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Family / Re: My Marriage Has Finally Ended by elektra(f): 2:20am On Jan 05, 2018 |
Both your interests and life goals don’t align and neither is willing to compromise. Your wife lost interest in sex and eventually you followed suit. Did you guys talk about your long term goals before marriage? Did you know she wanted to create her own fashion label? Did she know you wanted her to work a traditional job? It appears your wife had put her own dreams on the back burner to enable you continue with your academic pursuit, but she couldn’t hold out for long. And when you started cheating, she decided the marriage was not worth sacrificing her dreams. Since you guys fight all the time, this separation appears to be a good thing. You guys can now take time off to think about what you really want. I feel so sorry for you guys and the kids, but don’t worry it is not the end of the world. The both of you will be fine. 28 Likes |
Family / Re: "My Friend Place Our Late Friend’s Wife On A N150k Monthly Allowance" - Guy by elektra(f): 10:05pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
This is how we ought to be paying tithe |
Crime / Re: Kidnapped & Rescued Baby Reunites With Mother. More Details Emerge by elektra(f): 12:31am On Jan 03, 2018 |
Damn, People are wicked oh |
Family / Re: I ACCOMODATED A TROUBLESOME COUPLE, I NEED MATURE ADVISE PLEASE by elektra(f): 12:28am On Dec 23, 2017 |
Oga, what are you waiting for? Why do you want to give quit notice? Did you guys sign a lease agreement? Are they paying rent? Now is the best time to remove their things from the house since they are in the village, then send the husband a text message with info on where to find their things. Don’t fall for any crocodile tears again oh! |
Family / Re: Please Help Me Solve This Problem In My Family. by elektra(f): 11:43pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
tugar: At bolded, how do you know it is for a short while? My parent thought my dad’s cousin was going to live with us for a short while too until she stayed for 11 years! Last last, Na my papa use him own hand chase am. To get her settled, my dad paid the rent for one year lease and there was still some bad blood because my dad asked her to leave his house after accommodating her for 11 years. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Help!! I Am Really Confused. Please Help!! by elektra(f): 4:16pm On Dec 15, 2017 |
I just feel bad for the ‘not-pregnant’ girlfriend that (probably) thought she was in a committed relationship. She is about to learn some harsh lessons of life. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: An Illiterate Lady Has Charm My Friend by elektra(f): 6:09pm On Dec 14, 2017 |
Acidosis:I have no idea. I’ve never been on both sides of the divide. I asked because his certificate was not absolutely required for him to run his business, So he does not mind his wife having none. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: An Illiterate Lady Has Charm My Friend by elektra(f): 5:12pm On Dec 14, 2017 |
He is a masters degree holder but he runs supermarket and bakery. Does your friend use his degrees? Does he have another job which he got with his scholarly credentials? Your friend is probably satisfied with any lady that is into business since he is running businesses as well. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Ubi Franklin Backing Their Sons, Jayden (Photos) by elektra(f): 3:24pm On Dec 14, 2017 |
So he spotted himself? 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Nigerian Lady Warning Her Future Mother In-law by elektra(f): 4:22am On Dec 14, 2017 |
eyinjuege: Abi oh. I had to scroll back up to read the original post. The post explicitly states that she (original poster) is "striving to achieve her goals" to make life easy for "her, hubby and children" and nowhere does she(original poster) mention a man's contribution talk less of a "ready-made man", but because professor of inference studies has never seen a woman work to finance their own comfort, it is obviously an impossible feat. And thus she decided to "scratch beneath the surface" and "infer" that a ready-made man will be financing all these luxuries. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: She Wouldn't Marry My Friend But She Collects His Money by elektra(f): 5:00am On Dec 07, 2017 |
The lady is an absolute shameless old hag! What the heck is wrong with some people sef? Also, why is your friend still hell bent on marrying someone with such an evil character? He need to receive sense. 1 Like
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Family / Re: Advice Needed: On The Verge Of Hitting My Mum by elektra(f): 11:28pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Frustrated Rat LMAO 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Married Ladies I Need Your Advice Please by elektra(f): 6:25pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Has your wife ever had an orgasm? Is her sexual satisfaction an important focus in your sex life? I’m speaking for myself here. I love an orgasm. I also love the journey to an orgasm. I am reluctant to engage in any sexual activities that do not have an orgasm as the goal, even if I enjoy it. 3 Likes |
Nairaland / General / Re: Africans Attack DHL For Tweeting "Bushland" Africa Advert. by elektra(f): 1:45pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
GetMeRight:Point Taken |
Nairaland / General / Re: Africans Attack DHL For Tweeting "Bushland" Africa Advert. by elektra(f): 1:43pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
QueenOfNepal: Hence the question! “What is the best thing about Africa?” They did not say “Safaris are the best thing about Africa”. Did they imply by that image that safaris are all you can find in Africa? That was not the impression I got. If that was the impression you got, good for you. That same DHLAfrica account has posted numerous pictures depicting big African cities on other occasions. You can carry on with your ignorance. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: Africans Attack DHL For Tweeting "Bushland" Africa Advert. by elektra(f): 6:46am On Nov 01, 2017 |
But wetin dey wrong for that zebra picture now? Safaris are one of Africa’s attractions, so why are they vexing? Ordinary question: what is the best thing about Africa? See as dem dey para, some of them no even bother to answer sef. 21 Likes |
Family / Re: Mother In Law Wants My 2.5 Year Old To Sleepover by elektra(f): 1:19pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
Oyinbo people don’t seem to see anything wrong with sleepovers. They even send their kids to non relatives for sleepover so I am not surprised that grandma wants a sleepover. You said she can bond with your baby all through the day but not over the night, what do you feel grandma will do overnight that she can’t do during the day? 15 Likes |
Health / Re: How Tobacco Firms Violate Regulations On Underage Smoking In Nigeria by elektra(f): 6:37am On Oct 25, 2017 |
In a country where a certain governor has prioritized the erection of statues over the payment of salaries, do you really expect mallam to use tape to measure 100m from a school before he set up his kiosk? Regulations like this are difficult to enforce in Nigeria. 8 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Are Pre-wedding Photos On Social Media So Common These Days? by elektra(f): 1:56pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
jaksmillioniar:Do your worst. |
Family / Re: Why Are Pre-wedding Photos On Social Media So Common These Days? by elektra(f): 1:48pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
jaksmillioniar: Have you considered investing the time you spend on nairaland in education yourself?
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Family / Re: Why Are Pre-wedding Photos On Social Media So Common These Days? by elektra(f): 1:38pm On Oct 11, 2017 |
jaksmillioniar: Kindly point out the insult in my post. |
Family / Re: Why Are Pre-wedding Photos On Social Media So Common These Days? by elektra(f): 4:37am On Oct 11, 2017 |
Why do you open threads to wish someone happy birthday? Can't you DM them? Must you make it a public announcement? You no see the one way you dey do, you dey chuck eye for other people own. Abeg, to each his/her own. If you don't want to see the picture shut your eyes. You just dey drink panadol for non existent headache. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: What Can I Do by elektra(f): 4:30am On Oct 11, 2017 |
You could explain what happened to your friend and show him the messages you archived. He can relay the info to your ex's wife. You could send the messages you archived to your ex's wife yourself. You could ignore them altogether and continue living your life. 1 Like |
Family / Re: . by elektra(f): 2:56pm On Oct 07, 2017 |
I wouldn't stick with anyone who treats me like that while I am ill. You did the right thing, now move on 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Where The Shoe Pinches; Is This A Case Of Infidelity??? by elektra(f): 4:31am On Oct 05, 2017 |
LMAO, honestly some of the offenses you listed are hilarious. "Leaves home before husband" is this really offensive to you? Why is order in which you guys leave the house so important? "Rides past husband" I would really like to know what exactly the offense is here. She did not stop on the road to say hi? Or you are angry she got home before you? She was wrong to have kept up the picture you didn't like. If she has to leave the house at 5am, expecting her to do the chores is unrealistic The both of you need to work on yourselves, you are both selfish and not willing to compromise. BTW, I have NEVER heard of a wife's family going to beg a man after he physically abused their daughter, it's usually the other way around. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Should Children Say Thank You To Their Parent(s) After Every Meal? by elektra(f): 3:35am On Oct 05, 2017 |
Why are you frowning at it? Does it hurt the kids to say thank you after every meal? If the parent wants to be thanked then let them train their kids to say thank you. It does not hurt anyone. I think the point is to train the kids to say thank you especially when the food is not offered by the parents. If they are not trained to say thank you to their parents, they may not know they should say thank you to other people. Some husbands say thank you to their wives for preparing the food, wife responds by thanking him for bringing money to buy ingredients. Nothing spoil 2 Likes |
Agriculture / Re: The Plants And Animals I Saw In My Uncle's Compound (Photos) by elektra(f): 6:49pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Everybody in my village grows fruits and rear animals. |
Family / Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart! Help by elektra(f): 8:29pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Khonifer: Ah, you didn't know that a woman's virtue and submissiveness is directly proportional to how much cra.p she can take from her husband? She remained in an abusive marriage... not virtuous enough Worked her ass off to build a home for the family... not submissive enough Attended naming ceremony of husband's love child... not virtuous enough Refused to allow husband's kids into her home... Ah! but this is the only way she can become virtuous. The only way she can receive her plaque of virtuousness and submissiveness in heaven is by accepting, loving and raising those kids. Anything less would result in no award and to punish her 'unsubmissiveness' God himself will shorten her ration of blessings and favour. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart! Help by elektra(f): 3:40pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
pato405: You Sir, are an evil person. It is absolutely evil to use the bible as a tool of oppression. It is when it relates to women that you will start quoting bible to suit your evil purposes. You should be faithful to your wife, just as you take water from your own well and don't be like a stream from which just any woman may take a drink. Save yourself for your wife and don't have sex with other women. Be happy with the wife you married when you were young. She is beautiful and graceful just like a deer; you should be attracted to her and stay deeply in love. Don't go crazy over a woman who is unfaithful to her husband! The Lord sees everything and he watches us closely. Sinners are trapped and caught by their own evil deeds. They get lost and die because of their foolishness and lack of self control. Proverbs 5:15-23. Didn't you see the above scripture in your bible reading? You have evaded multiple monikers asking you if you will accept illegitimate kids from your wife. Why? Because you cannot swallow the pill you are prescribing. If you cannot do what you are suggesting, why are you trying to oppress someone into doing it? When your wife brings home someone else's kids, use your bible qoute to help you accept and train them. This woman has suffered all kinds of abuse and oppression, and now that she has mustered the strength to liberate herself, evil people like you are insisting she must remain in that oppressive state in the name of virtuousness. You even had the nerve to tie hers and her children's blessings to her helping the illegitimate kids. I hope God has a special place in hell for people like you. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart! Help by elektra(f): 12:09am On Oct 02, 2017 |
pato405: Wait oh. Is it the OP mum's responsibility to feed the children? Their father and mother are still alive, why are you insisting that the OP's mum should feed them? Yes, she resents and probably hates the kids. Is it not justified? How would you feel waking up every morning to kids from your wife's side d!ck in YOUR house? House that you built with your sweat! You will be happy abi? She does not want anything to do with the kids, is it by force? Why must she accept them in HER house? Yes, they are free to grow on the street and become fvcking Bill Gates, just leave mama out of it. It is not by force! This is the kind of sh!t that men like you will never accept but will be shoving it down women's throats. You think women are robots with no feelings? WTF! OP, your mum has tried, their is no reason for her to be develop high blood pressure over someone else's kids. She should stand her ground and send those kids back to their mother, their father can follow them too. Good riddance. 15 Likes |
Family / Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 7:55pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Sebastine1606:Wow, is that what helper means nowadays? I must have been gone for too long. I hope the leader will be able to do the same to the helper when she falls too 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 7:45pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Sebastine1606: I know I am a helper. What is your point? You have not answered my question! Did God give leadership of the home entirely to the man? Or did he give man leadership in other aspects and gave woman leadership in faithfulness and sex? 1 Like 1 Share |
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