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Christianity Etc › Re: The Modern Ways Of Getting Wealthy With Peace Of Mind by epainos(op): 2:32pm On Dec 12, 2023
Disruptive Technologies - How Tech made passing knowledge to be free or almost ...yet highly rewardable

I am so glad Covid-19 came.... Listen to me....blessed are the Chinese for they will never lack... grin. Oh ....you think I do not know what I am talking about? Let me explain.

Covid-19 ushered in the acceptance of the online learning platform. This is the best that has ever happened to "developing nations" like Nigeria. Listen, if you need to learn a skill...pick up the methodologies of self-study. If you do not know how to study by yourself, you are in a real soup. Oh...I can't study alone...I need a study partner...ah! You are in soup. You better go and learn how to learn by yourself because being a lone ranger is the thing now.

Knowledge is powerful, and knowledgeable people always monetize it by organizing training. When you know something valuable, people will pay. The mentor wants to make money. Check history very well...the price disciples and followers of theological experts and scientists pay is extremely high...check out the prices great scientists like Darwin, Plato, and others paid. It is like Nigerian style (it is changing now cos Gen Zs have told those old nasty people to go to places ..and I love it) where one oga will take 5 to 15 years or more of your life in the name of learning a skill under him before giving you freedom. Na skill you wan learn, but they turn you into domestic slaves running errands...mad people. That is freedom from slavery you get when doing the so-called freedom. I would rather pay than serve under a useless master. Yet, they still take money ooo at the start, use the trainees like slaves, and then start postponing the dates of freedom. And when they eventually are forced to do it, the bill is mad. Honestly, God bless GenZs...they told them to go to places and that they aren't interested in slavery. Guess what? Little did the old fo.ols know that GenZs have tapped into online studies. Hahahha! Now, those masters are in soup...all of them are now poor. No one to use again. Lol. I love it so much. They used to complain like 5 years back that no one wants to learn artisan skills again oooo...lol. ...but now, they have accepted that it is over for them. Why will GenZs want to learn under them when they have tapped into modern ways of learning? Lol. Now, they are all poor.

They would cross their legs in those days, while the trainees did everything...and yet, they would beat those poor trainees silly when they made the slightest mistake. Very wicked system. The people who instituted that system were just wicked and selfish. And that is why I still say that...Awolowo, Zik and Balewa's generation are the basta.rds that destroyed us. That generation is the most selfish one I have ever come across. They are manipulators. Basta.rds people. I hate them with passion. They messed us up...they gave us useless laws that promote tribalism. I hate that generation.

Yes, Covid-19 then popularized online study and made it well accepted. Listen, to learn trading in those days, you would pay nothing less than $5,000. Steve Mauro and ICT's prices were knockouts. Lol. But today...it is all free on YouTube and then, small fees on Udemy, Coursera, etc. Just imagine paying $15 for what you would pay $10,000 for like 5 years ago. Yet, the Mentor who used to collect $10k makes even more money now without any stress of advertising. Wow! This is huge! A win-win situation for the mentor, the trainees, and the platforms. Wow!!!

I do tell people that I thank God, but if I had had access to materials to gain more knowledge in my teenage age to my mid-age in life...wow! But even at my age, I am hungry for knowledge. Or if I had moved earlier enough to North America or Europe in my early days, hmmm....Anyway, I bless God.

If I had had access to Larry William's materials and other guys I have mentioned, in my teenage days mehn! But good traders in those places had it all. They had access to everything there. Back at home here, we were just in the dark. It was when you got out of Africa you were free. But now....hahahahaha. Listen, you can beat them silly right in your room. The internet and the learning platforms have made it very easy to beat them silly.

Solar Energy
And guess what is happening next? Guys...keep praying that if Bola Tinubu does nothing for Nigeria, the deal he is signing with a company in Holland to start a solar panel industry here, and with a Chinese company to start producing lithium batteries comes through. If this happens, that is it. The next stage is to focus on having an uninterrupted supply of our gadgets. Forget about powering A/C, Fridge, Pressing irons, blenders and high-powered stuff if you cannot afford that...but if we can have 24/7 access to power that gives us knowledge...we are okay. Laptops, smartphones, internet devices....and God so good, this stuff don't require high power again...so, smart power banks powered by solar in smaller units can be developed. A student can have a dedicated unit to power his system...period.

Run after knowledge....and the world will bow at your feet. No more excuses. You have everything right beside you.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Modern Ways Of Getting Wealthy With Peace Of Mind by epainos(op):
IAmHim1:
check out inner circle trader mentorship...month 1 to 12 first.

a whole new world...
forex, bond, crypto, stock, index futures market work on an algorithm...the difference is the timing at which the algorithm hunts buyside/ sellside liquidity

inner circle trader aka micheal huddleston was an "inside man" with the ''secret' people that created the algorithm

yeah i know it sounds like a cliche or a film...lolzzz but its as real as your skin. try his 12 months mentorship and go back to your charts...

a whole new world!

and yes, it takes time discipline and pain ..lots of pain at first but youll start to see it. "once you see it, you cant unsee it"
Michael is good....he understands the concept....the real ghost in the machine. To me, he is the most modern generous mentor..however, his content isn't for everyone. To me, the biggest mistake he made was to release it because PhD students will struggle with it. He should have had a technique to scrutinize who to teach. Not everyone can get it.

Another concept is knowing the market cycle. This is where Steve Mauro comes in. There is a Nigerian guy who taught it in a very simple method. I forgot his name...if I remember, I will put him here.

And then, if one returns to Michael's concept and can spot the market cycle (actually he taught it also but I bet many won't take it seriously), the precision is extremely high.

Not to forget the grand master himself who took $10,000 to $1.2m in 12 months of trading the Future Market... Mr Larry Williams the master. He went ahead to contest as an american senator, but couldn't win. What a brain!!! This is to tell us that trading is not everything....trade...make money...and use it for something else. The barriers to trade to become the richest man on earth is too many, but you can trade to be extremely rich. It is not easy...Of course, I cant say I have reached the level to start mentoring others, so I wont start saying I want to mentor anyone. Please, forgive me if I dont respond to any mentorship post. Mr Williams is the mentor of Michael. Then, there are great principles from Elder Andersen (the man who blessed us with the 3 time frame concept), and I forgot the name of the person who Michael learned Turtle soup from. This is the first person who popularize the concept to liquidity..and how buy stops and sell stops are swallowed.

There are good traders, but Michael blasted it out (he brought everything together...very hard to express it all in a video...but Michael is extremely intelligent to have found a way to bring out many strategies....i laugh when I see new stuff...but listen...if you understand the msrket cycle...you will just smile at Michael); however, he complicated it for many because there are extremely few smart and patient people. Smart people aren't that patient...but when you are smart and extremely patient...believe me...the world is on your palm.

I did not want to start mentioning names so people won't get lost. But I think God wants me to...so, here is it...

The mentors above are enough for trading but it can take more than 1 year to learn it. These guys are generous in their books and videos... Within that period, damages might have been done if one puts money in it. And if one needs fast money, that is the way to death.

The best way to trade is to learn while you have rest of mind. This is why I said trading is for very few people. People learn to make fast money...or when it is taking too long, they put money there. Nope...learning to trade is when one is comfortable.

For example, you have enough money to feed your family for 2 years without working, and you take a break to soak yourself in it. Or, you are a student who has no wahala. This is the right time for most people. A student who is a disciple and knows that as soon as school starts, he stops learning until the holiday period again. And a student who will not put money in it. A student who can be patient for 3 to 4 years to learn it because he must stop when school resumes.

Also, if you are a business owner and you are sure that you can feed your family...go into it and soak yourself in it for 1 to 3 years. If you are extremely smart, you will get it in as little as 6 months period or maybe 1 year.

But...it is so deep that you will keep seeing new things as you trade. Why? The machine is in layers...and it is an everlasting level that you will keep seeing new almost perfect layers which have been there all this time...but your eyes just caught it at the time. This is why it is good to understand the machine and then know the market cycle.

Intermarket analysis is a tool that is scarce to see one who knows about it. Michael is a badass in that. And Larry William is the grand master in it. Michael said that he has over 30 years of experience. I agree. Before one understands Forex...then commodity, interest rate, stock, indexes, ....one would have gone far. And now crypto...and some other assets out there. Then, you start seeing the relationships there. This is the maddest tool I have ever seen. If one can find markets he understands well and match them together...boy!!!!

This is what I call "The world is in the palm of the person". This is having the world economy in one's pocket. This person cannot grow broke. Believe me..this person will drive a Ferrari and its level.

Hey bros...I can see some smartness in you even from your posts. But a beg.... smartness is a gift one must handle well oooo. I know what I am talking about. Real humility is needed ooo. I pray for it daily. I pray God grants your heart desires. Amen!
Politics › Re: Ohanaeze Berates Bode George For Sayings Igbos Should Focus On Developing The SE by epainos:
IAmHim1:
your tribalistic comments aint healthy unno. just saying
Hey bro!

We have refused to identify the boundary of tribalism. Is it tribalism to say it to Igbo's face to be responsible and build their region?

Nigeria has refused to practise residency by where one lives, but by origin. This means that no matter how long Igbo live in any region that is not theirs, they cannot have the benefits of the states. Same way Yoruba cannot take anything from Igboland. All Igbo born in Lagos cannot claim Lagos as their..This law does not permit it. They are foreigners. This is the law. Therefore, common sense should tell everyone that only in his/her state of origin can he have the upper hand. And then, the other nearest location is the person's region. Common sense is not far na. This same common sense tells me to first have enough properties in the region I know I am well grounded in so that if anything happens, i can still have a claim over my properties. Na common sense of what one should do because of the law we have. I operate based on the law of the land...not by "giragira", beating of chests, and blackmailing others using social media. The law is the law. I am talking based on the law we have now. Period!

If Ibo wants to claim Lagos and PH, then the way forward is to change the law....and abolish the state of origin system we are presently using. There is no tribalism in my post based on the present law. Na common sense dem no get. But they want to claim Lagos and PH, and at the same time, they dont want to release their land to even their girls cos the first sons own everthing ooooo there.. grin Not to talk of releasing it to the Yorubas, Hausas, Fulanis & others. Lol...but they want PH and Lagos. Dem heads no correct. Period.

Have you seen a Yoruba man become a governor in Igboland the way they want to be the governor of Lagos? How many Yoruba men have they allowed in their government that they want to be in charge of Lagos. Dem heads no correct... I repeat. This selfishness has been there a long time. Zik was the president, still they went ahead to kill the northern prime minister cos they realised that the president was a ceremonial seat. Lol. Then, Yoruba was no where to be found. Awolowo was just struggling....even Zik of Igboland had more followers. Then, they lost everything. Na still their greediness. You want to hear story...I will dash you. Do you want to know how Igbo lost it all. Go read my previous posts. See...Igbos are desperately selfish. I will say it anywhere. And I will support my claim with history. If they don't change, they are doomed. They have created enemies for themselves and they dont want to change.

Just listen to Bode George....that was the man they thought had their support. Lol. Bode! He pretended cos he was wrestling Lagos with Tinubu..and stylishly supported Gbadebo of Labor Party while he was still in PDP. But you can know his stand today. When he is not foolish....how will he allow Igbo become Lagos gov when he or his sons and daughters cannot become a gov in Igbo land. Dey play. grin I repeat...Igbos are stupid for thinking they can produce a gov in Lagos. They are. Very senseless way of thought. And they will never allow Yoruba to be gov in their place. I repeat...no Igbo state can ever give Yoruba opportunities of investments and partnership the way Lagos accepted them. They will claim Lagos is no man's land. Lol. Meanwhile...their own states are Igbo states and no one can go near them. Yet, they even abandoned them. People who want to invest, they blocked them. Who does that? What do you call that? A region that is not contended. Igbo has never been contended with anything. I will say it everywhere. Call it tribalism. They are the weak link in the south cos they are too greedy.

Let us be honest...can a Yoruba Hausa or Fulani man flourish up to becoming a governor in Igbo states? You know the answer na. Yet, they boldly campaign and tell everyone that Lagos is no man's land. E no go better for them all. They are nonenties. Yes, they are. Let them go to Kano and say that if they will not be slaughtered. And Yoruba cannot enter their place to claim it. Is that not madness? See...dem heads no correct at all.

Real amd sensible Igbo friends I have surrendered after I analysed the whole issue. They said...mehn...this thing is deep ooo. What Igbo cannot give, they want to take. ....what rhey cannot take...they want to give. See...they will not become the president of Nigeria. Na me dey talk am. Not tribalism...but the truth. A group of people that are so selfish.

Greediness is not far from Igbo. How? They want Biafra...yet, they want Lagos and PH. Who does that? Who? And they hide under the umbrella of tribalism to keep pushing out their stupidity every time. Why stupidity? The law is there. Why not tackle the law first and then feel free to invest where you live? Igbos don't have the law behind them, yet they want to force what is not lawful.

The law is messed up. The law we have now promotes tribalism. This is the poor truth. Do you think a normal Yoruba man in his sense will go gather investment in the north without having the back of the government there? Dangote did not have the back of Kaduna state and some other northern states when he was building his tomato paste industry. Let me explain. He built the real refinery in his home state of origin (Kano). No wahala with that. Then he needed farms. He tried working with farmers in his home state to test run. Farmers behaved like nonentities....lol. He gave them inputs worth billions and when harvest time came, they diverted sales....lol. they even accused him of giving them bad seeds and reengineered seeds. So, baba said... enough!!!. He paused production and faced farming. Baba started buying land. Lol. Some northern state governors refused to sell land and told him to partner with their farmers so they could promote small-scale businesses. Baba just looked at them and hissed. He kept buying from those who were ready to sell till he got everything he needed. That refinery was closed for almost 3 years because of this issue. And the states that gave him land are now getting vats and taxes from him. Na the loss of states who refused to sell him land na. If we arent using state of origin, Dangote would not have wahala and not insisted on doing what he did. There will be flexibility.

Now to his refinery. There is no way he could have it in the North, and he has the option of SS SE or SS. He didn't even blink his eyes because he knew his best partners were in SW. Why will he go to where he knows they can injure him and even collect his lifetime savings? Then, the next job is which state will reassure him well. He approached Ogun first and if you know how ex-gov Amosu wanted to wound him. Jagaban was just nearby and before Baba Aliko said he no dey do refinery again, Lagos state quickly rushed him. They gave him the highest assurance that it would be his own. Guess what? FG was the one that even gave him wahala cos NNPC wanted his share by all means. Lol. Then, he did another smart thing...he called Otedola who is an indigene of the location of the refinery to partner as a shareholder. Mehn! Do you know what this means? So, do you think if Dangote could get residency in Lagos he would partner with Otedola? Dey play. He wouldn't. But he knows what is on the ground. This is the unfortunate thing about Nigeria.

While Dangote navigates his way via partnership and collaboration because the present law is nonsense, Igbos want to force it without first changing the law. Dey play. The joke is on you.

Listen...it is not tribalism...I will never invest anywhere outside my region if I do not get the assurance and cannot partner with the indigenes there. Never. Na common sense. Nigeria is not built for us to do that. We had a fake marriage filled with hatred. The law itself is programmed to make us not to unite. And we are not willing to do anything about it...rather, we all want to chop what we can get from Abuja. Period.


See.. let the Igbo keep announcing everywhere that they built Lagos. Put all their investments together and let's see if everything is up to this present refinery Dangote is building. grin Let them put their investments together and see if the whole thing is up to the railway and seaports Lagos is building. Even up to the airport in Lekki? Dey play. Na only import and export them dey do...guess what? It is now Lagos State that will be taking real cash from Lekki seaport. That Apapa port na FG dey collect the largest share...and it adds to the amount distributed all over the nation. I laugh when you keep saying oil oil gas gas bullcraps. Go and see the income of the blue economy. Lol. It is everlasting. If you know how much FG has generated and has given other regions including Igbo states...you will not say na your oil.

See...una go just dey shout ni. Common sense is uncommon. Una dey invests where is not safe and you say you can force it. I will never put my investment in SE. Never. It is not tribalism...it is just common sense. Igbo will never allow me enjoy my investment there. If I do it, I am unserious cos I know the law is not on my side. Even Betty Akeredolu who married a Yoruba man and became a first lady in Yoruba land was told to go to Igbo land to contest. What kind of law is that? A first lady. Can you imagine the gravity of this law? I doubt Igbo will even allow a Yoruba become their first lady. Lol. Se you know say Mariam Babangida was an Igbo woman sha. Igbo will never support any of their son that married from the north to become the president. Never. I repeat.....never. They are the most tribalistic region. Yes...I repeat...they are.

At times, I wonder if Nigerians are just deliberately useless cos how will you have such law and tribalism will not flourish.. I don't understand it. And then, the people trying to put away tribalism will tell you that it doesn't matter...why? They are tribalistic themselves cos they dont want other regions to have the same rights as them.

See...not until we realise that if we want to live together, culture must die...and many traditions must be silenced that we will live peacefully. And if we want to promote culture...we must accept that Igbo man can be fully a Yoruba man when certain conditions are met and gice versa. If not, it is better to split and just walk away from one another. It is not worth it.

Can you even identify a Welsh from English today? Yes, you can...but they are so integrated that the hybrids there are so uncountable that those who live in Wales claim it and those who live in England are called English. But the power of DNA check can make someone who lived all his life and has identified as Scottish claim the rights of an English when he eventually moves to England and then even get huge benefits if the DNA result can give him the required % of dominancy.

Do you think all the Jews presently in Israel are 100% Jewish? They have mixed up everywhere....but that DNA stuff is used now. At least if you have a certain % of the trace of being Jewish now, you can go to Israel and say you are jewish. Thats the work of the DNA test. Lol. Go read about the Ethiopian Jews and read about their struggle in Israel.

I am sorry to say..Igbos are daf.t. period. Let them keep building Lagos and PH. If you say I am tribalistic....lol... good luck. I don't care. I will follow the law. The law is what it is. I would not put 1 kobo of my investment in Igboland if I didn't have a partner there.....like a spouse. Cos I know that my spouse would fight when they wan injure me...but no Igbo spouse and you want me to invest in Igbo? Dey play. No Fulani spouse you want me to invest in Kano....dey play...no Yoruba spouse and you want me invest in Ekiti....on your own....no Uyo spouse and you want me face Akwa Ibom... lol...dey play.

Bro...if you are Igbo...and you are not with a Yoruba spouse, go and invest in Igbo land. Take Lagos's invsstment as something that is temporary. If there is anything like war or separation...Lagos will take everything from Igbo people...period...ma common sense. This is the reality. Na the law on the ground. It is not tribalism...correct the law and most of these issues will be fixed.

Good luck!
Politics › Re: Ohanaeze Berates Bode George For Sayings Igbos Should Focus On Developing The SE by epainos: 10:51pm On Dec 11, 2023
Igbos don't know what they want. Today na Biafra.... tomorrow Aso Rock, another time...Lagos. grin

Igbo are so obsessed with Yoruba that they wish they were Yoruba in every way, and that is why they attack Yoruba. Lol. I keep telling them that Fulani and Hausa are their wahala...but they will attack Yoruba. Na real obsession. They developed Lagos, and the people who owned Lagos dey insult them daily...yet, they can't use their heads. grin It is a sign of real attachment. Igbo cannot breathe with Yoruba. Lol. But is it bad? Nope. Yoruba sef cannot do much without these people oooo grin....the two dey do oga things...but Yoruba dey slams them from time memorial. Instead of Igbo to vex and develop their region, they want to do everything to claim Lagos. grin
Food › Re: How Many Packs Of Noodles Do You Eat? by epainos: 2:07pm On Dec 11, 2023
LagosG:
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Glutton! grin On top noodles. grin grin grin
Politics › Re: Santiago Stocker Makes Case For Seaport & Infrastructures In South East by epainos:
The Nigerian govt is guilty of not developing Igbo states by only 50%. Igbo themselves are guilty by the remaining percentage. Let me explain. The North has the political power and the moment they get there, they divert many things to the North. Jonathan did so much damage too by focusing on the north thinking he would buy their loyalty for a second term tenure. But take a look at Lagos and Rivers which have taken the lead in SW and SS respectively. The governors did the job and they always force the government to reimburse them. But what have the Igbo governors done? Okorocha built statues for them. grin FG only built the Apapa seaport in Layos, but Lagos has gone ahead to build the Lekki seaport, and will soon be building the Badagry seaport. Why can't Igbo governors do the same?

Every state in Nigeria has its allocation from FG. What are Igbo states doing with theirs? The way you lay your bed is how you sleep on it. Period.

The other part is tribalism, and I have said that as long as the Hausa and Fulani are powerful in Nigeria, they will always make sure the Igbos do not have any competitive edge over them again. They know Igbo weak areas and one is that they will set Igbos against Igbos. Lol. The same Igbos are always used to sabotage the efforts of others. So, whose fault is that?

Lagos isn't waiting for FG...Lagos is even planning a joint project to build a railway from Badagry that will pass through Benin Republic, Togo, Ghana, and ends in Cote D'Ivoire. If Tinubu is not the president, Lagos will still go ahead and then take govt to court to force the reimbursement. But luckily for Lagos, Tinubu is the president and it is a done deal. Huat like when Buhari put all effort into linking Niger and Kano with a railway system. Can you see how tribalism is playing out? Whose fault is it? No one sent the Igbo to fight the Biafra war. Igbo was the president but they went ahead to kill the Hausa/Fulani prime minister because they wanted everything for themselves. The rest is history and how they were dealt with. This is what is still affecting them. The North will never allow Igbos to have any power over them. Period.

So, what this man is proposing will not happen. Therefore, the Igbo ppl should restrategize and get Biafra without fighting any war. Igbo cannot prosper if they remain in Nigeria...period. But na them dey do themselves. They want Aso Rock during elections which they will never win, and they want Biafra after the elections. What exactly do they want?
Food › Re: How Many Packs Of Noodles Do You Eat? by epainos: 6:42pm On Dec 10, 2023
LagosG:
You talk too fuckin much for a guy. Take your self righteous bullshit elsewhere
Na your papa you dey talk to....you this millennial brat. Na your papa be the fucking useless guy you used above. Oponu. Whether
a self righteous ooo..or not...na your die. No be me go pay for your chemo...na you...so...eat your noodles. grin Again... See...like i said....na your die...no be anyone's die.

Now, I can say you are a glutton cos you are obsessed with your noodles. Na that food go kill you ....glutton. only you..dey wack packs of noodles...and dey defend am like say na better thing. If you wan kill a Naija man...use food. See...add 20 eggs from chickens fed with commercial poison or grown with growth hormones like how most farmers do here. Eat am...chop am. Na your die...no be mine. Eat your noodles... grin

That your big pencil.....before you reach 35 to 40...e go enter flat....na your erectile dysfunction....no be mine. So....gather yourself together...and chop am more. Increase the noodles. cheesy

Glutton grin
Food › Re: How Many Packs Of Noodles Do You Eat? by epainos: 5:31pm On Dec 10, 2023
Obagreatdatoye:
You might even die before him ...that's the irony of life...
I will live long...first...he is a millennial and I am not. I have lived beyond him very well...so, your talk no matter here.

Concerning what you meant, you can read my previous posts. Some people may live a healthy life and still die young. Do you understand the reason the person died? Do not go into spiritual matters if you don't have the experience.

Death is not the end if you know deeper issues. Death can be a blessing for some.

What I am preaching here is to just do the right thing. Eat what is good for your body. Period. Using a few cases of people to represent the reason for your action will not affect anyone but you. If you choose to look at that 1 person out of 1,000 people who we think is unfortunate, it is your call. He might even be the most fortunate to die young.

The most important issue is that....we should die not a painful death. Some people who died in accidents suddenly are better than people who killed themselves due to wrong choices of food and had to pass through chemo. It is a choice for everyone.

We are just educating people on what is good and what is bad. If you choose to eat your noodles and you live to 130 years...Goodluck!
Food › Re: How Many Packs Of Noodles Do You Eat? by epainos: 5:20pm On Dec 10, 2023
LagosG:
Abeg carry your doomed prophecy to your own grave. I will live much longer than you and in great health. I eat noodles at least 3 times a week. That's a lot, I know but it wont be the death of me.
Cool down, bro. I am not making any prophecy...I am just telling you the result of an action. It is like...you study and get the concept and then practise with many examples like solving many examples of a mathematical theory...you will pass. If you don't get the concept, the examiner may serve into your hand...and you get lucky. And also...you may get every and everyone knows you are the best, but something like sickness can come in...and you don't make it at that spot...as long as it is not death...you can smash it anytime again. So, the wise decision is to do what....know one's strengths and go for the course of study (study what you enjoy), get the basics right, and practise with many examples so you cover everything before the exam. There is no way the exam can do your wayo.

I'm sure of it. Some smokers live till 90s while non smokers die before 40 from lung cancer caused by second hand smoke. This life no balance. Assumption will take you nowhere
This scenario above can be equated to very few that got lucky. They deserved into their hand. This group of people smoked till they were 90 and they did not get it. Many other factors may be there. You did not consider the various cleansing techniques they used. Lol.

And the scenario of those who didn't smoke, you did not consider the environment they lived in. Like living with a smoker. Lol. You don't smoke, but you can get lung cancer, and that person who smokes may not easily get it because he does something else, you don't do.

The bottom line is this...this thing I am doing...is it good or bad? What is good for the human body?

Summary:
1. Natural stuff is good...and artificial is bad.
2. Fermentation will reduce the effect of what is bad.
3. Vegetables (only organic) act as antioxidants.
4. Genes play a major role. However, no matter how good your gene is, if you abuse your body, things will happen. When? It depends on the individual. Period. And there are innovative ways of measuring how our body is getting weak these days.

Well...I don't argue with anyone...if you see the person who smoked till 120 years ago and that is the fellow you want to use as the benchmark, cool. That is your call. And if you want to use the careful person who was unknowingly careless to live with a smoker and got killed with cancer, it is your call. And again..if you want to use that healthy person who died in an accident saying something must kill someone, it is your call.

Brother, it doesn't change the fact that noodles is one of the most terrible food on the planet, and Asians themselves know about it...but they pride in eating fermented food. There is no day a Korean will go without eating kimchi. Lol. It is like that man who eats sugar and kills the correct herbal medicine to neutralize it. And he won't tell you what he does...but eat sugar like him, and make him the benchmark.

As long as you live in Nigeria now (I am a farmer), and I know the way farming is practised here and how food is stored, it is not a prophecy.....you will not last beyond 50 years with the amount of noodles you eat. It is not a prophecy. Why? You don't eat corrective food Asians eat. O be Naija food?

Oga... na your die...no be my die....so feel free to insult me. This post is not for you but for others in your shoes. This is why life expectancy in Naija is 55 years now. Think....how many old people do you have in Naija? 60 people are called grandma and grandpa here....lol... hardly will you see their mates who call them by their names because most of them are dead. Lol. But go to Asia...you will see 85 people still gathering in groups...and they call themselves names. Here...na spiritual parent old people turn themselves to cos that's the only way younger ones can interact with them...and na so so daddy...mummy...grandpa grandma dem dey call them. They get tired of living sooner cos all their mates are gone.

Oga...continue eating your noodles. Na your die...no be my die. grin

Good luck!
Food › Re: How Many Packs Of Noodles Do You Eat? by epainos: 2:10pm On Dec 10, 2023
LagosG:
Asians eat enough noodles for the entire planet 5 times over in their lifetime and the have the highest life expectancy.
And they eat organic vegetables and even fermented food times 1000. Still, go check the cancer rate in South Korea for example.

See....keep eating your noodles. I assure you that 50 years is too much for you.

Good luck!
Romance › Re: My Wife Watches Cartoons More Than My Kids At 37 Help! - Man Laments by epainos: 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2023
DyshApp:
A married man has anonymously taken to social media to complain about his wife’s addiction to watching cartoons with their children.

According to him, his wife was always excited to watch and sing along to the cartoon with their kids and she would narrate the stories to them if they missed them.

According to the man, something must be wrong with his wife. While admitting that she has not failed in her roles as a wife and mother to his kids, he reiterated his worry that he felt she should have grown past cartoons.

He appealed for help to fix the cartoon problem.

In his words:
"I feel like something is wrong, I don't really get her sometimes. She doesn't even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I'm missing out on something great.

“My wife, 37 years old, enjoys watching cartoon even more than our kids. When I say cartoon, I mean animated movies.
Our first boy is 14 years old down to our last who is currently 4 years old.
They’ve turned the home into a cartoon home.
They are soo addicted, they sing their songs, do their dances and discuss those things all the time.

My wife at her age will be running as if something strange was happening and she forgets herself to be an adult sometimes.
I’ve tried to explain to her that I don’t really like it, I don’t complain because they are being happy but, I don’t understand my wife’s addiction. Even when the kids aren’t around, she’ll be watching animated movies alone.

Once they get home, she’s going to narrate all she watched to them and even demonstrate with actions some funny/emotional scenes.
I feel like something is wrong, I don’t really get her sometimes. She doesn’t even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I’m missing out on something great.
Is there something I can do to help her? It’s somehow bothering me.


Kindly note that, she’s fully employed and still does her duties as a wife and a mother. I don’t have any problem on that side, I just feel she’s addicted to animated movies when actually, she has grown pass it.”
You are a funny man. You better join them. cheesy

Man sees a peaceful homes...amd still dey complain. Na waoooo!
Food › Re: How Many Packs Of Noodles Do You Eat? by epainos: 11:50am On Dec 10, 2023
LagosG:
Lmao! I eat noodles a lot and I'm a millennial. My bick is dig and gets hard as a rock. Never ever in my life have I had a premature ejaculation...matter of fact it's quite the opposite. I suffer from delayed ejaculation.

Nobody should blame noodles for their other ridiculous life choices.
The human body is tough and can take junk, and it can easily return to its original form as soon as the right conditions are met. The only wahala is when there is a blockage at the end of nerves or tiny locations. Of course, before such blockages occur, the body must have been seriously abused. Also, another wahala is when there is an organ defect that needs replacement. And finally when there are gene issues which is always the choice of protein and carbs we eat.

It will only take a second for that big strong thing of yours to go flat. And as soon as it occurs, that is it. It only takes something to happen to your prostate and then, you will understand what it means to eat noodles.

Keep eating your noodles. I pray you pass 45 years if you are a late millennial. It's not even rice or spaghetti ooo....noddles. grin

Don't worry.... 40 years ....just 40. When you pass that...come and insult me.

Read the bolded part in your post....one day, you will reflect and say.....yes...na me use my hand do myself cos dem tell me concerning this noodle...and it was my choice. It is always late for people who argue and defend their choices. In fact, it is hard to convince adults....dont worry....keep eating your noodles. To me... it is not my call to call you a glutton...you just don't know the consequence of your actions...but you will pay for it dearly. It is just a matter of time.

Best of luck!
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Compares Nigeria’s Budget, Poverty Rate With China’s. Is He Correct? by epainos: 6:16pm On Dec 09, 2023
Shattuck:
it's funny how you accuse me of being tribalistic when I am not even Igbo, the original tweet obi tweeted this statistics he clearly condemned the large number of delegates and adviced the govt what it should have done instead, maybe you should find the original article which obi reacted to, even during the subsidy and the renovation for the VP residence saga he also advised on what to do, even with the proposed cash transfer and increase in tuition fees issues he also proferred solutions.
Lol...I don't have to continue going back and forth. All you have said...Obi gave solutions...but just one solution he gave to buttress your point, you can't give. And even in this article...you can't bring out the solution you said he suggested.

I criticise and profer possible solution. Please, bring out all the solutions he gave in all the ones you have mentioned. Na so dem dey do. Very irritating.

With the number of delegates...he gave the solution...and what is it? You can't say. With cash transfer...he gave a solution...and you can't say it.

Dey play.

A beg... don't mention me again.

You are tribalistic. Is it only Igbo that make up Nigeria? I said even Yoruba are now that Tinubu is the president.. and Hausa are too. Did Hausa criticise Buhari when the military mistakenly killed over 200 ppl? Now that it is Tinubu, they have just woken up.

Oga dey play. Nigeria cannot be okay cos we are all guilty of this issue. Oga...we are all guilty. This is why...baija cannot be ok. Period.

I wish you luck.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Compares Nigeria’s Budget, Poverty Rate With China’s. Is He Correct? by epainos: 4:17pm On Dec 09, 2023
Shattuck:
obi has always offered solutions to every negative action he has criticized by this govt.
So what solution has he suggested to these issues here in this very article we have read? Or do you not understand the article before you support your Obi? Tribalism will not allow you to see clearly. This is the problem with Nigeria. Right in this article, he offered no solution... and you still came on board to say he offered solutions to all that he criticised. See....Nigeria is in trouble. Real trouble. Mehn! This is serious.

Exactly my point. Whatever our regional men do... whether good or bad....corrupt or not...we sha support them blindly. So many people are supporting Tinubu cos they are from his tribe. This is not the way forward. It is wrong. So many northerners supported Buhari without thinking. This is disgusting.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Compares Nigeria’s Budget, Poverty Rate With China’s. Is He Correct? by epainos: 1:17pm On Dec 09, 2023
Kukutente23:
Unfortunately for you, I'm far older than you so I can school you on the subject.
Since you are sure you are older than me without seeing me....lol.... anyway....I am going to discuss issues only and not do this beating of the chest with you. So...quit this. If you meet me in real life...you will be shocked. So, just leave this nonsense and let's face the real issues here.

Nigeria is an amalgamation of different parts so tribal agitation is expected just as you have in UK where Wales and Scotland are different tribal parts of same country.
I like this point. Bro...from what I have seen....the effect of tribalism has been killed in many of these nations. One example is UK Wales and Scotland. Another is Catalan in Italy. Someone told me about China also that there are about 56 ethnic groups there too. And what about the United States?

But guess what? There is a simple system I have been proposing....this system is what all these countries used to kill the effect of tribalism...what is it? Using the state of residence system instead of a state of origin. You see the Igbo man who has not been to Igbo land oooo... and he is fighting for the land he has not stepped his feet. Lol. Can a Lagosian accept that Igbo have the same benefit? Is this not what plays in the quota of universities in Nigeria? Someone who doesn't live in Lagos but whose origin is Lagos gets to enter Lagos State University ahead of that Hausa and Igbo boy his parents pay Lagos taxes oooo. What kind of a useless system is this? And you say tribalism is not the problem here?

As soon as that English man crosses to Scotland, and fulfils certain conditions, he has the same right as the English man...and vice versa. The same goes for the man originally from NY and as soon as he crosses and fulfils the rights to be a resident of CA, that is it. Can you same the same here? A beg...this issue is deep.

What is meant by tribalism is a situation whereby tribal agenda is set over and above any other national agenda.
That's what APC brought into our politics in 2015 that was not there since 1999. For example, while the Niger Delta militancy was on, no one used it as a ground to call Ijaw and Niger delta tribes terrorists. No region was ever blanket-labelled ipob until APC brought its divisive politics.
Oga, the bolded issue is exactly what caused the Biafra war. Do not let us go there...cos if we go...I will lay out facts. APC is just doing a modern repetition of what has been in existence, sir. You only want to say it now cos it is not favourable to you. Thats it. I beg...it has been there even before APC.

So, are you saying Ipob, Ijaw and bla bla bla are all going about it the right way? So, Nnamdi Kanu's threats are ok. Asari Dokubo's ways of threatening people and all the "jam jam" in the Niger Delta are ok? Oga, so have you seen the benefits of the Ijaw militants? They are only enriching themselves. The same Asari Dokubo that did the biddings of Tinubu...and cos his tribe aren't many in the govt, he called Tinubu out. Are these things right?


Agitation for Biafra existed under PDP but no one affiliated with the party turned it to instrument of demonising the region.
Na waooo! I won't try to even say anything here.

Ditto boko haram and the North.
Won't say anything here either.

APC has always sought to extend the bigotry to mainstream of our politics in such a way that you can guess how each region will vote in every national election that held in their watch.
APC is evil
APC has just shown the deep tribalistic wickedness in us. Oga, Nigerians are desperately wicked...and it is not an APC thing. You are only tribalistic here cos you are from the East. This is still the problem. Tribalism will never allow us to solve the problem. How can APC which was established in 2015 our main problem when the issues of the Biafra war started in the 60s and have not been solved?

You are just being tribalistic.



Simple check:
Can you ever support the idea of using state of residence in Nigeria instead of using state of origin? It means that a Hausa man or Yoruba man can be the state governor in your state. Can you allow it?
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Compares Nigeria’s Budget, Poverty Rate With China’s. Is He Correct? by epainos: 12:46pm On Dec 09, 2023
emorse:
Inasmuch as I don't see Obi as the messiah like some of his supporters do, I think he's doing the right thing as the opposition leader. Comparing statistics is a good way to understand the present situation so as to map out a functional plan to move forward.
Sir, I agree with you regarding the bolded part. As regards your opinion about Obi... I respect your view.

Also, he has been very clearly vocal about his line of action if he were president. Consumption to production was his theme statement during the campaigns.
Could you tell me how he said this is going to work? Or do you think it will work with these issues about Nigeria we have been talking about? I just need your view.

Now you can't expect him to be specific as to his favoured lines of action because he is no privy to the information that is available to Mr president whose current policies are not showing any promise except we decide to be blindly optimistic of we just show reckless fanaticism.
Exactly my point sir. He cannot see everything the president is seeing....and then, he comes and gives statistics. At least, he should look deeper and try to figure out what this administration is trying to do. Sure, we can see how reckless they are, but deep inside...what can we do about it is my concern. He too will get there and do the same thing because they close everything. What about having a system that puts everything open there? Why can't we have an open book for operational expenses of all states and Abuja? Why not? Why can't we set up a system that is an open book for us all to see? It is possible, but we won't do it. Yoruba aren't talking now cos Tinubu is there just like how the North did not talk when Buhari was there. And then Obi would come on board and the same cycle continues.

I agree with you that tribalism is an issue but I don't think it's a major one. Corruption and lack of accountability are the banes of all our problems. Forget about the online noise. Many of us have friends, colleagues and business associates from diverse tribes and ethnicities and we're doing just fine. By the way, China has 56 recognised ethnic groups and it doesn't pose any problems to them. At least I've never heard of any.
Corruption is the cancer killing us, but tribalism is the main nutrient fueling it. I have talked about this in my posts.

I would like to use China as this case study..and I am just hearing that there are many ethnic groups in China. Could you give me a reference to study this? I will then want to see how strong the ethnic groups are. Maybe they aren't strong anymore...and maybe they deliberately killed it.

I want to see if they use state of residence or state of origin there. Do you get me? Cos if they are presently using state of residence...they have killed many ethnic groups. Tell Lagosians to adopt a state of residence and you will see war. Lol. Tell the Igbos to allow it in their region also...ams see war. Igbos who do not want to give anything to their females are the ones who will allow other people to come to have the same rights as them in their state.

Now, do you get where I am heading?

I think that if we can find a leader that can put mechanisms in place to minimise corruption and ensure accountability we'll definitely step out of this doldrum.

Cheers.
Sir, I do not think any leader will be able to put any mechanism in place as long as we don't deal first with tribalism. No Hausa or Fulani will ever be accountable for anything taken from the south. Have you seen where anyone from the north accounts properly for the oil taken from the south? They know what they have done wrong and it is why they aren't going to ask FG to start mining Lithium and Uranium from the north. There are supernatural resources that can make Nigeria extremely rich there too and they prefer to do ilegal mining there. Meanwhile, they want to take the whole crude oil and gas from the south. Mind you....I see Tinubu bombarding these natural resources there...and I see Obi doing same. Is this still not tribalism?


I stand by my point...as difficult as corruption is to fight, it is no way on the level of tribalism. And this tribalism is so cruel that it hides beneath many problems....so that it is the last thing one sees. And when one sees it...they won't one to talk about it....attack herr and there.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Compares Nigeria’s Budget, Poverty Rate With China’s. Is He Correct? by epainos: 12:16pm On Dec 09, 2023
Irony1:
See tribalism has always been there but those dangerous form that was brought into our politics started with APC we all know the truth.
Exactly my point sir. It has always been there, but we think it is not the real problem. I am confident to say that it is the main foundational problem. Nigeria is facing. APC has just blown it open for us to see where our main problem lies.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Compares Nigeria’s Budget, Poverty Rate With China’s. Is He Correct? by epainos: 12:14pm On Dec 09, 2023
StpidNLmods:
You are not educated and u are not exposed.

You said tribe is Nigeria's problems and that no other country with much tribe difference that can go forward, you are wrong.

Without going far, INDIA has more tribal differences than Nigeria and India also has worst religious problems than Nigeria but India is matching forward.
You that is educated and exposed, so...you call India a progressive nation. Na waooo. What are the criteria you used to say India is moving forward? I want to know. A nation with gdp norminal per capital of $2,612 progressive? And Nigeria has $1,755... what is the difference?

There are many many countries with this tribe issue and religion issues than Nigeria but are economically better and doing.
Mention another one...I have just given you the main factor to consider. That you say India is progressive says a lot about you. For sure...you are the one not exposed at all. Have you ever travelled outside Nigeria? Just imagine ooo...this one says India is progressive. Lol. You don't want to know the number of people in India. Or should I give the poverty index of India? Mehn! And you are exposed. Chai!

So, mention another nation with multi-ethnic groups that is progressive ooo.

Statistics are the starting point to solving any problems, so u are wrong again.
Of course, statistics are needed, and I said it...and I said...beyond this...Obi should mention solutions.

Oga...do you know your problem now...it is still tribalism. You are an Igbo and you are supporting Obi vos he is Ibo. This is still the problem we are talking about.

See...if you see the positive thing in this post.. and you can address Obi to start making suggestions instead of just pushing out data every time without any solution, he may change. The man did the same foolish thing all through the election. He even went to Egypt to see a copy of their electricity....lol...meanwhile Egypt has more and more debt than Naija from the IMF. We dey shout Buhari borrowed...do you know how much Egypt has borrowed? Lol. Egypt of all nations. I just dey laugh.

My broda, we are all in thia together but if we can realise that we are wrong then we will find the solution instead of remaining in ignorance
My broda, walahi...we are in this thing together oooooo. Yes, we are all wrong....and the first we need to accept is that we are all tribalistic....and nepotism will flourish more. And the solution lies in first addressing this issue. And if we see that we cannot, we should agree to part ways gently without war this time. No more Biafra war...we just need to part ways peacefully. No be by force to be Nigerians na.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Compares Nigeria’s Budget, Poverty Rate With China’s. Is He Correct? by epainos: 11:42am On Dec 09, 2023
reddingtonblack:
As much as i agree with much of your views/opinions, citing "Tribalism" as our major problem is a NiL for me @least according to the 2023 election, Tinubu is frm SW and he got more vote from North than Sw, asides from the East APC had votes from all sides.

[/b]The Major problem of these country is Poverty[/b], which is a deliberate effort by our leaders to keep the people below poverty line so they can keep the people under leash.
when you don't have money you are vulnerable to control and contented with little,

We worship money tew much in these part of the world and that is what fuels "Corruption".
The president of Nigeria must get extremely high votes from the north. So, if Tinubu had not gotten such votes from the north, he wouldn't have become the president. It is simple...he had to sacrifice votes from his region for the greater cause. For example, he lost Lagos...do you think he can ever lose Lagos? That was a deliberate loss for the greater good. Of course, Sanwo Olu couldnt have lost Lagos. Not possible. Tinubu lost in Lagos 2 weeks before Sanwo Olu won massively. So, they will always do the worst to win Lagos...but Tinubu's lost was a sacrifice for a greater good. Therefore, I disagree that getting more votes from the north nullifies the effect of tribalism.

Now, let me explain why I said tribalism is the main problem. There was a time when I said it was corruption like every other Nigerian...of course, no one disagrees that it is corruption. But then, I realised that it is deeper. I started seeing overpopulation as a huge factor, and I voiced my opinion. Perhaps, some of my posts on overpopulation are still around. Later, I realised that mehn!...illiteracy is the main tool politicians use to still overpower Nigerians. So, I agree with you that politicians deliberately keep Nigerians at the poverty level. But how...by making sure more Nigerians don't have access to education, especially in the north.

But beneath these factors we have raised (corruption, overpopulation, illiteracy and poverty), there is something which will not make all efforts to address these issues work. And this is tribalism. You see tribalism as a tool for installing the president and nepotism in appointing public officers alone...but it goes beyond that. Tribalism is the reason thieves are not punished, and why we cannot fight corruption. If we cannot fight corruption because I will always support the person from my region no matter the shreds of evidence against him, then, how do you expect things to work well?

So, tribalism aids poverty infliction on the citizens because that man who steals what should be given to the poor can easily get away with it as soon as he meets his fellow men in his region.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Compares Nigeria’s Budget, Poverty Rate With China’s. Is He Correct? by epainos: 10:00am On Dec 09, 2023
Kukutente23:
APC brought tribalism into our politics
Besides, corruption is beyond tribe. Politicians must hide under tribe when they are called out for corruption.
Lastly, Obi is doing the job of opposition which is to criticize. The present govt's agenda is totally narrow: FDI and in fairness to Obi he has spoken about it.
You are a kid to write the bolded part. So, APC was in existence during the Biafra war....bah? APC was in existence during military rule that tribalism was so obvious. Like I said...you are a kid. It started long ago....not now that you are mature. This is why it is good to add historical knowledge to politics. Since you were not born then, if you had studied history well, you would have known the birth of tribalism...and it would habe stopped you from showing your lack of knowledge..

If his job is to criticise without giving out any solution, he is as bad as Gen Buhari. And you are tribalistic because you have failed to see the main point here.

The real reason you are supporting Obi is cos he is Ibo like you. And this is exactly what I am addressing here.

See... you should start Biafra nation....make una leave Nigeria. This is the best. Honestly. Let everyone part ways.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Compares Nigeria’s Budget, Poverty Rate With China’s. Is He Correct? by epainos:
I will repeat "again and again" that I do not see Obi as a gift. He is a noise maker. Obi has only compared data...period!

What should he have done? Yes, the starting point is the comparison of data to show there are problems, But beyond identifying the problems, what are the possible solutions?

Also, Obi has not for a single day tried to understand what this administration is doing, but blindly criticizing everything without suggesting any solution. I am not a fan of this administration, to be honest, and I still do not see it coming out successfully, though, I used to see Jagaban as a resourceful guy. But after the revelation of his dark side, I don't respect him anymore.

If I was Obi, I would criticise or praise the solutions they are presently trying out. But is Obi doing this? Nope. He is only showing us there are problems cos of some figures he has identified. Does this give me the assurance he can fix Nigeria? Absolutely not. I am even more scared he is only beating the drum very noisily like Gen Dullard Buhari who didn't know the solution but got people who gave him Jonathan's administration shortcomings.

Obi needs to do better.

Lastly...the single factor we need to take into consideration is the effect of the multi-ethnic groups that are blindly tribalistic on the nation. Does China have this? What could have been the effect on China if it was there? Hmmmmm! This factor we want to cover up. And I repeat that this is the main factor that has been feeding corruption. This tribalism factor is the single factor I have identified as the reason corruption cannot be defeated. And is there any nation presently in the world having the same issue as Nigeria? Please, if you know, kindly tell me ....and let us analyse the nation also.

If Nigeria must be progressive, we need to tackle tribalism so we can reduce corruption drastically. No policy can work amid corruption. So, let us get rid of the source of energy of corruption first. Any policy anyone is bringing won't work as long as we cannot arrest corruption. EFCC, ICPC, and many other solutions have failed. And the reason is that we have not yet addressed tribalism.

If you ask me, I think Nigeria cannot address tribalism because this issue is too deep. So, the one solution I have is splitting Nigeria. Nigeria seems to be a nation destined to fail. Please, if you have a solution apart from my idea, bring it on board.

Thank you!
Romance › Re: Impregnating Your Spouse Before Marriage Is Not A Guarantee by epainos: 9:24pm On Dec 08, 2023
omooba969:
Try dey respect other people's views.
I respect what is proper sir. Mind you, I did not attack or quote anyone to express my view and how I felt about them...and I appreciate that you did not attack me based on my view.

However....regardless of our views, some issues should not be left with how people feel. This issue here is about what is right and progressive for us...and what is marriage. That culture or religion distorts a way of life should not be accepted but corrected.

I can tolerate them, but I don't respect their view in this regard because I know it must be changed before we start making progress. We are finished if we allow these people to continue. And if we don't change, we cannot be progressive. And the way they stand by it and even influence younger ones is too dangerous. The exact way their parents made them strong in this barbaric mentality towards marriage.

I can tolerate them, but with all due respect sir...I don't respect their view. It must be changed.
Romance › Re: Impregnating Your Spouse Before Marriage Is Not A Guarantee by epainos: 8:34pm On Dec 08, 2023
If you dont want to live in this age of tech, you are just stupid. Lol. With many options to get babies, Nigerians esp those on the front page are still advocating for assurance via pregnancy before marriage. Mehn! Many people are stupid. Ha ba!

And I dont get it...how people see having children as the main reason for getting married. Nigerians with wrong reasons for life activities. Mehn! No wonder the population is close to 300 million now.

Very wrong set of people.
Family › Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by epainos: 5:25pm On Dec 08, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't disagree with what everyone is saying, in fact I agree that the groom shouldn't be burdened with the responsibility of financially supporting his in-laws, but the wife should also not be expected to perform certain responsibilities towards her in-laws.

When they visit, they should cook for themselves whenever the wife is busy, for she's not their chef... And if one of the groom's parents gets sick and needs 24/7 care, the groom should care for his parent to good health, for his wife wouldn't have signed up to be a nurse when she agreed to get married to him.

What do you think guys? grin grin grin
Here is my opinion:

The wife should take care of the home exactly like how God ordained it. Of course, they have friends who visit...the wife should entertain the guests. And of course, some men are even better at cooking.

As long as inlaws don't overstay, there is nothing wrong. Some parents don't overstay their "welcome" in their kids' places. My parents are one...and even after the passing to glory of one, the other still doesn't.

The most successful marriages out there are the ones in which couples take the nuclear family above every other thing. They are one when they get married, and inlaws should not be the priority. This is my view.

Marrying a spouse who agrees with one in this regard is the way forward. Most people suffering in marriages see these issues but ignore them. Then, they start complaining later.

Nigerian society wants to normalize taking the opportunity of everything.... but I tell you...a reasonable human being will reject these things and not go into such a union. Every girl who is about her parents always shows it before marriage, and the men went into it. So, why the complaint? And every mom's boy shows it also....why the complaint?

Choose the right partner and all will be well. If you don't see one...wait. it is not by force to just get married.
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astonished:
Splitting Nigeria has being the only Nigeria solution, but because of greediness everyone shy away from it, it's now when Igbo lose the chance of being a president and when Hausa/Fulani just finished the country for good 8 years, that some people just realized that it's breakup is the solution.

It would have being better if Nigeria demand for it when Buhari was ruining the country down, but everyone chicken
Igbo does not have any chance of becoming the Nigerian president. Igbo played it too rough and too ambitious in the 60s and 70s. It is now that they are playing the victim card. Not that I am saying they don't deserve it, but we have over 250 tribes. It doesn't have to be Igbo. I don't know the big issue with it.

You are still tribalistic in your post. And I am not ready for it. I will just say the truth as it is. No one trusts an Igbo man, but they can still trust an Igbo woman. But I am 100% sure Igbo will NEVER allow their women because their culture does not even regard them. So, just forget it...Igbo's best bet is just to stop being confused and over-smart. If they want Aso Rock, let them forget the beating of chests and swallow their pride...and let Fulani and Hausa partner with them. As long as they are their enemies publicly, they will never smell Aso Rock. So, they should just forget Aso Rock and face peacefully leaving Nigeria. They need to cut off Nnamdi Kanu and Simon Ikpe's violent approach. Period!

Well, whatever you say...my reason for saying Nigeria should split is not because I want the man or woman from my region there...nope. Not like you. It is not just possible for these tribes to live together in peace. This is my reason. No matter who is the president, Nigeria cannot prosper. Nigeria is a wrong marriage.

And I know that some nations that will come out of Nigeria will prosper.

Shalom!
Politics › Re: Edo 2024: LP Aspirant, Omorodion Plans Economic Stimulation Through Agriculture by epainos: 6:29am On Dec 08, 2023
Nigeria won't work. The best way around this issue is to split the nation. If this is not done, it will keep getting worse. I can say with all assurance that Igbo, Yoruba, Hausa, and Fulani cannot live together and achieve anything tangible in this life in the same nation. However, I see them as good partners when they have parted ways.
Politics › Re: I Didn’t Go To Kuje To Visit Emefiele – Ooni by epainos: 8:32pm On Dec 07, 2023
DeOTR:
Talking about monarchy in 2023, yen yen yen.
I bet you think they voted King Charles of England. Idiot!
Belgium, Denmark, Spain, Netherlands, Norway, UAE, Saudi Arabia, Sweden still have monarchies, but this dunce believes we should kill all our monarchs because he feels they're wasting the money his wretched father borrowed Nigeria. Onikure!!!
I know you're a descendant of a slave, reason why you so much hate the descendants of your forefathers slave masters.
Everything you love in your miserable life will turn bad for you the very day you step your miserable feet in anywhere in the world where there's any form of monarchy.

Just imagine a never do well trying to form tech bro for me. May thunder fire you for attempting.
Slave boy...... grin dey compare Ooni of Ife ....that small boy with King Charles. Slave boy doesnt even know that King Charles is the president of the UK. Your yeye Ooni can be slapped into poverty by governor Adeleke. Oponu. Saudi King is the number one citizen. Meanwhile....your useless Ooni is hustling in Abuja. Ode. Didinrin. Oponu...money wey dem suppose give loval govt...your ooni dey hustle am...and the slave you are is blind. Mufu!

How many kings do you habv in Nigeria? Lol. Slave wan behead in 2023.... grin

Slave think say his Ooni is somebody.... grin Ooni wey be scammer. As you fo.olish reach...na Portable dey fu.c.k the wife of your useless alaafin. Man that bleached his skin with the cream from the places you criticise theor democracy.

Slave man still dey go pick styles og nations he has criticized. You too mu.mu. Go school...you no go....now, you dey talk fo.olishness.


Make a dash you this:

Surely...stupi. dity and fo.olishness shall follow you...and the days of your life, and you shall never be free from slavery forever and ever...amen

Eru Ooni the scammer. grin

I dont have your tume anymore...i am done with you. Slave boy! grin
Politics › Re: I Didn’t Go To Kuje To Visit Emefiele – Ooni by epainos: 8:30pm On Dec 07, 2023
DeOTR:
Talking about monarchy in 2023, yen yen yen.
I bet you think they voted King Charles of England. Idiot!
Belgium, Denmark, Spain, Netherlands, Norway, UAE, Saudi Arabia, Sweden still have monarchies, but this dunce believes we should kill all our monarchs because he feels they're wasting the money his wretched father borrowed Nigeria. Onikure!!!
I know you're a descendant of a slave, reason why you so much hate the descendants of your forefathers slave masters.
Everything you love in your miserable life will turn bad for you the very day you step your miserable feet in anywhere in the world where there's any form of monarchy.

Just imagine a never do well trying to form tech bro for me. May thunder fire you for attempting.
Slave boy...... grin dey compare Ooni of Ife ....that small boy to King Charles. Slave boy doesnt even know that King Charles is the president of the UK. Your yeye Ooni can be slapped into poverty by governor Adeleke. Oponu. Saudi King is the number one citizen.

How many kings do you habe in Nigeria? Lol. Slave wan behead in 2023.... grin

Slave think say his Ooni is somebody.... grin Ooni wey be scammer. As you fo.olish reach...na Portable dey fu.c.k the wife of your useless alaafin. Man that bleached his skin with the cream from the places you criticise theor democracy.

Slave man still dey go pick styles og nations he has criticized. You too mu.mu. Go school...you no yo yo....
Family › Re: My Wife Of About 4 Years Blames Me After I Caught Her Cheating by epainos: 4:41pm On Dec 07, 2023
chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people
Hmmm! I don't believe NL stories, but these stories are funny....especially how the mods come up with useless posts and then end them with useless questions.

Anyway....I am not talking to you cos I know you are fake, but I know some men are reading...those in somewhat situations. Not in your real situation, but they are in a corner about what to do concerning whatever situation they are facing. Anyone facing yours and still asking questions is a mumu like you. Lol.

Anyway, when it comes to the person one shares intimacy with, as soon as the person has compromised, it is advisable to just stay away and say nothing for a while so answers can come.

From what I know, men who remained silent and avoided going to meetings where they wanted to hear their opinions successfully closed such chapters without hurting anyone. Cos those elders will want to settle what they can't take themselves. So, better just to avoid talking to all of them so they don't confuse one. Most of those elders are without wisdom.

Anyone trying to know what to do should remain static for 1 good year. As in do nothing and avoid talking to anyone about it. Just ignore everything concerning the issue. It is hard .....just endure it. Pack out of the house you share with such a person to clear your mind and head. Answers will come gradually. Na me tell una. A man who needs a solution must learn to stay in silence and allow nature to solve the issue.

Good luck to everyone in a similar situation.
Politics › Re: I Didn’t Go To Kuje To Visit Emefiele – Ooni by epainos: 4:22pm On Dec 07, 2023
DeOTR:
You must be feeling funky after your first week learning Python. You're a complete idiot.
With AI you can do this and that?
How about I wipe out your existence with the same AI.
I'll take you seriously if I read it in the news that you've cancelled all the traditional title holders in your God forsaken village.
Oponu, you don swith from beheading head to AI. Werey! grin

Omo ale jatijati that wants to behead human beings in 2023. See.... your Ooni is a scammer. Ode...you are born to be a slave for the rest of your life. Ode...in 2023....a slave is still talking about mornachy. You cannot be free. Never! You are a slave.

I wont reply you again...i only decided to show you that you are a slave to that small boy. Ooni...that small boy. That scammer. See...you are a slave. Didinrin! Oponu! Ode! Eru.

Getat!
Politics › Re: They Sold Fraudulent Muslim-Muslim Ticket To Us, Now Muslims Are Bombed - Yusuf by epainos: 1:17pm On Dec 07, 2023
Walahi!

Nigeria is a troublesome nation. cheesy Just imagine what is coming out of this man's mouth.

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