₦airaland Forum

Juoflife1:
Much people don't even earn up to100k. How much does npower volunteers earn? How much does the people in cleaning industry and dispatch earn? Aren't they part of Nigerian people? A live chicken is like 10k in Nigeria, frozen from 2500. No N100 indomie again. Fuel, School fees and rent nko? The country is expensive in my opinion.

doggedfighter:
Is she diabetic ?


The things that life throws at people sometimes can be too much to take.


Blindness is one of them




May she recover her sight.

woginid967:
My landlady is like that and see, she squirts and grips well. Dont just a kitten by its cover. Such women are tigresses in bed, once your deeq can reach her womb.... She'll squirt and weep then you can tell her fo do tummy slimming and she'll do it just to please you. They are usually loyal.

Thats my land lady pix when she was waiting for me in a very local place far from the area, on the outskirts of the state. She parked at a filling station. Paid for a room, i paid for mine too, based on coded. By night we will bang from room to room.

Dangrace01:
Give me the prophet number

woginid967:
My ex used to act p*rn and get paid. I never knew until i was ready to marry her and a prophet exposed it and she confirmed it but she covers her face in her videos.... I was heart broken.... She was my dream girl and i was a loyal dude back then... But after that I swore never to take any lady serious and to smash and move.

After i left her I began to understand why she was a maniac and spontaneous. She told me all of them who act such are into drugs, yet she was in the legion of Mary in our parish. I gave up and moved on.

ibkayee:
Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world, even if women wanted to only marry Nigerian men for money, statistically it wouldn’t even be feasible since there’s no money in the first place. So how can ‘glorification of money’ and 'unattainable lifestyle of celebs etc' be threatening the nuclear family unit when women are getting married to poor/average men every weekend. Also, marriage is too much of a social currency in Nigeria for people to be swayed by a few celebrities.

Can men take a bit of accountability for once, which one is they ‘fall victim and would now look to attain these standards set by Instagram celebrities and enforced by women’. So it’s women’s fault that men are harvesting the organs of friends and family in a bush somewhere to get rich?

I thought some of the main causes for divorce were things like infidelity, lack of communication, infertility blah blah blah.

ednut1:
the way indians team up to buy all the gas stations, fast food joins and do real estate ehn. Nigerians cant pull it off there will envy, people sleeping with another person wife or daughter, cheating, backstabbing . Sabotage etc. shame on us hahahaha

chigomiced:
90% of Nigerian men are like this.
They just want to make money and pay for love.
Zero game,just throwing money around and when people try to liberate them,they fight back.
There are more men who believe in buying love than men who don’t in Nigeria.

Juoflife1:
For someone who earns in another currency, it's cheap. If you go by the wages in Nigeria, it's not cheap. Minimum wage cannot even buy a bag of Nigerian rice

Fahvvy:
I didn't even need to look at the name of the moniker to know that this statement is coming from a woman ...

Guys follow this advice at your own peril!!

With the kind of entitled and broke women we have littered all over the place, it will take the grace of God to even own a fridge after you get married ...

Money that could be used for more productive venture will be used to pacifier the broke and entitled fellow who knows nothing but how to make incessant demands and complain ...

And even the ones that are somewhat well to do still have the whole "my money my money, his money my money" mentality, so don't even think it ...

And please don't come to my mention and tell me 'there are still good women out there', cause EVERY WOMAN on the earth still wants to be taken care of by a man she's bleeping with

And you talked about the economy up there, is there anything about the economy that mysteriously changes because a man has gotten married?!! ...

Once the kids starts coming, do you expect the man to neglect the kids welfare to build a house?

Whilst I advice early marriage, men please understand that there are some things that needs to be in place and things that will be expected of you as a man once you get married ...

AmotekunSW:
May God change your destiny from a beggar to a giver.

Evolutionlove:
Many Men are still not aware that They are SLAVEs of The World and Women, Most especially the Men at the Lower Food Chain.

These Women/Ladies/Girls are very much aware that they are the ones enjoying Life. They don't really give a fvck about Men, They care mostly about what they will benefit from the Stupid Men.

Nigeria has the Worst set of Men and Women I have ever come across in my entire life. Men made these Women/Ladies/Girls what they are today. So we are all feeling the Heat now and this is just the beginning. To find a Reasonable Woman in Nigeria now looks like a Rocket Science, Same thing applies to Men too but It's worst in these female genders. You can't even hold a healthy conversation with them, Before you It, They will start sizing you up financially, et all.

If I say make I chook mouth for this matter again. Night go meet me here.

Lastly know this, Top Men & Most Women are the Sole Enemy of Average/Poor Men.

Freshtruth:
Single ladies are now having it more than married woman.
It's well.
Most of them are single but their under is happly married

favour32:
Na second journey kill Mungo Park.

Why e be say if woman wan leave relationship, no amount of beg dey change her mind?

Why e be say if man wan leave relationship, small amount of beg dey change his mind?

VeryWickedMan:
A broke girl is worse than the Turkey/Syria earthquake.

Klass99:
Seven blessings to you!

One thing always stands out to me on threads like these - men cannot handle half of what they dish out to women in terms of infidelity but they love to dish it left, right and center.

advanceDNA:
Lol..... .its very obvious they were fvckimg b4 and they are still fvcking now..

u cant see it cos u are a woman and u guys are fond of emotional cheating...thats why its easy for u to see it as that.....

once a guy in the office makes u feel special, tell u you are pretty, compliment your hair, you string him along and enjoy his attention And many times u dont consider it a big deal because his penis is not entring u...

and thats why u expect the op to be blaming himself for his wife's dirty behavior and be calmly looking for how to fix a cheating adult...

.. its ridiculous and irritating... a married woman begging another man ....tuehhhh!!!

Tokskob2008:
If there is a void the other guy is filling and op isn't, forget it he can never fill it again. Once a woman has gone outside to fill a void or whatever that's the end even if the husband now starts to fill the void it will be too late and surely more lies will always be the cover up.

That message showed op married someone else wife..

falcon01:
sorry bruh, your wife loves him set her free so she can be with him!

flourishing247:
He's most likely her first love. You should first find out why she's reaching out to him. Is there a void in her life you are not filling up? Are you meeting her emotional needs?
......1
The text shows She's emotionally attached to this guy. It doesn't mean she does not love you but there is a small issue you guys need to resolve. Sir her down and talk to her camly to find out whats going on. ......2
This one no be shouting conversation oooo. Her response will determine if marriage will continue. I wish you all the best.

SeaTrade:
It is sad really,
Funny enough a lot of men don't know that a huge percentage of women cheat.
I've learnt not to care or overlook suspicious movement.But if I catch you,you go.You give me disease,I kill you with a high calibre gun at point blank range.I always tell them this.
If you Don born,you and your pikin must go.
Then when the child grows,she'd have to explain to him or her why her legs that she couldn't control made him/her lose me as a father and carry that burden/regret for the rest of her life,because I won't forgive her,neither will I accept her kids in my space.
Both the mama and the child will leave and I will ignore them till the world ends.
Their loss,not mine.

SeaTrade:
Na this same delusion dey fool most women.
Of course,other men will be talking to you na,
But what are they talking to you for?longterm or flings?
If the admiration from the "men" that admire these women no matter how they look were of genuine intent/interest,why then are they a legion of women in their 30s turning to milfs and trying to lockdown any available man even with their own money in their father's house?
One would think that these "men" that always admire them irrespective of their looks would have taken all of them off the dating market.
Na why boys dey plough through these women that cannot control themselves anyhow in the name of admiration and passing through a lot.
Before you know it,you're one used up bag of beans in your 40s ,highly religious ,single at expert levels trying to lock down a 28yr old boy with pregnancy that you use over tactics to acquire by hooking your legs around him as he's about to pass his juice.
Admiration will come,sieve through and pick a mate.
You must not Bleep everything,you no be dog!

ikeno:
You still very young na,they should stop pestering your life.at this age your still getting to understand your body and explore more.see mumu wey I be I think say you don clock 40 sef.

Ideservebetter:
I'm 31

pansophist:
Are Nigerians with western citizenship coming to Nigeria to pick a wife sexual exploitation and manipulation?

Why did you also underestimated these women in underdeveloped countries as idiots who can't think for themselves? You probably know little about non-western women.

Are Nigerian women docile and easily exploited? Or is Nigeria not an underdeveloped country again? If a wealthy man marry a poor woman, is he exploiting her?

Was men marrying low not how marriage have been from the beginning of time? Why is this one (going abroad to find a wife) surprising?

This is exactly what I discussed with you two days ago. The tendency for women to judge and interprete men's behavior with the most negative angle.

Nigerian women in the West also go back home to pick a husband. Are they exploiting these men? Ned Nwoko, a billionaire married broke Regina, is he exploiting her?

Is this not the dream of every woman to marry a man above her in social status? So how can this natural dynamics be interpreted as exploitation nitori olorun?

For the passport bros trends to stop, then the society have to be repaired to accommodate men interest, because at the end, everyone suffers.

You don't attack this men trying to protect themselves by insulting them, but Repairing the laws, social problems and reason why they are leaving. Responsibility is needed here.

Na by force to marry a masculine feminist? Na wa o. Lol

DonroxyII:
You no wan pay Royalty Abi ....

Person dey give you Sure Odds and e dey Bam But to Pay Royalty to Whatever makes those sure odds in his Head come difficult for you ..

Fail to Pay Royalty and See Shege ....

You are about to Learn the way of Witches/Wizards Version 2.0 .....

As e dey predict e dey sweet You but as e dey Cash Out e no dey sweet You ...

Man are Greedy .... He already had You under spell and If e Cast You e go gel ....

Better figure your way out Yourself is better than Committed to them(Spiritualists) Because Once You are Engulfed to Outsmart them usually lead to consequences....

Simply Pay Royalty and Be OK.... then Always give am Lamba cuz Nigga dey watch Your Soul as We dey watch Premier League ... if you lie give am e know !

AlterEgo00:
Good Evening Brothers..... I've said many times here,how each and every one of us finding this thread and TRP in General doesn't really know what God did for us.... Here's the reason why......

LordAdam16:
Women are not known for tact.

That is why they can confidently insult and attempt to assault male strangers that can rough them up in an argument. While men will exercise more care.

The problem is that every man is forced to play by the prevailing rules of engagement. So if you no get money, sorry. If you get money, but you no dey give, men wen dey give are the supermajority, so you gat shape up or them give you red card.

And the situation is very disappointing, because a girl can like everything about you. But if you don't give, then she has to explain to her mom, sisters, female relatives, friends, neighbors, what she is doing with you when most of their respective partners give. No be only guys dey receive requests. Gals do too. And if most women get support from their partners, why should her case be different?

A lot of the time, it's the humongous peer pressure that gets to them. Titi's husband bought her iPhone 14. Clara's boyfriend gave her N3m to start business. Amina's man placed her on a salary. And these are beside basic expenses like I gave this material to tailor, I like this shoe, let's go to the cinema and eat out today. But you can't buy "common" cream. Even the ones that don't ask, some Nigerian women don't, will be unhappy in the relationship.

When they've endured the implied and obvious shades from their besties, being looked down on because they couldn't land a man that can take care of them, and can't deal with the uncomfortable fact that all of them have the same vagina and there's nothing special about those with supportive partners (in fact, she get their respective files, Titi still dey run things with her ex, Clara dey double date); the offending mister will receive the text in the OP.

In fairness, it is human. If as a guy, you graduate, never see work for 5 years, while your course mates are buying cars, marrying and sending kids to school, slowly building their houses, emigrating; you'll be dejected. When you go meet one proprietor or managing director, he kon dey price you 30-40K salary, in your mind, you'll be like "I know what I deserve".

-Lord

Albertone:
Random Fact:
A society that claims a broke man has no business with women can't dictate the number of women he can be with after getting rich.

DonroxyII:
Greatly Captured ! .... This is Raw Truth and Facts!

But Don't Pity them Though ... We all Sleeps on the Bed we Lie .... Except for Disabled Ones !

DonroxyII:
Life is a Phase and You lived through that Phase ... You can still go back to it if your present Conditions changed