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Franzinni:
Interesting ... Now I have context

culidea:
In 1998, a 21 year old Nigerian soldier named Hassan Adeyemo from Ibadan met and fell in love with an 18 year-old beautiful Hausa girl from Bauchi called Sarah. It was love at first sight.

They got married in 1999 and God blessed them with a beautiful daughter in 2000. After her, they had two other daughters and one boy, making 4 kids. Hassan loved his wife so much and told her not to work because of stress. He was providing everything she ever wanted for her and the kids…

In 2014, Hassan wanted a better life for his family, so with his wife’s agreement, he decided to send them to the U.S. Sarah and the kids entered the United States in 2014.
Before they got there, Hassan already arranged a rented house and a car for them. Sarah wasn’t working, Hassan was sending big money to them for upkeep from Nigeria every month. Despite the distance, Hassan bonded with his wife and kids. Everyone was happy.

In 2017, Hassan, who had missed his family so much, decided to relocate to America and stay with them.

Before Hassan got to America, Sarah had started hair braiding just to keep herself busy when the kids were in school. Everyone loved her and the way she braided beautiful styles. Gradually, she became a household name in Orlando, Florida. Ladies flooded her to do their hair.

The unfortunate victims of the tragedy
What she was doing for fun became something big overnight. Hassan entered the US, and things were going smoothly. Hassan who was a big man in Nigeria, left everything and came to America to start all over with menial jobs. He had no papers yet, so he was doing jobs that paid him peanuts.

God blessed them with a baby boy in 2018, making their children a total of 5. Sarah was making at least 1,000 a day with the help of her daughters who she had trained. She was very fast and efficient in braiding. With this income, she was able to support the family with all expenses because Hassan’s income couldn’t meet up with the expenses/bills.

Hassan got his papers and started Uber and delivery jobs. He worked from day to night and started contributing his quota to the family, but his contributions was like change to his wife Sarah, was making. In effect, Sarah became the breadwinner of the house.

Issues started because Sarah was always complaining that Hassan couldn’t afford her lifestyle. She became the children’s favorite because she gave them everything they asked for, while their dad could not meet up. Sarah entered the house whenever she wished. She became the boss, always calling Hassan lazy and useless, while Hassan always appealed to her for peace to reign.

Hassan, a gentleman didn’t like trouble in any form. Sarah and the children formed their own group in the house, and abandoned their dad to always sort himself out. Sarah stopped cooking for him.

Hassan became depressed and was always begging friends and family members to help talk to his wife. Hassan was always crying like a baby, saying Sarah made him feel less of a man in the house. His friends encouraged him to persevere and ignore whatever she did.

In January 2022, Sarah announced to Hassan that she had bought a house. They moved into the new house, and she continued to treat him very badly. She disrespected him so much, “Leave my house if you cannot obey me, you irresponsible man,” she would often say.

She locked him out in the cold so many times and threw his things out. The children were on their mother’s side because she was the provider. Hassan became very depressed, and started having suicidal thoughts. He told his friends how life is unfair, and that he would kill himself. They advised him to leave the marriage because it was obvious that his wife was no longer in love with him, but he kept on asking, “Where will I start from? I love my wife. A woman I have invested all my life in. The only woman I ever loved. What did I do to deserve this from her?”

April 2023, Sarah told him she had bought another house that this particular house is specifically for her and her customers. She told Hassan to hold onto the boys while the girls followed her to the new house. Hassan was like, ” Why do you want to separate the family?” She said, “If everyone followed her to the new house, it will disturb my customers. She then told the husband that he could bring the boys over for weekends, but he can’t come with them, “because I need my privacy.” People tried to talk to Sarah, but she wouldn’t listen. Hassan agreed, hoping that his wife will change her mind.

On August 21, 2023, Sarah informed Hassan that she would like for her sons to move in with her, while Hassan remains in the old house. She instructed Hassan to move all of her remaining property, and that of the children from the old house where Hassan was staying to the new one, where she lives.

She then told Hassan that whenever he wished to see the children, he should let her know, so she can arrange for the visits. So, Hassan told her he would do as she had instructed, and take the remaining property of hers to the house on Friday night, which he did. Sarah didn’t let him enter the house. She took all the belongings he brought and the boys and left Hassan outside. Hassan remained at the door for almost an hour knocking, Sarah refused to open the door for him.

The following day, August 26, was Hassan’s 46th birthday. Early that morning, Sarah sent him a message, “Happy Birthday friend, we are better off as friends than lovers.” “You need to look for where you’ll be staying, because I have to get rid of the old house. I wish you well in life, I have moved on.” A few hours later, the children called their dad to get some groceries, and he told them he would bring them in the evening. At about 6:30 PM, he called the kids, that he was on his way to the house with the groceries. When he got there, he knocked, and the children opened the door for him.

Hassan then asked for their mom, they told him he was in the shower. He entered, and went to the bathroom, brought out a gun, and shot her in the head, in the chest, and in the leg. He then called 911, “Hello, I just killed the bitch.” This is the address, I am waiting for you.” He sat down on the floor beside Sarah’s body.

The cops came, and the first responders rushed Sarah to the hospital, she was still breathing. She died two hours after she got to the hospital. Mr. Adeyemo is now at the Orange County Jail in Florida. He is most likely facing a death sentence or life in prison without parole.

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Elidrisy20:
you sure say you well so?

ExclusiveBet:
The management of Nollywood actress, Toyin Abraham has released strong evidence against skit maker and comedian, Abraham Ereme better known as Twyse.

Kemi Filani reported hours ago that Twyse shared a candid and emotional revelation about his experience during a difficult period in his life.

In an interview with Mecksoncrownbtv, Twyse opened up about his battle with depression and how actress Toyin Abraham offered her support during that challenging time.

During the interview, Twyse revealed that he was going through a period of depression and decided to share his feelings online. It was during this vulnerable moment that Toyin Abraham reached out to him, expressing her concern and urging him not to give up. She even did an emotional video where she teared up while begging to not commit suic!de.


However, Twyse also mentioned that after that initial interaction, he didn’t receive further communication from Toyin Abraham.

This raised questions among some netizens, with some accusing the actress of merely offering “eye service.”

Toyin Abraham releases evidence

Releasing a statement through her management, Toyin Abraham releases screenshots of their chats revealing that the movie maker was in contact with the skit maker.

The evidence has caused a stir online, while some pitched tent with Toyin Abraham, others stated that the actress was only chasing clout.


One Queen Sus wrote, “I’m glad she kept this evidence. Everyone wants to use this mind woman for clout

Tackling Toyin, one Im Ife wrote, “2016 and 2018 no be the same thing na. You go explain tire

One CEO Dbclothing wrote, “They are talking about 2016 and you are showing 2018 chats

One Poshest Hope wrote, “But what’s Twyse problem gangan? Did she make a mistake by begging you not to take your life? Na why people no dey hype people be this”.

Elidrisy20:
No be by decree oooo, if cbn do their homework right, it will bounce back

cryptocherith:
Most people here just feel they know so much about a subject matter and as a result, dish out high level inferior comments...

If you do your due diligence of the Bible as claimed by most of you, answer the following questions;

Prophecies in the Bible that comes with exact number of years, was it fulfilled the very year?

Prophecies with no exact time, does that make it false or wishful thinking?

Let me school you today if you so desire.

For any prophecy or prayer, human participation will always be needed for its fulfilment. There is the part of prophecy, then another part of human participation.

How is it wrong for the Pastor to prophecy?

Most of you all who hail people like Fela to be a prophet, etc do not really understand that it is harder to predict good things than it is for evil.

Anyone can predict Naira will fall further next year but to boldly declare it will bounce back stronger is a high level of faith.

Isaiah Prophecy about a virgin giving birth as a case study, most of you all would've dragged the hell out of him on X and Nairaland. He will not escape dragging on the day he was announced dead also but hundreds of years later, What happened?

How easy it is for someone to declare at that time that a Virgin will never conceive, and the person will be so honored to be a true prophet of his generation even in death.

Anyways, worldy wisdom; Sophia is absolutely different from The Wisdom of God.

NB: I am talking to Christians only.

Crafteck1:
Any religion based on miracles... You are better off worshipping a magician the concept of heaven and hell existed when they believe the Earth was flat it has been debunked and how we know the Earth is round and there's nothing at the top or bottom we just have planet surrounding us but due to religion people are yet to wisen up

Originalsly:
The man in charge of COREN is calling out all the faults in the construction that lead to the building collapse. If his agency was doing its job of inspection construction should've been shut down. He needs to look in the mirror to see who is really to he blamed.

Akasammyoka:
Collapse building again. This is becoming an emergency situation in Nigeria.

Crafteck1:
Sad that religion has stopped you from thinking

michlins:
This is too terrible.

God console the victims

Omooba77:
https://punchng.com/economy-nairall-bounce-back-stronger-than-dollar-soon-says-adeboye/

Winters23:


You guys take life too seriously

I fvcking love my wife


I also love new pusssy, best thing after alcohol and drugz


Stuff below makes life soft

Jennyclay:
Broke men are the most dangerous people living on earth and they should be avoided at all cost

Imagine killing his father for just mere 70k .

Foolish men everywhere!!

JaredH:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/8/man-machetes-his-father-to-death-over-n70000-in-ogun-2.html

Creamypussy:
U want a taste

placeofallure:


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Franzinni:
Interesting ... Now I have context

Blaze14k:
I would like to use this opportunity to seek guidance based on the issue I have on ground. I believe it's igbos especially elderly person who is in a better position to give me a reasonable explanation. I told my mum my girlfriend is from ohafia, abia state and she instantly told me I can't get married to her. Her reason is because people from ohafia, arochukwu, izombe, and few other places in abia state are regarded as OSU. I complained to other members of my family but they also rejected her.

I have made some research personally and found out people from other part of igboland marry from those places. Now my question is why are they strongly rejecting her cos it doesn't make sense to call everybody from different local government in abia state OSU.

I've made more research on the girls family and found out they are king makers and her father belongs to eze's cabinet.

Her father and mine are no longer alive. They both have a traditional title and belong to eze's cabinet too. Please I need your advice cos I really want marry this girl. I also know that people encounter alot of difficulties when they want to get married. So I need a clarification from someone who has extensive knowledge on igbo tradition. Thank you

Solofresh2:
Their is this female colleague that was transferred to the branch I work like three months ago now. So I have been nice to her from the day one, just like others do but I noticed that she always wants to be around me,going for lunch with me and sharing other marketing work with me to the extent that everyone have noticed and I don't like it
I don't want any woman wahala in my life because I know what they are capable of.I have shunned her to give me space but she never listen.I am not afraid of being sacked because I have a business of my own but I don't like it when a lady keep forcing herself on me. I am not ready for any relationship talk less of marriage.My mum do advice me to be careful with women.My colleagues now believe we have something serious together which am not happy with

Franzinni:
wow I bet there is more where that came from... Wow. Keep it coming. I might learn a thing or two.

Franzinni:
wow I bet there is more where that came from... Wow. Keep it coming. I might learn a thing or two.

Jman06:
Don't mind Nigerians o. There's a reason why our politicians allow the various religious houses to operate freely in Nigeria without even paying taxes. It's because religion helps to keep Nigerians perpetually blind so they don't demand accountability from the politicians. They'll rather resort to prayers and hope of going to heaven than protest for our leaders to do their works of providing basic amenities for us.

manos:
Note: it's a bit long... I could have summarized but I want those contributing to get a crystal clear picture of the situation, so that they can give better and specific advice.

The major problem here is that she mixes up things to be done in the kitchen with things done only in the toilet.

I have been married to my wife for over a year now (no kids yet) and there are certain unhygienic habits she has been displaying, since we started living together. I have been seeking ways to help her improve on it, but a calm correction from me always leads to a bitter argument between us. (She claims I complain too much whenever I point it out)

For example, she always clears her throat early in the morning and spits in the kitchen sink. (despite the fact that we have 2 toilets with wash hand basins; one in the room and also a guest toilet, with a wash-hand basin which is basically 3 steps from the kitchen). Then she goes to the bathroom, gets her toothbrush and comes back to the kitchen to brush her teeth, while doing several things with toothpaste and saliva drooling from her mouth all through.

The other day, she prepared breakfast (spaghetti) for both of us with the drooling toothpaste mouth and i refused to eat from it. I didn't complain to her either, until she asked why I didn't take my portion of the spaghetti from the pot, later that evening. I mentioned to her that, as always I find it disgusting to eat spaghetti, seasoned with toothpaste drool and saliva. The response I got from her was a hiss and then she said that, next time I should inform her if I am not going to eat the food she cooked so that she would not cook for me."

I let that slide but I felt she missed the point. The next day was her birthday and I decided to prepare breakfast for her.
While I was in the kitchen cooking, she came in with the same drooling toothpaste mouth to take a kitchen Scissors in order to cut something on her pants, even though we have another scissors in the room for such purposes. In the process of trying to pick the scissors, her hands which were covered with toothpaste drool had to cross the pot which I was cooking with. I mentioned to her that I was not comfortable with that and she just hissed as usual, still picked the Scissors and left the kitchen while angrily saying that I am just a complainer. I lost it at this point and proceeded to give her a lecture in anger about basic hygiene and why I can not keep quiet over these things because we live in a shared space and how her actions have a direct effect on me. It ended in a shouting match till she kept quiet, without accepting she was wrong.

This is the pattern almost everything takes when I try to correct her. The worst part is that I would still have to be the one to apologize for shouting at her because if I don't, I might be subjected to a week long silent treatment which I dread.

There are other more unhygienic things that are done by her, which I might not be able to post here due to the fact that I am not completely anonymous and she is still my wife but I hope this information is enough for someone to understand my frustration and profer a solution.

Franzinni:
my point exactly

Franzinni:
sorry you are already irredeemable... We all are too hypothetical and greedy. That is why I always thank God humans don't live forever, no matter how much money to hoard you will leave it all behind.

Franzinni:
sorry you are already irredeemable... We all are too hypothetical and greedy. That is why I always thank God humans don't live forever, no matter how much money to hoard you will leave it all behind.

steeltrust:
bro if na school
That money no reach any where if your intention is to go to first world countries

What I’ll advice you to do
Learn a skill
Like truck driving etc
Search for companies who are ready and willing to give you sponsorship visa
Example of countries are Canada
Or apply for Canada visit visa
Use it to get there
It not going to be easy but if you put effort you go find job with LMIA from there build your self to soft collar job

Have it in mind
When you reach abroad
Even if you be medical doctor with all the liscense here in Nigeria once you get there you’ll have to train to their standard before practicing. During this process you have to look for menial jobs to do, there are menial jobs in Canada that pays 24$ and hour for part time examples of such jobs are school bus driver
You can have two jobs in a day from there you can save up

My brother no listen to anything when anybody de tell you here
Find away to japa
Na who never comot for Nigeria go tell you say there’s peace here because they see other Nigerians abroad saying so

By any means necessary legally.
Leave, Build your life and then come back after becoming a citizen
Imagin holding a first world country passport which give you access to countries which the Nigeria passport can not

If you need more guidance
Quote me
I will give you update for free
But I know more of Canada than any country so I can put you through on it