[quote author=last_apostle link=topic=647069.msg8139921#msg8139921 date=1302949060]Seven out of every ten men are hot tempered for sure. Abusive wives who embarrasses their husband wit abuses,hail curses on d generation of d mans extended families are sure to get a slap or two from at least five of these men.it only turns violent wen the woman in question charges back and slap. Imagine a woman telling u,it is your mother dat is a love-peddler or thunder fire your father or even i pity been married into dis useless family of yours. You see,it takes a Godly woman to really term the temperament of his man. Why challenge a man when u no he seniors u and can loose his temperance any day any time. My advice to u girl is if u love dis many,change your ways of confronting him and go back to him. For him to always apologise to u shows he loves u but loses his temper each time u become ABUSIVE. U can only run away if he drinks,come back and beat u,dont respect u and is a socio path. Good day[/quote]Some ladies just don't learn.
When he told you to leave his house, why not leave . Abi na him born you?
Why stay with a man when you know he is hot tempered.
All I'm saying is that sometimes a lie can be justified . . . As far as it doesn't endanger the other person's life or freedom, somethings are just not necessary to be asked or said. I mean seriously if it were that big a deal, like Dayo is claiming, every man will want to find out before he marries a woman. But not all men can be bothered with these things!
When you make some things that are not your business an issue, then you deserve to be lied to. He asked her 'several times. . . Jeez . . I'd have lied too!
Maybe if he had just just backed off or asked her in a less judgmental way, she would have felt more at ease to tell him the truth!
My friend, lies about abortion can not be justified.
Remember she confessed when they started having child bearing issues. THAT IS GUILTY CONSCIENCE.
My friend married a lady with damaged womb due to abortion, but he never complained, because she told him every thing before they got married.
Today the are miraculously blessed with children.
Some pasts should never be concealed before marriage.
macjive01: my years of studying women i have found out that they cheat not just because they need ordinary sexual fulfillment but because they want that cocaine-rush-feel one gets from a new secret lover (be it man or woman). its crazy but it true , for if she wants just sexual fulfillment in the scenario her husband is not adequate, a mere self servicing or a vibrator wud do the job.
You are correct but VIBRATORS don't work well with Nymphos .They always look for stronger men because they are insatiable.
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=642473.msg8114755#msg8114755 date=1302664606] Taking it personally?!?! You obviously need to go read this whole thread over because nothing about what I have written indicates that I'm taking it personally. Perhaps I should be asking you that question. Are you one of those older aged people who is trying to obtain a PhD?! You seem to have a habit of asking other people why they are taking things personally.
I don't know what "type" it is that you are referring to but you really need to check yourself. Because I asked a question doesn't mean I have an alternative motive here.
Yupp, pure jackass
I totally agree about both parties being prepare. Chat's why I always carry a pack of condoms, both male and female]. Not that I'm walking around looking for sex, its just that if a situation arises, I wanna be prepared.
Well said!!! Like I was telling Nekai, you don't know how many women I see here who put a guy through school, wait for the guy while he's away, or put their needs aside for the sake of a guy, only to have the guy leave them. I'm not saying the guy is out to get her or set her up for failure but she really needs to guard herself financially, educationally, emotionally, and any other way possible.
And what about the wives of male lecturers? They're all happy and dandy when they husbands have no time for them abi?
lol, well now you know
lol, I know Africans are in Brooklyn. I'm one of them Chai, you live in the burbs. . . I'm so sorry to hear that lol j/k [/quote]Please tell me how many women does that at this age.
The Op can go for her PHD but she really needs to create a balance between career and relationship, because getting a PHD is not that easy.
I see a lot people going about their careers forgetting that their relationships are also important.
cap28: ^^^^ dunderhead - the russian military were monitoring air traffic over libya using their satellite system on the day that the western media claimed he launched airstrikes against his own people and guess what they found:
cap28: Listen dumbass ive been humouring your infantile rantings but you are now beginning to irritate me, - intelligent people do not rely on only one source of information when trying to establish what is going on in the world, do you expect me to try and engage in a conversation with someone like you who only relies on the BBC, CNN and al jazeera do you realise just how ridiculous you sound?
There was no revolutionary movement in libya the situation in libya is completely different from what happened in egypt and tunisia why are you having difficulty understanding this simple fact, in libya what you had were armed marauding gangs of al qaeda operatives who mounted an armed insurrection against a legitimate govt, what did you expect gadaffi to do - invite them over for tea? What happens to failed coup plotters in nigeria? are they invited over to aso rock to engage in dialogue with the govt or are they lined up against the wall and shot in the back of the head?
The no fly zone implemented over libya was granted on the basis of lies and fabrications in order to justify america, france and britain's objective of interevening in libya in order to overthrow gadaffi, five UN security council members were so oppposed to it that they abstained from voting in favour of it (China, Russia, Brazil, Germany and india) this is why 3 african pawns (nigeria, gabon and south africa) had to be brought in to secure the required number of votes. I repeat there is no evidence that gadaffi ever fired on unarmed protesters and this has been corroborated by the russian military and even the US defence secretary robert gates. unless you are privy to confidential information that proves otherwise i suggest you stop talking out of your back passage.
you sound totally clueless and therefore i am wasting my time even trying to engage with you, with regard to your last comment about the woman who claimed to have been ra.ped by gadaffi's forces if you are clever enough try and research the story of the kuwaiti incubator babies in 1991 which was used as a justification by the US to invade iraq, perhaps when you find out the background of that story and how it was used by the western media to get backing for a US ground invasion into iraq then you might be able to understand what is actually going on until then, i woudl advise you to keep your mouth firmly shut until you have something intelligent to say.
OH, see who is calling another man dumbass.
So you finally agreed that GADAFFI killed some people, but your new theory is that those people are Al qaeda operatives. mumu.
Since you do not watch on international media, you would not have seen DR Sayf al-Islam Gaddafi interviews or are you also claiming he never granted an interview to the BBC?
You seem to be a CAVE MAN and you are totally clueless about events happening around you.
May be tomorrow you will tell us there was no rigging during the last election.
cap28: which revolution took place in libya? so in your mind a group of criminals carrying guns equates to a revolutionary movement?.
at no point did Gadaffi and his sons admit to killing innocent civillians - that is purely a figment of your imagination, Gadaffi has merely been trying to defend himself and his regime from these dangerous al qaeda thugs who are trying to overthrow his regime - please try and get it right my friend.
You say they dont know how to use their weapons - thats funny cos they've been doing a very good job massacring a lot of black africans:
2muchlogic: Hey Emma! stop it! First of all the revolution took place in Tunisia before it took place in Egypt if you are referring to 2010 - 2011; secondly, both countries had a western media present before and during the revolutions. But Libya was closed to the west and they did not have a clue what was going on, they bombed him based on assumptions and accusations! Do you think a revolution should happen in Libya just because it happened in those 2 countries?
My friend the revolution was sweeping across the Meddle East and Libya is of no exception. It took the UN a month after the crisis to approve NO FLIGHT ZONE.
No western GOVT bombed Libya b4 the NO FLIGHT ZONE
I think you mean Saif al- Islam? Hey Emma if you are an average person glued to those channels then i am afriad you have been brainwashed! try to read more widely, so you can get a balanced view okay! Have you heard of the killings ion Bahrain? In the Yemen? In Syria? Did you know there was an uprising in Saudi Arabia? Did you know the Saudis sent troops and tanks into Bahrain? Have you heard of the Israelis bombing palestinians? Why have they all not been bombed by Nato and the U.S?
Yes there where uprising in those countries, but but denying that GADAFFI did not kill his people is bad.
No! Most of them were part of Gadaffis so called Brutal regime 8 weeks ago, why are they saints now? They are his ex-soldiers, policemen, civil servants, al qaeda and yes some gullible citizens
Why are they gullible ? fight for freedom after 40 years. May be IBB OR OBJ should come and rule us for 40 years, let us see if you will not start an uprising.
cap28: which atrocities are you talking about? if its the ones in libya - i hope you know that it has now been proven that gadaffi did not shoot on unarmed protesters as was claimed by the western press[
These so called libyan rebels who you seem intent on defending were actually raiding police and army depots for guns and ammunition they also killed a lot of gadaffi's police and soldiers, would you have preferred that gadaffi sit back and allow them to carry on with that?
or perhaps gadaffi should have allowed these criminals to rampage their way into tripoli where they would have massacred thousands of people including blacks africans who they have been targetting since this their so called revolt started.
just in case you missed it these rebels that you are defending have been carrying out mass lynchings of black africans including nigerians - anyone with black skin caught in the eastern region of libya at this point in time is a marked man or woman - do these sound like innocent protesters interested in freedom and democracy?
if you are still clinging to that lame beleif that america and france intervened in libya and ivory coast in order to stop atrocities then i dont know what more to say to you.
you should ask yourself why america hasnt said a word about the deployment of saudi police to bahrain to shoot protesters there, they also seem to be mysteriously silent over the killings of protesters by the yemeni police.
also if france was so interested in protecting civillian lives why were they shelling a densley populated city like abidjan from the air and why were they standing by watching ouattara's milita massacre hundreds of ivoriens in abidjan?
my stand on this remains the same - america has no business being in libya, france has no business being in ivory coast - both nations are only in those countries for their respective selfish economic interests not to protect civillian lives.
Now i can see that you are deliberately running away from the truth.
OK, if you claim Gadaffi did not kill any one in Lybia, why is he ressisting the revolution after 40 years in power.
The same revolution took place in Algeria and Egypt, an there are accounts of govt troops killing their people.
I watch Gadaffi and his son Salim speak on Ajazerra , CNN and BBC, and they never denied killing their people.
Those people you call rebels were actually Lybian citizens , they do not even know how to use the weapon they have. but they have to fight for their souls.
Before you start defending those TYRANTS, try put your self in shoes of those suffering people.
cap28: You i.diot my location has nothing to do with who i am and what i belieive in, cant you get that thru your thick skull, you are in africa and yet look at how you reason, you defend an imperialist intervention of a sovereign state, you defend the fact that these same imperialists stand by and watch Ouattara and his goons, mow down innocent men women and children, and gang ra.pe women in front of their husbands - are you normal at all!!!!!
The same French troops supported Gbagbo . During the last Ivorian crisis.
Gbagbo back by French troops killed Robert Guéï, his wife and several member of his families, including the interior minister Émile Boga Doudou.
cap28: Its funny how you refer to a similar situation happening in nigeria when it has already happened - have you forgotten June 12 1993? did IBB not annull the election and transfer power to abacha in complete disregard of the wishes of the nigerian people, can you explain why the west did not intervene then to restore MKO to his rightful position? didnt IBB hold nigerian to ransom? wasnt there wides scale violence and killing of many of MKO's supporters by the police and military? IBB unilaterally annulled an election , did anything happen to him, did the west send UN troops to bomb him out of the presidential palace.
the problem with people liek you is that you cant think critically, learn to understand situations holistically instead of accepting western propaganda - a US senator is going on record to say that there was massive electoral fraud and that ouattara did not win the presidential elections , listen to him describing how ouattara's trooped lined up men women and children against the wall and put bullets in their heads, listen to how women were gang violated and had their throats cut by ouattara's troops, listen to how foreign UN troops cried when they saw the brutallity meted out by ouattara's troops to young men women and children :
Africans will always be enslaved by the whites, because our leaders are killing us economical, politically and socially.
When they steal our money, they hand it over to the whites . All most all African leaders operate foreign account with stolen funds. Yet some peep claim the whites are enslaving us.
Can you tell me one western leader with foreign account in Africa?
Just look at Robert Gabriel Mugabe, Muammar Muhammad al-Gaddaf et.al. they are busy killing their people, they do not understand the word HUMAN RIGHT.
And some people are blaming the WEST for Africa's problem.
MyJoe: I feel you. It is a sad day for all us, seeing foreign boots in the Ivory Coast to arrest its president. But if that is what it takes to halt Gbagbo's recalcitrance and his army and youth brigades' moronic bloodletting which has sent hundreds of thousands feeling into neighbouring countries while others cower and starve inside their houses, so be it. You see, as long as "African leaders" continue to behave like children, the "colonial masters" will continue to treat us as such. Gbagbo wasn't challenging nada. Show that I am wrong. Gbagbo has always been close to Paris and the French looked the other way when soldiers from his ethnic group killed Guei to make way for him in 2000. The French created a buffer zone and protected Gbagbo from the New Forces back in 2002 when Soro's boys threatened to overrun Abidjan. And French businesses in the Ivory Coast did rather well under Gbagbo. All the talk of removing Gbagbo and installing Quatarra to protect "French business interest" is knee-jerk conjecture.
I really like you analysis.
If Gbagbo and Ouattara benefited from the French Govt. So why is Gbagbo complaining.
If Gbagbo had stepped down after the election . The French will have rewarded him and protected his assets.
Most African leader are just too selfish. They can never learn anything.
jmaine: Guy , are you not ashamed that your Useless SAHARA " DIS" REPORTERS source have been put to bed with this : - http://thenationonlineng.net/web3/news/33553.html . .Guess you never cared to read it cos you were only being mischievous like i said earlier . . . . My bro . . .We are not in support of rigging in any form but we are against cheap smear campaigns and the appaling journalism the SAHARA "DIS" REPORTERS are serving the opposition after being paid heavily . .
PRO BB camp. Una and SaharaMUMU no dey try at all . . .
See your self.
When the-same SAHARA REPORTERS was fighting for GEJ were where you. \
Now SAHARA REPORTERS is bad for criticizing GEJ and PDP.
Let me tell you GEJ does not determine what goes on in PDP . His Godfather OBJ DOES.
will you close that gaping hole you call a mouth, do you think Ouattara is there to serve the interest of the ivory coast people or the economic interests of france, in your dumb mind do you seriously think france took all this trouble to send troops to remove Gbagbo because they're interested in implementing democracy in ivory coast or merely interested in protecting their vast economic investments . when are you going to wake up and understand that this is all about NEO COLONIAL RESOURCE CONTROL, dURING THE RWANDAN CRISIS (a crisis which they instigated) DID FRANCE SEND TROOPS to protect their former colonial subjects the tutsis who were being slaughtered by the hutus? DID THE UN send troops? What did Clinton say when he was asked to send troops to prevent the loss of lives there? do yourself a favour and close that gaping hole u call a mouth before flies take up permanent residence in it.
My friend all FRANCOPHONE countries in Africa are still controlled by FRANCE directly or indirectly.
Beaf: Lol! What if the reformed PDP opens its doors to ACN? Lol! I'm sure the best of ACN would rather deal with PDP than deal with the cabal thats now in CPC; as we speak a confused Buhari is holding desperate talks with Ciroma and Ribadu for a Northern consensus candidate.
Justcash: [b]@Onlytruth; It is a shame that you are indulging in unnecessary self-pity. Who told you that APGA is a useless party? Let me start by telling you that Igbos are naturally democratic. We don't believe in centralised politics as Yorubas do. That is the difference. An Igbo man cannot bow, be forced or deceived into voting just one man or party for any reason. This is a Historical fact. It is a pattern that will never change. Historically, The Yorubas had Obas that controlled them religiously, socially and politically. This is why you see them easily queuing behind Tinubu (Who they perceive as their political head). Naturally, it is expected that they would queue behind ACN. Just as they bowed and supported the supremacy of their obas, they have a tendency of bowing for a party that can convince them that they are their leaders. divergence of views was overridden by the Obas pronouncements. It is totally not out of hand to see Yoruba folks worshipping Tinubu here. It is naturally in them. Nothing will change that. Ask yourself if you can worship any individual as an Igbo? Even Ojukwu had some intense oppositions that scuttled his dictatorial plans. That is the source of the word, "SABO" i.e Sabotage. As soon as you impose people on Igbos, they will protest, especially if we have the means to. On the other hand, Igbos had council of chiefs who debated issues through very hot arguments and disagreements. Divergence of views was tolerated. Decisions were based on popular wish. How do you actually expect a particular political figure to control people with this political orientation? If we had the orientation of Hausas and Yorubas, APGA would be winning in all the Igbo states. The divergence of views and votes does not in any way reflect weakness. It reflects the popular choice of the people. How else could a supposed Yoruba party come to Igboland and flex their muscle if not for the people's belief in their candidate? If the scenario that is happening now in Anambra was happening in the west, the Party would have been voted over individual. If the governorship election is free and fair, You will notice that the Igbo states will be won by candidates from different political parties. when that happens, Igbos will be rejoicing that we voted our preferred candidates, while Yorubas will be dancing that they voted for their party. Sullyvan Chime stands to win in Enugu, APGA stands to win in Imo, The ACN Candidate stands to win in Abia etc, does that mean that Igbos are silly? what is even the benefit of voting one party into power in a whole region if not to have a centralised political system? Does that system work for Igbos? No! It doesn't. You must know your history to understand how things happen in your hometown and ethnic group. Stop this your self pity. It makes me feel like you don't know your people. [/b]
OH it has turned into a YORUBA bashing tread.
I thought we where discussing Anambra election in Igbo land.
[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=640736.msg8074675#msg8074675 date=1302196971]First of all, this is SAHARA REPORTERS we are talking about here, the CITY PEOPLE of internet news media,
Secondly, Let's assume that President Jonathan should decide to bribe Journalists for whatever reason, I am certain that sahara reporters correspondent would not be a part of the people invited. Secondly, if this were true, I don't think 200'K and a Galaxy tab would be enough to sway reporters who for the giants like TELL, Guardian, Newswatch, Vanguard, The NATION and such other top news houses.
Also what does it take to stuff an envelope full of cash, throw in a Galaxy Tab, and place it in a JEG/SAMBO campaign bag (which should be everywhere now) and claim its a bribe, So let's say a girl takes a picture in which she is n.aked lying on a bed covered with PDD embossed bedsheet, with torn underwear and clothes and claims she was rap.ed by Jonathan, does that mean its true just cos the bedsheet carries the PDP logo?! I spent a lot of money to get a good education to be fooled by unsubstantiated claims like this,
Why would Jonathan hand out bribe in a PDP bag!? Aren't these things done via unmarked envelopes? And thru 4th party agents? Puleeeze
People keep reffering to the SNG incident in which even the SNG has come out to say it was a misunderstanding. The money was not a bribe but a gift from the office of the president as transport. Its not unusual. I'm sure even the white house has some form of renumeration for visitors to the white houuse either thru souveniers or monetary gifts.
PLS let's not let our deep seated hatred for PDP cloud our ability to reason and discern truth from propaganda.[/quote]200k + Galaxy tab(150k) = 350k na small thing be that?
The same Nigerian journalist went to IBB VILLA in Minna last year thanks to RAYMOND DOKPESI.
Bros A Nigerian journalist will collect any thing from any politician.
LadyT: No I dont think any child deserves that kind of history. Im 99% sure the husband will abuse the child in some way at some point it will cause problems. But having been barren for 20years if the woman is strong enough she should go it alone move away where people would not know the history of the mother or the child but that also brings about 34098324 problems when the child wants to know where he/she comes from.
May God not bring us this kind of misfortune.
Lady T,
Forget that 20 years barrenness, it will be difficult for any man to accept that child.
Politics › Re: The SE (Igbo) Should Be Commended For Supporting GEJ by emmatok(m): 8:39pm On Apr 17, 2011
[/quote]Please tell me how many women does that at this age. 
