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RomanceRe: No Means No Y'all by Emekaossai(m): 11:00pm On Jun 14, 2020
Candyness:
1. quit asking for my number.

2. Quit sending me love messages.

3. Yes I am single and yes ain't interested in y'all.
Mtcheeew
Noticed. Next please undecided
EducationRe: Is Animal Science A Good Course?? by Emekaossai(m): 6:12pm On Jun 14, 2020
bolafez:
I studied animal science (animal production and health), FUNAAB and I'm one of the co-founders/MD of a microfinance institute at Osun state. Your course doesn't determine what would bring food to your table. Be very flexible and open yourself to many opportunities.
You are right.
FamilyRe: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Emekaossai(m): 5:56pm On Jun 10, 2020
centboy123456:
are you serious about it

how did ur parents mange to do it
In 19's, people hardly go for genotype test before marriage. They didn't even know their genotype until mid 199's when they have already given birth to two children.
I would say we were just lucky. They gave birth to Two AS and one AA respectively and that discovery made them stop giving birth to avoid giving birth to a sickler.
RomanceRe: Her Dad Is A Native Doctor, Should I Be Worried? by Emekaossai(m): 7:42am On Jun 09, 2020
ChizzyBuna:
[b][b]So you respect the worshiping of idols??[/[/b]b]
Fake christians like you are the worst.
What I mean is that I respect everyone irrespective of their beliefs.
You the one that's a fake Christian here.
For crying out loud that's his daughter and as a father he's supposed to bless his daughters marriage not as native doctor but just a father's blessing.

You claim more Christian than Christ himself. Quit the relationship if you want. undecided
RomanceRe: Her Dad Is A Native Doctor, Should I Be Worried? by Emekaossai(m): 10:34pm On Jun 08, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I WOULD CALL THE GUY UNREASONABLE AND IMMATURE, BUT..
Can you just imagine that? I'm a Christian but I respect other people's beliefs provided they're not using it against humanity. People has really been blinded by religion.
RomanceRe: Her Dad Is A Native Doctor, Should I Be Worried? by Emekaossai(m): 10:28pm On Jun 08, 2020
What does her father's believe got to do with your getting married to her? His father has the right to bless her marriage irrespective of his beliefs. You are just making a big issue out of nothing.
FamilyRe: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Emekaossai(m): 10:07pm On Jun 08, 2020
Give your wife the care and love she needs now. Since you have taken the decision of getting married to her, learn to stand by it like a man you are.

My both parents are AS but non out of three of us is sickler.
FamilyRe: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Emekaossai(m): 9:53pm On Jun 08, 2020
bjprodint:
Be prayerful,GOD changed my course mate's genotype from AS to AA.Now they have two healthy kids even expecting the third ine.her husband is AS.there is nothing GOD cannot do.
Not that I don't believe in miracles, but this can be an issue of error from the previous test. It has happened to many.
FamilyRe: When Does A Woman Become A Liability? by Emekaossai(m): 9:23pm On Jun 07, 2020
Ybaby:
Amen my bruv. As long as you are a provider good man God will give you a good woman
Amen
Thanks a lot
FamilyRe: When Does A Woman Become A Liability? by Emekaossai(m): 8:14pm On Jun 06, 2020
Ybaby:
If a wife does not give hubby consent he must respect her decision

If a hubby refuses to pay Bill's because he is stressed from not emptying his tank then she must respect his decision
I pray I marry someone like you
HealthRe: I Am AS And I Am Getting Married To AS by Emekaossai(m): 11:21pm On Jun 03, 2020
[quote author=bigmodo post=90263375]I am an As and I am getting married to an As. I love this girl so much that I am moving forward to marry her. We have done our introduction and our traditional marriage is next month. I know the complications of an As marrying As in the issues of children they might give birth to. But I have no choice. I want to marry the love of my life.

I was in the hospital with a friend of mine. A man came with a laboratory result asking my friend who's a medical laboratory scientist to change it to 'AA' that he's ready to offer him any amount. He claimed he's getting married but the lady in question is AS too and that he loves her so much. He declined his request and angrily left the place. He then came to me to beg on his behalf. This is what I told him.

"The implications of having an SS child will make the love fall out from your eyes. My cousin is an example and I see how painful it for him. Are you prepared to spend most of your day in the hospital nursing your child? What of the financial stress that's attached to it? What of the emotional trauma the child will undergo? My cousin has told me more than once that he wished he's normal. I have donated blood for him more than two times. I advise you not to make this mistake. It won't be easy one.
FamilyRe: Justice For Uwa, Tina And Jennifer, Enough Of The Emotions by Emekaossai(m): 7:36pm On Jun 01, 2020
bukatyne:
Good one.

Emotions do not solve a problem.

Further investigations really need to be done in Uwa's case.

There is more to the story than meets the eye.

Pressure on the Church authorities and neighbors around the Church should yield results.

And I agree with you that it should not be treated as a gender based crime.

I remember when QC girls were raping their male staff. I vividly remember a security man who was killed in the act.

I don't know you, but I respect you. You comments are always reasonable.
RomanceRe: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Emekaossai(m): 9:34am On May 27, 2020
You don't have a boyfriend. It's as simple as that.
RomanceRe: Madly In Love With My Fuckmate by Emekaossai(m): 6:30am On May 26, 2020
queenice7:
I am leaving this forumn, honestly. How do I delete my account? I just wana be a newsreader here, that'll all
You leaving because of the bashing. You have to develop a tick skin. Just take the ones you think is OK and put others in the trash can.
RomanceRe: Madly In Love With My Fuckmate by Emekaossai(m): 6:26am On May 26, 2020
queenice7:
So when I met him, I was in a toxic relationship. I was entangled with my ex and was in love with this guy at same time. This guy tried to make me leave my abusive boyfriend for him, tried to prove to me he was gona be a better man, infact he was like my dream guy and we were fucking even when I was still with my ex, when it seemed like he had gotten me and we were now dating, i eventually went back to my ex and it kinda disappointed the guy. Now av moved on from my ex, I am now very single and lonely, although av been fucking this guy ever since.
It's more like the both of us are just using each other to quench konji, the show of affection he used to give me then, the attention, the calls, the care, is no longer there, he just calls me when he's Hot and I also notify him when am Hot coz he's the only one am fucking, like am very picky, but deep down within me, I wish he can ask me out again, so I'll say yes and the love and affection would come back. Nobody has shown me much love like this and I guess the fact that I went back to my ex scattered the whole thing. He knows av moved on, and I've since been giving him green light for us to start dating aside just fucking but it seem like he's ignoring it, and my ego won't allow me to ask him. I feel like blocking him or sth bcoz it hurts me when he doesn't reply my messages fast or ignores it, but becomes very active and desperate when he's Hot
Boldly tell him that you want to be in relationship with him. If he refuses, let him be and next time he calls for sex, be disciplined enough to turn him down. Let him know that it's relationship or nothing.
He's your fuckmate so no issues. You are enjoying each other. But now you want to take it to next level, state what you want. And if he's not dancing to the tune pack and go. You still have your pride. Cheers
RomanceRe: Madly In Love With My Fuckmate by Emekaossai(m): 6:23am On May 26, 2020
FamilyRe: What Do You Know Now About Women That You Didn't Know Five Years Ago? by Emekaossai(m): 10:08pm On May 25, 2020
LadySarah:
Men can't survive without women.
Thanks
Likewise women without men undecided
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Behaves Exactly Like You ? by Emekaossai(m): 8:16pm On May 22, 2020
I can't do that. I need someone that would complement my weakness.
FamilyRe: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Emekaossai(m): 2:31pm On May 22, 2020
eni4real:
Where is your unconditional love?? undecided
In the present time Nigeria, unconditional love is a fairytale. It's pathetic.
RomanceRe: University Fellas What Was It Like Sharing A Room? by Emekaossai(m): 9:47pm On May 21, 2020
zagorakis:
Wow.. Ij oo.. I stayed in room 208 j wing
Wow!
That was my room also
RomanceRe: No Romance Without Finance. by Emekaossai(m): 11:38pm On May 09, 2020
allandutch:
Good question.

See... Sex, love, relationship are thing that men and women view differently. A man loves for the sake of it. A man loves unconditionally. A man have this Idea of love that's never going to happen.
A woman loves conditionally. A woman's love always come with a price and as long as you keeping paying that price you keep getting the love.
Now, to sex. A man have sex because he likes and enjoy it. A man have sex for the sake of the pleasure it bring. But for a woman, as it is with love, so it is with sex. It comes with condition(s) attached to it. Compliance, money, you name it.
Women - Not all of them though - believe that even though they like and enjoy sex and find it pleasurable. The pleasure that you get from the sex - or even from just having them around you - is something that you should pay for. Somehow.
Summary of what you just pointed out is that Women doesn't love rather they transact.
RomanceRe: Some Men Need To Think by Emekaossai(m): 2:23pm On May 05, 2020
Maduawuchukwu:
Ok. Wanted to know because of your surname "Ossai". It is personally among Anioma folks.
I guessed right.
RomanceRe: Some Men Need To Think by Emekaossai(m): 10:12am On May 05, 2020
Maduawuchukwu:
Sup bro? U from Anioma?
I'm cool guy and you?

No I'm from Enugu state
RomanceRe: Some Men Need To Think by Emekaossai(m): 7:50am On May 05, 2020
Liliantalks:
think about it , whenu strike a girl n u feel she has nothing to offer you than sex u dump her ,, but let’s be realistic , many men r married to their women cause of sex , and many women r married to their men cause of money , the others is a relevant plus . Sex and money brings both sex together
If that's the only point of getting married, I rather die single. Your mentality is so wrong.
FamilyRe: My Wife Told Me She Doesn't Love Me Again by Emekaossai(m): 5:46pm On May 03, 2020
Romanoff:
10 years of marriage and you choose to get answers from Nairaland instead of talking to your wife?

I just weak for Una matter.
Your head dey there. I tire too.
This is what heart to heart talk can easily solve.
FamilyRe: How Can I Win My Wife's Heart Back? by Emekaossai(m): 8:17am On May 01, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Fake story, only a maddd woman would tolerate all this. Because a woman with brain who should experience half of this, is supposed to divorce you or gang up with her children and make life miserable for you, till you develop high BP. Is it now that you are an old man that your wife should accept you back? After you have wasted your years and youth on side chicks? You should be abandoned to loneliness in old age, you should be chased out of that house, Nigeria is a terrible country for a woman to marry into.
The man himself is a devil. No true repentance.
I totally disagree with you on the fact that Nigeria is a terrible country for a woman to marry into. There are still good men in Nigeria. I'm not yet married but by God's grace my wife will be the luckiest lady.
RomanceRe: I Love Her So Much But She's Too Demanding by Emekaossai(m): 11:55am On Apr 29, 2020
Ariza:
Wait, babe we are both ladies, you will agree with me that we don't treat guys we love or value anyhow. Even when unsatisfied there is a way we handle men we cherish. From all indications, to that lady the guy doesn't worth more than a money bag. Trying to get such woman's respect is a waste of resources.

Yea... Maybe love alone isn't enough in a relationship,but Money shouldn't be the basis either . A guy has no official or mandate to spend on a lady who isn't his WIFE (same goes for a lady). Any financial gift or support should be given out of love not responsibility. Men only make it responsibilities to convince their women that they are up to task, unfortunately women now see these actions as a measure to judge men's capability. Lol.

The man should just let the lady go if he wants to live long. grin
Here's a responsible Lady.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Emekaossai(m): 8:36pm On Apr 27, 2020
OP by saying this generation of men, hope your husband is included? It's like you voicing out your pain. What happened with the words " some, most, many"
RomanceRe: The Pains Of A Vulnerable Woman (ALL EPISODE AND STORY COMPLETED- 2020 ) by Emekaossai(m): 1:27pm On Apr 27, 2020
Thanks so much for the awesome piece. God bless you
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle Suleman On Coronavirus: "Permit Us To Heal & Pray For COVID-19 Patients" by Emekaossai(m): 9:55am On Apr 26, 2020
Mpanyi:
E get as this thing dey do me for body. Why are some pastors making joke of themselves? Can't you pray from anywhere? And how do you know those that are healed by your prayer as most of the patients recover following treatment?
Don't mind them. Just seeking relevance.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Threatened To Drink Snipper If I Leave Her... by Emekaossai(m): 9:27am On Apr 26, 2020
You said the issue doesn't require quitting the relationship but you just decide to quit. Why then are you deciding to quit? You don't love her anymore?
RomanceRe: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Emekaossai(m): 10:13pm On Apr 20, 2020
RonaldoVido:
Hungry girls are heart breakers.

Let me instruct you on how to date a hungry girl.

1. Don't give her money : Its not being wicked. It's being careful. In my life, I have helped more hungry men than women. They are both thesame. A hungry person is a destroyer and this stems from resentment and unhappiness. A hungry person takes delight in seeing a happier person cry. It's human psychology. Have you ever seen someone say, " You won't have this, I won't have this, rather we destroy it, nobody will have it ". That is the average mentality of a hungry person.

2. A hungry person is naturally ungrateful: It takes gratefulness to be rich. " When you praise a great man for what he has done, he will do more " . This is an adage, it is true for humans and for God. When you praise God or show gratitude, he does more. Poor people are naturally ungrateful people. A poor person will prefer to grumble than be grateful. Poverty breeds ungratefulness, likewise ungratefulness breeds poverty.

3. Poor people have a sense of entitlement: That girl is just using that state or origin thing as an excuse, she doesn't love you. She believes you owe her upkeep because she is poor and you are rich. How come you never saw this attitude in her all this while ?

4. Never invest in a woman unless, she is your wife, mother or sisters. This one needs no explanation.

5. You probably never bleeped this girl. In this modern world, a girl you have not bleeped, believes there is nothing between you and her. This is the ugly sinful truth.
Well said. Most poor people are ingrate. Instead of showing appreciation, they will look for a way to bring you down

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