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Do you have sense, so your mother was created specifically for aliens.










uote author=Kriss216 post=109861479]
Women were not created for men. God made them specifically for aliens.

I fear who no fear women![/quote]

You are sick for still staying in that marriage, what is your plan to leave?

Call your bothers the to beat him too, or report to Dsvrt in alausa Secretariat.

sazzyyarns p ost=109820200:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

Every woman will get angry and hit a man that is hitting her, or do Ou expect her to sit and be crying when you are hitting her?

Most times we like blaming others why the problem is in us, stop hitting her, you have no right to hit a woman,
Stop hitting her and see if she will hit you, but work on your self first, because if you go In to another relationship with such attitude ,you will end up complaining

Secondly accept her the way she is, that is the only way marriage and relationship will work, leg chain,and other things does not matter

Forget her family past

We all have a past, just ensure , two of you are prayerful to avoid repetition of family history.

Work on your anger

See there is no woman on this earth you will hit that will not hit you back, some will work out of the relationship
Some will stay and always retaliate.


quote author=Beautifulearth post=109851028]Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..

She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men).

She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve.

And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only support me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.[/quote]

Where are the men crying for Dna
Dna kill all of you there , assuming men are allowed to carry pregnancy ,I am sure some of you would have brought home millions of bastards and still be claming right, ladies are learning from you guys.








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https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/sammie-okposo-apologises-for-fling-with-american-lady-seeks-wifes-forgiveness/amp/[/quote]

She might not be dating the guy, but the guy is her side guy toasting her, if you still want the marriage

Call her, collect the guy number tell her to call the guy in your presence ,please do not say a word, also she must not let the guy know you are with her, them let her tell the guy on phone that she is having her wedding in four months time , she must put it on speaker, listen to the guy response, if she refused to do that ,please let her go.

But she must call the guy in your presence put it on speaker and talk about you to the guy, like she has a fience, they are planning wedding she loves you so much etc


But how come your fience is hungry, and she can not call you?



uote author=Kaleidoscopeman post=109668957]We are getting married in 4 months. I don't check her phone except for hotspot or she is showing me something. Just one message popped and I was supposed to click something else but the message.
What's your candid opinion on the screenshot?[/quote]

Aunty face your front and look for your own, forget the english you are speaking here , english language can not curb heartbreak, that guy will use and destroy you.









uote author=Rita005 post=109227615]Thanks guys... He is hardly perturbed about me not agreeing to his wishes.[/quote]

Mumu do not go and look for a single girl, you believe what a man tells you at your own risk, you see those gentle and cool headed guys fear them ,like you fear a snake,

Just two years the wife left, and Ou belive all the nonsense he is saying,

What is tripping you is the car, the house and his look,
You do not know much about his character.



you are falling in love

Give the relationship another 9months ,then come let us talk.




quote author=Rita005 post=109227405]Hi folks! I feel like sharing my predicament with you and hope to get a solution. Please bear with me cuz it's a long read. I'm a 26 years old banker (not contract staff) in one of the south south states.

Recently, I met a beautiful soul and I think I'm getting so fond of him now. We connected after the close of service in church and exchanged contacts. He was kind enough to drop me off my house. This guy is doing very well for himself (lives in a nice estate and owns a good ride).

A short while after our first meeting, we spoke on phone and I didn't know when I asked him why he isn't married. He told me it's a long story and would like to talk about it when we meet one-to-one. Fast forward, we met and he told me all there is about him. He's 34, got married about 2 years ago, but now separated from his wife. The reason he gave for the separation was lack of trust from his wife. According to him, his wife is so insecured to a fault. According to him, the first week he got married was when he started regretting his actions. After their marriage, his wife travelled down home to bring her remaining baggage. Before she returned, he made sure he cleaned the house thoroughly. However, when his wife came back, she headed straight to the fridge (she had made soup and stew before traveling) and the next thing was cry! According to him, he said he was confused at first. it was when he asked her what the problem was that she said he brought a woman to their matrimonial home. He said he cried so much and regretted marrying a woman with a possessed mind.

According to him, all the signs were there before marriage and he ended the relationship more than 5 times but she kept begging. What she was holding on to was that there's no assurance that the guy will marry him, hence, her fears. According to him, the woman has accused him of sleeping with his former neighbors and she insisted that they move out of that area. for peace to reign, he agreed and they got another accommodation.

Again, she started accusing him of having something with his new neighbors (even the married ones). To be honest, this guy is admirable and very reserved and I'm not sure if he's doing all the things his wife accused him of. He got angry when his wife decided to report him to the church authority. According to him, this woman has no single proof of him cheating but her reprobate mind is affecting her badly. She even went ahead to share demeaning messages about him (her husband) on her whatsapp status. This guy said he has pleaded with her to stop but it's getting worse. Now, they were married for about two years without a child. He said he could manage to live with the woman for more years without a child but can't do that when his peace is been threatened. He said his wife nags a lot and it was driving him crazy. According to him, his mum was never in support of the marriage but dad was interested in it. As it stands now, he has left his wife and moved to another state where we both met.

I have been friends with him for about 3 months now and I must say that this guy is a sweet human being. He asked me out but I told him we should just be friends, owning that he's still legally married. However, my feelings for him is growing everyday and this guy knows how to get one emotionally attached to him. Even though I can perceive that he wants sex with me, he never begs or act too anxious over it. He's so calm and mature and this is making me to admire him the more.

Note: He said he has talked about divorce with his wife but she's refusing it. This is where my concerns come in.
Now, I'm scared of going into a relationship with him knowing that he's not divorced yet.

To be honest, I can hardly concentrate these days because the thought of this guy has occupied my mind. Can I go ahead with him or the implications would be overwhelming? To be honest, I've not met a guy has coolheaded and admirable as this guy but I'm scared.
please I need advice on how to handle this situation.

Thanks[/quote]

Your rat brain makes you think what others are saying is nollywood why what you are saying is real, continue to fool your self.








quote author=Slynation post=109646580] if I say you have chicken brain now, you go wan fight but just negodu Nollywood reasoning Oshey...!! It's only you that have friends naw if you were that sensible enough, you ought to know it's different strokes for different folks...Everybody I knew that left their previous ships either male/female are living happily till date

My dear...This is reality and not your usual nollywood...!![/quote]

Mumu ,Ou still getozth dey talk, no go focus on your dick hole,

Sinner still having mouth to talk.





uote author=JiniBula6 post=109619365]Yall take me serious please

But wait, why dem carry my matter enter front page now... dem don drag me tire like say i kill person... hypocrites... like say na only me dey Bleep [/quote]

I have friends that left their wives, for another girl, because they taught the new girl is heaven on earth, today they are regretting it,

You know nothing reason I said you are thinking like a rat.


It is not a person that take a case to court that always win,

Some men left their wife because of anger, just give them max of three years ,when the anger is gone,and they have tested many fishes ,and discover that women are same even the first they refused to forgive is better they start regreating it,
Sometimes you end a relationship and the other person will be happy reason is because she has been managing you, waiting for you to take that action.

So sometime you think you are serving sombody ,but you are serving yourself.


With the above do you agree ,you have a rat thinking brain now.





quote author=Slynation post=109638376]Chai...some ladies are just funny so if your husband/BF was the one who instigated the divorce/breakup with you, you will say it's affecting them also...

If I say you have chicken brain now, you go wan fight, but just take a look at your reasoning...

#Rest[/quote]

Is not true ,girls love gentle men






uote author=GoodHardDick post=109636930]You should know girls love bad and toxic guys a lot. They love adventures. Nice guys are too boring and uninteresting for their liking. This is why red pillers will always be the real Men out there.

You better stop being too nice and gentle, hence that girl will use you and play. Set boundaries to everything! Stop simp-ing around . Let her know you don't tolerate any rubbish.[/quote]

Tell her we said she is stupid, cooking and sleeping in your house, a guy she met just two weeks

And you too, you are not sensible at all, what is your business with the call she is making? Is she your wife ? So she should not keep friends abi, something must be wro g with you.

I hope she will run away from you, after seeing the anger part in you, you kicked plate and broke it.

quote author=Unclesmart12 post=109638049]I met this girl few weeks ago online and we kinda vibed instantly, a couple of weeks later she came over to my house for weekend and we had sex the first night. I asked her about her relationship status later and she said she was in a relationship, though she doesn't love the guy.

She showed me proof of countless times she's told the guy the truth but he would always persuade her to stay with him with hope that she would warm up to him. So she stayed since he was paying the bills.

I can't tell her to leave the guy because I am not ready to pay any bills for anybody now. Just like most Nigerian girls she gets lots of calls, but one made me upset this night.

She was on call with a guy for almost an hour, from the tone of the conversation the guy might just be a friend, because the gist was centered around school and other random stuff. I felt she disrespected me by staying so long on a call and I made my feelings known when she was done. She got moody and stopped talking to me afterwards.

She finished cooking and dished mine in a separate plate even though we have been eating together since she came. She placed the food on the bed without notifying me and went on to eat hers alone. I tried to adjust and kicked the plate away breaking it in the process.

I packed the food and threw it into the trash can, she immediately went to the kitchen and dropped hers too. Took her bath and went to bed, though I know she's not sleeping.

She's supposed to go tomorrow morning and I intend deleting her contact after she leaves, however I really like her. I've not met someone I liked in a while. I don't wanna beg her since I didn't do anything wrong. Or was my reaction to the call extreme??

Should just free her or attempt talking to her?
How do I approach it without coming off as weak?[/quote]

Stop listening to all those damaged igbo smokers


She might not be having it elsewhere, if her faith is against it, it is possible she feels bad, when ever they are preaching in church






quote author=Efe42 post=109605566]


I know bro but she's kind off wife type!![/quote]

Are they supposed to have sex ?

Is sex out of wedlock no more a sin?


quote author=OloshoMan post=109605446]She's getting it elsewhere. Simply move on from her and get another. #AbundanceMindset No time to waste

Seriously, why would anyone be with a woman who doesn't want to have sex with them?

Kill that scarcity mindset.[/quote]

The guy too got served

Both got served , divorce affects two parties not one , so stop talking like a rat









let mequote author=Slynation post=109618206]
If you like yell from now till thy kingdom come, she got served...!![/quote]

[Hello please let me advice you, kindly take this
Leave that guy andove on, to a better man, I repeat leave that guy and move on

See it is either he has a fiancee he does not want to catch him in the act
Or he is married and the wife must have put a curse in that house that he will suffer if he sleep with any woman in his matrimonial home , something is not just right .

You do not need to come into his damaged and confused life, it will affect you.























quote author=Rachel98 post=108746542]Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments?? [/quote]

How do you tell woman to stay off social media?

And you feel or think a woman will wake up and just post on media ,if what is happening is not hurting her


You not serious .


















quote author=SoftChordz post=109614549] she won't get better, like peak it's in her, it's like telling a human being to stop breathing it's impossible she will stop for a while then continue. Then what do u think will happen when she finally gives birth to 4 kids n feels like her stay is solidified and remember it gets to a point in a man's life when his kids n wife win in decision of the house so what happens when the man is vulnerable? Think about future.[/quote]

Shut up,
Post what she posted on media here
For all to read

Women always post what is happening to them on media or to friends ,women talk alot, if a man is good and she is enjoying the marriage , the woman will spread it all over media celebrating the man,
Same way if she is been hurt and dying in pains ,she will also post it to seek help, you want her not to speak out so she can die in silence or commit SUICIDE







Yo

Slynation:
There are men with principles and standard!! You don't know the gravity and effects of what she posted, I'm very confident she twisted the whole scenario in her favour, offcourse no one wants to be a vilian on the streets of twitter and she must have allowed and liked insultive comments from twitter draggers association, I'm sure you know twitter is the worst platform on social media for someone to get dragged, And not everyone is blinded by that so called love, some altitudes has a way of evaporating love away from someone. She got served!!

The man was waiting for an excuse, and he is already enjoying the fact that the woman is begging begging, she will always beg,

Let the poster
Post what the wife posted on the group let us see, at least if the marriage is sweet like him claim, the wife will not post something negative .
All these gentle looking guys , that are tormenting their wives inside, and still shouting the wife should not speak out, are more demonic than the devil himself.

uote author=henmaris post=109613306]

I concur. This husband is very manipulative and heartless. Any man with such degree of anger in him is not worth living with. The woman needs to stop the begging and let him do his worst. Divorcing may even be better for the lady's sanity.

This so called kind man is a beast and has no business in marriage.[/quote]

Your note part is crazy,
Note : he does not want her to post his pictures his birthday on social media, now this is not possible for a woman: women always want to fluent three things
Their wedding ring
Their man
Their family on media , that is women for you

But bringing your husband matter to media with is picture might not be very right, the admin of that group is very stupid, because when members bring stories, you will post it, without the member name or member picture



Op you said three years of marriage, no child right?

If no child I think it is the reason your brother is shouting no no, maybe doctor told him.she can not birth a child, so he decided to use the media as an excuse to send her packing .

What kind of a man will tell a woman not to fluent him, on media , he has girlfriend and does not want them to see him?


Please tell your brother wife the begging is enough, let her leave , nothing goes up that the sky can not take


In life when you beg people and they refused to forgive you, leave them and move, the ocean they want to swiw , that is sweeting them will soon swallow them and they will come back to their senses.


The only sin that is not forgivable in marriage is adultery

Every other thing we must learn to forgive .


Your brother has another reason behind his actions .
He should get out.

Those calm people are always demonic

Let her walk out in style ,if he refused to forgive

Show this to your brother .

Genesiszero:
My brother has been a well disciplined man, he has married a woman whom he love dearly, sometimes I wish If I was a woman, I'll marry him! Gentle, calm, humble, educated, exposed with a very good source of livelihood. Doesn't smoke, drink or womanize And most importantly, God fearing. Maybe heritage from our dad.

But I never could have imagined it that what seems like a blissful marriage of my brother could end just like that. What is the problem? Social media! They had an issue, and she went and posted it there, from WhatsApp to Facebook and the worst of all twitter and some stupid women group which she seems to be a member of, may be there is some Judges there, come and see some people passing judgment even without hearing the other side of the story.

He warned her series of time not to ever post any family related issues to the media. I can remember while I was still with them, he always tells her if she ever has anything about him, she should call him and discus it with him or better still report to our parent. I don't know if it's a family thing for us or something, personally, I'm not too good with these social media of a thing.

To the best of my knowledge, my brother is the best and cool personality I had ever come in contact with, But these act of hers has been the height of it for him.

Brethren as I'm talking to you now, my brother has contacted a lawyer to prepare the divorce papers. Our parents and family members has called a meeting, we begged him for almost a week now but he stood his ground about the divorce, her family has come to apologize and beg for reconciliation for the both of them but to no avail, I spoke to him personally and begged like what you could ever imagine but our please fell on deaf ear. He personally told me that if his wife had gone to the court, he would've preferred it. If there is absolutely anything I know about my brother is him being a man of his words. She has done countless of things to him and She'll call us to apologize all the time and he'll forgive especially when my mom is involved. But for these I don't know what To say, she has cried and cried her eyes all out but for where It seems My brother has made up his mind, But if I may ask the ladies, why always the social media, going out there to claim the victims card.

Sorry I don't have much time neither am I good with telling stories, if not, I should have narrated what led to the whole problem but is a long epistle on it own....

Why is too hard to know what your spouse want and dislike. Note: he doesn't even want you posting his image in any media platform even on his birthdays, we're kinda some sort of reserved people in my family.

The marriage is three years old.
Not everybody likes these social media of a thing.

mature advice kill you there, do you have sense at all, be look at this fool at 30, I am sure you are the reason behind their seperation, you are a witch.
Your sister husband is also sick in his brain, thank God your sister left him.










uote author=NovesaTillie post=109582111]Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?[/quote]

All your comment shows you are senseless the kids are still very young, 3months and 2 years they must eat,

Can't you read .must you just open your mouth and type rubbish,
Do not ever marry, or have children so you become an old fool at old age

Mumu






quote author=odinson1 post=109421126]Men una mumu sha

When we keep telling you People not to get married, you'll call us broke,immature frustrated and all other sorts of nonsense.

You got married to Parasite who's Sucking you dry, draining the very life force you have. If you don't cut off that leech,she will drain you till you become a shell of your former self.

But seriously guys, lets reason it this way. The money he has been giving to his wife all these while,if he didn't get married and have children now,he would probably have used it to open a business,have investments or Get a new house or something like that. Now a woman has tied him down and It's now stopping him from progressing.

All he cares about are his wife and his children,they are all Liabilities to him. This is why men are advised to have a good job and a nice comfortable apartment first before getting married. You know why? It is because you will most likely get married to A Parasite who will Make you stagnant,it would be almost impossible for you to get past this financial struggle except you get a better job with better pay.

Men! Run away from a marriage that will stop you from Achieving greatness. Having children is not an achievement,it is normally biological for one to procreate,so there is no big deal about it. Having a wife and children when you are not financially stable,will only drag you down and make you stagnant!

And also, DON'T EVER GET MARRIED TO A BROKE LAZY WOMAN! They are Parasites whose only Objective is to latch on to you, and suck out your energy,time,resources and peace of mind.




@the bolded,A good woman? Really?

She and her children eats 3 square meals, while his mother only eats once. You call that a good woman? Wait answer this instead,would she have done same to her own Mother?[/quote]

You entered her kitchen to cook noodles ,and you see nothing wrong in that? Bro is her kitchen, if you can not eat what they cook, you should have respectfully tell her to instruct the maid to prepare your noddles, orgo out and buy food , see when you go visiting , ensure you eat what they give you, it shows, appreciation, and if you can not eat what is offered, then go out and eat.

you enter the kitchen because you feel is your brother house , I noticed that husbands family are always very rude when they come to visit their brother, they have this mindset of it is my brother house ,

Anyway let her go for anger management therapy, before it affects her badly , then let your family avoid her, none should call her or visit, she will come to her senses
Concerning just juju, using juju is what we get, when we have men that claim to be alpha male, treating their women anyhow,

Most women now put them inside bottle

But for you, leave jazz, she is not using jazz,. It is possible she has lot of good part, that is keeping your brother with her.









for you uote author=Rachel98 post=109441439]Good morning everyone. Hope we're having a wonderful week.

My Elder brother is doing well, no doubt he's the breadwinner in our family But his wife is so rude, too authoritative, she's full of pride and she looks down on people. She see everyone as her employee, she does not care if her actions or words hurts you, she's quick to slap at any slightest provocation. She's an event planner, please are event planners this rude??

She's the main reason why we barely visit our brother, despite we all live in the same city, we feel like a total stranger in our brother's house. Probably she's using "jazz" on him, I don't know But everything she does seems cool to him.

I managed to spend the weekend with them, since on friday she act like my presence irritates her. The maid prepared semo and vegetable soup, i don't eat swallow that like, so she saw me cooking noodles, she rudely said why're you not eating semo? Why are you people so selective? Then she left the kitchen. I just maintained my cool.

Yesterday she slapped her maid just because the plantain she told her to fry wasn't brown enough (maybe she wanted burnt sacrifice plantain). My elder brother calmly said honey you shouldn't have slapped her just becus of plaintain. The next she told my brother was "Defender!! go and marry her nw"

This morning, I jejely packed my belongings on my way to work, I entered my brother's car so he can drop me at the bus-stop, I just told him I won't be coming to his place anymore, once I'm done with work today I'm going home straight. And the annoying part, he would be asking me why? As if he's blind, he can't see how rude and ill-mannered his wife is.

His wife has really separated my brother from us, his own family. We don't even know what to do.[/quote]

Some it is a bipolar disorder, or drugs .




quote author=Harrykn post=109430658]Nothing, I repeat nothing will make this guy behind this keyboard commit suicide even if Tinubu win election, Biafra gets independence, Nigeria seperate and bla bla least I’ll do is wait for the worst that has never happened in my life.[/quote]

[You are the most foolish human on earth,
All your words shows you are senseless , you sent your back to the east so you can have access to other girls, yes girls are many very many, three are even small, more will come for you, until they run and destroy you.

Nairaland has become a dumping ground for foolish people




quote author=edunaragold post=109309302]After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.

Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.

When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.

Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.

Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.[/quote]

Mumu, alpha male , do not go and make money , at the end you will be smelling with your authority lifestyle,
Women bow to men that can take care of them , and cherish them, you earned respect not command respect , if you need to become an alpha male , before a woman will submit to you, then you have a problem , reason for high level of domestic violence ,
When you excercise your alpha authority and she refused to submit , because no sensible woman will submit to rubbish, then you lift your filthy hands to beat her.shame on you.




author=GoodHardDick post=109324]

There's nothing like Alpha women! A woman cannot be an alpha. The word alpha is only attributed to a man and not a woman.

Women ain't made to lead, they were made to follow and hence, can never be an alpha.

Modified: those of you quoting me, just know that if a woman can dominate and control you, then you're a SIMP! If a woman can lead you as man, then you're a SIMP!

A woman becomes an alpha female when she sees or meet a SIMP guy who bows to her manipulations and controls. She won't dare behave like that towards a red piller or alpha male simply because an alpha male or a Red piller is by far more dominant than she is, and of course, he commands so much authority far more than she does .[/quote]

You mean your mother is a prostitute ?

Drug addict ,do not go to rehab.


quote author=odinson1 post=109296667]I don't have the time to learn how to toast PROSTITUTES[/quote]

Wait let her give birth, just keep helping her for now .

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

Idiot you are young to carry responsibility, but you are not young, to have sex ,
Blood is already on your head.


quote author=Mylordmygod1 post=109248074]i'm still young to cary a father responsibility, i won't be able to look after her[/quote]

You are stupid and an idiot, she is your side babe, how you could not use condone , that child will hurt you, if you kill the child
.

You and the man are stupid .





Auote author=Mylordmygod1 post=109247872]Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..[/quote]