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Gadafii:
definitely when you travel you will meet ladies that are sexier than the local ones you have been dying for, their orientation are different as well, it’s important for a man to make money and travel the world first if possible, not jump into marriage

Gadafii:
definitely when you travel you will meet ladies that are sexier than the local ones you have been dying for, their orientation are different as well, it’s important for a man to make money and travel the world first if possible, not jump into marriage

GLouis:
You better stay away from her before she give you love portion for your indomie. We finally see your wedding pics for front page. I too will tell you congratulations. Until you eyes open after 14-20yrs. I just pray say you go for Remember your nairaland password by then

Raalsalghul:

Gadafii:
I have said it in my thread, I am saying it again, marriage is not important to men the way it is to women,don’t be forced or pressured to do it, you will blame your life forever till you die

Get money , travel, go to international tournaments, live concerts, network, and you will see how fulfilled that is

Acidosis:
I like your SIMPlicity though.

tensazangetsu20:
Allow her go. She go shock when she reach there. They all think getting married abroad is easy lol. Besides a student visa doesnt guarantee japa especially in the US but then even if you go as her dependant you arent allowed to work too.

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Sixfeetbelle:
Stop spewing this bullshit about her rejecting responsible men. Do you honestly in your heart of hearts believe responsible men are more than the number of deadbeats? Do you know the hurdle women pass through to fish out deadbeats from actual responsible men?

For this case, don't you know that for her to settle for a deadbeat, that it was only deadbeats that asked her out?

Samantha123:
If men can fall in love with unemployed women, so as women.

I have a cousin like that, she's unemployed and lives with her unemployed boyfriend.. And one thing that pisses me off about this cousin of mine is that she's in her mid 30s and has got this empty pride, she doesn't want to look for small piece jobs because she believes that she deserves better as if a lot of people didn't start from the bottom.

Most of the time when she calls me, already I know that she's going to ask for money so she could share it with her unemployed boyfriend... Last December she didn't even have money to come home for Christmas and my aunt had to sent her money to come home.

And already she has two kids from two different baby daddies and both of them were also unemployed when she had those kids, I think she's attracted to unemployed guys.

When we try talking to her about her situation, she gets aggressive... I once tried cautioning her and I ended up with a blue eye. I got her arrested in return because I wasn't studying law for nothing...

But in the end we made peace.

pocohantas:
So like this now, you and that woman husband na the same thing. Only say you go school.

E go better!

pocohantas:
I know how much you hate lifestyle inflation, but won’t you be a one eyed man in the land of the blind? I hope you are safe there sha. All of them fit dey carry their problems come give you.

Na true love. Give him time, he would blow.

Adaisback:
I have said it before and am saying it again. I am all for those people they call simps. I want to marry a simp man. Am beautiful and won't allow one yeye man to lay his filthy fingers on me. Team simps
If you are a simp, am all for you biko. Even if you no sabi do, no yawa, I go dey do the do and we will communicate effectively and that will make our relationship an everlasting one

pocohantas:
I thought women shouldn’t marry for money?
I thought women should build with men.

No be the building be this? If their fights disturb you too much, give them building materials.

How you take get this kind neighbour, Tetanus?

tensazangetsu20:
As in the only African country better than Nigeria is south Africa and that one presently na comma.

tensazangetsu20:
You are tired of Nigeria and want to go to Ghana. Well you can do so but be warned the Ghanaian economy is doing way worst than the Nigerian economy at the moment so you the suffering go be times 2 of what you are seeing in naija.

thebosstrevor1:
I dont think so, from what i saw in accra.

Accra is a lovely and more organized city than lagos and abj, infact lagos and abj are villages when compared to accra.

The cars are neat and there are lot of luxury cars on the read when compared to lagos or abuja.

Lot of serviced apartments and luxury apartments, in accra. Lot of luxury brands and luxury shopping..infact lot of construction going on..there is also a Lamborghini dealership in accra...i don't think we have that in Nigeria.

The architectures are awesome, lot of foreigners walking on the street, lot of kfc in every corner , something you will never see in Nigeria.

In the next 10 years, accra might become the Johannesburg of west africa.

tensazangetsu20:
LoL story. Live and experience the Ghanaian economy for two to three months then come back again. Op it you go to Ghana the kind suffering wey go choke you eh

tensazangetsu20:
LoL story. Live and experience the Ghanaian economy for two to three months then come back again. Op it you go to Ghana the kind suffering wey go choke you eh

Ballzproblem2:
most women aren't happy in their marriage, mostly because of poor finances ,poor sex life .

Acidosis:
He is insa.ne., and that is the fact. If you've ever met an elderly person suffering from dementia, you'll understand his predicament.

Tinubu's biggest voting bloc right now are condemned riff raffs and dunderheads with no ambition whatsoever. It is easier to cash out 200k from ATM than find a medical doctor campaigning for BAT. Educated men and women can see than Tinubu has lost both his mind and senses.

jeffmatt4u:
So my question is, what is really happening to our married women?
Some conclusion I drew are
1. Maybe they are not happy in marriage -

Answer - If they are not happy in the marriage, is it the man feeding liabilities, run up and down everyday to put food on the table for them that is happy too?

2. Maybe they marry who they don't love -

Answer - Who love help? Love wey no fit pay bills, that one na Love?
Moreover,we all are just managing each other, many men too didn’t marry who they love but na condition make dem settle for what is available.
Have you ever wonder why poor men who became rich always marry a beautiful second wife or have mistresses outside? It is because those are the people they really wanted when they were younger but had no choice than to settle with the lazy, fat, ugly, dirty financial burden they call wives.

3. They just want to taste another man -

Answer - Maybe. A woman that was never faithful in a relationship when younger won’t likely stay faithful in marriage. Wedding or marriage doesn’t change the foundation we laid when we were younger.

4. They needed money -

Answer - Yes, they always need money yet can’t hustle for it legally.


5. They just want to flirt - same thing.

passionberry:
An experienced hotel Supervisor needed in an hotel at egbeda for immediate employment.

Criterias: 35years above
Must be a family man.

Any other tribe is welcome except yoruba and Delta.

Must reside at egbeda axis ..

Interested candidate should call this number..

07068450692

Zonefree:
We used to be friends until early last year she met one guy online. Dude told her he based in Yankee, na so this my friend tell me say no more knacks cos she's now in love and she no wan cheat on her man.
I respected her decision.


Same person trying to cheat on her man.

Funny thing is, I can't grant her access to my glorious gbola again. She doesn't worth it.

Goldmynemaniac:
Magician!

18 hours to fear women yet you still have 24 hours left

When people say they hate mathematics, they actually mean they hate using their brains.

Goldmynemaniac:
SIMPle arithmetic

Since 1 day = 24 hour(s)
If women-fearing hour(s)= 18 hours
Then,
Available men-fearing hour(s) = 24 - 18
= 6 hours
Final men-fearing hour(s) = 6 - x
Where x represents time spent eating, shitting, sleeping...nairalanding and etc-ing.

Therefore,

Men-fearing hour(s) is/are insignificant

Iamuk:
SIMPle question SIMPle answer.

blueAgent:
Sad.

A country that should be competing with the likes of Qatar,Kuwait,UAE,Saudi in terms of development and wealth.

I don't know what is wrong with the blackman.

Nazgul:
The first question you should ask any girl you're interested in is what she does for a living.

If she can't give you any sensible answer, abort mission or else you'll become the job she's desperately looking for.

luvyaself95:
that how one was telling me that she will give me her number if i buy what she is selling from her, without swallowing her saliva i replied her what am going to do with her number.
imagine the audacity.

Simeonjoe1:
Lol

Tinubu is so good at playing opposition so tey e dey play opposition for his ruling party. Obj Pdp use my guy do shege! Anything na opposition and attack....
Even if this guy turn president e go still dey oppose him government (ambode comes to mind).
People like this are better left to be labor leaders or vehement critics than an administrator.

Acidosis:
Gba jo ba lowo wan ke?? Tinubu wants to grab power from Buhari