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Travel / Re: U.S. Student Visa (F1, M1, & J1) Forum - We're Listening by elektra(f): 2:02am On Oct 29, 2016
I am having so much difficulty submitting the ds160 form. I need assistance please.
First, the website keeps saying that "an error occurred while processing my photo try again later", even though it already stated that my photo fit the requirements. My photo is 44kb so size is not the problem. It does not have the 'continue without photo' option anymore so I am stuck on that page. The sign and submit button is not highlighting. I am tired! Please how do I submit this form? I have been on this for 3 days now!
Travel / Re: U.S. Student Visa (F1, M1, & J1) Forum - We're Listening by elektra(f): 7:40am On Oct 27, 2016
Hi,
I had posted previously about renewing my visa. I started the process and I'm getting confused.
I went ahead and filled a new ds160 form. The questions on the form seem to be geared towards people going to the first time so I'm wondering if there is a different link for returning students.
Also, when I took a peak at the appointment scheduler and there does not seem to be an option for the drop box. How do I get the approval to use the Dropbox?
I have been in the US for 2.5 years. Do I need to pay a new SEVIS fee?

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Family / Re: Why Are Pregnant Women Exposing Their Bumps These Days? (photos) by elektra(f): 1:23pm On Oct 19, 2016
Demigods666:


grin
Lol, thank you.
Family / Re: Why Are Pregnant Women Exposing Their Bumps These Days? (photos) by elektra(f): 12:39pm On Oct 19, 2016
How is it your 'consign'?

Abeg who get that 'weting concern you' picture?

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Religion / Re: I Don't Pay Tithes And Offerings But I Give To Anyone In Need. Am I Wrong? by elektra(f): 6:10am On Oct 19, 2016
Henrichemeka:
Add offering and tithe to it to attract God's presence

Chai! I thought I'd seen it all.
So it is offering and tithe that attracts God's presence?
Religion / Re: I Don't Pay Tithes And Offerings But I Give To Anyone In Need. Am I Wrong? by elektra(f): 5:10am On Oct 19, 2016
MrPRevailer:


My dear, God requires your 10% to be given in the church. From all circumstances in Bible, the tenth of blessings was given to the priests only/in the temple of God. Don't let anybody ever deceive u concerning this. A genuine man of God can never use your money for personal gratification but for sponsorship of the church's vision.

On the bolded, Oga please allow me to inform you that the only thing you are sponsoring is your pastor or GO's career. That is why when they are introducing guest pastors they will list all their accomplishments, how many churches he has planted, how many branches he has, the number of people in his church, the size of the church... ETC. All these things on pastor's CV na your money oh! But e no dey your own CV. Pastor is busy preparing his retirement plan ontop of your sweat.
If you channel this energy you are using to pay tithe into living like Christ (who never paid tithe BTW), you will do more good that the whole of your pastor's tithe paying congregation.

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Pets / Re: Lets Share Pictures Of Our Dogs by elektra(f): 9:51pm On Oct 11, 2016
princessbellz5:
NAME: Elektra

BREED: Lhasa Apso

AGE: 9months

SEX: Female

Chai, so na my name una carry give dog abi?

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Family / Re: How Flu Injection Turned My Son Gay!!!! Man Laments!!!! by elektra(f): 10:14pm On Oct 10, 2016
I cannot believe someone actually believed this cooked up story.
Um OP, where is your source? By source I mean a credible news agency not Linda ikeji and the likes.

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Family / Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by elektra(f): 9:06pm On Oct 07, 2016
ghostmist:
grin

I swear if most women argued their case this way, they would rarely have issues with men. but they tend to throw logic out the window thereby causing the men to go defensive.


if you were my wife and you put your points across to me this way, the very next morning, I would have concluded all the necessary domestic chores before you'd have opened your eyes for the day.

it's the woman's attitude that is everything... there's a way you talk to a man that would have him washing your undies and bringing you breakfast in bed with joy. ladies these days are ignorant of this. they talk down on the man, leaving his ego in tatters and yet, they expect him to be reasonable....

kudos to you.... I completely get your point and I concur.

grin grin at the bolded. Yes, I agree with you. No one should talk down on their partner. It will achieve nothing.
Family / Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by elektra(f): 3:21pm On Oct 07, 2016
ghostmist:
I see your point...

but, it's still at his discretion. They could get a maid at the very least. at least it solves two problems , and it's like killing two birds with a stone. she isn't stressed after work and the man's pride isn't crushed in the guise of doing domestic chores. Besides, he would also have the time to look for something economically tangible to engage himself with.

A man's pride? Should it not be a man's pride to do everything he can to ensure that his home runs smoothly? If they cannot afford a maid nko? Here in the states maid services cost an arm and a leg. It is 100% fine if he chooses to sit down, cross leg and be forming pride then later expect maximum respect from wife and children by virtue of his pr!ck abi?
Things are no longer the way they were during our mothers' time when most women did not work, now most families need the double income. Most women have no issue with doing all the domestic chores while the man provides, sadly this kind of arrangement is getting less feasible because of the economy.
Domestic chores are no longer as hard as they used to be too, the man could vacuum the living room, load the laundry and keep rice on fire. When wife returns she makes stew and fold the clothes, puts the kids to sleep. I promise you your pr!ck will not disappear if you contribute to your family in doing chores if your wife is contributing financially. Your wife will appreciate it and your kids are watching. They will respect you for it.

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Family / Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by elektra(f): 12:24am On Oct 07, 2016
ghostmist:
My Dad


but, she did her bit....which was a whole lot.

Your mum was more efficient in running the home front because your Dad did his part.
It is not laziness to not want to bear the financial stress of running a home and then come back home to bear the domestic stress of doing chores when you have a partner. It is not laziness, it is being human. Women are not machines.

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Family / Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by elektra(f): 12:10am On Oct 07, 2016
ghostmist:
All these just because he stated his opinion about how he wants his home to be??

I for one, I grew up with my mum running the domestic affairs. I never saw her complain or ask my dad to come and help her inside the kitchen.

Beans Was The First food I learnt how to cook in my undergraduate days. I had my sis text me the recipe, and I followed it religiously. now, I can rival most women in the kitchen. however, I would still prefer my wife to be handling the domestic affairs without haranguing me for help like as if she's handicapped.

what is it with most girls these days and laziness...


in the early stages of our romance, I may decide to engage in one of these "supposedly" romantic acts, just so she knows that I can very well take care of my self if she starts acting up.

Was your mother the bread winner in your family?

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Crime / Re: Two Ladies Attempt To Rape A Man In South Africa (Photos, Video) by elektra(f): 3:46pm On Oct 05, 2016
buikem2:


Your attempt of being funny wasn't successful. I know what you were trying to do there, using what men say at rape for this case.

Congratulations on the bolded. You can understand what everybody else understood.
If you want to laugh, laugh. If you do not want to, don't laugh.
Family / Re: What Is Something Crazy That Your Neighbor Has Done? by elektra(f): 9:27am On Oct 05, 2016
My neighbor stole my housemate's (female) shoes that were delivered by FedEx.
This individual is male.
After my housemate reported the package missing, the FedEx driver came the next day and suggested we ask this neighbor because he was sitting on his balcony when she dropped the package and when she was back in her truck, she saw him walking towards our apartment.
We asked him if he saw a package in front of our door and he denied. Several months later the package was returned with a note rendering apologies.
I guess he was not successful in selling it and he couldn't wear it either.
Family / Re: My Wife Is Too Proud To Apologise by elektra(f): 10:00pm On Oct 04, 2016
mrk74

You alone are in your situation so you alone knows where it pinches but I feel you are making a hill out of a mole.
Na because of say she no gree reduce salt for food you wan call meeting ontop her head? You said it yourself that she is perfect except for this one flaw, it may be better to allow her have her flaw as she is only human. You have talked and it is not changing. So let it go and enjoy your marriage.
You seem to have taken note that you and your wife communicate things differently and your wife seems to show displeasure by body language\actions rather than words. I commend you for taking to time to study this and even though it is not a trait you like, you can accept it.
Your post about the unripe plantain was very funny, guy you married a good woman who does not like fight. So while she was away, you ate your neighbor's food and now you want her to go and learn how to cook the meal from your neighbor, a fellow woman like her? Oga, your wife is ignoring your request for a reason, it is her way of telling you she is not going to do it. Most women would have been seriously offended by your request.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Too Proud To Apologise by elektra(f): 9:38pm On Oct 04, 2016
WHOcarex:
Guy, make I personally tell you something. Forget apology. She don agree say she dey wrong that one don do. She take you like her paddy paddy, so, if Una get misunderstanding Una go talk about am like pals, agree on who is wrong and move on. She believe say apology Na for subordinate. and as pals, no need to apologise. Na the way she dey reason am be that.

That said and done. My brother, fowl dey sleep , yangan dey wake am. So as you say Una nor get issue since, e be like say you nor like am like that. Now apology wan dey bring issue. Now neighbour unripe plantain and vegetables don dey enter. The matter don dey grow from one level to another. Now e don dey enter bigger one. If your wife con dey reason that matter now say Na your neighbour wife come dey cook for you, e go become another thing. E be like say the issue Wey nor dey your marriage don dey come up small small. You better use your tongue count your teeth.

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Religion / Re: Adeboye And Others Are Thieves by elektra(f): 5:09am On Oct 04, 2016
kolaish:
Do you know that Judas (Jesus disciple) use to help himself from the offerings box? Did Jesus not know these? But what happened to him thereafter and how did he finish his ministry? You can see by yourself that God is never asleep. Can you remember what God did to Eli because of the way wardness of his children? For me, I will rather pray for any person doing such things you mentioned to repent rather than calling them .... because through that you are rather discouraging people from rendering their financial duty to the church and thereby blocking their blessings.

God's blessings are not tied to how much money you give to the church. Release yourself from these leis your pastors have told you. The Lord's blessings are as free as air.

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Romance / Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by elektra(f): 5:01am On Oct 04, 2016
ElsonMorali:


I can read in between the lines dear. Besides I was just making a general point.

No vex oh but read whatever I wrote ON the line. I have written nothing between the lines and anything you read there is simply a figment of your imagination.
Crime / Re: Two Ladies Attempt To Rape A Man In South Africa (Photos, Video) by elektra(f): 1:05pm On Oct 03, 2016
stephenmorris:
did i say you are in nigeria or egypt or what da fvck u are,,,,children sleep 3 times a day so i was expecting you to still be asleep or be getting ready to sleep
my dear,,,,lol

I only need to take a look at your writing to figure out who's the kid. Your device does not have caps lock, question mark and full stop functions I suppose.
Crime / Re: Two Ladies Attempt To Rape A Man In South Africa (Photos, Video) by elektra(f): 11:31am On Oct 03, 2016
stephenmorris:
go and sleep jare your mates are sleeping

Haha, see how he is coming at me with such conviction. Ignorant fellow that does not realize that people all over the globe live in different time zones. So because it is 12 MIDNIGHT in Nigeria I have to go to sleep even though it is still 6 PM here. undecided
Crime / Re: Two Ladies Attempt To Rape A Man In South Africa (Photos, Video) by elektra(f): 1:36am On Oct 03, 2016
charix:

This copmment has finished me. Lol. #Liked.

Finally, someone who appreciates sarcasm.
Crime / Re: Two Ladies Attempt To Rape A Man In South Africa (Photos, Video) by elektra(f): 1:35am On Oct 03, 2016
d33types:
No single female comment..gender equality indeed






Ooh and the first lady that showed up with a comment had to use the above line. Nigerian girls do not fail to disappoint.

cheesy grin
How can I disappoint? When Nigerian men have never failed to disappoint us with their 'indecent dressing=rape' comments on every rape thread.
Crime / Re: Two Ladies Attempt To Rape A Man In South Africa (Photos, Video) by elektra(f): 11:17pm On Oct 02, 2016
That is why men should always dress decently. If a man is decently dressed he will not attract this kind of attention from the opposite sex.

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Romance / Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by elektra(f): 8:12am On Sep 30, 2016
Laido:
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You know Men will always be Men , But eventually nko?? What's good will always remain what's good??.

Plz ma'am. Just saw you profile and saw where you are.. Plannin to come to the states right after my degree, plz ma'am, some good tips you can actually tell me to enhance the process ??

At bolded, there is no point in submitting to a man if "men will always be men" regardless of submission. The woman might as well do whatever she likes.

Are you coming to the US to further your studies? If you are, the most important thing you can do is go through the US student visa threads in the travel section. Start from the first one and read them all. They have all the resources you need. Any questions you might have now have been thoroughly dealt with and more. Plus, you will be reading from people who have personally gone through the process.

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Romance / Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by elektra(f): 8:04am On Sep 30, 2016
ElsonMorali:


Let me break it down for you dear.

Marry a man you know will love you and you only. And not because he has money.

Marry him because he has qualities you admire and respect. Then it will be easy to be submissive to him.

Where in my post did you see money?
Romance / Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by elektra(f): 6:05am On Sep 30, 2016
Laido:
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Honestly, Be submisive. It helps. Men loves it a lot. Now, somethin happened last week about this in reality which I won't talk about. The man had 2 wives, could u blv he later sent the 2nd wife away all cuz of this issue. The 1st wife still dey gallant. Onto she's submisive and patient. Let your man just be your man and you should just do everythin to makes things get good. #Goodnight


1st Wife: Submissive
Husband: Marries second wife.

So much for the blissful marriage toks2008 promised submissive wives.

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Family / Re: My Uncle Slapped His Wife For Denying Him Sex Because Today Sunday!! by elektra(f): 7:15pm On Sep 25, 2016
Hahaha
Shebi they are looking for 'god fearing' woman, and woman that can pray for more than 1 hour.

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Family / Re: A Wise Woman Builds Her Home Herself. by elektra(f): 5:37pm On Sep 16, 2016
A wise woman Build's her home herself. Okay.
You are only a helper and you a busy building the home by yourself. What is the function of the head of the house then?

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Family / Re: Serious Life Partner Needed For Marital Journey by elektra(f): 1:05pm On Sep 16, 2016
5minsmadness:
The ignorance on this thread is extremely worrisome.


I hope at least someone here is aware that when op wrote IMO that he meant IMO chat? As in whatsapp/IMO chat only, and not Imo state?





[size=5pt]And these are our nigerian youths/leaders of tomorrow[/size]


OP said he is accepting applications from individual that are "Isoko, Urhobo, Yoruba and Ibo (except Imo)".

I think he meant Imo the state in that sentence.

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Family / Re: Serious Life Partner Needed For Marital Journey by elektra(f): 6:19am On Sep 16, 2016
Berbierklaus:

You still don't get it?

What a waste grin

okay wink

When the same person that said "God forbid I come from Imo" claims they are not trying to start a tribal war, that should indicate to you that the individual is not alright. From her spelling and attitude you can tell there is no way she would appreciate your beautifully written satire. Just ignore that one, you can't even have a proper argument with her as she wouldn't understand half your punchlines.

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Religion / Re: Christians Shouldn't Have A Divorce - Chris Oyakhilome by elektra(f): 12:54pm On Sep 15, 2016
"Christians shouldn't have a divorce"

So you be Muslim?

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Religion / Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by elektra(f): 2:05pm On Sep 11, 2016
herald9:
I went to Church today.

This Sunday was themed Financial Banquet.

The Pastor said if you give God your heart without giving God your pocket, then you're not a born again grin

He also said that the gifts of God are free and the same time, not free grin

He said we should pray to God to give us a lot of money grin

Haha haha
My Christian fanatic housemate was playing redeemed daddy G.O sermon. He started by telling them they are blessed in the house, blessed on the outside, all the jobless people will get job this year, all the business people will prosper... And so on. Then he concluded by saying these blessings will not come to anyone that does not obey God by paying their tithe and offering. ROFL.

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