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A wise man infolenka once said, "if you marry a non-virgin lady and she becomes a good wife, that's your luck. If I marry a virgin lady and she becomes a good wife, that's my double luck". ![]() |
Words are flaccid. The fact that a lady tells you 'I love you' shouldn't get your emotions high, without confirming from her actions and (subtle) intentions. Even after this due process, always remember that this 3-word sentence has been bastardized and abused, hence shouldn't be taken seriously. If you have been in this country for long, you will relate with me better. 'How are you'? doesn't necessarily mean you should table out your problems. People don't really care, they just want to hear you say 'fine' and move on. 'Come and eat/come and join me' doesn't, again, suggest that you should wash your hands and feed. Make dem no curse you for your back. ![]() 'I will get back to you' nko? ![]() Bail is free. ![]() Let me not even start with media propagandas; ranging from advertisements to political manifestos. Words, mere words. Anybody can say anything at anytime. In essence, focusing on your girlfriend's actions in particular and people's in general, to borrow a phrase, will make you a logical and rational human. After observing the consistency in their behavioural pattern, you will be able to make a pragmatic decision in relation with them on the long run. Regardless of the relevancy of their own words. Even guys will hail you like boss, senior man, odogwu just to get on your soft side. So when next your girlfriend tells you romantic sweet talks, appreciate but do not feel ... Well, a wise is enough for the word. |
Nigercity:Be specific. Is it electrical, civil or chemical engineering? I actually don't have any idea on the modus operandi of those mentioned companies, in relation to IT students. Visit these companies and get first hand information. You can also reach them through their phone numbers and social media handles. I visited and submitted my (photocopied) forms to like 5 organizations before settling for one. |
Herbephe1:I doubt there's room for medical-related courses. |
Nigercity:Choice of organization for an IT program depends largely on your course of study, location and partly, the salary. The truth is, most organizations don't pay NYSC members, talk more of IT students. Some are even owning their staff so... . This is why government, through ITF (industrial Training Fund) have arranged some finances for students at the end of the program.I'm a student of Agricultural Economics and Extension. After a lot of farm practices in school which majorly fall under the 'Agriculture' aspect of my course alone, I decided to go into administrative aspect of it this time, for the sake of the 'Economics and Extension'. Being in a governmental organization for some weeks now, I realized that you need to be serious if you really want to learn. Unlike private organizations, nobody takes your unseriousness seriously here. But if you have a side hustle, good for you. You can skip days and make some money. Personally, I am very punctual. I want to learn and ensure that my relevance is greatly felt. |
What's your course of study and do you reside in Abuja? I am running mine in a federal agency - and the pay is 10k per month. |
As for the pictures, you can post her after blocking the rest of your contacts. ![]() A simple 2-line happy birthday wish shouldn't be a problem. Just copy and paste from online birthday wishes if you are too uninspired to smith words on your own. |
Campus life, be serious but don't be rigid. I know some bright guys wey be say na only girls for night class dem dey carry over. ![]() |
Lack of self-control, high libido, attention-loving spirit, financial gains, indecision, sexual greed among other reasons would make a girl cheat on you regardless of the intensity of love you both share. On the flip side, a girl may not cheat on you if she is contented, sexually rigid, has low libido, does not enjoy sex or she's a virgin. In essence, amongst other criteria, find a sexually disciplined lady if you don't want to be cheated on. The best you can get around is a virgin. |
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CaveAdullam:You, my good sir, is a realist. |
A refreshing thread. I will be right back. Xbolmax:I don't even understand. it seems to me that only the writing materials (books) will be sent to their neurons, not the writings itself. |
You can keep her company though if you are less busy, by nodding to her gists and sampling the fries. Sometimes, your presence is enough. |
BigDan69:The same issue I am having or should I say, used to have. This babe is good and homely but when it comes to intellectual discourse, it's a dead end for her. There's nothing tangible to converse about If it's not marriage and family talks. Celebrity gist is even out of it because she's quite conservative.Few months ago, I took it up and told her straight to her face, "I'm tired of these boring recycled talks". She felt bad but promise to work on herself. She's on her 5th book already and asking for more. She now read news and have become more observant. Of course, she's not yet there but the efforts are worthwhile and encouraging. I read about astronomy, religion, arts (poems and literature), history, local and international politics, human nature et al. And I post them on status atimes, but my friends online consider me "weird and boring". |
AngelicDamsel:Intelligence is relative. However, I strongly doubt the OP is referring to "book smart" girls. I have met some students who are slightly above average but are very resourceful in archaeological, historical and other sociopolitical discourses. Likewise are there First class students who knows next to nothing - asides their Course materials. Intelligence, in this context, is beyond passing with good grades. |
Organicist95: |
okay |
This is one of the problems attached to popularity and celebrity status, you can't just give your opinions in peace. |
bravado304@gmail.com |
...and to the grave I shall take them. |
It's too late to fail. Amen! ![]() |
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JeffreyJunior:I tire! I once found a snake behind my bed in school around 7am. Obviously, it was there all through the night yet it didn't harm me. I am not religious otherwise I would have shared a loud testimony. ![]() |
You are seriously sick and I recommend Redpills for you. You can as well meet some of our Nairaland resident doctors like Ubunja, Martinez39s, Skepticus and co for counselling and medical help in administering these pills. ![]() |
Liliantalks:The group I belong to, posts are usually random from Romance to Politics to Covid-19 (especially during the lockdown) to Animals, and there are usually intellectually stimulating opinions during these discourses. Plus there are avid readers too who sometimes introduce us to new books. We also have movie freaks and a regular poster of Introvert Quotes which we can relate to. Of course, there are not too many active posters but the ones that are, are very engaging. |
Tell him the truth and the truth shall set you free. |
You are thinking of a way to repay her favour, and consequently, sooner than later, she will be inclined to repay your repaid favour - perhaps with food or even romantic gestures. you get drift? She doesn't sleep in the house alone with you. Likewise is she very fast when offering these niceties for you - courtesy of her husband and you still won't steer off her path. The woman obviously has a soft spot for you and could get you into trouble moving forward, most importantly by considering the unsolicited proverbial warning from the husband. |
princechiemekam:I'm still looking for the "gross misconduct" in his post. Oppression no too much? because omoh. = |
Few years ago, it was a Unilag student who was expelled for posting the sorry state of their hostels online. Now this guy has been expelled for "gross misconduct" - a disguised term in a bid to downplay the guy's genuine reminder. The problem is, you won't see the first class students nor the SUG protesting on his behalf. After all, nobody send am. Before you criticise the authority publicly, make sure you have someone at the top in case things go south. Otherwise, the same people who you are fighting for, if unsuccessful, will later U-turn against you with the hypocritical cowardice-inspired question " who send you?" ![]() |
I can totally relate. You are going too far. Even without asking her friend out. Once your babe's friend likes you, there's trouble. Either your relationship or their friendship, one must go down. |



Well, a wise is enough for the word.
