So this girl na First Class product, Wow

ExpertNLer:
Yes I heard that they sent some people regret mail already, I think that was as a result of incorrectly filling the form

Not that, it is as a result of the answers provided to the questions asked on the recruitment portal. They know what they are looking for.

simplebb:



Mobil Producing Nigeria 700-800k

I think it's more than that.


But these guys were so quick to send me regret mail sha

Colourich:
I have the urge to call you a gold digger but I will resist.

Somebody earning over a million naira a month a gold digger

Beautiful girl with good heart, Happy Birthday and God bless you.

Earthbound:
Don't you people think you've overstretched the word 'beautiful'?

Have u seen her completely? A woman's beauty is not judged by her face only

funmisticqueen:
do you know what men like you and the op are callwd? i guess you do

I don't know maybe you should tell me. While I don't support what the OP did but it's very wrong for a woman to expect financial gratification from her man because she slept with him. It's very degrading!

funmisticqueen:
No she isnt, and he slept with her for free. that is the only thing that made the girl mess up.

Do you know what women that commercializes sex are called? I guess you know

NO! Unless I'm not aware. If she has committed abortion(s) and I ask her and she lies, it's between her and God.

henritinecy:
So I started dating this girl about this time last year. Things were rosy because I just came back to the country and I was having much money with me. I tried my best to give her what she wants. As times goes on, earlier on this year, we had a little misunderstanding and I initiated a breakup. Of a truth, the issue was minor and didn’t warrant a breakup. She sent my friends to beg me. We kept on going. Along the line, things became rough for me and suddenly, her respect for me started reducing. She hardly create time for us. She is currently in school in another state while I am in Lagos. At this point, we usually breakup up and come back. They were minor things though but sometimes we don’t talk for a while. The last time it happened, she said if we ever break up again, we are never coming back together. And then, When things started going wrong with me financially, she advised to leave the country that it will better me as well as her. But I declined. Gradually , our seeing time reduced. Sometimes she will be in Lagos and we will see just once or twice and she usually tell me that she is busy that’s why it’s like this.

Fast forward to last month. Her elder sister has a wedding and we needed to travel together. So we used my car. Half way into the journey my car engine knocked. The car had to be towed to Lagos while we continued our journey. She even provided part of te money we used in towing the car back to Lagos as well as paying the rest of the fare till we got to our destination. Meanwhile, She was talking to different guys on the phone though the conversations were not related to us but I felt this jealousy in me. While on the journey I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. I asked her to give me her phone and she did without arguing and even opened it. Then I returned it back to her without going through it. Then I asked her what I can do at this point. Cuz now there is no finance from anywhere coming in. As a matter of fact, I was using that particular car for Taxify and now the engine is down. She said she had told me before but I didn’t listen and that I should leave the country and things will be better for me again. I said okay am going to do it this time. So my mind was to come back to Lagos after the wedding and I sell it off. She was even crying while telling me.

On the day of the marriage I took another car from home and helped with the things I could. Taking her and her friends to and fro with respect to the wedding. The day after the wedding, she called me to come pick her from the hotel her friends that came for the wedding were lodging. I got there and we started taking things to the car I brought from the rooms her friends lodged. On our way to the car, a man stopped her and she was having a conversation with the man. And the man was laughing with her and even exchanging contact. This is a man in the 40s. At this point I was furious but I kept quiet. When she was done she came to the car and we set off for her house. She saw in me that I was angry. She then asked me what was wrong and I told her my mood has changed. She asked me to go drop her at the hotel and that when my mood is back on, I should come pick her. I then tuned back, and she came down. Cuz of the love I have for her, I didn’t want this to degenerate to something else. I came down I told her the act was wrong. She then told me if it’s wrong for her to talk to people and meet people because she is dating me. I said it’s not wrong but me being there, it’s disrespectful and besides there are ways she can tell me to excuse her in order to show that she is concerned about me. She then replied and said am speaking English. I felt so back with that statement. I just dropped her stuffs and drove back home.

When I got home, I sent her a long message on Instagram telling her that I cannot continue in this relationship. That I need my respect back and making money is the only value that will bring my respect back. She replied with just thanks. 3 days later, I couldn’t continue a life without her. I called her in the morning. At this point , she has blocked me from communicating with her on Instagram. I asked her to forgive me for what I said and that I was just frustrated with the way things ain’t going well with me, coupled with my car and finances. She told me that she cannot date me again and has moved on. I thought it was a joke. I kept on begging but she has made up her mind.

Last week, I started talking to her with a random account on Instagram and posed like someone that is interested in her and has feelings for her. I also told her that I am not in the country at the moment and will be back next month. For 5 consecutive days we were talking. She even initiated a video call and I declined. Then I asked her about her relationship and she said it’s complicated. That she hasn’t heard from the guy in 2 weeks. And explained all that happened to him. She revealed so many things to me via that conversation. Then I now called her with my number. She then knew I was the one. I started pleading with her again , telling her that I am sorry. She said she has moved on. That the only language she understands now is money which I cannot offer her. That she is tired of this love thing. That if I beg from now till forever , she is not interested. That I should go and make money. That she needs someone that can pay her bills and that the only thing she can do for me is being friends with me. Of a truth she needs money to pay her school fees plus accommodation fee in school which is upward from N300,000 and I cannot provide that now. So she said she needs someone that can be giving her money and that she has suffered enough; But dating me, she can never do that again.

I love this girl and it’s hard to let go. Maybe with time, I will. But how do I let go of what I feel for her and how can I move ahead at this point? Yes she has motivated me to go make money and be a better person. But it hurts me so bad that after making this money, some other lady will be the one spending the rest of my life with me. Yes I bleeped up by not listening to her when she first asked me to leave the country. And I bleeped up by initiating a breakup due to my frustration. But my heart lies with her and hopefully with time, I will heal and make enough money that this experience will be a thing that will make me smile when I look back and think about it.

Please anyone that has gotten over someone you have been so much emotionally attached to, I need your help towards getting over her because right now, the whole experience is killing me.

Thank You

She aint worth it bro, stop wasting your emotions on these good for nothing slay queens.

Hisduchess:

firstly I like this forum because it is a faceless forum so u can comfortably say ur mind here without any form of fear.
I ll love to congratulate u for being an awesome guy I.e a guy who apologises when he is wrong but am gonna tell you a very sincere reality here.
1.learn to know when you ain't needed anymore and simply deal with it.

2. coming back from jand and hitching a r/ship With an undergraduate isn't a very wonderful idea.because a whole lot of under graduate girls thinks with their ass and their boobs.they are often after money as in real real big money guys.except for the few who do have home training and are future minded.cos if u had met a future minded lady ur money wouldn't have finished this way.u people would have at least invested some.
3.money doesn't grow like grass in any part of the world especially legimoney.ey.so she telling u to travel out again is kinda selfish for her.because she doesn't care how the money is gonna be made,her own is that u should travel out.

4.learn how to move on.am a Lady but I kukuma move on when I find out that am no more needed.my ex used this kinda reverse psychology on me and after begging him for a while for a wrong he committed I completely switched him off from my mind and moved on and it was a very good decision. so learn to move on and don't go back no matter the pleas and stuffs.see the past as a vomit that u can't go back to.

5.go hustle legitimately and be on a low key when it comes to women. if u are upto 30 get a woman with virtues(though it may be hard, but cool down and look out for one u will definitely find her) who will see ur hustle and ur good heart and who u might start a family with and both of u will make real goddam money whether u leave this country or not.but if u are less than 30 please avoid real r/ships for now and put ur mind in the hustle.

6.never ever go back to your vomit no matter how u feel that u love this money monger.never ever go back.

thank you and have a blessed day

Hmmm, so a guy must wait until he is 30 upwards before he can date

mynairaland2018:
All the tinsel marriages are broken up. I wish her the best.

No true, Chuks and Ene are still together, even Gbenro Ajibade and Osas Ighodaro are still together.

mercyp001:
Pls, how much is entry level salary for B.Eng at Abuja Electricity Distribution Company? Pls, help me out.

It should be decent AEDC pays well

Happy Birthday bro....YNWA

I'm yet to meet my wife

JESUSBOIY:
please is it advisable to ask a girl out in college? I like her. from what I have learnt,she likes me too and is feeling frustrated that I haven't aked her out yet, tho we greet. The problem is that I am not financially capable enough to try it. Since most girls are all about what they can get from you.

She had asked me for money last week, for something she needed urgently, I told her I don't have. Later that day, when she saw me in my faculty as usual,smiled and greeted me as usual. Where do I go from here? how do I clear my face now. she is 19, I am 20..

please ask me questions, if you need more details.

Leave girls alone, face ur studies...

deepwater:
lol

OP you may have obtained the new grade -2.1
however, you still act timid and not in per with a 2.1 material
oga stop the sympathy
sue the school for millions of naira
they have denied you of huge opportunities.
no send them, forget old boys association or how it would feel to be around the school after suing
u dont need that attachment
the school no send u, dem give you 2.2 pursue u comot
never bothered to care how u ventured after graduating
people fail to realize that going to school is a contract between yourself and the institution
the institution has breached by not giving to what you actually paid and worked for as at when due
sue their ass, u are no longer a student, sue dem
sue dem
sue dem
are u deaf? i said sue dem

are u a lawyer?

Congrats bro

One of the best presidents we have had in this country...may his soul continue to rest in peace

franchasng:
No wonder Nigerian men are busy looking for these qualities in 2018

Top Qualities Majority of Men Seek For In a Lady Before They Consider Marrying Her In 2018 & Beyond

Age √: most men today prefer to marry ladies between age 27 - 32yrs

Genotype √: Every man wishes to marry an AA


Virginity ×: In 2018, men don't care much about a lady's virginity; haven known that most presumed virgins have done more sexual adventure than the non virgins. Safe to say there is no sexual purity among the ladies parading themselves as virgins. So if u want to be a virgin, do it for God and not for any man cos most don't care


Good job or career or business √: Every man in 2018 desires to marry a financial helpmate. A lady earning good, steady income through good job or business or trade. So as a single lady, try and be financially productive to increase your chances of finding Mr. Right soonest.


International citizenship & exposure ×√:

Do I need to remind u that the Nigerian economy and society in general is a mess Even the rich are scared of the future of Nigeria. If not for unpredictable economy recession that can hit the nation at any time as crude oil becomes more valueless, it is the tensed political atmosphere, tribalism and religious intolerance that can explode into full blown civil war anytime in future. For this, every Nigerian man wishes to have his children have a dual citizenship of another advanced safe country, so any lady that has citizenship of countries like USA, Canada, UK, European countries, Australia, etc will stand a greater chance of getting the ring in 2018.


Family background √: Have you asked yourself why Zahra Buhari, Indimi daughters, Osinbajo daughter, most serving governors daughters and including Aliko Dangote daughter got married since their parents became president, governors, senators and richest man in Africa

I forgot to mention the popular Ebuka Uchendu, if u think he married his wife for love u were wrong, he married the girl mostly for her family background, not really for love like they display, ah who throw me stone

Most celebrities marries for money based on the girls family background; Banky W, Dbanj and co comes to mind

It is because of their family background; every guy wishes to marry a girl from a rich family, at least if u can't meet them, join them na


Educational qualification √: Especially foreign acquired education, it freak Nigerian guys, don't blame them, blame the bad society and economy


Physical beauty ×√: Most Nigerian guys don't care much about physical beauty of a Lady when they are ready to marry. They consider above qualities first, only few consider physical beauty, especially those in entertainment industry.


Good character √: Every man considers this quality first o, if u lack manners, u will teh for your papa house sha unless u carry plenty money and sexy body plus rich family background or red passport


Fertility √√: If not for child bearing, most guys won't marry. So being fertile is number one quality o, go check yourself well sis


Loyalty & respect √: Men have ego, to win them and get the ring, show him some respect and be loyal to him even if your father has tati billion for akant


Height ×: Men don't care much about a lady's height.


Spirituality ×: Most men don't care about a lady's spirituality.


Sexual expertise ×: Most men don't care if u can give doggy, cowleg, cowtell, horsefall or mango tree style. They only care during dating and flings


Good shape ×: Most men don't care much about hot shape when getting married, just be good looking and meet other top criteria and u will get the ring.


Home keeping skills × √: Many men don't joke with their stomach o , even Dangote can break bottle because of food

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You're wrong about age

Beautiful black woman

enemyofprogress:
Since yesterday that they started the word cup, I have bean washing all the marches with my generator becurse NEPA always tooked light any time they want to start march, I want to count how many march I am going to use my generator to wash during this word cup

Obviously NEPA na enemy of progress, your moniker too funny

Painful defeat for Egypt . They obviously missed Salah.

This is what most ladies do nowadays so I wonder why ladies here are bashing her

Timbuktuo:


Your mom. The Nigerian Wife Manual and By-Laws have been revised and updated. Na the old format be dat wey your mom follow so. Any man who isn't up-to-date with our state-of-the-art women will bite his fingers in regret.

You're right bro, women have evolved and mostly in the negative direction.

Shugavee, it should be vice versa. A broke girl has no business in a relationship either. Its actually difficult dating a broke girl too.

Naija has the most beautiful kit in this year's world cup. Even if we don't make it pass the group stage at least that will be some consolation

kennygee:


As much as it is easy to blame the hospital and the high cost of keeping babies in Incubators, lots of people give birth to kids they can't afford to take care of, waiting for divine intervention.

It is well. I pray well meaning Nigerians come to their aid.

It's just an unfortunate incident, if the mother had delivered normally or even through CS there wouldn't have been problems.

You're not matured enough for marriage, because apparently you're more concerned with others are thinking.... I only pity the poor girl you're about to subject to emotional heartache

Useless apology

Earthbound:
Her friend's much more endowed, just saying.



But which kind news be this, the world is on the verge of World War III and this is what we're busying our minds with.

Don't be deceived by packaging

Dyt:


Her husband is a sucker for thick women

Are u in his mind