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You people should stop writting relationship post, when you do not have sense ,


You are not a woman, so stop talking what you think will make a woman stick to you, it does not work as you think.


A woman wants a nice and caring guy , women see love as a guy that can stand by them, and fight for them

Nothing more .



quote author=MadeINchenzen2 post=111335534]Guys that will always be in control of a ladys attention, respect and loyalty are the ones that does not give half a concern about what she does, where she goes, or who she's flirting with.

You can both be dating... but try to give her as much space to explore all her fantasies. Stop asking her useless questions that gives her the impression you are insecure...

when a lady knows you are insecure, you give her the impression that indicates she deserves a better guy than u !!! And trust me, it's a matter of time before she abandons that relationship.

Perhaps she thought she was dating the hottest guy in campus, but your insecurities has explained to her that you actually do not have the guile and guts to carry yourselves as the number one trending guy in campus... your insecurity will automatically put her on a mission to find the coolest and hottest lady's guy in campus and date him after dumping you.

She loves the fact that you feel insecure, she enjoys seeing you miserable like that... sweating on your balls to keep her all for yourself... you are the newest clown in the circus

You always call her phone to ask her whereabouts, you always want to know where she went and who was the guy she was talking to, you want to see who she's chatting with on Facebook or WhatsApp.

My guy stop all that and give her space... focus on other things and give yourself more attention. The less questions u ask, the less attention you give her... the more respect you command, the more attractive u will appear to her.


Be wise[/quote]

Idiot,








quote author=ganisucks post=111267912]Foolish selfish woman. Does she not want her husband to enjoy his life. There's enough of him to go around. Instead of hating on the side chic, she should join the side chic and her husband in bed for a 3some[/quote]

Go and sit down you are talking rubbish, most mother's are selfish, they do not want any other girl close to their son, they want to be the one eati g his money, some are even posses and on an assignment that their sons must not marry.

Is like your own mother is still brain washing you.



uote author=TheWolfen post=111193562]

Parents have a strong point in their kids life irrespective of their decision being right or wrong but heaven always respect their wish or do you think u can love a young person more than his/her parent?
Her moves might not be right but there is no underestimating parental strong influence which is usually out love.[/quote]

You have a mental problem if the only thing your girls provide is sex, go for deliverance let them pray for you so you can have better girls around you, your curse head attracts round girls reason you thing all women offer is sex alone.



Your mother offers only sex, but not all women ,70percwnt if Nigeria women now take care of half of the finacial burdens at home .








uote author=LIGHTHEARTED0 post=111155996]




if only SIMPle men boys out there can have abundance mentality you will know girls ain't shit


This is the same thing those pussyyy people do whenever they are in sexrelationship, even before they break up with you they already have handful of 'toaster' on their DMs



What else do you offer in the sexrelationship even with his usual spending than your rotten punanl


cheer up girl, the dlck ain't yours it just your turn [/quote]

I hope nairaland boys can read this,
Because yesterday a lady wanted to leave a man, they were vomiting rubbish
Besides they are worst than the �



Men are wicked and women are learning from them.


















quote author=Faithqueen post=111162244]I just found out that my husband has two children. The mummy of his kids is his spiritual mother's daughter. They call each other sister and brother.

My husband has been using social media to do other things as well. He had an affair six months after our marriage. He recently had a baby with her six months ago. She is living with a guy and calling him husband. All of my husband's outside brothers and sisters know; except for history sisters that share the same mummy and daddy. I don't know if the spiritual mummy knows about it.

My husband has been riding her around in our car calling her his wife and introducing her to Apostles, pastors, etc. When we married we were told that committing a duty is punished up to seven years.

The gentleman does not even know. I need advice on what to do. He has been telling other women to come to Nigeria and marry him.

Apparently he is scamming people. It will be frown upon if the mummy amd daddy of the woman finds out that he married me traditionally and we had a white wedding. I remember now two months before we got married hearing a lady making noises on the phone. I should have known better.

Advice please.[/quote]

[qtjatbis where most of you men lack sense.
Wait I will give you a break down

1. A woman wakes up as early as 5am why you still sleeping, ,she will prepare food for you, and prepare the kids for school, take the kids to school, then come back home to clean the house and keep the home tidy, then she goes back to pick the kids cook launch for the kids, wash cloths , then prepare dinner for you, wash all the toilets ,ensure the kids go to bed, guild the kids , them ensure you the husband is ok with the food , some foolish men will still demand for another meal, asking her to cook a new one, she is tired the man will demand for sex, and this continues.

Some of this women, wake in the morning do all this and still go to work, rush back and prepare food , and you open your mouth to say what are they brining into the marriage .


With the incomplete money most of you bring to the home , even women not working this days, borrow money from family and friends to support the home.

Go and employ a nanny and a cook nah, mumu men every where,

Not that the money they bring is complete, it is incomplete.








te author=24brains post=111156065] what exactly did she do for him? Now don't bring sex into it as both parties enjoy it for pleasure[/quote]

Collect what, this naira land boys , making most men to behave like foools,

Collect what back, hope she can break your head with bottle when you come for it, can you replace all the stress she has done for you in that marraige , if you are to pay her for all she did for a year can that shop replace it,

Just go and sleep
Mumu man, give me her number ,let me advice her to bring army and break your big head.



Can't you make your marriage work?












uote author=Nacoss25 post=110462179]I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks[/quote]

You see how myopic you are, and what sacrifice did this guy made for her? Putting her in the house, is not a sign he treated her well, how sure are you he was not suffering her, only knacking her morning and night, how sure are you she has not been the bread winner,

At least for the five years ,she has been cooking for him, cleaning his house, washing his cloths , only God knows if the guy was not busy cheating and maltreating her, can anybody leave a good thing , if he has been good the girl will not leave

Go and employ a cook nah.



author=odinson1 post=111144134][/quote]

You are ranting ,like men are not doing worse.
I have seen ladies spent more than 10years with a guy ,and the next thing is my parents do not like her, or another lady is pregnant for me.



















uote author=odinson1 post=111084381]If you don't listen and open your eyes to the Real world around you,you will have no one but yourself to Blame. Continue Sacrificing your Resources,energy and time on Women who don't and will never LOVE you. Keep on being The Good man who will come like a Knight and sweep them off their feet. No one's stopping you really.

We'll just wait here,when you make a thread about how "my wife is denying me sex" "i took my wife abroad and she chased me out of our home" "my girlfriend who I'm paying her school fees is cheating on me" , we will be ever ready to give you some Advice.

The Photo below is the Summary of Many things We Guys have been saying in this forum over and over. Women Will never Appreciate your sacrifices for her,she will leave you for the man her Privates Beats for. They lack the Ability to Grasp the concept of Gratitude,honour and Sacrifice.
A word is enough for the wise

Lalasticl.ala please take this to the Frontpage so more men can see and Avoid Making sacrifices for women who Can't love them.[/quote]

Your post is senseless,

You do not generalise because of one woman, how will you feel if a woman comes here to generalise because of one man, I know of, women that has done more than this, sacrifice more than eight years of their life , and spend more than eight years of their life with a guy and still get dumped ,because the guy feels she is not his type, this life there are terrible men, same way we have some terrible women, only a fool will use one person to generalise.



guys have done worse things than this, if all women should use what guys are doing to generalise,than what the lady is, doing is nothing compare to what most guys have done.

You write like a fool, by generalising, that even if a man sacrifice for a woman, she will still not appreciate, you can not be stupid in real life and be stupid on media . It was on this media a woman went on her knee to appreciate her husband and openly , it was on this media a woman built a house for her husband ,

The fact that you have a bad head that is making you meet bad women breaking your heart, is still not enough reason to come here ,and write like a frustrated fool.

Rather go pray on.your head so it will attract the right woman.

You are not his type, do not force it, trust me if you are his type ,he would have toast you a long time ago,

You will destroy the friendship if you force relationship with him

It is a man that should love a woman, let the love come from him first.


Aunty look forward and accept other guys coming .



quote author=Sheleads post=110466509]I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there.

Do you Msc, you can do it in Noun, then get a lecturing job, and do phd.





quote author=Betterprospect post=111023103]Good day Nairalander. I'm single, 30 years old. I studied agriculture related course at University level, and I presently worked in that field and I earned about 120k monthly.

I feel unfulfilled and I'm lacking interest day after day. The unfulfillment brewed mostly from my bosses egoistic and narcissistic approach to his employee, the insane working hours, and the lack of liberty, and most importantly, I feel I could do better. Now I have a meagre 2 million naira saved up, small? I know. Buy I'd like to pursue my passion in tech albeit from ground zero.

Now my dilemma is:

1. Seeing that I'm old and already past my prime for a career change at 30 yrs old, does a pursue of another career make sense?

2. Knowing that 2 million is small and would not last long. Does is it make sense to just up and leave?

3. I have a small biz I ideal which I feel could give me close to 50k monthly, but thing is, this is Nigeria and I might be wrong.

4. Should I just suck it up and continue for another year or two? Everyone I asked seems to think I should.

P,S. I worked 12 hours a day and its impossible I merge the two together.[/quote]

Lie lie story , when she knows she will not give him, why did she allow them test her, to confirm her kidney is same with his?

Any way my advice is very simple , if the operatoon is taking place in Usa ,abroad, let her give the success rate might be high,but if the operation is taking place here , uhmm it is risky oooo, so they will not lose two children,
who will now take care of the kids? If two of them risk their lives .










quote author=Hamachi post=110989641]My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?[/quote]

If you want to go far in life , leave that friend, he is an old fool, trust me most people on your street are laughing at you guys, at 34, he should, have a Fience, planning to settle down, or a wife with kids, he has low self esteem, reason he is going for small girls he can subdue, his self esteem is so low, that he can not stand and talk to mature girls,. We have them on the street we call them brother ode.

He can not go far in life, aside sex what can small girls offer him, at his age he need more than sex, I am sure he is still very poor at that age.


,quote author=iKON11 post=110928210]I'm 31 and my friend is 34 years. Lately we've been having some issues over the above topic.
I don't know why but he takes so much pleasure in sleeping with girls he's far older than. Like 18, 19 years old girls (very tender girls).

Anytime I complain about this, it becomes an issue. He even think I'm jealous of him, in fact he told me today to stop been jealous but frankly I feel very embarrassed anytime he brings such girls to our gathering.

We are new in this area but people have already taken notice of this and its even rubbing off on me now.

The funny thing is he doesn't even feel any shame or remorse about this.[/quote]

[See man mad, most of those girls might be below 18, girls always like reducing age

It Is only low taste guys that go out with teenagers










quote author=Belafonte post=110929602]

Sorry to say but you're simply a jealous asss mufucka

Does he trouble you over your poor taste in women? Werey. GTFOH[/quote]

And why do men always demand for aex ,when they help women? What is wrong if he should allow her stay without asking for sex?

Most Nigeria men are scrumbs









uote author=Nonexisting post=110922873]So because she was homeless, she should go about fuccking every dick around her? Doesn't she have a hometown she can move temporary to? Nigerian women are always quick to broke shame men but they can never ever take responsibilities. There are many homeless men and I bet they don't go about fuccking women for accommodations. She is a prostitute and a lazy one at that. She could have taken those children with her to the village rather than breaking her marital vows.[/quote]

Did you read well? Hustling and he can not pay rent of self contain, thean has abadoned the woman .


go and read well.








quote author=Zonefree post=110918581]While the husband was outside the country hustling for the betterment of his family, his beloved Nigerian wife was busy sharing kpekus like Tom-Tom to a riffraff. Tueh


To get married to a Nigerian girl is 4th most dangerous things on earth![/quote]

This one is an idiot, if at this age he can not placed his mum on 30000 salary monthly then he is a,sick, if your mum is still poor, do not think of wife , eo not think of girl, at least open a shop for her first , or open a kios, how can your mum be hawking ,when you are already a lawyer.

If you placed that woman on 30,000 salary monthly she will manage , most of this women hawking are not making profit of 1000 daily .


























quote author=NaijaCoverBlog post=110885538]A Lawyer celebrated his mother after running into her while she was hawking on the streets, Reports.

The Lawyer got down from the car he was in when he saw her and posed for photos with her.

He shared photos of his mother with her goods on her head and expressed hope that she will stop street hawking in the nearest future.

He wrote: "So today being the International women's day I ran into my mother on the street. I love you. I know with time you'll stop Hawking (but u go stop so) Happy IWD y'all beaurii ladies out there."

See Photos As Obtained By Below:[/quote]

You just wrote full nonsense ,no body is accepting polygamy, no Educated man does

Eriokanmi:
Polygamy has returned, what was once widely condemned amongst us, especially when the Europeans came to colonise us. They now call it babymama and this isn't peculiar to celebs alone. We only hear about their matter because they're popular. If those ladies weren't happy with their man, they wouldn't have allowed their kids to attend the show, let alone go with them. Is it now what's trending? Does this have any biblical connotations about the end time? Guys please shed more light on this...intelligent comments are welcome.

Way even baffles me is the rate at which polygamy is trending now, especially among the so-called educated people. We used to hear that people who indulged in it in the old days were stark illiterate and poor.

What's happening guys? I still don't understand

This woman no get sense, even the man look like sombody that has eaten vegetable, this one is another rosy murer,






author=Sophiebabe85 pos[color=#990000][/color]t=110812004]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ywAJ2hZ4vPY

Mercy Aigbe visits her new husband's village & was praised, adore and hyped as a virtuous new wife

She posted
Hearty Congratulations to you Ade mi @kazimadeoti on your well deserved award, to say i am proud of you is an understatement, you are good man with a great heart and an awesome forgiving spirit . God will continue to elevate you ...

You are a huge blessing to your community and i am more than glad that you are being celebrated by your people the way you deserve.

Thank you Igbomina for the awesome reception and the massive love, i was so overwhelmed and i am glad to be part of you... �

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CaxO2OggQCU/?utm_medium=copy_link[/quote]

Thank God she rejected ,no woman should marry a selfish man, I am sure she saw the signs.




















author=AnambraHeraldTV post=110809521]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lP0mSitWxeQ

The man had allegedly proposed to the lady but she turned him down and in anger, he demanded she gives him everything he had bought for her including the dress and slippers she was wearing at that time.

In the video , the man is seen forcing the lady to take off her slippers and her clothes. Onlookers could not help but try to beg the distraught man on the lady’s behalf but he was adamant about taking off the lady’s dress.

The market women and other elderly men’s effort to get the man to calm down and let the lady go failed.

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CaxSfvivpjA/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link[/quote]

‘Good for him, the soul that sinneth shall die





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can’t even think straight, our wedding is not even up to a year’[/i][/b]



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/03/my-hubby-mysteriously-disappeared-after-meeting-lover-in-hotel-ibadan-housewife/[/quote]

Idiot spotted , fool

Every successful woman, made it through dick, not your fault, in your entire village ,it is hard to see a woman making it.











quote author=Jestin post=110778255]If u load the dicks when this woman pussi don carry for pick up van, some dicks go dey fall for group when the van enter bad spot.[/quote]

Useless rapist,
May your 14 year old daughter be raped.

Idiot








ote author=Alubarika7 post=42503248]14yrs old girl wey no be virging....she no be hoe...na pit she be...useless advocator[/quote]

Are you mad?
look at this idiot,


You would soon be arrested and die in jail
Idiot..



uote author=Goldmaxx post=42454500]Gals accusing innocent guys of rape since 18bc.........dis hoes aint loyal.....[/quote]

Idiot mumu man, you are 39, you will soon be 40, and a fool at 40th is a fool forever.

thank God I know your wife, let me send this to her.


I hope she will start getting some cool dick also.



At 40th you are still talking like a teenager, you do not know how to end infidelity.





quote author=SugarPapi post=110662107]So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?[/quote]

Lier , lier ,
Fake story

Big head idiot











uote author=OGBEREIJEBU post=110633362]Stright to point

I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?[/quote]

Please we want to help the girl get justice, kindly give us more details ,please on how to get to his compound or house.


Thanks.




uote author=DispatcherLagos post=110580054]I know this idiot personally[/quote]

Please tell us more about him, his name and other things please.








uote author=DispatcherLagos post=110580054]I know this idiot personally[/quote]