the woman to stop what she is doing to make the man angry. You will say it is only a mad man that abuses without cause. She must have done something to make him angry and she need to stop doing it. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Domestic Abuse Of Men By The Women. by elektra(f): 3:17am On Jan 30, 2020 |
chiommy123: LOL! Of course this flew over some people’s heads. Can’t you mofos recognize your own advise? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by elektra(f): 5:09pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
What I want to know is what kind of parenting YOU are practicing. Because it seems your wife is the only one making parenting decisions. The easiest way to fix this is for both of you to make parenting decisions together. 93 Likes 6 Shares |
Foreign Affairs / Re: How The British Press Reported On Meghan And Harry by elektra(f): 2:03am On Jan 21, 2020 |
Why TF are you people still debating Meghan and Harry? Are they your family members? A 35 year old married man decided to move out of his grandmother’s house and set up his own business. Why is this unfathomable to you lots? Especially some Nigerian men. This matter has really pained them. They cant believe that a man like them will actually ‘leave and cleave’ like the holy book asked him to. 68 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: My Wife And Mother Hate Each Other by elektra(f): 1:21am On Jan 18, 2020 |
I suspect this is an oyinbo couple’s story. Only in the abroad do wedding lists work. 36 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Is it Okay to Pound Yam for your In-laws? by elektra(f): 11:24pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Why is it such a problem? If your wife offers to help your mother in your family’s house will you have a problem with it? I’m sure if your wife does the exact opposite and does not offer to help in your family’s house you will still come and open thread to cry about it. Even sef, if your wife offers to help you family with money (the one thing you men say is your sole responsibility). You will have no problem with it. 17 Likes |
Family / Re: How I Got Married With Just N28,900 (my True Life Testimony) by elektra(f): 7:54pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
I also don’t want a wedding reception. I want to go to registry and go for my honey moon. I have noticed that weddings are only enjoyed by the visitors. The couples families always end up stressing and fighting. I’ve not heard of any wedding that family members did not fight or were unhappy about something. Somebody must complain about something! I am unwilling to spend obscene amounts of money entertaining and feeding a bunch of people, while the people most important to me are more stressed than happy. 158 Likes 10 Shares |
Romance / Re: My Fiancée Wants To Abort My Unborn Child Because Of Nursing Council Exam by elektra(f): 7:22pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Run away from this girl and her family the first chance you get. 78 Likes 4 Shares |
Family / Re: Mother In Law On Wifey Duties... by elektra(f): 7:19pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
I will tell my husband to ask his mama for my own food oh! How can she be cooking for him alone. If she like sef, she can take over cooking for the whole family. E no worry me. As long as my husband remains as unbothered about me collecting money from my father every month. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: The Problem Of Polygamy Is Caused By The Wives. by elektra(f): 2:52pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
fineboynl: If that were the case, vigin.a would have been created for only one pen.is for a lifetime. But alas, vagin.as can enjoy a plethora of penis.es. All kinds of shapes and sizes fit just fine. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: The Problem Of Polygamy Is Caused By The Wives. by elektra(f): 2:43pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
fineboynl: At the bolded. But your own mother was able to treat you and your brother equally and foster unity. So your mother was the angel that loved a child that was not her own, but all other women are the witches that hate children they did not birth. Why una dey always exclude una own mama when you decide to generalize about women? 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Newly Married Younger Sister Fought Me, When I Asked Her To Wash My Clothes by elektra(f): 10:13pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Trouble dey sleep |
Family / Re: My Eldest Uncle Have bn Harassin Threatening My Other Late Uncle's Wife And Chil by elektra(f): 3:42pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
How old is the child? I suggest she channel her energy into raising her kid away from your Uncle’s evil eyes right now. 8 Likes |
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