Ninobraw:
No need for a long story, I got married 2 yrs ago, during our friendship I mean courtship it was very sweet and lovely, we got married 2 yrs ago and I have 1 kid.

The problem I have is that, the girl's family come to greet almost every time and when they come they eat like elephant, anything eatable they eat it, they don't use eyes to see bread tea or butter in my room, they will finish it within a day, I will end up spending a lot during the time, when I noticed that it becomes offen i started telling my wife that I am broke, I don't have money. Although my wife is very nice she earns salary of 40k a month, and do funds and cook many times with her money.

Before now I was it okay, we are like a family, now i just realized that it is making me not think straight within a week oil and cooking things we bought will just finished the cartoon of indomitable that last the 2 of us before 1 month or month plus will just finish within 4 days of thier stay, some time 3 of her family will come once and another set will come again, my wife is the first daughter, the poor parents gave birth to 9 kids all in the name of looking for a boy, so she said although the 2 boys are number 7 and 9 position, her parents should be around man 60s and the woman 45yrs old. so now I am tired of the marriage, I don't know how to talk to my wife about it, that I don't like how thier family do come offend since we got married, my families has never come to sleep over in my place for a night talkless of spending holiday in my place my parents gave birth to only 3 of us 2 boys 1 girl.

Now i am just tired I can't be responsible for someone else burden why give birth to many kids and unable to train them, i plan to have only 2 or 3 kids only, and her family want to make me be like thier father sitting at home doing nothing depending on pension for survival, i have realized that I can't achieve what i should have achieved if i continue life this way.

Before our marriage, we agreed no family members is coming to stay with us, the issue now is they don't stay but come to eat and go, it's a big cheating to me I am tired for real, even if I say I don't have money and she use her own. The money should have be able to do other important thing . She spending is also affecting me a lot, we should have been able to buy land or car or live well, not feeding battalion. I am tired please I need advice on what to do.

AntiBMC:
See how speedily the police got there because it was fulani being attacked. They should also go to Benue and track down the fulani terrorists that killed 40 people today.

Northernblood3:
This is clear political assassination sponsored by DSS, UGM don't shoot at a perceived enemy neatly like this. They destroy and riddicule the car and it's occupants with bullets.

Not that I condemn DSS sha but, both them and their fellow terrorists in government should steer clear innocent citizens when showcasing their madness. Innocent citizens are our major concern

Turantula:

You want CAN to support terrorists?

tito44:
U wish...

Nothing like Enugu Muslim. Any Muslim u see living in igbo land is most definitely from the north or SW.

Fasindo:






That was Fulani first agenda which they achieved.


The one sad thing about our history is that majority of the people we study in our history are the same people ruling us, the likes of Buhari, TY Danjuma, Obasanjo, Atiku, Sule Lamido, Gambari etc that ruled us in the past which made up of our history are the same people ruling us and they are mostly Fulanis.
I now ask what is really our history?

Fulanis don't want us to know that they were originally not Nigerians, but they forget to know that one don't really need to study history in school b4 knowing his or her origin

jaxin119:
Plain Truth.

Fulani Terrorists will not like this news, but who cares anywhere.

How Benue with similar culture and religion with the south ended up in the North remains a mistry. Otukpo Town in Benue state is less than 5 hours to Bayelsa, extreme south and over 20 hours to the extreme North.
Ask about bauchi, kaduna, kebbi,born etc

Does 2baba or Terry G look like a Mallam/Aboki

fastseo:

Look at the security structure both military and para military , no Easterner are there,


WTO has nothing to do with Nigeria. CBN is from South South although an igbo.

First time in the history of democracy since 1999 we are seeing this . No single Easterner are qualified to head both Chambers of the legislature
Bros if you talk about the military, I blame your people

When it comes to merit you talk about Quota system, now we are saying spread the appointment evenly by geopolitical zones, you turn around to say no we are very small with just 5 states

SouthEastFacts:
Wetin Yoruba Moslems go do now?

omonnakoda:
Disobedience?
Who appointed the Sultan head of Muslims in Nigeria? On what date? By what process?

Fantacy4:

These could be a murder case oh
Those guys can to extreme to get their money so you should take care in running it

ahiboilandgas:
tell them you will return it to government treasury accounts with a receipt and not transfer to any body accounts

1Alex:
depends on the area. In most places, Keke is more profitable. Turnover is the key. Keke has better turnover.

2special:
The last thing a Muslim Governor will do for the Christians, the Governor's are even destroying churches in the North.

fastseo:
No Easterner in any key positions.

Tranquillity360:
Am still surprise how those that Rejoiced over the killing of unarmed Igbo youths by Nigeria army and Police,are now showing concern to what is happening in East.

NATIONALPASTOR:
Hehehe, I told them never to push Igbo's beyond a certain limit, if they start, Nigeria will be worse than Somalia.

Watch your back, ESN is in your neighborhood...

I'm off to London ooo.

I only advice government to thread cautiously and settle things peacefully.

lecturer50:
Please house I need an advice.

Ever since I got a federal government job,

my relatives have been disturbing me for money.

There must always be an issue that involves money which they want me to solve.

Recently, my mom become sick.

They are threatening me that I would be held responsible if my mom dies,if I don't make sure she is cured.

But I have taken her to hospitals, and she is trying to recover.

I do this whenever I visit home since I am working in a state far from home.

Her health challenge is due to old age.

But today my uncle called me that I should resign, get back to the village and personally take care of my mom,

failure of which,if she dies, the whole family would hold me responsible for choosing job over my mom.

Can you imagine resigning your federal job to get to the village and start staying?

The calls, the demands, the attacks are getting too much for me.

Please should I just switch off my phone so that no one can contact me?

I just need advice?

RenaissanceGuy:
Another reason why this couuntry need to break up for good. I can bet it that 30 percent of "northerners" are actually citizens of Chad and Niger Republics who came into Nigeria illegally and are constituting the major security risks.

BafanaBafana:
Na lie, this message has been circulating around Benue groups since Ortom's lies were exposed. Sahara reporters got this from the social media, as we all know they have be pursuing an agenda lately.
This is just like the imaginary Mohammed Isa ESN claimed to have caught and killed.

Ortom said he was attacked by Fulani herdsmen, they were 15 in number, they were dressed in black, they were armed, his security aids fought back. He ran for 1.5 km.
Questions we have been asking.
If they were so close for him to count them, how come none of his people sustained any injuries.
They were so close enough he identified them as Fulani herdsmen, maybe he even heard them speaking their language. But they couldn't shoot any of the herdsmen.
How come 3 people that were there with him gave 3 different stories.
And how he was able to run for 1.5km, that one no concern me sha.
What we know from reports on ground is that Ortom went to do his usual land grabbing and was chased like a thief by youths of that community.

ZKOSOSO:
Niger Delta Oil Money in action in another Northern Parasitic State